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Crashumbc , to asklemmy in What jobs were you horrified to learn are done by people with little to no experience or training?

Sheriff is an elected position in the US no experience required.

Bonus answer, president of the United States, we’ve elected two mentally deficient celebrities so far…

Potatos_are_not_friends ,

There’s stories of small towns hiring sheriff’s which were related to the mayor.

And John Oliver’s dive into Sheriff’s in this Guardian Article: Tremendous amount of authority with low accountability’

Police reform is a uphill battle.

itsonlygeorge ,
  1. Reagan
  2. Trump

Don’t forget George W. Bush. Not a celebrity bit certainly an idiot.

pingveno ,

Worst are “constitutional sheriffs,” who claim the power and duty to defy or disregard laws they regard as unconstitutional (read: I don’t like this). They essentially try to reign supreme in their counties.

LesserAbe , to nostupidquestions in a 320 year old elf marries an 80 year old human: Is the elf robbing the cradle, or the grave?

Seems to be the elf is setting themselves up to receive the human’s inheritance money. If they play their cards right they could pull this scam many times

henfredemars ,

Ah, the practical problem solver.

xantoxis , to nostupidquestions in 4ish years ago when I bought a house I was convinced not to get a house inspection, would it be crazy to get one now just to make sure it's all good?

I’m not trying to give you shit here OP, you did what you did 4 years ago and you’re thinking of doing something about it now so it’s all good, but:

this is so astronomically expensive every penny saved is good…”

This is so astronomically expensive that I can’t imagine caring about 300 bucks to see if anything is horrifically wrong with it. Seriously folks, get an inspection if you’re buying a house! This would be like, I dunno, taking a job without talking to a single person who works there, except at least with the job you can quit without wasting thousands of dollars! The inspection could save your life!

KingJalopy ,

I might have cancer but it’s so expensive to actually find out. I’d rather just ride it out and wait until the damage becomes irreversible…

Get the inspection!!

njm1314 ,

That’s actually my strategy.

PhobosAnomaly ,

I can only provide anecdotal experience, but my old girl found her dream house. Old mining cottage type terraced house, immaculate renovation inside, great hillside views, nice enough place overall…

…she instructed her surveyor to have a look and he told her to run like fuck, the shared wall was pretty much the only thing keeping the house upright - his words were clearly a reduction of some larger issues, but that saved a repair and insurance nightmare.

They’re pricey, yes - but they can save you an exponentially larger amount of money.

Funkmaster-Hex ,

I was saved by an inspection as well. Not to pile on but you should just get it done OP. Also FUCK YOUR REALTOR (they're very sleazy/immoral - you should not have coitus with them). There are several reasons why realtors hate inspections and any good realtor will insist you get one.

echodot ,

Mine did not want me to get an inspection on a property. I have to insist.

Honestly they need better regulation.

ryathal ,

The costs of home maintenance are pretty crazy if you aren’t prepared. The cost of an inspection is basically nothing compared to furnace, a/c, roof, windows, siding, flooring, or structural repair. Most appliances cost the same or more than an inspection as well.

ericbomb OP ,

Hey man I didn’t say it was smart!

And it was one of those things where it’s like I had X amount of money, and afterwards I was going to have not much money at all. So spending $300 more of that tiny remaining money was uncomfortable.

stoy , to asklemmy in If you had an idle animation like in video games, what would it be?

Like everyone else in the western world, looking at my phone.

AlligatorBlizzard ,

Have there been any video games that have done this for an idle animation?

bloubz ,

At the top of my head I know Overwatch has looking at phone emotes but it’s not an automatic idle animation

Fisch ,
@Fisch@discuss.tchncs.de avatar

Someone should mod this into Cyberpunk

SwearingRobin ,

IIRC, the Sims sometimes check their phones in the Sims 4. Sometimes even while walking somewhere.

GuyFi ,

Going Under does this

jordanlund ,
@jordanlund@lemmy.world avatar

Doomscrolling.

