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cleverusername , to asklemmy in Are you cancelling streaming services?
@cleverusername@lemm.ee avatar

I cancelled Netflix the day they blocked my elderly parents from accessing my account.

I was paying for 4 streams, it shouldn’t matter 1 stream was at my parents house, they were still getting their money.

Don’t worry Netflix, we still get to enjoy your content via torrents and my parents still get a convenient streaming app full media via Plex, so you can eat shit Netflix!

penguin ,

I did the same thing and have the same attitude. I still watch what few Netflix shows are any good. They just aren’t getting any of my money any more 🙂

cleverusername ,
@cleverusername@lemm.ee avatar

I do have to thank Netflix for motivating my to try Plex and see what my uplink could handle, about 3 1080 streams, so there’s that positive.

DemBoSain ,
@DemBoSain@midwest.social avatar

I canceled Netflix, but I stayed on their mailing list so I know about new shows I might like to watch. My frigate is now a submarine that goes beep, beep. (it has sonarr, I guess would be the main point I’m trying to make here)

cleverusername ,
@cleverusername@lemm.ee avatar

Before ditching Netflix I added all my current shows to a calendar/tracking website, which I check every few days and grab anything new, new new shows, in just rely on word of mouth and/or social media.

das ,

Check out Overseerr if you use Plex, or Jellyseerr if you use Jellyfin.

It will show you popular and upcoming movies/tv shows, and you can integrate with with the arr suite to have users able to request and download the shows.

It’s fantastic, especially if you’re sharing your media server with others

AbeilleVegane ,
@AbeilleVegane@beehaw.org avatar

Thank you so much, I was looking for something like this!

hardaysknight ,

I’m confused. Does this automatically download media?

das ,

It will send the request to sonarr or radarr to download it, if you have those set up.

VitabytesDev ,

Don’t use Plex, use Jellyfin. Plex tracks everything you watch and do. Jellyfin is free, open-source and self-hosted.

cleverusername ,
@cleverusername@lemm.ee avatar

Are you going come here and setup my system, then install apps on mine and my kids devices and show them how to use it AND then travel to my parents house, install it on their devices and explain to them how to use it?

No? Guess I’ll stick with the free self-hosted Plex.

BobbyBandwidth ,
@BobbyBandwidth@lemmy.world avatar

I see this argument a lot, and I’m sure you’re right, but I was curious, why don’t people set up a url for jellyfin that your family can access over the internet, then they just have to go to a website and log in? Would work for TVs or any device that connects to the internet

VitabytesDev ,

I have a Smart TV (not Android TV) that can access the internet and it works fine through the web interface.

Scary_le_Poo ,
@Scary_le_Poo@beehaw.org avatar

Jellyfin lacks a lot of features that Plex has. It also is prone to a lot more problems. Once it matures some more it’ll be a fine replacement.

jeanofthedead ,

Jellyfin still has a lot of catching up to do, unfortunately.

hellweaver666 ,
@hellweaver666@discuss.tchncs.de avatar

Tried Jellyfin and it was a pain to get running on my NAS (the only add on in the Synology store is a random community port that doesn’t work well and the apps for the TV are all janky). Will stay with Plex until they sort it all out.

VitabytesDev ,

Yes, I believe they have pretty bad documentation, but I after a lot of pain I was able to get it working too.

1984 , to memes in thats crazy
@1984@lemmy.today avatar

This sounds very much like typical psy ops information to be honest. Trying to paint a picture of someone as a degenerate.

I bet he was looking at some porn the same day, as some people do. Nothing special.

Apytele ,

Honestly a man that young I’d be more weirded out if they found NO porn in his history. Not by a lot, just like “…huh.”

AtHeartEngineer ,
@AtHeartEngineer@lemmy.world avatar

Or they just use incognito mode

TheDarksteel94 ,

I wonder if they went to his provider. Because then it wouldn’t matter if he used incognito mode or not 🤔

WeirdGoesPro ,
@WeirdGoesPro@lemmy.dbzer0.com avatar

This comment is sponsored by Nord VPN.

TheDarksteel94 ,

Haha, I was thinking about that too when I wrote that comment 😄

Zaphod ,

Imagine if they just went to Nord VPN and got the data from them LOL

Tja ,

This comment has been brought to you by someone who doesn’t know https is a thing

fernlike3923 ,
@fernlike3923@sh.itjust.works avatar

HTTPS doesn’t matter in this case. Even DoH doesn’t matter since your ISP can see what IP addresses you connect to.

Tja ,

Yes, mostly AWS load balancers and cloudflare cdns. They’re on to us!

OutlierBlue ,

Trying to paint a picture of someone as a degenerate.

They’ve already said he was a registered Republican

EddieTee77 ,

Got em

OurToothbrush ,

Hey just as a heads up degenerate has its roots in eugenics

db2 , to nostupidquestions in What is the actual point of a bra?

Large breasts are heavy. Redistributing the weight helps the back.

Also for some people seeing nipples is scary for some reason.

andrewta ,

Ewww… Nipples

Which reminds me, I need to get milk on the way home.

Potatisen ,

Kekekekeke

xavier666 ,

Milk industry: We need to resume the bra burning movement

hakunawazo ,

It’s ok, Homelander.

StaySquared ,

This. At least that’s my understanding. When I lived in South Florida, one of my friends said she was going to try going braless for the summer, a few weeks later she complained that going braless made the under part of her breasts chaff / irritate. Heat, humidity, and skin friction is bad mmmmkay.

Elevator7009 ,

This is why I feel so so lucky to be a small-breasted woman who does not live somewhere hot 24/7.

If I ever do put on a bra it is because I expect I'll be running (only situation I have been in where breasts hurt braless, very thankful), or because the silhouette of my nipples is visible through my clothes and I don't want it to be. A good deal of my wardrobe won't show nipple even if I go braless, but not all of it is like that and so I put on a bra.

actionjbone ,

Nipples killed my dad :(

thermal_shock ,

are they single?

gofsckyourself ,

They’re dead

actionjbone ,

No, they’re a pair

Jessica ,

100% of people who have ever come into contact with a nipple have died. Scary stuff

joyjoy ,
kbal , to fediverse in Lemmy.ml tankie censorship problem
@kbal@fedia.io avatar

Rule 1: Crushing people with tanks is fine so long as it's our side doing it.

Literal fucking tankies. I wonder if they will ever come to their senses. Oh well, it's not as if there aren't Nazi instances somewhere on fedi as well.

themoonisacheese ,
@themoonisacheese@sh.itjust.works avatar

A hexbear in that thread is literally claiming that “the soldiers did everything they could to avoid hurting him” when there’s a photo of him lying dead on the street after the tanks have gone through. They don’t think it’s fine, they’re saying it didn’t happen (curious)

bdonvr ,

Of tank man? The guy in the famous photo?

Where’s the picture of this? I’ve never heard that before. It doesn’t appear in his Wikipedia page, it just says there nobody knows what happened to him after.

en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tank_Man

dual_sport_dork ,
@dual_sport_dork@lemmy.world avatar

Was it actually him? I was under the impression that history did not relate what happened to him afterwards, nor who he was. That’s not to say the CCP did not murder a couple of thousand people during the crackdown regardless, because they did, but I have never seen a verifiable claim that a picture of any particular corpse actually was the Tank Man. There are numerous theories I’ve seen floated over the years alleging what may have happened to him afterwards ranging from him being caught and imprisoned, executed, living anonymously in China, or fleeing to Taiwan. All of them are unverified and, of course, mutually exclusive.

The tank operators absolutely did attempt to (and succeeded at) avoid running him over. That much is plainly visible in the video. Whatever happened after the video ended is undocumented and pure conjecture. Plenty of well documented atrocities actually were committed that day, before and after that moment, so there’s not much sense in inventing new ones and bickering over details we haven’t actually got.

Microw ,

That photo (I’ve seen it circulate on the internet myself) is a photoshop. Every reputable source says that no one knows what happened to that man, and we have no evidence whatsoever of him getting run over.

cupcakezealot ,
@cupcakezealot@lemmy.blahaj.zone avatar

A hexbear in that thread is literally claiming that “the soldiers did everything they could to avoid hurting him”

ah the trolly problem defence

qaz ,
gravitas_deficiency ,

Inaccurate - the tankie pulling the switch would be smiling

Klear ,

And there would be more people on the track.

feedum_sneedson ,

He is bundled off to the left by other protestors, nobody knows what happened to him, there is no photo of him dead.

sudo ,

This loony bullshit is why tankies go full useful idiot and parrot shit most of them know isn’t true. The right-wing disinfo about Tianamen square - or any other communist atrocity - is so widespread. Tankies think that the most ultra counter-narrative will somehow combat that even if its just as loony.

