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zkfcfbzr , to nostupidquestions in How do you search for honest product recommendations?

Honestly, I still just google for relevant reddit threads. Lemmy’s the only place I actively participate in, but this is one of the use cases it hasn’t been able to replace reddit for for me either yet.

lemmyng ,
@lemmyng@lemmy.ca avatar

Reddit has been astroturfed so much the recommendations there have to be taken with a lot of salt.

zkfcfbzr ,

Sure, but it’s still a lot more reliable than something like the amazon review section, or a lengthy AI-generated article comparing the two products you just happened to google together that somehow manages to say nothing at all.

pineapplelover ,

Those ai articles are almost surely there to distribute affiliate links. Not really to be trusted. So yeah, I still append “reddit” to product recommendation searches

Mostly_Gristle ,

Same for me too. Reddit, for all its other faults, is still just about the only place you can still get candid opinions on products in a place where it’s discussed by a large group with a deep knowledge base. Especially with niche things like fountain pens, goodyear-welted boots, and stuff like that.

Not sure how long that’s going to last though. The search engines are already hip to that trick, and even in just the last few months I’ve noticed a change in how many Reddit links I get vs product links when I add Reddit to my search query. Reddit is hip to it too, and with recently becoming a publicly traded corporation they’re probably going to wring every last cent out of that until every post mentioning a product is a bot-infested sewage fire like everything else.

minibyte , to showerthoughts in Starbuck milkshake is like tobacco

If you only drink water for a few weeks you’ll notice all the hidden sugar and substitutes in your food and beverages. Notice it for what it is, a cheap replacement to flavor.

lurch ,

wdym? i notice them either way. i consume them because i want to taste them. like when i want to taste phosphoric acid and caffeine, i drink coke. if the taste didn’t matter, i wouldn’t go through the hassle of getting them and just drink tap water and eat plain toast or rice

pearsaltchocolatebar ,

It’s a lot more obvious if you’re not consuming foods and beverages with added sugar. If you go long enough, sodas taste disgustingly sweet.

sxan ,
@sxan@midwest.social avatar

Not at Starbucks. I mean, you can customize your order and ask them to tone it down on the additives, but if you just order off their menu, you either get a black coffee or (I like how OP said it) a milkshake.

pearsaltchocolatebar ,

I don’t see how that has any relevance to my comment.

sxan ,
@sxan@midwest.social avatar

It doesn’t. I was trying to reply to someone else who was saying there was more than the two extremes of drinks.

pearsaltchocolatebar ,

Fair enough!

sxan ,
@sxan@midwest.social avatar

Yeah, something went wrong. Probably PEBCAK, but let’s blame the software, shall we?

ChihuahuaOfDoom ,

I stopped drinking soda for 4 months and when I started again I liked it just as much as before, it was sweet but not disgustingly so. Everyone has their own threshold.

Knuschberkeks ,

Not for me. I only consume coke every once in a while. I sometimes go for months drinking only water, black coffee and the occasional beer, yet I still enjoy Coke.

DoomBot5 , to cybersecurity in Has ethernet become illegitimate? A librarian flipped out after spotting me using ethernet

I plugged into ethernet (as wifi w/captive portal does not work for me). I think clearnet worked but I have no interest in that. Egress Tor traffic was blocked and so was VPN. I’m not interested in editing all my scripts and configs to use clearnet, so the library’s internet is useless to me (unless I bother to try a tor bridge).

Yeah… Trying to bypass their security by using ethernet instead of Wi-Fi to use your own stuff that’s being blocked is tantamount to abusing the library’s services. Someone should let the IT staff know so they can properly block those services on ethernet as well.

coffeeClean OP , (edited )

Someone should let the IT staff know so they can properly block those services on ethernet as well.

Someone should let the IT staff know that wi-fi does not work for everyone, including:

  • People running a free software platform that lacks support for a wifi NIC that needs a proprietary driver and firmware
  • People running free software who ethically object to running the proprietary non-free driver and firmware their wifi NIC requires
  • People without a mobile phone to perform the captive portal-mandated SMS verfication
  • People with a mobile phone but who want to exercise their GDPR right to data minimization
  • Climate activists who prefer not to spend 30 times more energy needed for wi-fi radios
  • People who want the security of other wi-fi users not eavesdropping on their traffic by simply pointing a yagi antenna from a block away (on a network that blocks the VPNs that would protect them from that on wi-fi)

(edit)

  • People who cannot get past the captive portal for other reasons, such as the captive portal imposing TLS 1.3 on older software (forced obsolescence), or anything else that fails technically, like DNS breakage preventing the captive portal’s hostname from resolving.

