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lemmy.world

Whyherro , to memes in Your big brain conservtive/capitalist takes will be laughed at

Why does everything need to be politicized? No one gives a flying fuck if you’re a leftist, unless you’re a Leftist and no one gives a fuck if you’re a right winger unless you’re a right winger. Jesus christ the US Politics are absolute fucking cancer.

Mockrenocks ,

Why does everything need to be politicized?

Because everything is political or adjacent to it. Everything in this world is either impacted by or is a reflection of politics.

FilthyHookerSpit ,

I mention this to my friends all the time. So many issues we’re dealing with derives from politics, so of course discourse will always return to it.

Money Rent/housing costs Grocery costs Stagnant wages Retirement

School shootings Police brutality Systemic racism

Medicine Insurance R/d for treatments Quality of life

Etc. Etc.

SchizoDenji ,

My issue is that I’m trying to implement a new app in my home server. How is this political?

Flumsy ,

School shootings Police brutality Systemic racism

Those are issues that are relevant in YOUR region so why do I have to discuss them? Politics are regional and Lemmy is a worldwide space. The majority of Lemmy is from outside of the USA, yeah we can talk a bit about US politics but not all the damn time.

TrismegistusMx ,
@TrismegistusMx@lemmy.world avatar

Right wing violence will come whether you want to believe it’s political or not.

Ataraxia ,

Yet I see a lot more anti liberal rhetoric on here. Also these people getting off on wanting a civil war… because destabilizing a country always worked great.

TrismegistusMx ,
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People are angry, and rightfully so. The opportunities in chaos are often seen as preferable to oppressive order.

rusticus ,

Irony: living in a country that has destabilized more countries than any in history and fucking those countries for generations. Meanwhile wanting destabilization at home. Lol.

tocopherol ,
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It’s considered ‘left’ to support queer and trans rights, and there are a good number of people that seem to have a problem with that whether my queer self is political or not.

Razp ,

Guaranteeing that every individual has the same rights independently of their sex, sexual orientation, race, skin color and so on… Shouldn’t be neither left nor right. It just should be. It’s just common sense.

There are plenty of another topic for the left vs right to debate. Leave identity politics out of it and just let people live like they want.

Sethayy ,

But like if people keep intentionally misgendering someone, trans people aren’t gonna wanna be in that environment. Those people will feel more safe here than reddit

emptiestplace ,

Pretending it isn’t doesn’t make it isn’t, unfortunately.

Deftdrummer ,

“Leave identity politics out of it” you do realize the modern Democrat party revolves around playing victim and identity politics? They’re not going to let it go now. Need more victims.

pingveno ,

The Republican Party also plays identity politics, especially white and Christian identity politics. A lot of Christians base their identity around the idea of needing to feel persecuted.

rusticus ,

Or the need to hate someone or something. The irony of modern day Jesus worship.

brainrein ,

I don’t understand that. What did Democrats do or say to make you claim they’re “revolving around playing victim and identity politics”? Could you give some examples of that behavior?

I mean, maybe I am too far left or just too European, but from my POV it clearly looks as if it’s the rightwingers who are doing their part of identity politics by fighting the “woke” people vigorously.

While Democrats just want minorities and disadvantaged groups to enjoy the same rights as everybody else. Which I would appreciate.

pingveno ,

I wouldn’t consider that a left-right issue. China’s government would certainly be classed as leftist, but they engage in LGBTQ oppression. It’s been getting better in some ways recently, but they’re no friends to LGBTQ people.

I usually put such issues somewhere along the line of socially liberal/progressive to social conservative.

KeenFlame ,

You just don’t understand normal politics. This American shit is a massive psy op to discourage any politics. Because of more than 2 young people voted, shit would change real fast

t_jpeg ,

I find posts like this so confusing. Does politics, i.e.the policies organisations across the world implement to actively change the way the masses live not directly or indirectly affect your life? Whenever someone says something like this I just assume you’re not within a marginalised group because there’s no way you’d make an enlightened centrist post like this otherwise.

citruslumps ,

The masses inability to not think in binary is the cancer.

Flumsy ,

It sure does but why do we have to bring up political topics (or rather: US politics) all the time? Whats the point in discussing politics (which are always regional) with people that dont even understand it or care (because I doubt you could give educated opinions on the politics of more than a handful of countries)…

And then people like OP feel entitled to generalize all of the people using Lemmy from all over the world as “Leftists” just because some peoole with certain political views cant stop pushing every debate into a political direction.

t_jpeg ,

Liberals and leftists exist elsewhere outside America. There is nothing about the original post that yells exclusivity to America.

Everything has something to do with politics. People saying “stop shoving politics into everything” just don’t like to he confronted with that fact, when some people are forced to confront that fact outside of political discourse every day. There are literally billions of people in poverty around the world due to the direct actions of some of the most powerful governments the world has ever seen. But you and a few people could not possibly even bear seeing a meme talking about Leftists and Liberals because that’s too political hahaha what the fuck.

Flumsy ,

This post was for (quoting OP) “berating [his] ideological opponents because they are losers”. Because, (quoting OP) “to be taken seriosly offline [they] would need to present well-researched […] arguments”. So they do it on Lemmy.