Kaboom ,

Imo, when tankies get that bad, they might as well be nazis.

Microw ,

Crushing people with tanks

Just a heads up, while it is established that the CCCP killed tons of people on that day, the idea that people were crushed with tanks is disputed in academia and mostly considered inaccurate news reporting.

The famous “tank man” photo shows a guy standing in front of a tank in order to prevent them from moving tanks to another part where the protesters had gone. We have no evidence that he was driven over by that tank.

retrospectology , (edited )
@retrospectology@lemmy.world avatar

Those “academics” are wrong.

We know this because there are photos of bodies and bicycles smeared into a paste [Source. Warning Blood/Gore].

And because people who were there literally said that’s what happened:

"The shooting was going on and people were still running to try and block the tanks, which were travelling at high speed, some positioning buses in the road. But the tanks crushed the buses and people, they didn’t care. People’s bodies were merged, moulded to their bicycles. They were flat.” [Source: Shao Jiang to The Mirror]

The CCP has desperately tried to cleanse the most brutal images and interviews of the massacre from the Internet, but even 30 years on they can’t completely scrub it clean. There’s a reason The Pillar of Shame monument is designed as it is.

justgohomealready ,

the idea that people were crushed with tanks is disputed in academia

There are photos of people clearly crushed by tanks?

vorpuni ,
@vorpuni@jlai.lu avatar

No but the red paste is most likely explained by the tanks that were verifiably there. They could have crushed people with other machinery but they had tanks.

dogsnest , (edited ) to asklemmy in Using Google whilst Duck Duck Go is down. How long has Google been this bad?
@dogsnest@lemmy.world avatar

I just assumed ddg would be the lesser, but I use it for privacy. Turns out I’m wrong.

If you’re using DDG for privacy, then indeed you are wrong.

It may be “less invasive” than google, but it’s neither anonymous, nor private.

Here’s a bunch more reasons from techrights.org, a site dedicated to digital freedom and exposing corruption.

Direct privacy abuse:

DDG was caught violating its own privacy policy by issuing tracker cookies.

DDG’s app sends every URL you visit to DDG servers. (reaction).

DDG is currently collecting users’ operating systems and everything they highlight in the search results. (to verify this, simply hit F12 in your browser and select the “network” tab. Do a search with javascript enabled. Highlight some text on the screen. Mouseover the traffic rows and see that your highlighted text, operating system, and other details relating to geolocation are sent to DDG. Then change the query and submit. Notice that the previous query is being transmitted with the new query to link the queries together)

DDG is accused of fingerprinting users’ browsers.

When clicking an ad on the DDG results page, all data available in your session is sent to the advertiser, which is why the Epic browser project refuses to set DDG as the default browser.

DDG blacklisted Framabee, a search engine for the highly respected framasoft.org consortium."

CloudFlare:

DDG promotes one of the largest privacy abusing tech giants and adversary to the Tor community: CloudFlare Inc. DDG results give high rankings to CloudFlare sites, which consequently compromises privacy, net neutrality, and anonymity.

Full article: techrights.org/…/ddg-privacy-abuser-in-disguise/

ETA: The bulk of the text in my reply was lifted from a reddit comment. I tried to format my comment to reflect that it’s a “quote”, alas I’ve failed. Hence this.

Also, I don’t have a card in this game. I understand anonymity and privacy - I dislike intentional deception.

flubo ,

Thanks for sharing - didnt know. Thats a long list … So which search engine is good and privacy friendly then?

dogsnest ,
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  • Alk ,

    It’s disingenuous to say there’s no point in striving for privacy if you’re not going to go completely off grid. There are always better and worse options.

    my_hat_stinks ,

    If someone said they were concerned about their sugar intake would you tell them to just stop eating entirely? It’s possible to take steps towards privacy-friendly services without cutting yourself off from the modern world in the same way as you can cut back on sugar and still eat food.

    You absolutely do not need to “burn all your devices” to improve your privacy, suggesting so is unhelpful at best.

    ClassifiedPancake ,

    This all-or-nothing mentality is harmful to any cause.

    JetpackJackson ,

    “Don’t let perfect be the enemy of good”

    canitendtherabbits ,
    @canitendtherabbits@lemmy.world avatar

    And do so every evening and start fresh everyday

    Alk ,

    It depends on what you’re trying to be private from. Kagi has been good to me so far, my goal is mainly to escape from corporate/ad profile tracking.

    Wolfram ,

    Kagi is great. Excellent search results for the most part, better than either DDG or Google in my experience.

    tfowinder ,
    @tfowinder@lemmy.ml avatar

    What to use them, if not DDG

    30p87 ,

    If you have spare hardware lying around and a public IP (or a server anyway), you can selfhost SearXNG.
    If you’re fine with paying 12$/month (with tax) for a customizable search engine, very accurate and transparently sourced/quoted LLM, and just a better index than any other search engine I know, use Kagi. I heard some rumors and bad things, but nothing to do with privacy, only the aforementioned tax.
    And for a free search engine which claims privacy and is an alternative to DDG, with its own index afaik, Brave.

    sanpo ,

    Kagi is anything but private friendly. Their CEO claims only criminals actually want anonymity.

    They also think they don’t need pay taxes or to abide by GDPR if they invent their own definitions of the laws.

    d-shoot.net/kagi.html

    30p87 ,

    This is an article often quoted, which makes it seem like it’s a kind of consensus. Yet one of the main points, taxes, can just be disproven by reading the Kagi FAQ about it. Find it by searching “Kagi inc tax” on any search engine, like Kagi itself. Or just https://help.kagi.com/kagi/faq/sales-tax-vat.html.

    We weren’t initially required to collect sales tax/VAT until reaching certain thresholds, typically defined by the number of customers in a jurisdiction or sales volume.

    And sooo many other things in this article are purely based on assumptions, incorrect data and misquotes. This personal blog is exactly none better than your average hustle-finance-nazi-bro podcast, in almost all terms (except political views).

    sanpo ,

    Misquotes? There are literally screenshots in the article showing full quotes, I don’t know who are you trying to lie to…

    And just because Kagi put some text on their website doesn’t make it true.
    Taxes don’t work like that (at least not VAT) and you’re a fool for trusting a company which tried to commit a fraud.

    Some EU countries do have tax exemptions for small businesses, which Kagi isn’t by any definition.

    Anyway, that sure didn’t take long for you to prove Godwin’s law, huh?

    Dumbkid ,
    @Dumbkid@lemmy.dbzer0.com avatar

    Sick never heard or searxng, hosting my own instance now

    frezik ,

    How are SearXNG results? I tried a self hosted yacy instance, but its results are pre-AltaVista bad.

    Alk ,

    I use kagi, it’s very good.

    clearedtoland ,

    I can’t justify Kagi’s pricing but I liked it. I’d blow through the cheapest plan in a week. Neeva was pretty good too before they pivoted, also pricey imo though.

    walden ,

    I blew through the $5 plan in a short amount of time. I’m a curious person, I guess! I really like it though so decided $120/year was worth it for unlimited.

    Compared to DDG (Bing) the search results are really good. When using DDG I would frequently revert to Google, but not with Kagi.

    Alk ,

    Same. I work and play at my computer, so I certainly get my use out of it. I wouldn’t pay for it if both my work and my hobbies weren’t both on my PC.

    calmluck9349 ,
    @calmluck9349@infosec.pub avatar

    I love kagi. Using it for search and gpt functions.

    Alk ,

    I haven’t touched the ai feature, I’m glad its separate and not forced into search, but I’m also glad people seem to be getting good use out of it. Best of both worlds.

    Mad_Punda ,

    I was gonna try it, but then I saw this: d-shoot.net/kagi.html

    The CEO doesn’t understand GDPR, so I’m not inclined to let them handle my data, and even pay them for the privilege.

    MrCamel999 ,
    @MrCamel999@programming.dev avatar

    I’m currently using searx.be with good results

    JetpackJackson ,

    Do you ever have moments where you type something to search into the address bar and you just get taken to the instance home page? That happens to me every now and then and I’m wondering if it’s the instance I’m using

    MrCamel999 ,
    @MrCamel999@programming.dev avatar

    I have not experienced this, no. Unsure as to what that could be, but if another instance doesn’t cause that issue that would be a good sign that it is the current instance you’re on.