Annoyed_Crabby ,

This is the most accurate answer for 80% of the people on the internet.

SorteKanin , to asklemmy in Professional Scientists of Lemmy: What is your field of study's, most complex unanswered question?
@SorteKanin@feddit.dk avatar

If the solution to a problem is easy to check for correctness, must the problem be easy to solve?

For instance, it is easy to check if a filled sudoku grid is a valid solution. Must it therefore be easy to solve sudokus?

Most people would probably intuitively answer “no”, and most computer scientists agree, but this has still not been proven, so we actually don’t know.

Risus_Nex ,

Isn’t it proof enough? Using the Sudoku example: there are certainly different levels of difficulties, depending on how many numbers are set in the beginning and other parameters. Checking if the solved answer is correct, is always the same “difficulty” - thus there is no correlation between the difficulty of the puzzle at the beginning and checking the Correctness. Some people might not be able to solve it, but they certainly can check if the solution is right

SorteKanin ,
@SorteKanin@feddit.dk avatar

Isn’t it proof enough?

Unfortunately no. The question is a simplification of the P versus NP problem.

The problem lies in having to prove that no method exists that is easy. How do you prove that no matter what method you use to solve the sudoku, it can never be done easily? You’ll need to somehow prove that no such method exists, but that is rather hard. In principle, it could be that there is some undiscovered easy way to solve sudokus that we don’t know about yet.

I’m using sudokus as an example here, but it could be a generic problem. There’s also a certain formalism about what “easy” means but I won’t get into it further, it is a rather complicated area.

Interestingly, it involves formal languages a lot, which is funny as you wouldn’t think computer science and linguistics have a lot in common, but they do in a lot of ways actually.

Phen ,

You can solve any sudoku easily by trying every possible combination and seeing if they are correct. It’ll take a long time, but it’s fairly easy.

SorteKanin ,
@SorteKanin@feddit.dk avatar

Well it just so happens that the definition of “easy” in the actual problem is essentially “fast”. So under that definition, checking every single possible solution is not an “easy” method.

Nomecks , (edited )

What if the sudoku is 1 milllion lines by 1 million lines? How about a trillion by a trillion? The answer is still easy to check, but it takes exponentially longer to solve the board as the board gets larger. That’s the jist of the problem: Is there a universal solution to a problem like this that can solve any size sudoku before the heat death of the universe?

quilan ,

For the purposes of OPs problem (P v NP), it considers not particular solutions, but general algorithmic approaches. Thus, we consider things as either Hard (exponential time, by size of input), or Easy (only polynomial time, by size of input).

A number of important problems fall into this general class of Hard problems: Sudoku, Traveling Salesman, Bin Packing, etc. These all have initial setups where solving them takes exponential time.

On the other hand, as an example of an easy problem, consider sorting a list of numbers. It’s really easy to determine if a lost is sorted, and it’s always relatively fast/easy to sort the list, no matter what setup it had initially.

kromem ,

Well, there’s counterfactual examples of this, so it must not be true.

In pretty much every single relationship worldwide, one person can very easily determine if the recommendation from the other for where to eat or what to watch is correct or not.

And yet successfully figuring out where to eat or what to watch is nigh impossible.

arthur ,

I think there’s a fighter further* problem, it may be true and we just don’t know the easy way to do it.

DrJenkem , (edited )
@DrJenkem@lemmy.blugatch.tube avatar

Most people would probably intuitively answer “no”, and most computer scientists agree, but this has still not been proven, so we actually don’t know.

I disagree, I think most computer scientists believe that P != NP, at least when it comes to classical computers. If we believed that P = NP, then why would we bother with encryption?

EDIT: nvm, I misread it.