And because simply turning on Wi-Fi in public enables all iPhones in your range to automatically snoop, collect your wi-fi params including SSIDs your device looks for before sending it to Apple, along with GPS fix and timestamp (according to research), there are people who:

  • for privacy reasons object to being snooped on generally in this way
  • boycott Apple already for any number of reasons, and who have enough discipline and resolve to oppose feeding profitable data to Apple – regardless of whether they actually care about the disclosure.
  • boycott the fossil fuel industry, including Google who supplies AI to Totaal Oil to find drilling locations, and thus oppose feeding Google by way of Androids in range doing the same collection as Apple. (note it’s disputed whether Google actually mirrors Apple on this to the extent of Apple)
catloaf ,

You’re welcome to use the library PCs (if available) or get your own ISP connection.

Buelldozer ,
@Buelldozer@lemmy.today avatar

Someone should let the IT staff know that wi-fi does not work for everyone, including:

HI there. I’m someone in IT for a Public Library so let me review these points.

People running a free software platform that lacks support for a wifi NIC that needs a proprietary driver and firmware

That’s a you and your hardware problem, not a public library IT problem. You need to purchase hardware that is adequately supported by your chosen Operating System.

People running free software who ethically object to running the proprietary non-free driver and firmware their wifi NIC requires

This is a you and your hardware problem. Buy hardware that is adequately supported by your chosen Operating System.

People without a mobile phone to perform the captive portal-mandated SMS verfication

This one is a semi-serious complaint however I’ve never seen a portal system where the Librarian’s didn’t have the ability to issue a day pass for use. Aside from that you sound like someone who should be technically able to stand up an ephemeral phone number for the purpose of receiving SMS.

People with a mobile phone but who want to exercise their GDPR right to data minimization

Same as above.

Pro-environment people who prefer not to spend 30 times more energy needed for wi-fi radios

What an absolutely petty complaint.

People who want the security of other wi-fi users not eavesdropping on their traffic by simply pointing a yagi antenna from a block away.

I’d bet that as soon as you enter a code your VPN stops being blocked. They’re not trying to block VPN they are preventing you from sidestepping their ToS.

I’ve dealt with Patrons like you before and the instant someone starts yammering at me about ClearNet / Tor I know exactly what kind of person I’m dealing with.

You selected your path for whatever reasons you chose and the inconveniences that come with that path are yours to deal with. Suck it up buttercup, you weren’t promised that a privacy respecting internet lifestyle would be easy or convenient.

BTW if you’d plugged your laptop into one of my systems you’d have gotten vlan’d into the same Captive Portal System that the WiFi has which is precisely how any publicly available Ethernet port should function. Your little length of wires coated in vinyl with plastic shoved on the ends still wouldn’t have gotten you where you wanted to go.

lemmyreader ,

I’ve dealt with Patrons like you before and the instant someone starts yammering at me about ClearNet / Tor I know exactly what kind of person I’m dealing with.

You selected your path for whatever reasons you chose and the inconveniences that come with that path are yours to deal with. Suck it up buttercup, you weren’t promised that a privacy respecting internet lifestyle would be easy or convenient.

I guess Meta, Google, Amazon and countless other companies are with you on this one for the ad and tracking riddled mass exploitation Internet of today.

Buelldozer ,
@Buelldozer@lemmy.today avatar

I began my struggle with F/OSS and its drivers with Slackware V3 shortly after it’s release. I long ago memorized absolutely every argument you could possible come up with and have myself repeated many of them over the years. That doesn’t change the fact that Networks and Systems are not configured for your convenience and YOU are responsible for how your own damn hardware works.

Now get the hell off my lawn.

mark3748 ,

Now get the hell off my lawn LAN.

Buelldozer ,
@Buelldozer@lemmy.today avatar

I really missed my opportunity on that one!

lemmyreader ,

Now get the hell off my lawn.

We are in a public community on the open Internet here where the following is written in the sidebar :

  • Be kind

Tor was created by the USA military and the USA government has funded with millions of dollars. Many years ago Tor had a negative word association to it. But not so much anymore. Countless volunteers run Tor nodes from home, and Tor is not that slow anymore as it used to. I use Tor myself because I strongly dislike all the tracking, snooping and scandals by large and even small companies. The Clearnet Internet has become a disastrous place :(

coffeeClean OP , (edited )

It’s a good point about the irrational Tor hostility. But note the more perverse absurdity with his comment: that a public library is “his lawn”. If his inability and unwillingness to equally serve the whole public would be just in the private sector, there would be no issue because everyone he disservices can refuse to do business with him.

What’s sickening here is he said “I’m someone in IT for a Public Library”. So he is operating a public service in an exclusive manner telling people /get off his lawn/, which was financed with public money. And ~7+ of 8 people are okay with that.

lemmyreader ,

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  • coffeeClean OP , (edited )

    In that sense, it implies that we were encroaching on his space, when in fact he entered this thread (like his handle: a bulldozer) to demand that people recognize an approach to sysadministration that does not respect equal rights, privacy, or the environment, and ultimately undermines human rights and promotes consumerism to ease his job at his competency level, as if the public is expected to serve him. It’s not his lawn in either sense of the meaning.