    JetpackJackson ,

    I’ve switched back to searx.be and I haven’t faced the issue yet. Must’ve been the instance then. Strange

    tfowinder ,
    @tfowinder@lemmy.ml avatar

    Searx improved a lot since I last used it. Was really slow before

    elvith ,

    Its searxng now (the original searx is dead) and is quite good. Performance differs. I’ve seen very slow instances, but when I started hosting my own semi-private instance, I saw how fast it can be, if the server isn’t a potato.

    tfowinder ,
    @tfowinder@lemmy.ml avatar

    How can I set it as default browser on Android Brave?

    Not able to do it

    MrCamel999 ,
    @MrCamel999@programming.dev avatar

    Sorry, but I don’t know how to do that. I use Cromite, not Brave.

    LambdaRX ,
    @LambdaRX@sh.itjust.works avatar

    Mojeek isn’t perfect, but it’s truly independent search engine.

    Mojeek ,
    @Mojeek@lemmy.ml avatar

    and when people let us know where we fall down we’re able to make it better, growing alongside the userbase!

    pelespirit ,
    @pelespirit@sh.itjust.works avatar

    I’ve collected these 3 so far, but Swiss Cows if you go deep enough uses Bing. I’m not sure about Mojeek or Start Page.

    LemmyHead ,

    I have good experience with brave search, after I moved away from the crap Qwant actually is

    Caligvla ,

    Qwant is that bad? I remember hearing decent things about it a few years ago but I never got around to trying it because it’s blocked in my country for some god forsaken reason.

    LemmyHead ,

    That’s exactly one of the reasons why I find it shit. It’s not blocked in my country but as soon I need to go abroad, can’t use it anymore. There’s more reasons why it sucks and some of them are recent

    LemmyHead ,

    That’s exactly one of the reasons why I find it shit. It’s not blocked in my country but as soon I need to go abroad, can’t use it anymore. There’s more reasons why it sucks and some of them are recent

    governorkeagan ,

    I believe Startpage uses Google

    Mojeek ,
    @Mojeek@lemmy.ml avatar

    Swisscows does use Bing, Startpage uses Bing and/or Google depending upon where you are, we are fully independent: www.searchenginemap.com is a visualisation that might be useful

    pelespirit ,
    @pelespirit@sh.itjust.works avatar

    So is Mojeek a standalone since it’s yellow? It looks like a lot of other people use them and not the other way around. Yep is cool, but I think they get their money from the sites that pay them? I looked at it yesterday, it’s sort of a strange set up that I’m not sure I understand.

    Mojeek ,
    @Mojeek@lemmy.ml avatar

    yes we are indeed a standalone, the sizes of bubbles are reflections of the number of index-usage relationships yep is attached to ahrefs: techcrunch.com/2022/06/03/yep-search-engine/ where I can speak to where results come from, I couldn’t tell you about their model

    pelespirit ,
    @pelespirit@sh.itjust.works avatar

    Mojeek gives good results, I’ll keep trying it. I’m not sure about yep though, how do the people get paid? I didn’t see any sign up. It sounds like it’s a platform for their SEO subscribers.

    Mojeek ,
    @Mojeek@lemmy.ml avatar

    sorry for taking a while to get back but the main source of mojeek revenue is api sales, having people pay to access results for different applications (bing does similar i.e. duckduckgo, qwant, ecosia)

    pelespirit ,
    @pelespirit@sh.itjust.works avatar

    That’s interesting and a decent way to do it.

    Tetsuo ,

    Also as DDG is based in the US it is most likely legally bound to give your informations to any agency with a nice gag order on top of it.

    I can’t imagine any serious privacy oriented business to be headquartered in the US.

    The whole better privacy is true with DDG but certainly not to the extent people would like to think.

    That being said DDG has decent search results and is slightly better than Google for privacy. Google is an ecosystem so every little bit you don’t give them is a success.

    It’s really too bad we don’t have good private search engines…

    Babbiorsetto ,
    @Babbiorsetto@lemmy.sdf.org avatar

    Fuck this. Fuck search engines. I’m going back to curated website lists.

    Nemo ,

    I never left.

    a_new_sad_me ,

    Where do you find them?

    datavoid ,

    Webrings ftw

    HeyThisIsntTheYMCA ,
    @HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world avatar

    I knew my bookmarks would save me

    dan ,
    @dan@upvote.au avatar

    Bring back DMOZ and the Yahoo directory.

    johsny ,
    @johsny@lemmy.world avatar

    Christ on a bicycle.

    I just learnt of searx today, any bad news there?

    evasive_chimpanzee ,

    I recently learned about it, but haven’t used it. From what I understand, it’s similar to how the fediverse works; individual instances are run by whoever wants to run them. If you run your own instance, you have complete trust in it, but you effectively aren’t anonymous (unless you support a whole bunch of users to pool together. If you join someone else’s instance, you have to trust them. There’s public and private instances.

    The other downside is that, like many other small players, they are a metasearch engine, so they rely on the big players like Google and Bing who actually crawl the web for information to index. If Google or Bing want to hide information, that trickles down into metasearch engines, too. It’s somewhat buffered by thr fact that your metasearch can look through a whole bunch of different indexes, so you aren’t held to one countries censorship, but it probably still has an effect.

    Greg ,
    @Greg@lemmy.ca avatar

    I’m running a search instance on a VPS so my home IP isn’t linked to my searches. The main disadvantage is that my VPS is in Toronto and I live 2hrs away so geo searches don’t work very well. For instance, if I Google “restaurants” I get results for local restaurants whereas if I Gregle (I named my search engine Gregle) I get results for results near my VPS.

    DM me if you want a link to my instance to check it out. It’s open but I don’t publicize it because bad actors could ruin my IP addresses reputation with spam queries via the API.

    dan ,
    @dan@upvote.au avatar

    Searx is dead. You’ll want to use SearxNG instead.

    Sam_Bass , (edited )

    They also do ranked search like google, although not as bad but i think that is just a factor of age. Actual search term is often 5th or more down page

    planish ,

    Do they “give high rankings” to CloudFlare sites because they just boost up whoever is behind CloudFlare, or because the sites happen to be good search hits, maybe that load quickly, and they don’t go in and penalize them for… telling CloudFlare that you would like them to send you the page when you go to the site?

    Counting the number of times results for different links are clicked is expected search engine behavior. Recording what search strings are sent from results pages for what other search strings is also probably fine, and because of the way forms and referrers work (the URL of the page you searched from has the old query in it) the page’s query will be sent in the referrer by all browsers by default even if the site neither wanted it nor intends to record it. Recording what text is highlighted is weird, but probably not a genuine threat.

    The remote favicon fetch design in their browser app was fixed like 4 years ago.

    The “accusation” of “fingerprinting” was along the lines of “their site called a canvas function oh no”. It’s not “fingerprinting” every time someone tries to use a canvas tag.

    What exactly is “all data available in my session” when I click on an ad? Is it basically the stuff a site I go to can see anyway? Sounds like it’s nothing exciting or some exciting pieces of data would be listed.

    This analysis misses the important point that none of this stuff is getting cross-linked to user identities or profiles. The problem with Google isn’t that they examine how their search results pages are interacted with in general or that they count Linux users, it’s that they keep a log of what everyone individually is searching, specifically. Not doing that sounds “anonymous” to me, even if it isn’t Tor-strength anonymity that’s resistant to wiretaps.

    There’s an important difference between “we’re trying to not do surveillance capitalism but as a centralized service data still comes to our servers to actually do the service, and we don’t boycott all of CloudFlare, AWS, Microsoft, Verizon, and Yahoo”, as opposed to “we’re building shadow profiles of everyone for us and our 1,437 partners”. And I feel like you shouldn’t take privacy advice from someone who hosts it unencrypted.

    can ,

    You need to put a > in front of each new line.

    Breezy ,

    Honestly thats like the most annoying thing about lemmy. Or maybe its just sync. But atill damn annoying.

    can ,

    Just check the web ui and it appears it’s part of Lemmy.