In what world is this meme of any actual value? Generalizing Lemmy as leftist for their agenda, as was admitted in this case (what else could this meme be for?) is not in any way productive, is it?

rusticus ,

Most people (especially in the US) can’t even define what they are IN FAVOR of politically. All they do is denigrate what they think they don’t like, even when it is against their own best interest. Bunch of fucking lemmings we humans are, just waiting to be taken advantage of by the sharks.

Turd_Ferg ,
@Turd_Ferg@sh.itjust.works avatar

This is the only answer

balderdash9 , to memes in Too hasty by far!

When she shuts you down so hard that you reconsider your worth

https://lemmy.zip/pictrs/image/342743f5-54ec-499a-9c3e-610bc5b05d4b.webp

FUCKRedditMods ,

I hate that evolutionary part of me that cares about having sex/a mate so much that I actually allow myself to become depressed based on the goddamn preferences of one person.

For years the only happiness I’ve found has been by removing myself from the market entirely and just writing off the notion of being with someone, a “with no hope/expectations there is no letdown” kind of thing.

I was carrying on just fine like this until I got a beautiful new coworker a few months ago who laughs at even my worst jokes like it’s going out of style. Alas though I’m sure she likes me I know I’m too old for her so here I am just unusually unhappy in my solitude for the first time in years. Ugh, is it time to get on tinder? I fucking hate the whole enterprise of dating.

ThwaitesAwaits ,

Idk if dating is inherently bad, but the soulcrushing drive for profit that has consumed modern dating has defintely made it horrible.

fred ,

How “too old” are we talking here

FUCKRedditMods ,

I’m 84 and she’s 16

demlet ,

Lol

Cypher ,

Are you sure you’re not a reddit mod?

FUCKRedditMods ,

I cant tell if you’re piling on with my joke or if you’re being the joke police, because my first downvote came right when you commented.

Either way I take offense to the accusation.

Justas ,
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Yeah dating someone too young is one thing, but being a Reddit mod is a different thing altogether.

/s before the downvotes.

Rolando ,

Alas though I’m sure she likes me I know I’m too old for her so here I am just unusually unhappy in my solitude for the first time in years.

Just ask her if she knows of any single women your age she can set you up with. If she really likes you, she’ll tell them what a great person you are. Or maybe she can give you tips about where to meet someone, how to ask someone out, etc.

Don’t despair for having a potentially good friendship, those can be just as valuable as physical relationships.

SLaSZT ,
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  • Transcendant ,

    I dated women in their 40s while I was early 20s, we got some funny looks occasionally but generally no-one gave a shit. What two consenting adults do is their own business. Though now I’m in my early 40s, I don’t think I’d have a lot in common with someone at 21; and maintain that just because it’s ‘legal’ doesn’t mean it’s ethical, someone at 18 just does not have the life experience nor fully-formed pre frontal cortex to deal with someone who’s fully-adult. Ripe for abuse imo.

    Ketram ,

    I agree with others, man. What’s the age difference? Because I understand someone being too young (I’m 28 and I’m not sure I could date someone under 24 for example). Just very curious! You never know

    canuckkat ,

    Sounds like you don’t have friends and you expect your partner to be your only source of emotional support. You should fix that before you try to be in a romantic relationship.

    FUCKRedditMods ,

    No YOU sound like you don’t have friends!

    >storms off in a huff

    canuckkat ,

    Cute. I’m not the one who needs to date someone to be happy.

    I hate that evolutionary part of me that cares about having sex/a mate so much that I actually allow myself to become depressed based on the goddamn preferences of one person.

    FUCKRedditMods ,

    Okie dokie everyone, canuckkat is the best of us, he has never felt down for want of a relationship with someone. He just has SO many friends that he’s immune to romantic emotions.

    “Just get more friends bro”

    canuckkat ,

    Not even a he 🤣

    And actually, my friends do fulfill 70% of my emotional needs and I’m pretty good at fulfilling my own needs as well. I have zero desire for a romantic relationship or connection at this point in my life.

    PM_ME_FEET_PICS ,

    Why is this MGTOW post getting upvoted?

    runeko ,
    @runeko@programming.dev avatar

    Because this isn’t someone who hates women. This is someone who simply gave up looking for a partner from frustration or depression. Now, they are deciding to change and passively asking for advice. You know, positive personal growth.

    punkisundead ,

    I hate that evolutionary part of me that cares about having sex/a mate so much that I actually allow myself to become depressed based on the goddamn preferences of one person.

    Hate to break it to you, but you framing this as in inherent part of yourself does not really help in dealing with it. It is something you can absolutely work on and for the sake of your mental health I hope you will be able to do that.

    Transcendant ,

    I wonder if the downvotes are from people who think you sound incel-y. I mean, you do a little bit, but I think a lot of people nowadays identify with that “there’s no point dating” feeling, though are too nervous to voice it. All but the most narcisissistic of us have a little voice in the back of our minds giving ‘sage’ advice about how worthless we are from time to time, and if you’ve dealt with a lot of rejection that only gets reinforced.

    If you do try stuff like tinder, be well advised that it’s a very long shot. You might be better off with a paid service like match.com… my dad found love after his divorce pretty quickly when he joined that site, I assume because anyone who’s paying to be on a dating site is more invested in finding that someone special vs apps like tinder which incentivise short-term approach to dating.

    kescusay , to technology in Blocking is going to be deleted from Twitter
    @kescusay@lemmy.world avatar

    Stop using Twitter. Seriously, people, stop using Twitter. It’s not going to get better.

    meldroc ,

    Think of this as an IQ test. Those that pass come here, those that fail get Zuck’d, Musk’d & Spez’d.