    He made it quite he expects everyone to go through hoops to make his job convenient when he said:

    “That doesn’t change the fact that Networks and Systems are not configured for your convenience”

    I can imagine that the guy wants to secure his network and is maybe paranoid about people breaking in which seems fair to me,

    It would be a malpractice of security. Security is about confidentiality, integrity, and availability. To reduce availability needlessly is to work against security. If availability were not essential to security, then you would just unplug the all machines, making the internet unusuable to everyone, and call it “secure”. A competent admin can securely offer internet service to people without phones, and people without a wifi card.

    coffeeClean OP , (edited )

    That’s a you and your hardware problem, not a public library IT problem. You need to purchase hardware that is adequately supported by your chosen Operating System.

    Forcing people to buy more hardware is yet another variation of discrimination against the poor. Imposed needless consumerism is also reckless from an environmental standpoint. If you choose not to step your competency up to the level needed to serve the public without costing them more money, you’re only getting off the hook in the view of right-wing conservatives who are happy to have library service cheapened at the expense of equal rights.

    Not being “your problem” is simply a problem of an ill-defined contract that allows irresponsible policy.

    This is a you and your hardware problem. Buy hardware that is adequately supported by your chosen Operating System.

    It’s not a hardware problem. It’s an ethics problem, and the problem is on your part whether you choose to acknowledge it or not. If you lack the higher level of competency needed to practice your trade ethically, you should try to gain the competency you need to be inclusive of people in different economic standings and diverse hardware.

    This one is a semi-serious complaint however I’ve never seen a portal system where the Librarian’s didn’t have the ability to issue a day pass for use.

    Not a single public library in my area has a day pass option as an alternative authentication. If the patron has no phone, the library helpless and the user is not getting online with their own device.

    Aside from that you sound like someone who should be technically able to stand up an ephemeral phone number for the purpose of receiving SMS.

    There is no way to get a phone or an active SIM chip gratis in my area. The only difference between a burner phone and a non-burner phone in my area is you quit using the burner phone early. It has all the same problems as a permanent phone. You can get a pinger number online, but it only works if you’re already online. Apart from that, your suggestion is absurd as an official policy in response to public complaint about phoneless people being officially excluded.

    Same as above.

    It fails here too, for the same reason.

    What an absolutely petty complaint.

    What an absolutely pathetic failure to support a claim to the contrary.

    I’d bet that as soon as you enter a code your VPN stops being blocked. They’re not trying to block VPN they are preventing you from sidestepping their ToS.

    This is not a /me/ problem. You are responding to a list of demographics of people who are excluded from a public service. If not every single person has a gratis VPN (and they don’t), this is a broken argument. To say every user must acquire a VPN because you cannot provide a means of access that thwarts the most trivial MitM possible is a reckless abandonment of duty.

    I’ve dealt with Patrons like you before and the instant someone starts yammering at me about ClearNet / Tor I know exactly what kind of person I’m dealing with.

    So your emotional bias adversely hinders your judgement and ability to service a diverse range of users. It shows.

    You selected your path for whatever reasons you chose and the inconveniences that come with that path are yours to deal with. Suck it up buttercup, you weren’t promised that a privacy respecting internet lifestyle would be easy or convenient.

    Inconveniences are borne out of the kind of incompetent infosec that you’re peddling. A competent tech firm can do this job without violating data minimisation principles and without violating Article 21 of the UDHR.

    BTW if you’d plugged your laptop into one of my systems you’d have gotten vlan’d into the same Captive Portal System that the WiFi has which is precisely how any publicly available Ethernet port should function. Your little length of wires coated in vinyl with plastic shoved on the ends still wouldn’t have gotten you where you wanted to go.

    And that would still be violating peoples’ Article 21 rights to equal access. Imposing a mobile phone is among the injustices I’ve mentioned. I would still favor the ethernet regardless of the captive portal for many of the reasons I’ve mentioned. In the very least it avoids discriminating against people without functioning wifi h/w.

    DoomBot5 ,

    Yeah, this argument is bullshit once you actually know what you’re talking about instead of following some cult videos that teach you to repeat them.

    deweydecibel , (edited )

    They should just be disabling the ports, frankly. The overwhelming majority of visitors will never miss them. If you need to use a computer on an Ethernet connection because you can’t/won’t use the Wi-Fi, most libraries provide desktop stations for you to use.

    Keep some Wi-Fi USB dongles in the drawer at the front desk for people whose Wi-Fi isn’t working, or the extreme edge case where somebody has some sort of device that can only use an ethernet connection, and for some reason they brought it to the library.

    DoomBot5 ,

    Yeah, I agree that’s the easiest path to take in properly securing it.

    cooopsspace ,

    To be fair. That’s your ethernet jack and your security that you’re abusing.

    hatter , to nostupidquestions in How should I link to music so that anyone can open it?
    @hatter@lemmy.world avatar

    Song.link is the simplest I know of and seems to work pretty well. Just go to song.link/YOUR_TRACK_URL. For example

    https://song.link/https://music.apple.com/album/never-gonna-give-you-up-2022-remaster/1624945511?i=1624945512

    will take you to this page song.link/i/1624945512 with links to Spotify, Apple Music, Tidal, YouTube and what not.