    TESTING

    TEST

    Edit: Sync doesn’t seem to require one added to blank new lines but Lemmy does.

    https://sh.itjust.works/pictrs/image/ab8814ed-7a91-49ca-be18-de1f7bb39ab0.jpeg

    https://sh.itjust.works/pictrs/image/a11e12f3-226f-48b2-b7b2-167c9fb70701.jpeg

    makingStuffForFun OP ,
    @makingStuffForFun@lemmy.ml avatar

    Excellent reply. Thank you. Do you have any suggestions for alternatives?

    makingStuffForFun OP ,
    @makingStuffForFun@lemmy.ml avatar

    Excellent reply. Thank you. Do you have any suggestions for alternatives?

    Baku ,

    Btw you double posted this

    Baku ,

    Not to be dismissive, but if you deconstruct every website like this, won’t they all look horrible? I mean how long would Google’s list be if you detailed every single controversy and dodgy thing they’ve done in/to/from their search engine?

    astanix , to nostupidquestions in Did the premise of an entity approaching you only when it's not being viewed originate with Doctor Who's Weeping Angels?

    Boo from Super Mario only moves when your back is turned

    It originated in Super Mario Bros 3 in 1988.

    CorrodedCranium OP ,
    @CorrodedCranium@leminal.space avatar

    Good point. I don’t know how I didn’t think of that

    otp ,

    When I saw Dr. Who, I thought you were going to say this was from an episode in the 60’s or something, haha

    foggy ,

    Or the game red light green light…

    Which has roots in ancient China and was originally known as “Dong macha,” meaning “Freeze move” in Chinese. It was believed to have been played as early as the Tang Dynasty.

    According to facts.com so, you know. Gotta be facts.

    prowess2956 ,

    No more dong matcha for me, thank you

    lemmyseikai , to asklemmy in What is the most "Thankless" job?

    Teacher.

    agent_flounder ,
    @agent_flounder@lemmy.one avatar

    Thank you, teachers! o7

    maxprime ,

    As a teacher, I have to say I do get a lot of thank you’s. I get Christmas presents, gift cards, coffee, and hand written letters/cards. Sometimes my students reach out and/or visit me after they graduate. I feel quite valued and thanked. I live in Canada, if that makes a difference.

    My wife who is a social worker spends her days slaving over people’s cases and is repeatedly harassed, and has been assaulted countless times. Now that is a thankless job.

    selokichtli ,

    Yeah, I’d say living in Canada makes a huge difference. However, I think people answers “teacher” because, all things considered, it’s a very hard and valuable job, frequently an underpaid one.

    nave ,

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  • Today ,

    At my schools, we get appreciation from 80-90 percent of our families and campus admin. Much less from the people above that.

    audiomodder ,

    This is highly dependent on what age of students you teach. Elementary teachers get thanked by parents. High school teachers get thanked by graduating students. Middle school teachers…well, not so much.

    Nemo ,

    When I taught middle school, I got thanked a lot, and not just at holidays.

    Quexotic ,

    Thank your wife for me. Social workers are the best people for so many reasons.

    nooneescapesthelaw ,

    Youve never been thanked for being a teacher?

    TheHighRoad ,
    @TheHighRoad@lemmy.world avatar

    Drive-through window clerk gets thanked a lot, too.

    Blake ,

    This is a perfect response. I could never write anything this succinct :(

    FinallyDebunked ,
    @FinallyDebunked@slrpnk.net avatar

    No, quite the opposite

    orizuru , to asklemmy in Why are you on lemmy right now?
    @orizuru@lemmy.sdf.org avatar

    Because I refuse to install the Reddit official app.

    Princeali311 ,

    Ditto

    dingus ,

    My favorite Reddit app was killed (RIF), but I stumbled into Red Reader. For some reason Reddit still allowed it to continue. It’s not bad.

    Daisyifyoudo ,

    Hmm, I was curious about this so I looked:

    It has been agreed that RedReader falls under the exemption for non-commercial accessibility-focused apps, due to the work that has been done to optimize the app for screen readers, and the app’s high level of usage within the blind community.

    kill_dash_nine , (edited )

    I felt like I wanted to be part of the solution by stopping my usage of reddit. I didn’t want to continue to support a site I fundamentally disagree with on how they handled their monetization strategy by screwing over so many people.

    At this point, I no longer doom scroll reddit or even lemmy and it feels good to not waste my time doing so.

    dingus ,

    I feel you. The problem I have is that I mostly used Reddit for niche communities. Those niche communities don’t really exist here. I tried to do without, but it doesn’t scratch the itch. I’ve even tried making a couple. But when you’re mostly just talking to yourself in a void it’s not really the same. So unfortunately I have had to go to back to Reddit for those niche communities.

    kill_dash_nine ,

    Yeah, that’s rough. Luckily I mostly just used those types of communities as interesting reads more than actively participating outside of searching for content from them.

    orizuru ,
    @orizuru@lemmy.sdf.org avatar

    Same.

    I actually feel that my stubbornness has made my life better in this case.

    I’ve been to Reddit since, but I no longer feel the need to scroll it. I just use it when I went to find a genuine human recommendation on a topic.

    kill_dash_nine ,

    There is still a certain excellence to the model of how interaction works for how I enjoy consuming online conversations. It reminds me of a better old school forum experience.

    I do still use reddit when I find search results for things I want to know, especially where reddit was the biggest community for some topics but I usually end up there from search engines.

    mctit ,

    Revanced baby. If you get the urge to use rif again.

    BumpingFuglies , to nostupidquestions in Why do most religious conservatives support capitalist ideology?

    Fox News. Televangelists. Trump.

    Religion can be a very positive tool to bring communities together and support one another, but capitalism means exploitation, and nothing’s easier to exploit than blind faith.

    jungekatz OP ,

    I wonder why would a person keep a rich persons interest over their own ? Free or affordable healthcare and college would be such a great help , and while the planet can support food and housing for all , many are deliberately kept hungry and homeless and that is rooted in corporate greed most of the times . Gulliblity at another level!

    007v2 ,

    The guise that they will someday be the one with the boot, they don’t wanna miss their chance be be the very boot they lick. Propaganda is a powerful tool.

    jungekatz OP ,

    I mean I know people who think that elon is making them rich coz their tesla shares jumped, and at the same time they dont want college to be affordable because they paid for it in whole ( tho these ppl are mostly boomers and older gen)

    dmonzel ,
    @dmonzel@lemmy.world avatar

    I wonder why would a person keep a rich persons interest over their own ?

    There’s no such thing as a poor Republican voter, just a temporarily embarrassed millionaire.

    jungekatz OP ,

    Omg 😂😂😅

    infectoid ,
    @infectoid@lemmy.world avatar

    Temporarily embarrassed billionaires now.

    gramathy ,

    They get told the current hierarchy is gods will and they’re not allowed to subvert that

    jballs ,
    @jballs@sh.itjust.works avatar

    While I 100% agree with you, I think you listed the symptoms rather than the root cause. Religious people have been supporting the Republican party well… religiously since as long as I can remember, well before Trump and Fox News.

    I think it’s something that the Republican party has specifically built their messaging around and then those things have grown out of it as a result. Someone posted a good article the other day about how politicians supporting segregation were able to manufacture a wedge issue (abortion) in the 70s to capture the religious vote, who didn’t see it as a religious issue until they were basically told it was.

    krayj , (edited )

    Religion has been sucking the teet of conservative politics for a LOT longer than Fox News, Televangelist, and Trump have been around.

    It goes far deeper and is way more fundamental than those things.

    BumpingFuglies ,

    I agree completely, but on the surface, those are the three biggest modern contributors.

    A lot of people’s “sincerely held” beliefs are only skin-deep, so surface-level agitators and misinformation peddlers do have a lot of power in our society. If they ceased to exist, I suspect a lot of the hatred and vitriol their followers spew would cease, as well - assuming an equally-evil replacement didn’t immediately rise.

    A lot of people are stuck in their stale echo chambers, and just getting a breath of fresh air could do them wonders.

    dandroid ,

    I agree with the other two. But I think it’s disingenuous to say Trump, because this behavior has existed since long before Trump was relevant in politics.

    key ,

    It also existed since long before Fox News and even Televangelists

    BumpingFuglies ,

    True. He’s more a symptom than a cause. He certainly isn’t helping.

    FartsWithAnAccent ,
    @FartsWithAnAccent@lemmy.world avatar

    Trump is a symptom, not a cause.

    BumpingFuglies ,

    He’s a bit of both, I’d say.

    r0uphis , to asklemmy in What are some notable scams in history that went unnoticed for so long?