SorteKanin ,
@SorteKanin@feddit.dk avatar

I think you’ve misunderstood 😅. Answering “no” to that question corresponds to P != NP (there are problems that are easy to verify but not easy to solve), while “yes” means P = NP (if a solution is easy to check, the problem must be easy to solve). So I am saying most people and most scientists believe P != NP exactly as you say.

DrJenkem ,
@DrJenkem@lemmy.blugatch.tube avatar

Reading comprehension is hard my bad.

Edit: wait no, it’s “easy” I’m just dumb.

azulavoir ,

I think my favorite troll statement to a mathematician/comp scientist is:

“Actually, P > NP - there exist problems where it’s harder to verify a solution than to arrive at one”

sunbeam60 ,

That’s actually the simplest and clearest description of the P/NP problem I’ve ever read.

Potatos_are_not_friends , to nostupidquestions in Why is currency so essential?

https://lemmy.world/pictrs/image/c31cac70-0c59-49f7-b679-81fd9c93b873.jpeg

Simpsons meme aside –

Those with currency can have significantly more options than those without it. I’m of a privileged state where if I wanted to drop everything and visit another country for two weeks, there’s nothing stopping me financially. Not many people have that luxury.

otp ,

Your comment made me realize that OP wasn’t asking about why we need currency as a society, but why people keep trying to get more money.

I hate when the post title and post content ask two seemingly different questions, lol

Daft_ish OP ,

It’s a hard question to ask. I’d rather pin down why it’s essential then ask why it’s deemed the only thing that is essential.

Potatos_are_not_friends ,

it’s essential then ask why it’s deemed the only thing that is essential.

This is a very blanket statement and going to need a source here.

Daft_ish OP , (edited )

People… deem money… you kddn me?

Jokster.

Potatos_are_not_friends ,

No not really.

Buddhist scripture believes in achieving enlightenment, yogi aim for inner peace, all sorts of subgroups and cultures like indigenous people put family first.

You’re not providing a source to where this is truth, so it seems like you’re putting this pressure on yourself. And you need to dig into yourself why YOU believe currency is all that matters.

Daft_ish OP ,

Even if I were “putting pressure on myself” your inclination is that I’m the one who has deemed money the most essential thus providing you with your sought out evidence. Now kind sir, I say good day.

Potatos_are_not_friends ,

That’s fair.

Hope you discover other alternatives because there’s a wide world/groups of people out there that don’t believe money is the sole focus of life.

xmunk ,

Lemmy supports editing posts, deleting posts and making new posts - if a question is obtuse the author can always take it down and post something more precise and less open to misinterpretation. Of it’s a language barrier issue I’m sympathetic but this just seems to have been a needlessly clickbaity title.

AtariDump ,
otp ,

Providing clarification is important…but to me, it seems prudent to just ask what one actually wants to know in the first place.

Potatos_are_not_friends ,

Honestly XY is hard to put into practice.

It wants the Asker to elevate themselves to the level of thinking as the Answerer and also have the forethought to ask “the right question”.

But it lacks the perspective of what it means to be new at something. When you’re new, you have no context of what the hell anything is. So you throw spaghetti at the wall and ask is this how you make pasta.

If it’s a culture where stupid questions are allowed and people are willing to be mentors… Just ask your question.

otp ,

I think in this case, the OP should’ve just chosen one question and put it in the title, then left the post text blank.

If the question they wanted to know didn’t get answered, they could’ve had conversations with the commenters where they gave more detail about why they asked the question.

A post consisting of two different questions in two different places (and nothing else) just seems counterintuitive to me.

Daft_ish OP ,

Whoa dude, just answer the question. If answering or asking doesn’t appeal to you just move on.

I thoroughly enjoy all the answers I’ve received and the discussion around it. Sorry I don’t live up to your “no stupid questions” question standard.

some_guy ,

God, that was such a funny joke back in the day. One of the moments where the writers were at the top of their game.

bardmoss , to asklemmy in who is on Lemmy (the sociology of Lemmy)

I am probably blowing the statistics way out, but I’m 71, a podcaster on three shows, no degree, no computer experience except personal, poor, living in a trailer, in Eastern Tennessee.