    Bonus tip: if you’re on macOS and use Velja there’s an option to automatically convert all copied music links to songlink.

    FrostKing ,

    !You son of a bitch, you got me. !<

    RandomVideos ,

    The name is in the url

    randombullet ,

    Oh that’s really clever!!

    ptz , (edited ) to technology in Does enshitification happen because companies are publicly-traded?
    @ptz@dubvee.org avatar

    I don’t think that it’s a prerequisite but it’s definitely a catalyst.

    Another catalyst is one company buying another. I cannot think of one example where the acquired company’s product/services got better after a M and A. OTOH, I can think of many examples of it getting worse. Confirmation bias? Absolutely. But still makes you go “hmm…”

    CorrodedCranium , (edited )
    @CorrodedCranium@leminal.space avatar

    Another catalyst is one company buying another. I cannot think of one example where the acquired company’s product/services got better after a M and A.

    I feel like there have been some positive outcomes of mergers and acquisitions but I am having trouble thinking of them. What comes to my mind is Meta acquiring Oculus, Activision merging with Blizzard, and Microsoft acquiring Minecraft. All of those have led to a shitty Russian nesting doll of launchers and DRM.

    The positives might be harder to note though. There must have been a couple times where some kind of acquisition has brought a series into the mainstream.

    I know a lot of people prefer the classic Fallout games but I do wonder how people would be aware of the series if it weren’t for Bethesda buying the right to Fallout for example.

    ptz ,
    @ptz@dubvee.org avatar

    That’s true, and also why I added that last part about it being confirmation bias on my part. Definitely not saying there aren’t good examples, but like you said, I’m also having a hard time coming up with any.

    Has Valve ever bought any other company? lol They’re one of the few I could see actually making the child company better xD

    uninvitedguest ,
    @uninvitedguest@lemmy.ca avatar

    They would bring other game developers or mod developers in house.

    Wasn’t Turtle Rock (or whomever made L4D) basically acquired?

    CorrodedCranium ,
    @CorrodedCranium@leminal.space avatar

    I’m not sure. Portal and Team Fortress both have really interesting back stories that I think have a bit to do with Valve acquisitions

    ptz ,
    @ptz@dubvee.org avatar

    Interesting. I’ve never played TF but Portal is one of my all-time favorites (I’m not much of a gamer lol). Will try to look into that when I have time because it’s definitely interesting if true (and can be my token good example lol).

    CorrodedCranium ,
    @CorrodedCranium@leminal.space avatar

    You might be interested in Portal on the N64 while you’re at it.

    I’d check out Narbacular Drop. Pretty sure that’s the game that I’m talking about that became Portal, in a way, later.

    There was a good YouTube video about it a while ago but I think it had a clickbait title that makes it hard to find.

    ptz ,
    @ptz@dubvee.org avatar

    I’ve followed that for a while :) Saw it on Hack a Day early in its development and thought it was one of the coolest ports I’ve ever seen. Sadly, I think he got D&D’d. Best I recall, I think it was unlicensed use of the N64 SDK or something like that.

    LoamImprovement ,

    Meta acquiring Oculus

    As someone with industry experience working with VR, I can tell you it’s a mixed bag. I think there’s certainly no way Oculus (and consumer VR in general) takes off the way it did without Facebook’s dollars behind it, and it’s certainly paved the way to the outstanding quality of standalone HMDs that are on offer today. However, it killed the initiative for PCVR hardware with the non-consolation that Meta, Pico, and HTC offer “Link mode” on all their headsets and it’s iffy on good days, which makes B2B PCVR very difficult to facilitate without some serious legwork on lowering latency over the air connections. Would that we could revive the Rift S, that headset was perfect for our needs.

    floofloof ,

    I recently discovered the excellent suite of Affinity Photo, Publisher and Designer. Not open source, but very good and they sell them at a reasonable price with no subscription. Seemed pretty ideal. Then a week or two ago they sent out an email saying they had been bought by Canva. I kind of hate Canva because it functions like one big infuriating ad for their subscription service. They promised Affinity would not change, but I have never known such promises to be kept after an acquisition. It’s pretty disappointing.

    BarryZuckerkorn ,

    After being acquired by Google, YouTube got better for years (before getting worse again). Android really improved for a decade or so after getting acquired by Google.

    The Next/Apple merger made the merged company way better. Apple probably wouldn’t have survived much longer without Next.

    I’d argue the Pixar acquisition was still good for a few decades after, and probably made Disney better.

    A good merger tends to be forgotten, where the two different parts work together seamlessly to the point that people forget they used to be separately run.

    itmightbethew ,
    @itmightbethew@beehaw.org avatar

    I think there can be an intermediary step where things get a little better before they get much worse. I’m thinking of Youtube, which pre acquisiton, iirc, was getting slow and bad. Google infrastructure made it faster, but then, well…

    This is really just the first step of enshitification - first they make things good for users, then introduce advertisers, then claw back all the value for themselves.