    BreakDecks ,

    It’s the same logic I use to justify barring all Republicans from my life: You’re either so evil that you like what’s going on, or you’re so stupid you don’t notice what’s going on, and either way, I could do without you.

    eestileib ,
    Thorny_Thicket ,

    I get that many people don’t like it and has left but I still haven’t figured out why non-twitter users are urging the rest of us to leave the platform. What do you care? Really

    the_sisko ,

    It seems obvious to me. Twitter has historically been used by public figures, and especially public institutions like local governments, transit agencies, etc, to make official announcements & statements. Of course having that on a centrally owned social media site was never good, but now with Space Karen making it actively hostile to users (and trying to prevent logged out users from seeing that info), it’s very bad. The sooner Twitter completes its inevitable collapse, the sooner those public figures & institutions will move to a better way to deliver those - Mastodon, RSS, webpages, whatever.

    IMO it’s in the public’s best interest for all the holdouts to get out now so we can move on.

    Thorny_Thicket ,

    What if I hang in the art community and none of that has zero relevance to me?

    the_sisko ,

    I mean you still get served the ads that provide them revenue. But it’s not like I’m assigning you personal responsibility for keeping them in business, or saying you’re wrong or bad for staying. Just sharing why I want people to get off the platform quicker.

    Thorny_Thicket ,

    Adblocker deals with that

    Honytawk ,

    Your interactions still fuel the platform

    pinkdrunkenelephants ,

    Get off Twitter, stupid ass

    Yoru ,
    @Yoru@lemmy.ml avatar

    the moment my Japanese artists switch over to another app, I switch. I can’t live without them 😭

    IdleSheep ,

    Most Japanese artists have a Pixiv or Nijie account. You should be able to move most of your follows to those services.

    A lot are also jumping ship to misskey.io, which you can follow if you use mastodon/pleroma/misskey/etc.

    I suspect the small amount of holdouts will soon create an alternative as well.

    jamesoh5 , to mildlyinfuriating in Musk is undeniably just trying to run twitter into the ground at this point.

    As a former individual who understands the underlying systems, it seems like they botched deployment of a new feature causing issues and cannot figure out how to solve them.

    Most of Twitter is and has been in maintenance mode since acquisition (think of 10 man engineering team and 1 left to handle maintenance).

    Captain_Breadbeard ,

    I don’t think I’ve ever met a former individual. What happened? Was it like a Frankenstein thing?

    tox_solid ,
    @tox_solid@lemmy.world avatar

    Former individual is just the politically correct way to say dead guy.

    SJ_Zero ,
    @SJ_Zero@lemmy.fbxl.net avatar

    Actually, he pissed of Captain Janeway and was erased from the timeline.

    Used to be a nice guy before he became a former individual.

    SolarNialamide ,

    Or he got assimilated by the Borg. No longer an individual lol

    linuxgator ,
    @linuxgator@lemmy.world avatar

    Nah, cloning gone wrong.

    qisope ,
    @qisope@lemmy.world avatar

    presumably they joined a hive mind

    Quacksalber ,

    This is why it cracks me up every time when someone is praising Elon for “cutting slack” when firing all those twitter employees. Yes, twitter did not implode immediately. Turns out, people can build software that is stable enough to run in maintenance mode. But good luck dealing with new issues cropping up.

    KairuByte ,
    @KairuByte@lemmy.world avatar

    People too far removed from IT/Dev team can become disillusioned as to what they do.

    If you have a good dev team, you won’t hear about them doing anything until shit hits the fan. If you haven’t heard from them?… They’re doing their job. Leave them alone.

    root ,
    @root@lemmy.world avatar

    I heard similar; That this was the result of a migration away from Googles storage, which was cut off before they had the replacement fully set up. So they lost a ton of data and are severely limited in what they can display.

    This is just what I’ve heard.

    jb007gd ,
    @jb007gd@lemmy.one avatar

    I heard similar; That this was the result of a migration away from Googles storage, which was cut off before they had the replacement fully set up. So they lost a ton of data and are severely limited in what they can display.

    This is just what I’ve heard.

    Saneless ,

    I’ve heard this multiple times from the same person even

    teuast ,

    wow me too, what are the odds

    ricdeh ,
    @ricdeh@lemmy.world avatar

    That’s just what I’ve heard!

    root ,
    @root@lemmy.world avatar

    I heard similar; That this was the result of a migration away from Googles storage, which was cut off before they had the replacement fully set up. So they lost a ton of data and are severely limited in what they can display.

    This is just what I’ve heard.

    root ,
    @root@lemmy.world avatar

    I heard similar; That this was the result of a migration away from Googles storage, which was cut off before they had the replacement fully set up. So they lost a ton of data and are severely limited in what they can display.

    This is just what I’ve heard.

    jamesoh5 ,

    It’s not a result of Google storage. Google served only for data analysis and batch jobs. These would not be sufficient enough to cause service degradation. Just a bad launch of a feature (via server side) that had unintended consequences.

    root ,
    @root@lemmy.world avatar

    I heard similar; That this was the result of a migration away from Googles storage, which was cut off before they had the replacement fully set up. So they lost a ton of data and are severely limited in what they can display.

    This is just what I’ve heard.

    root ,
    @root@lemmy.world avatar

    I heard similar; That this was the result of a migration away from Googles storage, which was cut off before they had the replacement fully set up. So they lost a ton of data and are severely limited in what they can display.