Track_Shovel ,

Bruh

SnotFlickerman ,
@SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone avatar

Podcast links? Please and thank you. Sounds interesting.

bardmoss ,
SnotFlickerman ,
@SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone avatar

Thanks so much for the update!

user224 ,
@user224@lemmy.sdf.org avatar

You still didn’t answer the most important question of Lemmy, though. ^(joke)^

Do you use GNU+Linux?

BlueEther ,
@BlueEther@no.lastname.nz avatar

sometimes it is a good reference point though

BlueEther ,
@BlueEther@no.lastname.nz avatar

i think ive seen a few in your age bracket. there seems to be a good amount that must be around the 50+ mark

LanternEverywhere ,

Love it! Glad to have you here!

PrincessLeiasCat ,

You sound kind of amazing.

livus ,
@livus@kbin.social avatar

That's the perspective I need. Clicked follow.

confuser OP ,

sounds like many would love to see your podcast! myself included

bardmoss ,

Well it’s kind of hard to see an audio podcast. Although mintcast does broadcast its uncut show on YouTube, my others are audio only.

OttoVonNoob , (edited ) to asklemmy in What is the most horrifying thing you've seen on the internet that didn't involve gore?

I am an amateur historian. I remember someone posted something completely wrong to push an anti immigrant agenda, like Muslims and Christians have never lived in harmony in history. I then pointed our Jerusalem constantly switching hands and pilgrim rights being respected, Coptics living under Mamalukian rule peacefully and overall under Ottomon rule 600 years later there’s still large swaths of Orthodox in Turkey just to name a few times. I got bombarded with comments, dms, all my posts on reddit were like downvoted and this crowd followed me to other subreddits to downvote and trash talk. Someone posted you follow R/Hometown so your from X Hometown. It was a very weird situation and I reported it all, it cleared up but I’m 60% I was targeted for being an active poster who leans left. I genuanlly thought I was one step from being doxxed…

tetris11 ,
@tetris11@lemmy.ml avatar

there are entire villages in northern cyprus where they speak Greek to one another, only switching to Turkish when a foreigner walks in the room.

There are monasteries and mosques dotting the countryside in equal measure

lemmy_user_838586 , (edited )

I’ve experiences this on Lemmy and have blocked some instance, but probably just gonna give up on Lemmy too. I think I’m over talking to people (or bots? Who knows…) on the internet. It’s all bullshit anyway, politics, memes, advertising, blah, blah that doesn’t actually provide any meaning or positive things to my life. I was a passive observer of the internet for a long time before getting more active on reddit, and then Lemmy. I’m so tired of having to defend my opinions and people trying to start arguments out of nothing, and I don’t care enough to research political shit to provide a truly airtight argument before someone tears it apart, or whatever else other fight someone is trying to start on any given day. At one point I was arguing about something with someone, and we both had the same position: “Trump is bad”, but for some reason they were really going after me, even though we’re on the same side, because i was consuming “too much conspiracy news” thinking that the 2024 election was gonna get violent from Trump’s supporters. Really just over the social aspect of the internet in general, to be honest.

OttoVonNoob ,

Modern misinformation is often let’s find some common ground so I may “Seem” altruistic. It’s unfortunate as common ground us the best way to reach people but it now being weaponized. “Trump is bad but atleast he’s not Biden, who is supporting the genocide in Gaza!!” Like Trump wouldn’t be doing the same shit, like come on…

lemmy_user_838586 ,

Yup, yup. Really sick of having to defend a fact that a color is red, because someone else calls it magenta and now I have to go back and explain color theory and try to have an airtight persuasive argument to ‘win’ for something as obvious as a color… Or Trump…

OttoVonNoob ,

It’s all apart of the plan, muddy the water, cause static, tire people out. I seen some mega bullshit bait posts of late on Lemmy of late (foreign bride stuff?). It’s best to downvote move on and not write 9 paragraphs but just say look heres the article sum in 2 sentences and move on. So atleast if someone follows the conversation they can say “we’ll here’s proof so I won’t bite on the troll bait”.

lemmy_user_838586 , (edited )

Ahh , case in point, downvoters to the rescue.

kromem , (edited )

Your experience of that is pretty much the key reason I’ve not bothered to explain this outside of a very limited specialist community I owed a lot to as I was putting it together.