    Or put another way

    • "don’t worry you favourite thing will stay the same - we don’t want to mess with a winning formula!
    • “these changes will benefit users!”
    • “we have to comply with industry standards and best practices. please read our updated terms of service.”
    • "in order to compete in a dynamic marketplace, we’re introducing an add supported tier!
    • “we’ve made changes to our subscription model!”
    • “we’ve made changes to our subscription model and we’re introducing adds on paid tiers! suck it!”
    • “sure, you paid for it, but our agreements are expiring and we don’t value you as a human being!”
    • “really, where else are you going to go? lololololol”
    Blackout , to asklemmy in Can you live without YouTube ?
    @Blackout@kbin.run avatar

    Nope. Just this week YouTube helped me fix a squeaky dryer for $18. Repair guy wanted $100 to come out, estimated a $300 repair. The amount I saved there has paid for premium for a year and I use it for everything. Fixed my washer, ran 220v for my new stove, countless baking recipes, woodworking tips. It's not like Netflix where you only get entertainment from it, there is actual good info.

    redcalcium ,

    Many of those information are also available in other places. When I need to fix something, I’m usually able to find what I need on the web (manuals, blog posts, etc) before resorting to searching youtube videos on how to do it. Some truly niche stuff are only available on youtube though (e.g. some dude filming himself doing his niche job), but I can count on one hand the instances I needed one of those.

    Blackout ,
    @Blackout@kbin.run avatar

    The video makes it so much faster and easier to understand. Plus the top comments usually have supplemental information that helps. If you didn't use YouTube then you would still use another Google entity to find it.

    redcalcium ,

    If you didn’t use YouTube then you would still use another Google entity to find it.

    The thing is I don’t use google anymore to search these days now that other search engines noticeably produce better results.

    Limfjorden ,
    @Limfjorden@feddit.dk avatar

    Which search engines produce better results than Google?

    Rolando ,

    I’m not comment-OP, but when I use a VPN, google insists on making me do captchas before letting me search. So I just started using duckduckgo because it’s usually “good enough.”

    Sure, by some metrics google is probably still better, but I’d rather not waste my time training their AIs.

    redcalcium ,

    Someone actually did a comparison recently. Pretty interesting if you got the time to read it: danluu.com/seo-spam/ . tldr: google and bing bad.

    There is also a recent study by researchers on Leipzig University that confirm google is getting worse : downloads.webis.de/…/bevendorff_2024a.pdf

    fxt_ryknow ,

    With AI absolutely exploding… It’s very easy to ask for step by step directions to accomplish things. AI clearly still needs to mature… But… The times I’ve asked it for some basic, step by step directions, it’s been effective.

    While I don’t disagree videos make a lot of things easier (I for sure am a visual learning, no question), the step by step instructions for things I’ve gotten have been good, and very easy to follow.

    umbrella ,
    @umbrella@lemmy.ml avatar

    Many of those information are also available in other places.

    with the death of forums and the rest of the internet, for most things, not anymore.

    Hjalamanger , to asklemmy in What do you think will happen if we don't pass the aid for Ukraine?
    @Hjalamanger@feddit.nu avatar

    Please define “we”. This is a international community so you can’t assume that everyone lives in the same country as you.

    pumpkinseedoil ,

    I’ll assume they mean the countries that currently support Ukraine

    lemmylem OP ,

    Well, who else in the world has been trying to a pass multibillion dollar aid package to Ukraine for the past couple months? The aid is about to get voted on this weekend.

    DavidDoesLemmy ,
    @DavidDoesLemmy@aussie.zone avatar

    I don’t follow every countries politics and what bills they’re trying to pass. I barely keep track of my own country’s stuff.

    lemmylem OP ,

    You right, my bad bro

    B0rax ,

    Well, I don’t know, but multiple countries in the EU have been debating and passing multibillion dollar packages to Ukraine.

    nawordar ,

    The Default Country, I guess

    Goun ,

    The country that’s not part of the rest of the world

    Ultragigagigantic ,
    @Ultragigagigantic@lemmy.world avatar
    Goun ,

    Lol weren’t they claiming they support the two state solution literally a couple of days ago?

    PatMustard ,

    We’re on a lemmy.ml community, so Mali I guess

    Harbinger01173430 ,

    Rome?

    supercriticalcheese ,

    Yes both Western and Eastern Roman empire!

    Nemo , to asklemmy in Excluding the Horror genre and individual movies in a series, what movie story ends with evil winning?

    Fallen. Denzel sets a very neat trap for the demon… but not neat enough.

    Dr. Horrible’s Sing-Along Blog as well. While the Doc may have been mostly noble and Hammer mostly awful, it ends (somewhat ambiguously) with the Doc actually turning into a villain.

    classic ,

    Fallen was the one I was going to add. Glad to see it here!