    This is just what I’ve heard.

    NotMartyMcFly ,

    From what I read they refused to pay Google for hosting services when the contract was up for renewal…which was June 30th.

    teuast ,

    A day that will live in Internet infamy.

    13igTyme ,

    Last day of the fiscal quarter. Changes tend to happen.

    13igTyme ,

    Last day of the fiscal quarter. Changes tend to happen.

    Sunrosa ,

    I’ve noticed that my batch image downloader works on maybe 40% of all twitter posts, and only 40% of the time (It used to work 100% of the time before Musk arrived). It’s fucking annoying. I think they’re having major API and CDN issues.

    BartyDeCanter , to programmer_humor in True?

    And… they’re basically all correct. Linux does run on all sort of machines, even really ancient ones. It has a solid command line environment, or rather lots of them. And it’s astounding powerful. Windows does still blue screen, is currently the best place for gaming, and wow is MS fucking you with Win11. Macs can have a cool setup, are really simplified for most users and expensive.

    disguy_ovahea ,

    Macs excel in multimedia creation. It’s not just a cool setup. Yes, I’m prepared for the inevitable downvotes.

    SpaceNoodle ,

    Yeah, more software was written for the more user-friendly computers with the (generally) less-technical userbase.

    disguy_ovahea , (edited )

    Yeah, the people at Pixar have no clue how to use a computer. Lol

    In all seriousness, even the same media software, like Pro Tools, is more versatile on Mac than on Windows. I can say that with first-hand experience.

    The “dumbed-down” Apple device is the iPhone. You get admin privileges on MacOS like a big boy. You can use bash or zsh commands in Terminal all you want.

    SpaceNoodle ,

    Did you miss the word “generally?”

    Having a familiar console is nice, but you still can’t truly tinker with all the nuts and bolts.

    disguy_ovahea , (edited )

    Sure you can. You can even override the T2 chip in Recovery Mode. The thing I miss on an Apple Silicon Mac is installing Windows. It was a big downside for me, so I held onto my Intel Mac until a few years ago. I used to have a tri-boot Mac Pro running Snow Leopard/Windows XP/Red Hat. Then I downgraded to an Intel iMac with macOS/Windows before my M2. I do miss the versatility of Intel Macs.

    BatmanAoD , (edited )

    You get admin privileges on MacOS like a big boy. You can use bash or zsh commands in Terminal all you want.

    Cool. So try updating to a version of Bash from the last 15 years, because the pre-installed one is Bash 3, because Bash 4 and 5 are under the GPLv3 license, which Apple won’t comply with.

    …ah, no, you can’t update the pre-installed Bash, because it’s on a section of the file system that is read-only even with admin access. You can install Bash 5 as a separate shell, and use that as your default terminal shell, but any scripts written with the standard #!/bin/bash instead of the more flexible #!/usr/bin/env bash will still use Bash 3.

    This “handholding” (or really, a safety net) is arguably a good thing, or at least a positive tradeoff; but you can’t claim it doesn’t exist.

    disguy_ovahea , (edited )

    I agree it’s not as limitless as Linux, but there’s plenty of room for advanced users.

    I’ve never needed to use a newer version of Bash. What is an example of something one couldn’t do with Bash 3 or zsh?

    TheGalacticVoid ,

    I get that this is an Apples to Oranges comparison, but Powershell 7 is way easier to use than the default Windows Powershell because of autocomplete. I imagine that newer versions of Bash have made improvements that are similarly powerful.

    disguy_ovahea ,

    Oh, gotcha. I thought you were talking about limitations, not features. My misunderstanding.

    BatmanAoD ,

    It’s not so much a problem of there being things you “can’t do” in other shells or older Bash, as that it breaks existing shell scripts, which is frustrating.

    TrickDacy ,

    I’m not sure what you mean. I have updated bash with a single homebrew command.

    dust_accelerator ,

    The poster you’re replying to was not referring to 3rd party software in user space.

    TrickDacy ,

    Ok, yeah, I can see that there would be times this could matter but like 90% of the time this wouldn’t have mattered for my use case afaik. I didn’t realize you couldn’t backup the old copy in /bin and symlink to the brew one from there. In fact I thought I did do that long ago.

    BatmanAoD ,

    Did you read the linked Q&A?

    What do you get if you run /bin/bash --version?

    TrickDacy ,

    It’s been a long time since I even did this, and I’ve gotten at least one new machine since. I got several replies so I’ll just link my original response: lemmy.world/comment/11431853

    BatmanAoD ,

    Just because it doesn’t matter for most users doesn’t mean it isn’t a real limitation. I acknowledged as much in my original comment.

    computergeek125 ,

    If it’s anything like when I used a Mac regularly 7y ago, Homebrew doesn’t install to /bin, it installs to /usr/local/bin, which only works for scripts that use env in their shell “marker” (if you don’t call it directly with the shell). You’re just putting a higher bash in the path, not truly updating the one that comes with the system.

    paperplane ,

    That’s mostly still true, with the small caveat that the default prefix on arm64 macOS is /opt/homebrew rather than /usr/local, so you might have to add it explicitly to your PATH

    computergeek125 ,

    Oh thank goodness, that was one of my main complaints with the system. Did they ever get around to requiring sudo like Macports (and any other reasonable system level packages manager on BSD/Linux)?