I keep seeing new finds that would be really interesting to discuss, and I kind of hate seeing users confused about their own ancestral history while sitting knowing the answers, but I’ll be damned if I’m going to be the one putting controversial answers out there in a more public way.

People are fucking nuts and it seems each day care less and less about actual truth and facts and more about tribalism and confirmation bias to the point of irrationality.

Over the next few years a lot of stuff will be identified by AIs capable of better correlation of data points than researchers to date, and then it can be the AI that gets to be the object of crazy people’s ire and not actual humans that were just nerding out over research and data.

theshatterstone54 ,

So in short, does the evidence linked mean that Jewish history and origin don’t align sith the Bible? Shocker. As if anything in there shouldn’t be taken with a bucketful of salt.

kromem ,

It’s more the opposite.

That the mythologized history in the Bible does check out to a surprising degree for a LBA/Iron Age tribal ancestral origin of many Jews alive today.

The problem is it’s not for the Israelites and Judah, and that’s what’s going to be the very controversial part.

theshatterstone54 ,

So… the origin aligns with the bible, but what happened after that, doesn’t? Sorry if I’m being annoying, I’m still a bit sleepy and trying to make sense of this.

kromem ,

Yeah.

You literally have a story in the Bible where a dude gets what appears in the text to be a matrilineal birthright stolen from him by the guy named ‘Israel.’

Basically as time went on there’s this aggressive rewriting of earlier periods of the history. It’s hard to identify exactly when this happens (the Bible suggests it’s earlier on, but the reforms are anachronistic given discovered communications with Jerusalem and a Greek historian in antiquity claimed the history of the Jews had recently been edited by Persian and Macedonian rulers).

But much like how Greek stories made pretty much everyone important Greek, the Israelite and Judean version of their history made everyone important Israelite or Judean and had the stories take place locally where they definitely didn’t happen.

After the 10th century BCE the Biblical history starts to check out more and more, but before that it’s not at all true for the people and places claimed. But it seems to be in line in parts with attested history of different people who were settled in the area between the 12th and 10th centuries BCE.

deathmetal27 , to linux in Does anyone know why SteamOS is based on arch rather than Debian?

As for why they adopted KDE, they probably discovered how hard it is to work with Gnome developers.

Nyfure ,

Why would you ever need such a feature? Closed.

deathmetal27 ,

I shared a green text recently that said just this lol

lemmy.world/post/15006352

Nyfure ,

Just saw it too :D

realbadat ,

Since the start. Forget working with them, it’s a rough go to even try and communicate with them.

And that goes back to mailing list days, creating a personal grudge against Gnome so firm that I haven’t used it since the early 2000s.

Thankfully there’s KDE for my general use and a wide variety of lightweight options for other uses.

captain_aggravated ,
@captain_aggravated@sh.itjust.works avatar

I remember in an interview talking about the Steam Deck and its controls, GabeN said (paraphrased) “What we learned from the Steam Controller is there needs to be zero learning curve. Players want to pick it up and understand it immediately.”

Given that ethos, it’s not difficult to understand adopting KDE over Gnome. Most of Valve’s customers are coming from Windows, and KDE resembles Windows’ UI, where Gnome resembles iOS after a stroke.