    Cataphract ,

    I guess my mind automatically excluded it because of the demon aspect being somewhat horror related (though it’s a completely mild movie in terms of graphic violence) but it definitely deserves to be on this list. Partner watched it for the first time few months back and loved it (they hate horror and generally prefer family genre), just a generally great movie that keeps you intrigued and was a great change from stream-binging style entertainment.

    AHemlocksLie ,

    I’m still disappointed we never got the Dr. Horrible sequel…

    Thorny_Insight , to nostupidquestions in Does anyone speak hairdresser? I need help communicating.

    Show them a picture of what you want and let them know for how long it’s been since your last visit so they get a better understanding of how long it’s been growing out. It’s understandable that they rather take off too little because it’s easier to cut more than to put an inch back on.

    TheBananaKing OP ,

    Fair, but I’m still curious where the glitchup is occurring…

    porous_grey_matter ,

    The thing you’re missing is that other people come in and say the same thing as you, and when they listened to them once, they absolutely freaked the hell out, left bad reviews, maybe threatened to sue or something. So you just have to live with that unfortunately.

    andrewta ,

    Nah they just need to keep going to different people and different places until they find someone that does what he wants. When they find one that listens then always go back to that person.

    GrymEdm , (edited )

    You may just have a bad hairdresser. I put up with “ok” haircuts for months when I moved into a new area, then one month I decided to try a 2nd shop instead. I brought the same pictures to both places but the 2nd place was immediately better and fixed the problems. She even remarked that my issue was something the 1st shop should have recognized immediately because it was a) obvious and b) not hard to remedy. Don’t be afraid to visit another place if you have one available.

    Thorny_Insight ,

    Let them know you really do want it short and don’t even mind if they cut it too short because it’ll grow back. They’re just trying to cover their asses because there are people who tell them to cut off 2 inches and when they do it’s too much despite it being literally what they asked for and now they’re unhappy and blame the hairdresser for it.

    Mesophar ,

    It’s 100% this. Asking for a cut that’s super short, the hairsresser can always take more off but can’t add it back on. Either keep telling them “a little more off”, show them a picture of what you want (preferably a picture of yourself with the style from when you’ve previously had it done), or at the very least give them assurance not only that you are ok with the buzzer size you give them, but that it’s alright if it ends up shorter than expected.

    kofe ,

    I wish this were the norm for bangs. Every fucking time I go in with pictures, explain with my widows peak and cowlick on one side it doesn’t take much, and they still cut off too much and I’m stuck growing it all back out for the next year before trying again >.<

    Monument ,

    They’re just cautious. If they mess it up, it could be months before your hair looks right again. I also ease into things when I think the person making the request doesn’t understand what they’re asking. Mind you, my clients are hiring me for graphic design, where my time is billable by the hour, and anything I do can be undone. I can afford to do exactly what they ask. (You know, unless they think I’m fucking with them to pad my time and use another GD. Then I guess I can’t afford it.)

    Have them keep revising the trim until you’re happy, then ask them to take pictures on your phone of the views they as a hairstylist need to see. Show the pictures next time, so they know you know what you’re asking for.

    spaghettiwestern , (edited ) to mildlyinfuriating in Why do we have to do the health insurance company's job for them?

    We have all become unwilling, unpaid employees of every company in their pursuit of higher profits. It’s a feature, not a bug.

    Corporations have discovered that there is no real downside (for them) when they don’t function. Customer satisfaction no longer has much of an impact on their profits because the few companies left in each sector are doing the exact same thing.

    IMO this is yet another side effect of unchecked corporate power. It’s the same reason prices have risen so rapidly and corporate profits have reached 70 year highs. We are dealing with near monopolies and the billionaire class who created them. Until our government addresses the problem it’s not going to get any better.

    In other words it’s not going to get better in our lifetimes.

    aesthelete ,

    In one example of this, during one job interview / recruitment process I essentially had to do all of the background check company’s work for them.

    That makes literally no sense at all, and I’m not surprised when there’s cases of people just pretending to be doctors or whatever for decades. The “doctors” probably verified their own employment history and credentials.

    Devi , to asklemmy in What is something that 2020s kids will never get to experience?

    Not all, but most don't seem to have adventures. When I was a kid I'd go off into the woods and build a den or climb a tree, we once spent a whole week trying to dam a stream, god knows why. None of my friends kids go anywhere by themselves, a lot of them do 'forest school' where they'll be taken by adults to a sanitised woodland and taught how to build a teepee with pre cut wood, and it's just not the same thing.

    Fleppensteijn ,
    @Fleppensteijn@feddit.nl avatar

    I never see kids playing outside. There are parks, fields, forests around where I live.

    Over time I learned there are actually kids living in my apartment building but I have no clue what they do all day. It’s kind of depressing.