    TrickDacy ,

    It’s been a long time since I even did this, and I’ve gotten at least one new machine since. I got several replies so I’ll just link my original response: lemmy.world/comment/11431853

    computergeek125 ,

    Gotcha. Yeah low level Unix has some weird stuff going on sometimes.

    RecluseRamble ,

    Yeah, the people at Pixar have no clue how to use a computer. Lol

    Do you really expect their artists to be IT experts? You seem to be stuck in the early 90s mindset when “knowing how to use a computer” covered all disciplines.

    MonkderVierte , (edited )

    Weren’t they the guys who made Gimp to Gimp Studio or something like that?

    Vilian ,

    they actually use linux for render

    ggtdbz ,

    I don’t think I’ll ever be a Mac user but I’ve seen how fast these newer MacBooks edit video on battery power without breaking a sweat (and without eating through the battery).

    People focus on “software magic” with Apple but the M chips are serious hardware that a lot of us don’t take seriously because the company that killed the iPod made them.

    disguy_ovahea ,

    What’s interesting is the Apple CoreAudio system on iOS and macOS is as good as it is from their experience developing the iPod. For years after the iPod was discontinued, audiophiles were paying top dollar for used iPod Classics, just for the high quality DAC. The low-latency and high quality of CoreAudio is one of the reasons Pro Tools works better on Mac than on Windows.

    ggtdbz ,

    Oh, I’m well aware. Every few months I search online for used Classics in working condition in my area because that’s a project I’m interested in, but I haven’t committed to it yet. Maybe I should as they are apparently getting expensive and harder to find everywhere.

    disguy_ovahea ,

    Do yourself a favor and swap the battery when you do the storage. The most challenging part of the job is carefully prying apart the housing without causing cosmetic damage.

    YtA4QCam2A9j7EfTgHrH , to insanepeoplefacebook in A compelling theory.

    This is extremely compelling. Let’s get the world’s billionaires and the six conservatives on the US Supreme Court to investigate it in an amateur built submarine. Rich people love the titanic and lack of regulations.

    Frozengyro ,

    Let’s not leave out other political extremists, can’t just have America investigating.

    11111one11111 ,

    Great idea except Windows has bricked all non-xbox gaming controllers /s

    YtA4QCam2A9j7EfTgHrH ,

    We don’t have to tell the billionaires this

    BambiDiego ,

    I’m sure I got a MadCatz controller lying somewhere, use that

    ICastFist ,
    @ICastFist@programming.dev avatar

    Just use x360ce, nothing can go wrong with a layer of controller emulation!

    samus12345 , to memes in Nuclear isn't perfect, but it is the best we have right now.
    @samus12345@lemmy.world avatar

    The irony of Homer Simpson representing safe nuclear energy…

    MyOtherInstanceIsDown ,
    uis ,

    Well, it took much effort for Homer to blow up NPP

    Kecessa , (edited ) to funny in I AM HERE TO REMIND YOU.

    For those like me who don’t listen to Alanis

    You oughta know:

    I want you to know

    That I’m happy for you

    I wish nothing, but

    The best for you both

    An older version of me

    Is she perverted like me?

    Would she go down on you in a theatre?

    Does she speak eloquently?

    And would she have your baby?

    I’m sure she’d make a really excellent mother

    'Cause the love that you gave that we made

    Wasn’t able to make it enough for you to be open wide

    No, and every time you speak her name

    Does she know how you told

    Me you’d hold me until you died?

    'Til you died, but you’re still alive

    And I’m here, to remind you

    Of the mess you left when you went away

    It’s not fair, to deny me

    Of the cross I bear that you gave to me

    You, you, you oughta know

    You seem very well

    Things look peaceful

    I’m not quite as well

    I thought you should know

    Did you forget about me Mr. Duplicity?

    I hate to bug you in the middle of dinner

    But it was a slap in the face

    How quickly I was replaced

    And are you thinking of me when you fuck her

    'Cause the love that you gave that we made

    Wasn’t able to make it enough for you to be open wide

    No, and every time you speak her name

    Does she know how you told me

    You’d hold me until you died?

    'Til you died, but you’re still alive

    And I’m here, to remind you

    Of the mess you left when you went away

    It’s not fair, to deny me

    Of the cross I bear that you gave to me

    You, you, you oughta know

    'Cause the joke that you laid in the bed that was me

    And I’m not gonna fade as soon as you close your eyes

    And you know it

    And every time I scratch my nails

    Down someone else’s back, I hope you feel it

    Now can you feel it?

    'Cause I’m here, to remind you

    Of the mess you left when you went away

    It’s not fair to deny me

    Of the cross I bear that you gave to me

    You, you, you oughta know

    Why I’m here, to remind you

    Of the mess you left when you went away

    It’s not fair, to deny me

    Of the cross I bear that you gave to me

    You, you, you oughta know

    Rai ,

    I’ve heard this song a thousand times growing up and never actually listened to the words. Wild. Good stuff.

    Glytch ,

    Important note: she’s singing to Dave Coulier, Uncle Joey from Full house, who used Alanis to cheat on his wife.

    Rai ,

    That is some VERY juice background info. Thank you hahaha

    VaultBoyNewVegas ,

    Alanis was also only like 18 or 19 at the time and he was at least 10 years older.

    obviouspornalt ,

    I mean, he still is at least 10 years older.