    The American healthcare system.

    unwinagainstable ,

    Scam for sure. Hard to say it’s been unnoticed for a long time though

    bitsplease ,

    idk - only 63% of Americans support single-payer healthcare, nearly half of Americans still haven’t caught on at least

    angstylittlecatboy ,

    “only”

    That’s a clear majority. If we had a referendum about it we’d get it (but the US doesn’t have federal referendums.)

    WtfEvenIsExistence ,

    Capitalism, especially with little to no regulation*

    Nezuh ,

    What is the alternative to capitalism?

    yogthos ,
    @yogthos@lemmy.ml avatar

    Communism

    Rainmanslim ,

    The one economic system that’s objectively worse than capitalism in every single way.

    yogthos ,
    @yogthos@lemmy.ml avatar

    Having actually grown up in USSR and lived under communism, I can definitively say that it’s not. I love how a bunch of idiots who are suffering under capitalism got convinced that nothing better is possible and to reject obvious alternatives that would immediately improve their lives.

    Rainmanslim ,

    Obvious lie is obvious.

    yogthos ,
    @yogthos@lemmy.ml avatar

    Why would I lie about something like that, you delusional piece of human garbage.

    Rainmanslim ,

    To push your own narrative.

    yogthos ,
    @yogthos@lemmy.ml avatar

    Sure buddy. The fact that you find it easier to believe that somebody would lie about having grown up in USSR than the fact that they liked living there really underscores how deranged you are. I even still have my old passport to prove it to you though.

    https://lemmy.ml/pictrs/image/19a7abf3-18d1-4077-809e-c727d0940fcb.jpeg

    bazookabill ,

    You should be on the frontline-trenches instead of trolling around on lemmy

    yogthos ,
    @yogthos@lemmy.ml avatar

    I’m not the one cheering NATO proxy wars on here. Maybe you should take your own advice here and sign up for the foreign legion see how that goes for you troll.

    bazookabill ,

    Right, you are the one cheering for Vladolfs invasion in a sovereign country, whilst uploading a pic of your Russian passport, lol.

    yogthos ,
    @yogthos@lemmy.ml avatar

    Show a single comment where I’m cheering for the invasion you lying scumbag. Pointing out that Ukraine is going to lose this war and that it got used as a proxy by western scumbags isn’t cheering for anything. Go get a gun and sign up for the foreign legion scumbag.

    Colour_me_triggered ,

    People only overthrow the government when they get really desperate. Your mistake is comparing communist Russia to capitalist USA. If you compare communist Russia to either tzarist Russia or the cluster fuck Russia is today then yes communism was imesurably better. Unless you were a learned fella.

    OwenEverbinde , (edited )

    Depends on how you define capitalism.

    According to the modern (very intentionally altered) definition of capitalism,

    “a system allowing the exchange of goods and services for currency, where different skill sets can result in different compensation”

    … everything, including the USSR [1][2] has been capitalism. And even most Marxists are pro-capitalists.

    The definition above encompasses everything that ever was, and everything that ever will be. (And that’s only a slight exaggeration)

    Which – just fyi – makes the word one of the most useless words in the history of language.

    If, however – just hypothetically – you wanted to have a productive dialogue with a self-described anti-capitalist, you would need to carry out the entire conversation pretending the word “capitalism” referred to something a hell of a lot more specific. A single mechanism within market society. A single kind of contractual relationship between worker and company.

    Which is an exercise in imagination and in the algebraic concept of substitution that most people have a rather stubborn aversion to.

    AngryCommieKender ,

    The barter system before currency was invented wouldn’t fit that definition, and strictly speaking Marx wanted Communism to do away with currency so if that ever happened anywhere, that would also be outside of that definition.

    That being said, yeah the modern definition of “capitalism” is over-broad and mostly useless as a concept.

    OwenEverbinde , (edited )

    Right. That is a good point. Although Marx didn’t see the elimination of currency as a realistic goal attainable within the first few decades (possibly even the first century) of communism, he did believe a post-scarcity humanity would eventually transcend the need for currency.

    However when it comes to barter, the thing is: even in societies dominated by barter, some commodity tends to become the standard against which the values of other commodities are measured. Cigarettes in POW camps, cacao beans in Mesoamerica.

    By an admittedly-loose definition of currency, a currency does always emerge and end up being directly exchanged for goods and services, even in barter systems.

    Colour_me_triggered ,

    A hybrid system Whereby capitalism in a regulated form can go on pretty much as usual, but government run companies provide affordable alternatives for basic necessities (food, water, housing, communication, mass transit etc). The government run companies hire anyone who wants a job. Unemployment is reduced, cost of living is reduced, and no ones freedom is stepped on.

    Ghostalmedia , (edited ) to nostupidquestions in Is it possible to make my data worthless?
    @Ghostalmedia@lemmy.world avatar

    E-commerce vet here. It’s easier just to try and not give out that data and to pay to have it scrubbed. But, this thought experiment is fun, so here’s how you’d make your targeting data complete trash.

    —-

    The most valuable thing about your data is your behavior and demographic characteristics, not your identity.

    When you fill out forms, pretend your gender, race, and age is fluid. Also, pretend you’re nomadic. Then behave erratic as fuck online - pay for bibles, butt plugs, taxidermy, and PETA donations

    Your data will be absolute trash. You’ll also be miserable because you’re going to be visiting the Amazon drop off center with gag balls and porcelain Jesus figurines every week.

    NegativeLookBehind ,
    @NegativeLookBehind@kbin.social avatar

    Your comment is fucking gold. Thank you.

    HeyThisIsntTheYMCA ,
    @HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world avatar

    Maybe you should plan better and get the ball gags in Jesus’s size so you can drop them off at the local cult

    spitz , to asklemmy in What do you do with all the free time you got once you stopped using reddit?
    @spitz@lemmy.ml avatar

    Lemmy.

    PP_BOY_ ,
    @PP_BOY_@lemmy.world avatar

    Not enought content here to replace all that time saved IMO. At my worst I was browsing Reddit 6+ hours a day. Here, I can’t even go 2 hours without seeing the same content…

    None of this is a criticism against Lemmy btw

    spitz ,
    @spitz@lemmy.ml avatar

    I get what you mean. But I just spread my net wider. Give more communities a chance, and unsubscribe from the ones that aren’t what I’m looking for. It’s frustrating, but it will improve. And it’s better than dealing with reddit.

    PP_BOY_ ,
    @PP_BOY_@lemmy.world avatar

    Oh I agree 100% but there are definitely aspects of Reddit that just aren’t replaceable with Lemmy. Lemmy has almost no car communities (besides FuckCars), which is a hobby that takes up a lot of my time. I’ve replaced the time I spent on Reddit car subs with /o/ and other forums.

    As for my other interests, though, I think Lemmy is definitely better for my mental health. Nobody needs a constant stream of new memes to access whenever they want. I was developing a serious case of brainrot mindlessly scrolling when I still used Reddit.

    spitz ,
    @spitz@lemmy.ml avatar

    Yeah definitely. That’s what I was saying about spreading my net wider here. I try communities of topics that I’m not necessarily interested in, but could be. Being a bit more open minded giving new things a chance.

    Micromot ,
    @Micromot@lemmycook.de avatar

    For me it’s actually a good thing to not have the almost infinite stream of content that reddit had because it stops me from doomscrolling for hours on end and leads me to actually doing something

    DarthBueller ,

    I get that way a month ago. And yeah, I quickly run into duplicate content, but over the last couple weeks the duplicate content has been strongly peppered with new content that is highly engaging. With less churn, I find that I spend more time commenting as well.

    lemann ,

    For me, I struggle to find communities to post some types of content in, and I don’t really want to create a brand new comm just for a single post.

    So I end up not posting those things 🫣

    aseriesoftubes , to selfhosted in WARNING: Lemmy Self-Hosters, There Have Been CSAM Attacks taking place against [email protected]

    Someone is trying really hard to hurt Lemmy by continually attacking the most popular instance. Is this all coming from right-wingers upset that their nazi instances were defederated across basically the whole fediverse?

    CryptoRoberto ,

    I wouldn’t put it past the hexbear crazies throwing a tantrum. They claim to be left wing… Sure seem more like fascist trumper types though. Maybe it’s just that they’re all incels and incels all seem about the same.

    maegul ,
    @maegul@lemmy.ml avatar

    they’re all incels and incels all seem about the same.

    Downvote from me there. I’ve seen plenty of examples of hexbear people being nice, interesting and good sports. They definitely seem to have more of shitposting culture than is normal on mainstream lemmy. But all in all it’s seemed fun to me from what I’ve seen.