    ApathyTree ,
    @ApathyTree@lemmy.dbzer0.com avatar

    A building down the street from where I live has like 3 families with kids renting and they are always outside in a big gaggle. Like is the weather close to halfway decent? They are out.

    I think because their parents are never around supervising them. But that’s about the only place with obvious kids. There must be more, but I have no idea where.

    cqthca ,

    That’s a good point, latch key kids is what we were

    Trainguyrom ,

    The town I live in renovated a park to have a gigantic playground, and every nice weekend day I’ve been there there’s tons of kids and parents there. On Halloween there were tons of kids out despite it being around 0F out that night. But random weeknights? I don’t see kids playing in yards much. I don’t see kids riding their bikes to convenience stores to get snacks. I think the risk acceptance of parents has shifted a lot plus kids are more able to occupy themselves with fondleslabs so they have multiple reasons to not go outside

    Fleppensteijn ,
    @Fleppensteijn@feddit.nl avatar

    Playgrounds are fenced off and parents constantly stay within 2 steps of their helmet wearing kids here in Czech Republic. When those kids are older than toddler age, they disappear from public life.

    It’s not like that in my home country where maybe they just sit around playing with their phones, but at least they’re outside with friends.

    cqthca ,

    “fondleslabs” nice.

    umbrella ,
    @umbrella@lemmy.ml avatar

    the world is much less welcoming to broke kids

    AngryCommieKender ,

    Do the parks have benches? Cities keep ripping out the benches and plants so the kids (and those experiencing homelessness) have no privacy

    Fleppensteijn ,
    @Fleppensteijn@feddit.nl avatar

    Yes, for some reason shrubs and plants are ripped out more and more. Lots of nice areas are now just empty patches of grass. Not sure about the homeless but it is much harder now to find a place to pee in private if you’re outside a lot

    cqthca ,

    you don’t have a pee bottle? /s

    matengor ,
    @matengor@lemmy.ml avatar

    I read an article recently about kids not spending much time outdoors anymore. One of the main reasons not mentioned here seems to be that the majority has nice rooms for themselves at home, and they enjoy the time they spend there.

    Kids rooms are a lot nicer nowadays, and often they don’t need to share it with a sibling as they might have 30 years ago. Also the amount of toys has risen, I suppose.

    Not that this is entirely a good thing. Children need to spend more time outdoors. But let them enjoy their indoor time if they want to.

    Devi ,

    Same. There are a few kids in my road that will play directly outside their houses, but when I say 'kids', definitely 12+. One kid about 15 sets up skateboard ramps and does jumps which I love to see, but actual kids? Never see them without their parents. Kids are taken to school into their teens, I'd have been mortified if my parents came to school past like 9 or 10.

    pixelscript ,

    A lot of folks blame this on kids simply not wanting to go outside anymore. But I believe a significant dimension to it also lies in the fact that the world is a lot more hyper vigilant about punishing things like trespassing, loitering, hooliganism, and the like.

    The woods? Whose woods? Someone owns that land. Are they gonna call the cops on you if they notice you’re in there? Do they not want you damming up their creek? Is that going to be considered vandalism? Do they not want to be liable if you injure yourself on their property? All questions that probably aren’t in a kid’s head, but I imagine would be on a modern parent’s. The safety risks are high. Always were, that’s not new. But the legal risks are new.

    And yeah, it’s not like getting in trouble for these sorts of things didn’t happen back in, say, my dad’s childhood. But I’d wager my dad would have gotten picked up by cops in his youth and sent off with stern tut-tut by the local sheriff for being just another incident of rowdy boys being boys, while my kid (if I had one) would be far more likely to make it out with a criminal record if they’re old enough, or trigger a lawsuit against me for my negligence if they aren’t.

    Devi ,

    Woods aren't often 'owned' here.

    Alice ,

    I’d be so scared to let a kid do that now. Barbed wire is everywhere, everyone wants to brandish a gun at strangers, and truck drivers can’t even see pedestrians anymore.

    I don’t have kids though, because I couldn’t force a kid to hide indoors all day, either.

    Devi ,

    We used to scramble over barbed wire fences like it was nothing. My dad actually speared his leg on a fence spike as a kid, at least barbed wire just cuts you up a bit. None of our parents had any idea we were doing that though, we'd come home if we needed a plaster and say we fell off a bike or something.

    Alto ,
    @Alto@kbin.social avatar

    Or more likely, they knew nut didn't care, because they did all the same tbings.

    Devi ,

    Nah, we definitely got in trouble if they found out we were doing stupid shit.

    cqthca ,

    If we were inside before dark the assumption was we were ill

    Devi ,

    Haha, yes. "What are you doing here?" the parents ask of the child in their own house where they live.

    cqthca ,

    sometimes it was, “don’t knock on the bedroom door unless the house is afire”

    MiltownClowns , to showerthoughts in After watching batman throw around explosives left and right I no longer believe batman doesn't use guns because of some sort of moral quandary but rather he just prefers the challenge.