TheAnonymouseJoker ,
@TheAnonymouseJoker@lemmy.ml avatar

Average GNOME hater is so blind they cannot distinguish between MacOS and iOS. No surprise, considering they never grew out of Windows UI paradigms.

captain_aggravated ,
@captain_aggravated@sh.itjust.works avatar

So, what you’re saying is you think Gnome resembles MacOS after a stroke? Fair enough.

Whichever who cares. I find Gnome so feature poor and so “why would you ever want to do that?” and so “You have to do it the way it occurred to us, not the way it occurred to you.” that I legitimately hate it.

TheAnonymouseJoker ,
@TheAnonymouseJoker@lemmy.ml avatar

No, GNOME is far superior to MacOS, so superior that Windows 11 copied it, and KDE copies Windows. That makes GNOME the godfather compared to hacky KDE.

lud ,

Windows 11 is still easier to use…

TheAnonymouseJoker ,
@TheAnonymouseJoker@lemmy.ml avatar

You think so? That shit has 2 right click menus and settings hard to navigate, not to mention the unbearable ad ridden Start menu, shitty Control Panel and AI garbage you cannot escape. You need something like AME project to make it barely usable. Oh and forced updates taking hours of time. All this is not a problem on Linux.

lud ,

Yes, and I think it’s easier to use than gnome.

TheAnonymouseJoker ,
@TheAnonymouseJoker@lemmy.ml avatar

False, wrong, invalid opinion. I have been a user of Windows since 95/98, and a user of GNOME for almost 7 years. The current GNOME 40+ workflow and UX is beyond superior to whatever Windows is. Windows only makes sense till it does not, and the moment you try to do things other than the convoluted hack way we have been taught for over 20 years, it falls apart.

lud ,

“invalid opinion” lol, typical lemmy

NoisyFlake ,

Don’t feed the troll…

bestusername , to asklemmy in Aluminium drawback? Why US still uses so many plastic bottles?
@bestusername@aussie.zone avatar

FYI; cans are plastic lined.

CanadaPlus ,

TIL. Do you know when that started?

Artyom ,

Always. We used steel before then because it wouldn’t react with the drink. We always knew aluminum cans would be cheaper, but couldn’t figure out how to protect the flavor and carbonation until Coors figured out how to line it with plastic. He shared the process for free with his competition because he knew a recycling program would scale really well.

cobra89 ,

That’s not entirely true. In the early days they used wax to line the cans because steel still leaves a taste in the drink. It just didn’t work very well and also caused carbonation issues as the CO2 diffused into the wax.

some_guy ,

Wow, multiple TIL on this thread.

CanadaPlus ,

Hmm. I wonder if this is true for all the various other acidic canned products. I use cans heavily in my cooking, so this is worrisome. Would the old Shackleton cans be wax-lined?

Glass is an option, or course, which is used in home canning.

cobra89 ,

It’s true, but the amount of plastic in the cans is pretty negligible, especially compared to plastic bottles and the aluminum can is still by far the most recyclable beverage container.

Also there are new linings that don’t use plastic but natural materials called oleoresinous linings but they’re not good for acidic things so they’re not very wildly used.

chunkystyles ,

he aluminum can is still by far the most recyclable beverage container.

Wouldn’t glass be more recyclable?

captainnapalm83 , to nostupidquestions in Am I going fucking crazy? (Regarding explicit songs being censored on various music streaming services.)
@captainnapalm83@lemmy.ca avatar

Not sure if it’s just you, but we were at an event last night and the DJ was playing “Play that funky music” by Wild Cherry and it was censored during the chorus to remove “white boy” and “whitey”…

weariedfae ,

Tf

Nemo ,

white fragility

snooggums ,
@snooggums@midwest.social avatar

There is zero chance any white person has ever complained about that song, but I can see some kind of overzealous cenoring busybody treating anything that could possibly be misconstrued as racist censoring it.

It could also be AI automated filtering.

vzq ,

There is zero chance any white person has ever complained about that song

Dunno man, my people are pretty good at complaining.

snooggums ,
@snooggums@midwest.social avatar

We don’t complain about getting compliments!