    Beyond all that, this is just superficial and prejudicial. If you had some examples to link to or more substantial insights to share as to why it’d be “them”, that’d be worth reading.

    Otherwise, they’re an instance. Not one person, I’m sure some on hexbear are assholes and some awesome.

    CryptoRoberto ,

    So, so shocked someone it’s from lemmygrad that is defending the notoriously toxic “communist” tanky trollfest instance.

    maegul ,
    @maegul@lemmy.ml avatar

    Sorry, not from lemmygrad. And I’m on lemmy.ml because I joined before the Reddit migration and “Privacy and FOSS” (the focus of lemmy.ml) made a lot of sense for a lemmy instance/community.

    Beyond that … more superficial, prejudicial hate mongering without any description of why or for what purpose. Sorry, I don’t think it’s worth reading … a downvote from me … and, just being real for a moment … at the moment it’s more likely that you’re a member of a “notoriously toxic … trollfest”.

    Ironically, IME, I’ve seen significantly more troll-like tankie hate than I do tankie-trolling. I keep asking for receipts/links to tankie trolling here, as I’m genuinely curious to see it and understand what people are so upset about (please don’t explain to me what’s so upsetting unless it’s culturally thorough or coupled with some links+descriptions) … but no one has been able to do so.

    zephyreks ,

    Most people from hexbear provide sources, which is better than can be said for all the tankie hate.

    princessnorah ,
    @princessnorah@lemmy.blahaj.zone avatar

    lemmy.ml =/= lemmygrad.ml

    Fylkir ,

    Throwing a tantrum about what exactly? They’re one of the oldest-running Lemmy instances. Until now they were running a fork based on a pre-Federation version of the codebase.

    You believe they did a bunch of work migrating their database only to then negate that work by destroying the community they wanted to Federate with?

    CryptoRoberto ,

    Big difference between a few users who did a bunch of work and the toxic goonsquad the majority of the userbase turned into.

    maegul ,
    @maegul@lemmy.ml avatar

    Well something to keep in mind is that hexbear isn’t one person … it’s a whole community that’s developed independently for a while. So it’s reasonable to expect that there’d be variation in the behaviours of members in the same way there’s variation on the rest of lemmy. From what I’ve gathered, not all hexbear members are keen on the re-federation, and some aren’t too keen on being “well-behaved” around politically opposed users (ie “libs”), though hexbear admins and other users have promised moderation and that such isn’t part of the core hexbear values.

    It’s social media, afterall … and people can be rather shit and ruin it for the rest of us. In the end, the core service provided a social media platform isn’t the hardware, sys-admin-work or software (however necessary they are) … it’s the moderation work.

    The moderation keeps the place sanitary enough for people to actually want to be here … however much we may have problems with particular actions of our moderators, we should really support and praise them at every turn.

    Rentlar ,

    At least a handful of users on hexbear had made their intention clear during the first week of re-federation, they were looking to cause chaos on Lemmy for there own pleasure. I don’t know if they were banned and/or their comments deleted.

    Kungolicious ,

    My tin foil hat is telling me it’s one of the other social media companies funding a hacking group to do it. They stand to have the most to lose, and they’ve seemingly decided to enjoy changing the narrative regarding multiple topics. Lemmy stands directly against what the bigger social medias stand for.

    I have no evidence to back this though. As a business owner I just know that things become very consistent when people are being paid, and very inconsistent when they aren’t. These attacks are seemingly very consistent/organized.

    The_Picard_Maneuver ,
    @The_Picard_Maneuver@lemmy.world avatar

    There must be room under that tinfoil hat for the both of us, because this was my first thought too.

    GONADS125 ,

    The longer it continues, the more likely that scenario is IMO. Bitter alt-right extremists would probably start losing interest after a short while, whereas social media competitors would stand to gain from long-term interference.

    Kungolicious ,

    Come on in! There’s cookies.

    phillaholic ,

    You think a company that is posed to go public is going to attack a competitor with a minuscule amount of traffic with extremely illegal material that could put them in prison for even having?

    Kungolicious ,

    Reddit? No. I was thinking moreso Meta. They have the deeper pockets and a proven track record of breaking privacy laws to their own benefit.

    phillaholic ,

    That’s even worse. Meta probably doesn’t even know what Lemmy is.

    fsmacolyte ,

    So then why was Meta trying to get Threads to be on the Fediverse? Of course they’re aware of any potential threats, no matter how small.

    phillaholic ,

    Why reinvent the wheel if someone’s just going to hand you the backend? Lemmy is no threat to them.

    fsmacolyte ,

    The threat is a new sustainable community that’s sheltered from advertising that people could leave Factbook/Instagram/whatever and go to.

    orizuru ,
    @orizuru@lemmy.sdf.org avatar

    Meta was talking about adding Mastodon federation to their Threads app. So I very much doubt it.

    They’d probably take an Embrace, Expand, Extinguish approach.

    princessnorah ,
    @princessnorah@lemmy.blahaj.zone avatar

    See, I don’t believe this was done by a large corp. But all the DDoSing that’s happened? I can see u/spez orchestrating that.

    phillaholic ,

    Lemmy isn’t a threat to Reddit. It’s the same old trolls doing it like every other time.

    princessnorah ,
    @princessnorah@lemmy.blahaj.zone avatar

    I don’t think they do see it as a threat, I just think spez is petty enough and juvenile enough to do it.

    phillaholic ,
    princessnorah ,
    @princessnorah@lemmy.blahaj.zone avatar

    Like, again, I pretty solely think it’s spez’s own personal ego shit. For example, he could have just shutdown the API. Instead, he had a weeks-long meltdown including committing libel against a developer. Someone like Zuckerberg doing this doesn’t make any sense to me, but I can totally see spez being exactly that kind of petty.

    phillaholic ,

    He’s have to acknowledge Lemmy being a threat, which it’s not, and which his ego won’t allow anyway. The simplest answer is the best.

    princessnorah ,
    @princessnorah@lemmy.blahaj.zone avatar

    ¯_(ツ)_/¯

    agree to disagree?

    KIM_JONG_JUICEBOX ,
    @KIM_JONG_JUICEBOX@lemmy.ml avatar

    You would pay a third party to do it. And keep details extremely vague so you have plausible deniability.

    phillaholic ,

    Just No, it’s nonsense.

    AssPennies ,

    I’d go with state actors first.

    When a particular social media platform is centralized, you can buy yourself a say percentage of stock and have sway over it (cough tencent), or have a useful idiot ruin the platform (cough musk), or another useful idiot to run propaganda you like anyway (cough truth social, cough fox news, cough newsmax…), or yet another that will sell out it’s host country’s citizens for cold hard cash (cough facebook).

    But when that social media platform is decentralized? Well, then you’d need to figure out how to poison the well early on to stave off adoption. The Saudi Arabias, UAEs, Chinas definitely don’t like the idea of lemmy, and it’ll be way harder for them to control if critical mass is hit.

    Valmond ,

    You don’t get a lot of upvotes and sure we don’t know but it isn’t like the NSA infiltrated (in person) left wing groups and more.

    It’s definitely a possibility that someone doesn’t like decentralised content enough to put some meager efforts against it.

    aseriesoftubes ,

    Yep, that’s a great point.

    Add to that the fact that mainstream social media companies wouldn’t touch DDoS and CSAM attacks with a 100-foot pole, even if they contracted with a third party. Both of these attacks are highly illegal and would surely ruin a publicly traded company (or one that’s trying to go public, like Reddit).

    And don’t forget Russia in your list of state actors who are threatened by the unrestricted flow of information. They definitely don’t want their citizenry to be informed of how disastrously their invasion of Ukraine is going, or what a murderous scumbag Putin is.

    Steeve ,

    You have a massively inflated view of Lemmy’s importance in the social media market.

    SheeEttin ,

    The simplest explanation is 4chan types just doing it for the lulz.

    finickydesert ,
    @finickydesert@lemmy.ml avatar

    Could be, I’m surprised /g/ didn’t create an instance

    preciouspupp ,

    Their knowledge stops at creating sway screenshots.

    Contort3860 ,
    @Contort3860@links.hackliberty.org avatar

    I’m sure someone’s already created a logo. But, that’s as far as they ever get.

    Ep1cFac3pa1m ,
    @Ep1cFac3pa1m@lemmy.world avatar

    Considering all the alt-right garbage that was popping up there the last couple of days this seems at least plausible. I sometimes envy their ability to utterly destroy anything they touch.