    Bruce Wayne is just another billionaire who likes to get dressed up in leather and beat the underprivileged of gotham. The problem is guns are too quick. He needs to teach these people the lesson that it’s wrong to be poor. And he needs to teach that lesson through pain and permanent physical disfigurement. All whilst bruce’s erection slowly wears its way through his cod piece, beating after beating, suit spunk after suit spunk.

    criticon ,

    He also probably holds a large stake in Arkham. Every criminal he sends is money the city puts into his deep pockets

    Dadifer ,

    Wasn’t his mother from the Arkham family?

    deweydecibel ,

    Only in The Batman, that’s not cannon to any other incarnation.

    Honytawk ,

    Non-cannon doesn’t exist in the DC multiverse.

    Since every iteration is just a different universe. All of them are cannon.

    Yes, even the Batnippels one.

    deweydecibel ,

    Do people genuinely think this about Bruce Wayne or just fucking around? I honestly can’t tell anymore.

    Alan Moore’s brand of nihilist contrarianism has really done a number on the discussion.

    MiltownClowns ,
    thesporkeffect ,

    Thank you for this

    Daft_ish OP ,

    Damn, yall need to watch ‘under the red hood.’ Batman just hits different now.

    Moneo ,

    I think people are questioning the ethics of Batman more these days given how discussions around poverty and crime has changed. Given how crime is more often than not a result of poverty and a lack of social safety net than greed or lack of morals, the ethics of Batman bypassing the justice system^1^ and beating the shit out of henchman comes into question.

    My exposure to this line of thinking was FD Signifier’s video on edge lords, but I haven’t seen other people talk about it until now.

    1. the justice system also fails these people but we’ll ignore that for the sake of argument

    Zyrxil ,

    In early depictions of Batman, there were times in which he freely killed criminals and times where he was an officially deputized state agent. In contrast, most depictions since at least the late 80s and 90s were much more progressive, with Bruce Wayne being the biggest philanthropist in Gotham, helping to provide low cost housing and healthcare, as well as funding criminal rehabilitation and direct job placement for ex-cons with Wayne Industries. Writers were aware of the other aspects of justice that Batman needed to embody long before it was trendy on the internet to edgily portray Batman as a billionaire who enjoys beating people up for fun.

    Excrubulent ,
    @Excrubulent@slrpnk.net avatar

    Plenty of people will say that. This is a really good dismantling of the whole concept by thoughtslime, where he basically points out how contradictory and malleable the entire character is, and he can be written as an authoritarian but usually isnt, plus some other stuff I don’t remember: youtu.be/73M2sq9zK-I?si=GoJ4paPDgqBskdos

    Also it’s unlisted because it’s in the raft of videos thoughtslime has decided are outdated, bad, or have problematic elements. Idk what it is about this video that got it on the list, but I feel it’s important to mention.

    gibmiser , to nostupidquestions in What would happen if the US didn't bail out the banks again like in 2008?

    Depends on how they did it. If they just let it happen it would be catastrophic. Or, instead the government could seize the banks, print money until the liquidity is resolved, then take an equal amount that they printed out of circulation.

    Once the crisis is over, sell or liquidate the banks. You know, like a free market would normally do, instead of corporate welfare and protectionism.

    Something something privatize profits socialize losses.

    slazer2au , to showerthoughts in In a few decades, electric toothbrushes will be so common that children won't know how to brush their teeth "manually"

    Seeing as electric brushes have already been around for decades I doubt it will happen.

    Bizarroland ,
    @Bizarroland@kbin.social avatar

    I want like a USB c powered whole mouth toothbrush that looks like two u-shaped chainsaws full of tooth bristles that just wiggle back and forth very quickly and spray toothpaste and mouthwash as they go.

    Where is that innovation?

    200ok ,

    Like a car wash for teeth

    TheQuietCroc ,

    I’ve something like that but it requires brushing one half of your mouth at a time.

    dalekcaan ,

    Also because electric brushes don’t brush for you. You still use them the same way as a regular toothbrush, they just clean better.

    WhatAmLemmy ,

    Wait… Are you people doing a “brushing” action back and forth with your electric toothbrushes?

    I just move it across each surface once in a slow kinda up and down zig zag — the way you would use an electric buffer or power washer to clean a long narrow surface with multiple sides… Upper set of teeth first; front, left side of mouth to right side of mouth. Repeat for top and back surfaces of teeth. Then repeat it all again for lower set of teeth.

    I guess the front of teeth could be combined into one surface, but I’m a raging psychopath.

    200ok ,

    This is the proper technique. It doesn’t cause as much erosion of gums and enamel.

    captainlezbian , to asklemmy in Why in Sci-Fi they always use Marine or Naval terminology and structure instead of Aviation for the spaceship structure, navigation and military ranks?

    Because people don’t live in an airplane together for long periods of time. Pilots in sci fi are often aviation themed, but captains are naval because spaceships beyond our current level are closer to battleships, cruise ships, or aircraft carriers than fighter jets or passenger liners.

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