    UntitledQuitting ,

    at least

    CH3DD4R_G0BL1N ,
    @CH3DD4R_G0BL1N@sh.itjust.works avatar

    Cut. It. Out.

    zalgotext ,

    ✌️👉👍

    MacNCheezus ,
    @MacNCheezus@lemmy.today avatar

    Sometimes I wonder how many millennials have attachment disorders simply because we grew up with this song being pretty much inescapable for almost a decade.

    Like, yeah, she’s talented but has anyone ever studied what it does to a young mind when you grow up in a culture that blasts its relationship drama in song format 24/7 everywhere from the car radio to the supermarket, followed by The Offspring’s The Kids Aren’t Alright and Linkin Park’s Crawling?

    In chronological order, it reads like a descent into madness if you ask me.

    feedum_sneedson ,

    I’m going to go out on a limb and say none. Being abandoned by my parents gave me attachment issues, this is just a song.

    MacNCheezus ,
    @MacNCheezus@lemmy.today avatar

    Being abandoned into a world that processes its relationship drama for profit by playing it 24/7 in all public areas

    GregorGizeh ,

    People outside the anglosphere were/are being blasted with American pop music just the same, with only a fraction of them understanding anything beyond the hook of any song. And those are simarly fucked up, so my guess is the effect is zero.

    AFC1886VCC ,

    Someone really fucked her over lol those lyrics are something

    Notyou ,
    Notyou ,
    jol , to funny in It's so over

    Captchas te not meant to deter all bots. It’s meant to make it ever so slightly expensive that a mass DDOS attack would be extremely expensive to perform. Think like thousand sof requests per second, all being Captcha’d and how much it costs to run AI. It’s current not a feasible solution.

    There is cheaper AI that can solve Captchas though, and it’s only gonna get cheaper.

    frezik ,

    It’s long been cheap enough that you can pay a call center full of people in a developing country to solve them for you. Going to be a while before AI is cheaper than that.

    Having used them to protect a few web sites from spammers filling up forms, they do cut down on the bullshit. This makes things more convenient for the people reading the information coming in from those forms, but I sometimes wonder if it’s worth the cost of everyone else having to pick out the bicycles in the picture.

    Anticorp ,

    They can’t solve them a million times per minute though.

    Ballistic_86 ,

    I believe this is why Google, and a few other companies, have started using behavioral analysis to figure out if you are human. Did your mouse wonder around the page before clicking to verify? Did you come from another website as if browsing the web? What device are you using and have you used it on this site before? Are you logged into an account? I’m sure they use many more factors, but it’s something that would be hard to replicate with bot behavior on a consistent basis (for now).

    jol ,

    Basically yeah, but that has been the case since almost the start of recaptcha. Fingerprinting just got so good to the point that the visual test was not even needed anymore.

    brbposting ,

    Apple and Cloudflare are using “Private Access Tokens

    https://sh.itjust.works/pictrs/image/cefd0835-a59c-4dd6-a30f-c74fb831ad77.png

    Some negative implications for the open web I believe

    Cethin ,

    Also, captchas are meant to gather data to train on. That’s why we used to have pictures of writing, but that’s basically solved now. It’s why we now have a lot of self driving vehicle focused ones now, like identifying busses, bikes, traffic lights/signs, and that sort of thing.

    Captchas get humans to label data so the ML algorithms can train on it, eventually being able to identify the tests themselves.

    Anticorp ,

    Now it’s making me identify developed pictures from a photo negative. I’m not quite sure what they’re going to do with that training since computers can already perform that task.

    TheOakTree ,

    Also the “select the image below containing the example image above.”

    Like… we already have computers that can recognize image repetitions.

    Cethin ,

    So that’s almost certainly trying to gather data to defeat data poisoning. The other image is probably slightly altered in a way you can’t detect.

    bitwolf ,

    A common OCR tactic is to turn the image negative and bump the contrast to make text easier to recognize.

    It could be a precursor for that step.

    hperrin , to linuxmemes in toxic help forum

    I feel like it would be helpful to include the text of their post rather than just the title:

    TL;DR Sorry if this is wrong group. GIMP = Epic POS. Do not use. Please recommend a decent alternative. Don’t waste your time with GIMP help because I am done.

    I hope the mods or the bots don’t kill this post right away. It’s a serious and legitimate question from a UX designer with several decades of experience, who doesn’t want anyone else to suffer what I have. I didn’t know where else to post it, so I’m trying here as a first-timer. I apologize if this is not in the spirit of the group.

    I quit Adobe, can’t afford the price any more (long story). I thought GIMP could replace Photoshop. But the user interface is horrible, and the app is full o’ bugs.

    Here’s the straw that broke the camel’s back.

    I tried to make a meme. The font selection overlay was a tiny, pathetic, hard to read joke. Not even a font selection dropdown, let alone one that provided previews with every line item like PS does. Deep breath, continue. I type “Impact”. Red text. I backspaced and typed “Im”. All I got was Impact Condensed. (Yes, I have Impact, and have used it in PS). So I picked it anyway. Then I tried to find the outline font feature. In Photoshop, it’s a simple “choose stroke” feature. GIMP? Hello?

    I want to the Web to find a tutorial where it pointed out the feature. No luck. Searched again to find a workaround / hack. Mostly crap. Found one that was current and seemed decent. Followed it carefully. GIMP crashed.