    SeducingCamel ,

    I’m sure you’d love to link to some examples

    See people claim this constantly with no proof

    Ep1cFac3pa1m ,
    @Ep1cFac3pa1m@lemmy.world avatar

    You want me to link posts that the mods removed? That seems like an unrealistic expectation. You could always check the post pinned to the top of lemmyshitpost where they describe the recent problems, but I suspect you didn’t ask for proof in good faith

    SeducingCamel ,

    Ah that’s actually my bad, I thought you were replying to a different comment in reference to hexbear

    MataVatnik ,
    @MataVatnik@lemmy.world avatar

    This makes the most sense to me. It’s a pretty vitriolic attack, therefore I don’t think it’s simply a troll while at the same time I don’t believe it’s any corporate social media.

    Shdwdrgn , to asklemmy in Has anyone else noticed a sudden lack of reading comprehension skills?

    I’m afraid there’s nothing new about this, it has been going on for a long time. What I do believe is happening is now that every idiot with a cell phone can jump of sites like lemmy or reddit, we are simply seeing a lot more examples of the problem. Pretty much like when camcorders became affordable to the general public, we suddenly saw all kinds of police brutality videos and some people thought this must be a recent trend when in fact it had been occurring all along.

    Serinus ,

    One of my last comments on Reddit was about this.

    The biggest difference I’ve noticed is that people have stopped reading sentences. They’ll read all the words and then upvote based on the feeling those individual words give them. They won’t consider the meaning of all those words put together.

    And yeah, “upvote does not mean agree” is something Reddit has always struggled with, but it has definitely had exponential growth lately.

    It has made me start writing more clearly. There are comments I’ve written that have been wildly misinterpreted from my actual meaning. Part of that is that I tend towards sarcasm, and it doesn’t translate well over the internet no matter how absurd I get with it. But I’ve also started aiming to use more simple sentence structure.

    Enkers ,

    I was a strong advocate for rediquette for a long time, but the site kept attracting new people who didn’t give a shit about it. You can’t fight the tides of change, I guess.

    Aqarius ,

    The eternal September eventually gets you.

    some_guy ,

    to use more simple sentence structure.

    to use simpler sentence structure.

    solidgrue ,
    @solidgrue@lemmy.world avatar

    use smol words

    bigkahuna1986 ,

    Why use many word, when few word do trick?

    solidgrue ,
    @solidgrue@lemmy.world avatar

    use less word

    Roundcat ,
    @Roundcat@kbin.cafe avatar

    word less.

    Natanael ,

    Brief

    fkn ,

    Few

    dreadgoat ,
    @dreadgoat@kbin.social avatar

    One of my favorite Redditisms was picking out incredibly obvious sarcasm with massive downvotes. Bonus points if replied to with a huge angry essay.

    And due to the voting patterns, I learned to be suspicious of my own comments that were highly upvoted. I started to see it as a bad smell. My best work was the controversial stuff.

    cubedsteaks ,

    My biggest upvotes were always jokes. If I tried to make reasonable points about anything, or god forbid, shared my experiences - I was downvoted into oblivion and people would actively comment to tell me how much they hated my way of thinking or just repeat to me that I need therapy as if going to therapy harder was some how the answer.

    dreadgoat ,
    @dreadgoat@kbin.social avatar

    Excuse me but you are interrupting my dopamine flow. Your response appears to be neither a meme, rage bait, justice boner, nor even a pun. I hope you learn from this experience and do better.

    cubedsteaks , (edited )

    “do better” is my personal ragebait.

    So many people where I live over use that shit.

    RoundSparrow ,

    If I tried to make reasonable points about anything, or god forbid, shared my experiences - I was downvoted into oblivion

    Introducing quotes from authors that were related to the subject would really show how people were locked in the context of media immediacy, the environment. Links to outside citations would almost always generate replies from people who obviously did not study the citation and just wanted to respond back.

    It used to be something people said ‘out loud’ about people not reading links and just commenting… then it just became normalized.

    cubedsteaks ,

    oh yeah the good ol’ [citation needed] meme even though they were already given a damn citation.

    Such an obvious sign of someone just responding to respond. Relies on repeating memes as a crutch and can’t have a real discussion about a a topic.

    Shdwdrgn ,

    I’ve had the same experience with people (intentionally or otherwise) misinterpreting what I said to mean something completely opposite. And I call them out on it every time, like seriously did you even READ what I said or did you just see a few words and insert your own beliefs into what you thought I was going to say? I’ve actually had some people admit that yes, they did indeed quickly skim without letting the actual words sink in.

    It’s really a shame that you’re reducing your writing to the lowest common denominator. Sure there may be times when there’s a reason for that (Earth not flat, dummy), but the rest of the time it drags down the whole conversation to a level where it’s difficult to have a meaningful discussion. If someone is really trying to grasp a concept but they’re missing it then of course you need to drop out of the technical jargon to help them get up to speed, but the ones who are there just to ridicule and troll simply aren’t worth the effort to explain simple concepts to (such as your opinion on women’s reproductive rights is meaningless, the only opinion that matters is that of the woman who is affected by the issue). Keep up the high-quality discussions and ignore everyone who doesn’t make the effort to keep up!

    Serinus ,

    Sure, there’s that. Also, sometimes I just write bad.

    Shdwdrgn ,

    Haha don’t we all!

    Rottcodd ,
    @Rottcodd@kbin.social avatar

    IMO, many (most?) people quite simply don't think about things. They just have some dogmatic positions they've taken for some reasons, and they regurgitate them as necessary.

    And that's a lot of the reason that they so often and so brazenly misinterpret things other people say. They're not actually reading to comprehend - they're reading just to get enough of a feel for it to classify it, so that they'll have some (potentially quite wrong) idea of which bit of rhetoric to trot out in response to it.

    Shdwdrgn ,

    You are not wrong. Reading what you typed, I can’t help but think about the people who have spent so much time defending their self-serving opinions that they can no longer have any reaction other than to start arguing. My ex had a bad case of bi-polar. She was really a great person, but any time someone disagreed with her (or even if she thought they were disagreeing) a switch would flip and she would rage at you until she thought she had won. Even walking away wasn’t enough because then she wanted an admission that she was right. Funny thing was that after that had passed and she calmed down, you could talk to her rationally and she could see your point, but it simply wasn’t worth the effort.

    cubedsteaks ,

    Keep up the high-quality discussions and ignore everyone who doesn’t make the effort to keep up!

    Yup. This is the only way. Those people are just trying to get responses. The only way to get win is to not give them what they want.

    Shdwdrgn ,

    Honestly I feel like the only reason they do this is to bring people down to their level so they can feel like they are somehow smarter, because that’s a lot less effort than actually learning about the subject. Ah well.

    cubedsteaks ,

    It’s true. It’s a way for them to feel like they are better than someone else.

    maltasoron ,

    There’s a difference between simplifying a message and writing at a lower reading comprehension level. I think a lot of accidental incomprehension might just be caused by the reader not being very good at reading English.

    In my country (and I think the whole EU), government agencies have to write at a B1 level to make sure official publications and letters are accessible to all citizens. I think that’s a good rule of thumb for online conversations as well. (However, writing pleasant prose at B1 level is a whole different beast. Generally, they’re not very good at it.)

    Shdwdrgn ,

    Good point on catering to those who speak other languages, I hadn’t considered that.

    So what does a B1 level equate to? I’m assuming it’s lower than college level, probably lower that a high school level? Are we talking like middle school, grade school, or something else?

    maltasoron ,

    Sorry, didn’t get a notification.

    Yeah, it’s basically at high school level, so most of the adult population should be able to understand it without much issue.

    Shdwdrgn ,

    No worries, thanks for the update. Yeah that makes sense, we would hope that most people make it through high school, although the way they’re going in some parts of the US by gutting the education and white-washing history (they’re actually trying to teach kids that slavery was a GOOD thing!!!) I feel like in a few years a high school education here is going to be meaningless.

    jarfil ,

    It’s really a shame that you’re reducing your writing to the lowest common denominator

    yeahAt times I’ve been considering using spoiler mechanics to write a “simple English” reply, followed by the actual answer, hidden for only the more discerning reader to uncover.