RampantParanoia2365 ,

And can you see such an organization playing that song instead of…not playing that song?

1984 ,
@1984@lemmy.today avatar

I predict we won’t be able to properly express how someone looks in 5 years, because all words will be offensive.

White/Black/Asian. Fat. Bald. Skinny. Women/Man. Probably all offensive soon.

altima_neo ,
@altima_neo@lemmy.zip avatar

Excuse me, it’s high calorie individual.

folkrav ,

Oh come on. Extremists gonna extreme. Some will try to make a bunch of words offensive, the others will keep fighting for their right to use these words. The vast majority of the rest of people will just keep living their lives and just use whatever’s the most appropriate word at a given time with the language evolving. It used not to be considered really offensive to insult people with gay slurs when I was in high school. Languages evolve with their times, and that’s perfectly fine.

Kcap ,

My guess is it’s probably not extremists per se, but rather corporations that are scared of offending anyone and being the focus of the internet’s bad or uproar of the day. I will say though, at my last company, the younger generation was pushing all this stuff super hard. While I agree with plenty of the general purpose stuff, I’m like, can’t we just do our jobs and not sit in meetings all day about what our job is supposed to be?

folkrav ,

You don’t have to look too far, honestly. It’s advertising/marketing driven, most of the time. They have a brand and image to maintain, and anything that slightly deviates from it tends to get shut down really quickly. The extremists I was talking about are the ones driving that uproar you mentioned. Most people don’t give enough of a flying fuck to do anything about any of it past the Facebook argument they’ll get into anyway.

These changes do tend to be driven by younger generations, that’s just how it is… I remember Gen Xers complaining about us Millenials wanting to change the world and being very difficult to manage, when we were joining the workforce lol

mean_bean279 ,

I don’t know where you live, or what reality you’re choosing to live in, but that’s just such a bad take. I live in liberal ass California right in the thick of it. I have plenty of black and white (among others) friends, fat friends, and gay friends. The only thing I’ve ever had some things around word choice is when someone identifies as a different gender. Even then I’ve called people by their wrong gender and they’ve politely corrected me and I change it.

dylanmorgan ,

Same. The other day I mistakenly told a trans woman early in her transition “thank you sir” as a reflex and all that happened was she gently said “I’m not a sir” and we moved on.

actionjbone ,

I bet you’re someone whose nose almost imperceptibly points downward.

algorithmae ,

The sad part is that can actually be seen as discriminatory

TheBat ,
@TheBat@lemmy.world avatar
  • Anti-semite
imPastaSyndrome ,

Well right now calling you an oversensitive lying baby is still a thing. Figuratively no one’s asking for this from corporations

eating3645 ,

Soon? It’s already offensive, you bigot!

ThrowawayPermanente ,

Actually the bigot community no longer considers the word ‘bigot’ appropriate.

Kyle_The_G , to showerthoughts in I doubt future generations will have “basement dwellers” because none of us can afford to own basements.

that and no one can afford kids

moistclump OP ,

Good point.

Today ,

No one has ever been able to afford kids. Kids are fucking expensive!!!

chonglibloodsport ,

That’s not true. Kids used to pay for themselves. My grandmother had 14 siblings. Many of them started working right after grade 8 and handed over their pay to their parents to help support the family!

WeLoveCastingSpellz ,

child labor, my favorite 😋😋😋

bjoern_tantau ,
@bjoern_tantau@swg-empire.de avatar

That’s why I let my kids play Roblox.

/s

Today ,

Ok…sure…my grandpas siblings quit school at that age - their mom sent them to work instead because they could earn a quarter a day. I’m not sure that was really paying for themselves.

chonglibloodsport ,

They also worked on the farm and helped in but kitchen. Life was very different back then. Medical care wasn’t nearly as advanced, accessible, and expensive as it is today. School was brief and free, not an enormous expense like it is today. Food was cheap, just labour-intensive because you had to grow it yourself. Housing was cheap too: you largely built it yourself and you didn’t need 15 bedrooms for 15 kids: 3-4 would suffice.