    While I appreciate the thoughts of anyone who may be compelled to point out a simple workaround or feature that I missed, don’t bother. This is the last of many dozens of problems I have wasted my time working around while suffering many crashes, and I already uninstalled it.

    So. Recommendations?

    reddit.com/…/can_anyone_recommend_a_suitable_repl…

    I think it’s also worth giving the correction that there is a font selection dropdown with previews in GIMP. It’s to the left of the font input box.

    snowsuit2654 ,
    @snowsuit2654@lemmy.blahaj.zone avatar

    I use gimp but OP isn’t wrong. Doing a stroke on text is mindless in Photoshop and very convoluted in gimp.

    pennomi ,

    GIMP needs the Blender treatment honestly. Inkscape too. That would cover the vast majority of what I do art-wise.

    filcuk ,

    Inkscape has been a lifesaver many times, but it’s packed like a shit in a bag.

    I can’t believe they still use the old file selection on windows without a path input box. I literally can not open a file from my network drive. It doesn’t even remember the last path!
    The easiest workflow I found is to just copy projects to downloads for editing.

    Besides other things.

    NorthWestWind ,
    @NorthWestWind@lemmy.world avatar

    What’s wrong with Inkscape? It’s meant to be a vector graphics editor

    possiblylinux127 ,

    Gimp 3 might clear some of that up we will see

    Hackworth ,

    I hear good things about Krita.

    Zacryon ,

    From my amateur experience Krita is really nice for drawing, painting and sketching, especially if you have a graphic tablet, as it bundles commonly used features and makes them easily accessible.
    But it is by far not a sophisticated image manipulation program such as GIMP, which comes with a plethora of more features you’ll probably not use if you’re just doing some “typical Krita stuff”.

    bufalo1973 ,
    @bufalo1973@lemmy.ml avatar

    I think the better use is create with Krita, retouch with GIMP.

    laurelraven ,

    I found I could get Krita to work well with my Wacom tablet easily while Gimp was a mess for it and I never did figure that out… So I used Krita when I needed to draw, but for most everything else I found Gimp easier to get things done

    mvirts ,

    Lmao tried to make a meme, cant because addicted to adobe.

    KillingTimeItself ,

    “several decades of experience”

    skill issue central, lets’s go.

    DashboTreeFrog , to memes in Lazy Duck

    After trying a search, opened Lemmy to see if it was my connection, immediately see this meme. Thanks for the troubleshooting confirmation Lemmy

    DmMacniel ,

    Remember when we did that on that R-Site? Things never changes.

    ekZepp OP ,
    @ekZepp@lemmy.world avatar

    Sites does 😂

    superfes , to linuxmemes in making fun of windows is our most treasured tradition

    But you haven’t clicked yes on any of the offers yet…

    barsquid ,

    Let’s set up your subscription to your own hardware! Continue / remind me later?

    KISSmyOSFeddit ,

    Would you like to back up your folders to OneDrive?
    It would be a shame if something were to happen to your files!

    AllNewTypeFace , to lemmyshitpost in Choose your difficulty
    @AllNewTypeFace@leminal.space avatar

    Australia has a somewhat threadbare welfare state, though is more of a social democracy than the UK. And snakes and spiders are easier to avoid than Tories.

    CetaceanNeeded ,

    You are several orders of magnitude more likely to be killed by another human than an animal or insert in Australia.

    Cypher ,

    Well that just makes sense.

    Through selection pressures the only surviving Australians are highly venomous.

    tastysnacks ,

    Have you ever been fucked up by an Emu?

    ThrowawayPermanente ,

    Trick question, Emus don’t leave behind survivors. Or witnesses.

    HappycamperNZ ,

    They leave witnesses.

    They just trust the drop bears to hold up their end of the bargain.

    DosDude , to lemmyshitpost in Choose your difficulty
    @DosDude@retrolemmy.com avatar

    Really? How displaced is your view if you consider the USA easy mode?

    Also, fuck Mexico. Apparently.

    Everythingispenguins ,

    Haven’t you heard? Mexico doesn’t exist it is just drawn on the map to make people think that Canada and The United States are to the rest of the American Continent. Everyone who says they are from Mexico are just paid actors. /s

    Also they left out New Zealand, which will not come as a surprise for New Zealanders. They will probably be happy that they are even on the map.

    mauwuro ,
    @mauwuro@lemmy.ml avatar

    I can confirm that, I’m being paid to said I’m Mexican 🌮 viva México!!

    they pay me with tacos btw

    saltesc ,

    You’re not doing a good job. Australia doesn’t exist, yet the “Australians” managed to be included in this meme.

    HappycamperNZ ,

    They mean West New Zealand

    sanpedropeddler ,

    It might belong there depending on what they mean by easy. Its pretty vague

    tiefling ,

    It really depends on your race and starting stats

    PP_BOY_ ,
    @PP_BOY_@lemmy.world avatar

    Or the former Bloc states

    paddirn ,

    Mexico is just the US with a yellow camera filter.

    Rolder ,

    At the end of the day, while living in the US does have its share of issues, they absolutely do not compare to living in Africa.

    brbposting , (edited )

    Not to downplay how horrible life can be anywhere for someone who’s not healthy, wealthy, and typical:

    https://sh.itjust.works/pictrs/image/5317ea5d-8c86-4291-b03a-794418c08e9c.jpeg

    Different by a factor of 187.