    2fat4that ,
    @2fat4that@kbin.social avatar

    You should use emojis to convey sarcasm 🙄

    Uranium3006 ,
    @Uranium3006@kbin.social avatar

    there's also the problem of people not reading it in the first place, and the problem of people intentionally misinterpreting what you say in bad faith. those aren't literacy issues

    Natanael ,

    Yeah, I feel the sarcasm thing. I used to use a lot more absurdist humor but over the past decade it’s become increasingly pointless and even counterproductive as Poe’s law moves along with the Overton window of stupidity. Stuff that used be recognized as obvious satire before gets taken much too seriously far too often now.

    Dark_Arc ,
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    Unmarked sarcasm via text is just always a bad idea. People don’t realize how much body language, tone, and to an extent history with the person, goes into recognizing sarcasm IRL.

    When you remove all of that context… it’s often just an extremely dumb statement, and I for one am just going to take you at your word, because too many people really do mean whatever it is you just said.

    It’s also terrible because you get a comment like “I guess the earth really is flat” which maybe 99% of people take as sarcasm, and then the one flat earther or borderline flat earther comes along and goes “wow, lots of people are getting behind this movement!”

    slinkyninja ,

    It helps to use only happy nice words. A happy sentence is an objective sentence, free from judgements or pronouns.

    “You watch that stupid thing too much.”

    Starts with a pronoun, contains “stupid”, ends with a judgement. It’ll make people furious and it’s not the content for them but the trigger words they scan for.

    “Maybe we could go outside instead of watching TV?”

    Same reasoning behind why you said it, different responses sometimes.

    buckykat , to asklemmy in What's a scam that's so normalized that we don't even realize it's a scam anymore?

    Car based infrastructure

    the stock market

    capitalism

    MacroCyclo ,

    A lot of people are saying Capitalism. Is it straight up capitalism that is the scam or the myth of financial mobility? (the American dream)

    OwenEverbinde , (edited )

    There’s a lot of trouble with definitions regarding capitalism. (I’d call them intentional since muddying the waters serves the people who benefit from our current system.)

    Pick any person who is complaining about “capitalism” right now.

    If you proposed a system where everything was structured the same as it is right now, HOWEVER instead of shareholders and owners possessing companies, every, single company was a worker cooperative (owned and controlled by its workers) then I am 95% sure the anti-capitalist you picked would

    1. Not consider that capitalism, and
    2. Vastly prefer that over what we have right now

    With some minor variation. (Tankies don’t think it’s possible to maintain such a system without monopolizing violence. Anarcho-communists wouldn’t be too happy about the scope and financial power of state and federal governments, and would seek to pare them down. Democratic socialists would think it was perfect. Little disagreements like that.)

    But I think most other people (people who aren’t anti-capitalists) would think “that’s just a form of capitalism” if I described the above.

    In fact, if I said,

    A free market system, but ownership and control of the means of production is only allowed collectively and democratically. No shareholders allowed, no transferable individual ownership allowed.

    Most ordinary people would consider that a form of capitalism. (Even though calling it capitalism is, technically, highly inaccurate). So it’s a difficult conversation to have. Because most “anti-capitalists” disagree with most “pro-capitalists” on the basic definition of what they are fighting or defending.

    I’m actually convinced that a lot of “pro-capitalists” are more eager to defend the free market system than they are to defend transferable, stock-marketable, individual ownership of the means of production. I think they would compromise on the latter if they could safeguard the former.

    EremesZorn ,

    That’s almost anarcho-syndicalism, which I am a proponent of some of the ideas of, but it leaves capital and government generally intact. That’s probably the easiest way we could transition away from capitalism as we know it and not collapse the system entirely. It sounds almost feasible.

    OwenEverbinde , (edited )

    Oh yeah, certainly. And one of the first steps in that direction – the corporate death sentence – is just common sense.

    (The corporate death sentence is basically “any company that does more damage than it can reasonably repair gets converted into a co-op controlled by its workers / victims. The investors’ shares get dissolved.”)

    I don’t think anyone would have a reasonable objection to allowing the voters of East Palestine, Ohio and the workers for Norfolk Southern to elect all of the company’s board members from here on out. And I don’t think anyone would weep for Norfolk Southern’s shareholders if their shares got dissolved.

    intensely_human ,

    How do you figure financial mobility is a myth? I’ve altered my own financial situation successfully. That wouldn’t be possible if it were a myth.

    Steeve ,

    Unregulated capitalism imo. I don’t buy the idea I’ve seen around here that capitalism itself is the problem and switching to communism would solve all the problems. Both are systems that have merit, but when left unchecked all the power and money will go to the few, like we have now.

    Jackthelad ,

    Arguably, socialism is a bigger scam given its history of failure.

    moistclump ,

    What do you mean?

    Jackthelad ,

    That socialism has always failed, but because it sounds good in theory, people like to argue for its use.

    Nevoic , (edited )

    If by “have merit” you mean “has some positive aspects”, sure. Every system has merit. Slavery had merit (slave owners got cheap cotton). The Holocaust had merit (antisemites felt better). The issue is weighing the merit against the negatives. You can’t just say two systems have positive aspects and call it a day.

    Are you a fan of democracy or authoritarianism? Capitalism is a system where productive forces are driven undemocratically, in the name of profit instead of by worker democracy. The commodification of everything exists in a world of private property:

    • our bodies (labor power)
    • our thoughts (intellectual property)
    • the specific ordering of bits on a hard drive you own (digital media, DRM)
    • the means of production (which exist as a result of collective knowledge, infrastructure, and labor)

    These things being commodified and privatized are ridiculous in any democratic, non-capitalist system.

    However, these ridiculous conditions are absolutely necessary in a capitalist society. Without them the system falls apart. And as society continues to progress, the situation gets more and more ridiculous.

    What about when AI “takes away” jobs for 50% of Americans (as in capitalists fire humans in favor of AI)? That’ll collapse our society. Less work would be a good thing in any reasonable system, but not in capitalism. Less work is an existential threat to our society.

    If we ever have an AI that is as capable as humans are intellectually, the only work left for us will be manual labor. If that happens, and robots get to the point of matching our physical abilities, we won’t be employable anymore. The two classes will no longer be owners and workers, they’ll be owners and non-owners. At that point we better have dismantled capitalism, because if we don’t then we’ll just be starving in the street, along with the millions who die every year from starvation under the boot of global capitalism.

    Steeve ,

    Everying in your comment can be solved with regulation. A capitalist society can enact socialist policies to take care of the lower class or unemployed. It’s not a “pick one” situation.

    You’re arguing against the unregulated capitalism we live in, but also comparing capitalism as it exists today to fuckin slavery is just a ridiculous false equivalence.

    Nevoic , (edited )

    I didn’t compare capitalism to slavery. I said the word slavery. The first paragraph wasn’t demonstrating a comparison, it was demonstrating a principle (principles are universalized, comparisons aren’t). The idea that every system has positives, but those systems can still be horrifically bad.

    I don’t know if it’s emotion that’s clouding your reading comprehension, I hope it is, because then you can calm down and have a reasonable conversation. If it’s not, then this conversation isn’t worth having because you won’t understand half of what I’m saying. Literally 50% of your last message was you misrepresenting what I was saying.

    A capitalist society cannot enact socialist policies. It can enact “social” policies. These policies are inspired by socialism, and often advocated for by socialists, but the policies themselves are not socialist policies. Capitalism is an economic system where the means of production are privately owned, and socialism is an economic system where the means of production are socially owned. If private (not personal) property exists, it’s not socialism. It’s not necessarily capitalism (you could have other systems with private property), but in our world it always is.

    Welfare capitalism, where these social policies exist, is a well established ideology that has been around for about 80 years in any serious form, and yeah welfare can be used to address some of the negative tendencies of capitalism, but it doesn’t fix them. It’s applying a band-aid fix, not addressing the problem. In the real world what this means is there’s a class of people always working to remove those regulations and welfare because their class interests are opposed to ours.

    Class distinctions cannot be solved with a regulation, they have to be solved with a societal restructuring. Our legal system does not support the idea of abolishing private property and by extension classes.

    Steeve ,

    Yeah bud, I’m not reading past your second paragraph. Go gaslight and be and be an asshole on Reddit.

    Hamartiogonic ,
    @Hamartiogonic@sopuli.xyz avatar

    IMO American style capitalism is completely broken, but that’s not the only way to run your economy and still call it capitalism. Particularly in the EU area companies don’t always have the upper hand. Consumers and employees have the kinds of rights Americans can only dream of.

    Don’t really know much about communism, but clearly USSR didn’t survive, and that may have something to do with the system. ML-people here can probably tell me how China, Cuba and other communist countries are doing today.

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