PhlubbaDubba ,

IIRC one kid totals an average of 250k in expenses over 18 years, for simplicity we’ll say 240k and 20 years,

One kid costs about $1k a month right now.

What adds insult to injury is how those costs can be subsidized, free school meals alone would SIGNIFICANTLY lighten the load on lower class families, improve educational outcomes, improve child nutritional outcomes through regulation of what’s on the menu, and even improve sociability since kids now have additional settings to encounter their friends in where their parents and teachers are supervising to correct bad behavior.

Plus it adds an incentive for rich kids to mingle too since being the one person who’s not at school dinner because their parents can practically hire a private wait staff and meal planner is immediately going to single you out and there is NOTHING that hurts a kid more socially than sticking out for something like being a rich kid.

ptz , (edited ) to showerthoughts in When you are on a videocall do you also keep looking at your own thumbnail video?
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I try not to, but more often than not, it’s pretty much exactly this (whether I’m talking or listening):

https://tesseract.dubvee.org/image_proxy/dubvee.org/pictrs/image/f34a9aa4-ae87-4bd0-b380-25a474576196.webp

I get on a video call, and I basically turn into a bird with a mirror.

unreachable ,
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unmagical , to asklemmy in Why do people say "Catholics and Christians" in (USA) when Catholics are also Christians, as if they refer to it as a different religion.

Growing up in a “non-denominational”, independent fundamental Baptist house I was always taught that Catholics weren’t Christians because they worship idols. Now that I’ve left the faith I would easily classify them as being Christian.

While I think many people actually do classify them as Christians they do have some significant differences in their beliefs and practices than most Protestant denominations; and being themselves the largest Christian denomination by far it can be useful in some analysis to treat them as a distinct entity (the answer to “percentage of global population that subscribe to a particular religion” is much more interesting when broken into “Christian Catholic: %” and “Christian Other: %”).

Gabu , (edited )

If anything Catholicism is much more traditionally Christian, as it’s the stablished status quo outside of the anglosphere.

Bitrot ,
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That’s seen as a negative. “Holy tradition” is seen as an extreme departure, although most Protestants wouldn’t even know the term because opening the catechism is nearly as bad as the satanic bible (especially among evangelicals).

NoTagBacks ,

Oh shit! Independent Fundamental Baptist! I had to deal with living with that shit, too. At the end of the day, if the king james bible was good enough for Peter and Paul, it’s good enough for me. Also, rock music is the devil.

unmagical ,

I went to Bob Jones. There was a kid there got in trouble playing the guitar cause what he was strumming had “that sound.” No lyrics, just him strumming it wrong was sinful. Ain’t no way that kinda teaching gonna fuck someone up for life.

klep ,

I went to a small private Christian high school too. Our Junior year we did a “college tour” to check out Christian Colleges. We visited Bob Jones, and I was blown away. That place is fucking wild. I’m glad I settled on Penn State in the long run.

PatMustard ,

What does “non-denominational” mean? Isn’t Baptist the denomination?

unmagical ,

In this context it was meant as a joke. Several Baptist institutions incorrectly label themselves as being “non-denominational” even though they are completely ideologically aligned with the independent Baptist movement.

jaywalker ,

All the non-denominational churches are just a denominational church in denial. Pentecostals use it a lot too, but it’s pretty obvious once you know

Kbin_space_program , (edited ) to asklemmy in Who do you consider a Great Author of the last 50 years or so (first well-known work after 1970)? I'd like to get a feel for who's who in modern literature. Any language/culture. Fiction only.

Sir Terry Pratchett.

A phenomenal author whose ability to weave a story is fantastic, but was also adept at writing in jokes and references that make re-reading the novels a delight.

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