    187 years in South Sudan to equate a year income in the US.*

    Wiki GDP Per Capita PPP

    *edited, thanks below

    ThrowawayPermanente ,

    To equal a month’s income, you mean?

    brbposting ,

    Believe that’s yearly.

    ThrowawayPermanente ,

    If the difference is a factor of 187 wouldn’t you need 187 years in South Dudan to equal a year’s income in the US? 187 / 12 is just over 15, but now you’re comparing years to months

    brbposting ,

    Doh!! Bad math! Thanks, edited.

    brbposting ,

    Think I meant 15 years in South Sudan = one month in USA

    umbrella ,
    @umbrella@lemmy.ml avatar

    it would not change the result this time, but these numbers lie a lot if you don’t factor in cost of living.

    raspberriesareyummy ,

    There’s a bunch of African countries I would rather live than the US, although maybe not exactly South Africa or Congo…

    Rolder ,

    Such as?

    raspberriesareyummy ,

    Namibia, Kenya, Mauritius, Ghana, Botswana, The Gambia, Senegal, Sierra Leone, Tanzania, Uganda, Malawi, Equatorial Guinea.

    tomatol ,

    A bunch of African countries rank higher than the US in the HPI happyplanetindex.org/hpi/?show_all=true

    Rolder ,

    That website is using the nations carbon footprint as a part of their measure of happiness which I find confusing. Carbon footprint is important sure but it doesn’t relate to happiness and gives undeveloped countries an advantage.

    RaoulDook ,

    Well go right ahead then. I’m going to stay in my comfortable home here in the USA though.

    raspberriesareyummy ,

    each to their own :)

    Socsa ,

    No, America bad. Lemmy doot left side. Calcium

    Sidhean ,

    I clapped and good bones

    hardcoreufo ,

    Mexico mode is only available once a year on May Fifth. It then disappears until next the next year.

    JoShmoe ,

    All of central america, the caribbean, greenland, japan, hawaii, and new zealand were all unaccounted for. Probably will be included in the dlc

    HappycamperNZ ,

    Probably called the settlers and shogun expansion.

    KillingTimeItself ,

    and canada, USA plus canada is easy mode. Australia is on some shit right now, they deserve it.

    IDK what the others are except for europe and africa, which, yeah that’s about right. Africa is a hot fucking minute away from some spicy shit at the moment, and the other one is probably the same.

    GiveMemes ,

    What?

    KillingTimeItself ,

    aussie land is currently imprisoning a whistleblower exposing warcrimes, as well as reams of government corruption scandals. Africa is undergoing numerous disliked governments, coups, and corruption scandals as well.

    USA and canada is pretty tame otherwise.

    GiveMemes ,

    Good assessment but its not like the US isnt just as bad as Australia if not worse. Thanks for the translation tho.

    KillingTimeItself ,

    idk man, i would say that australia is probably worse than the US, especially considering that they got fucking couped by the us a hot minute ago.

    Currently australia is whoring its resources out to the world, while shipping all of it’s realestate overseas to be owned by foreign investment companies. While fucking people over with shit like made up robo debt collection for some unforsaken reason.

    daniskarma ,

    How many countries would be easier than USA?

    DosDude ,
    @DosDude@retrolemmy.com avatar

    Any country with actual welfare, a decent living wage minimum salary, normal Healthcare prices, a gun ban and a non-corrupt police system or at least less prone to corruption.

    daniskarma ,

    I live in Europe. It’s not as beauty as it sounds. I’m glad of what we have, but is not perfect, sometimes is not even better than the USE.

    We have welfare, but more and more people are forced to private medical companies because waiting lists are becoming ridiculously long.

    Violence and support for fascism is on the rise. Terrorism is on the rise. War is at our doorsteps. Many countries are talking about bringing back mandatory military training for all our citizens.

    We may have better minimum wage, but median wages are lower and taxes and prices tend to be much higher. On average we can afford tu buy less with out money.

    At least in my country we all live in small dehumanizing small and packed apartments. Living space is much smaller. Everything is human made, we barely have natural reserves or parks.

    Employment is getting better but sometimes unemployment hits really hard, myself was years without being able to get a job during last decade.

    Political tensions and population conflict is on the rise. Many countries are also on the verge or civil war, secession, or some big problem of the sort.

    US is not perfect, and I wouldn’t want privatized healthcare, or guns in my country by any means, but I would still would love some things they have in the US. And in other things we are just as bad.

    summerof69 ,

    That still makes USA easy mode compared to most countries.

    MystikIncarnate ,

    Yeah, they’re still behind most other “first world” countries in every metric stated.

    Comparing the USA to a country in the middle East or Africa or something? Yeah, the USA is a cakewalk by comparison to many. Compared to any country that’s similarly regarded, it’s dog shit for living conditions.

    nifty ,
    @nifty@lemmy.world avatar

    “Middle East” countries do pretty well if they’re not the target of bombings (Qatar, UAE etc.), and are luxury vacation spots. Lots of US expats moving to Oman.

    angstylittlecatboy , (edited )

    USA is Easy mode. It’s just that Western Europe, Australia, Japan, and Canada are Very Easy mode.

    teft , to science_memes in Turn up the heat
    @teft@lemmy.world avatar
    Canadian_Cabinet ,

    The greater good.

    MajorMajormajormajor ,

    Shut it!

    janus2 ,
    @janus2@lemmy.zip avatar

    10/10 matching gif response

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