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grammaticerror , to showerthoughts in We're lucky that our bodies require sleep, otherwise our cultures would have us working 16-20 hour days.

If not for labor unions we would still be working 12+ hour days. The 8 hour workday and the weekend is all thanks to the courageous efforts of labor advocates.

snor10 ,

We have so much to be thankfull for to those that came before us. Standing on the shoulders of giants, how easily we forget.

explodicle ,

The goverment started recognizing some of these rights after they were won by unions. Then they regulated unions to death, since we’ve got these nice laws now. Then they started rolling back the legal protections.

And people still have the nerve to say the government is protecting workers rights.

Shinhoshi ,
@Shinhoshi@lemmygrad.ml avatar

Yep, 16 hour workdays were not uncommon historically (there’s a reason non-US countries remember May Day).

If you search up 16 hour workdays now, you’ll depressingly find people framing it in a positive light. Capitalism is trying to make workaholism the norm and required to survive.

ChaoticEntropy ,
@ChaoticEntropy@feddit.uk avatar

Time not spent generating revenue for yourself and/or someone else is unacceptable.

Aceticon ,

When I lived in the UK I always found it interesting how people tought “working hard” was a good thing, especially as most of my professional experience until then had been in The Netherlands, were the objective is to work SMART.

Working hard as an objective is almost literally the opposite of being efficient: it’s wanting to work more rather that work less and produce the same or work the same and produce more.

Then again it’s not surprsing that a society were the Owner class is almost 100% composed of people who were born in wealth would glorify the most shortsighted, short-termist and incompetent way of looking like employees are producing more.

Unsurprisingly the productivity per capita figures of the UK are way worse than those for The Netherlands.

cultsuperstar Bot ,

And now kids in Arkansas get to experience the grind.

TALD , to nostupidquestions in Do you believe Lemmy/Mastodon can become mainstream and fully replace their centralized counterparts?

I don’t think you need to have the largest following to have great value, even lemmy as it is right now feels great. I’ll actually want to dive into comment sections compared to the endless scrolling on reddit.

As long as there’s enough people using a platform for a variety of ideas and experience in topics, I think that’s good enough for me.

twistedtxb ,

I agree. A vast majority of the userbase don’t mind the countless ads on Reddit or Twitter, on even FB. I think people are leaving FB because it’s not cool anymore, not because the UE has gotten worse.

I’m just glad that there now are smaller, more tailored for my preferences alternatives like Lemmy

gylotip ,

I think you meant UX as User eXperience.

SomeOtherUsername ,
@SomeOtherUsername@lemmynsfw.com avatar

Big true! I’m actually spending most of my time on Lemmy down in the comment section 😁

reverie ,

Yes I think about Hacker News, which isn’t technically sophisticated nor does it have a massive userbase (a little less than 1 million registered accounts).

It manages to have a steady stream of content and an active commenting base

redcalcium ,

A big part of it is probably having full time paid moderators to manage their community well.

cjsolx ,

Personally, I don’t even want Lemmy/kbin to become Reddit 2.0.

Reddit from 10 years ago is the goal for me. Reddit has become far, far too bloated for its own good, and that line was crossed a long time ago IMO. Let’s just enjoy what we have. Let all the normies stay on Reddit, the people I wanna vibe with are here already.

dmmeyournudes ,

The problem is that nitch communities won’t get populated unless a lot of people join. The league of legends sub is the largest video game sub on Reddit, and here it’s barely active at all.

Magiwarriorx ,

I want it to be Reddit 2.0 in the sense that I can find active communities for specific or niche interests. Before July 1, the smallest subs that I participated in to have similar communities here were ones that had ~400k subscribers on Reddit.

The value of Reddit was never in the 1M+ communities, any content there was usually present elsewhere, and the discussions rapidly became dumpster fires. It was in the smaller dedicated subs for topics that might not have another human-centric discussion forum.

Speculater ,
@Speculater@lemmy.world avatar

As a normie, I’d still like to vibe with you.

southsamurai , to showerthoughts in I wonder how many US babies have been named Donald in the last few years and may live to regret it.
@southsamurai@sh.itjust.works avatar

My cousin Donald now goes by his middle name.

His quote: “man, fuck that yankee piece of shit.”

dogsnest ,
@dogsnest@lemmy.world avatar

Sadly, half of voting Americans think you’re a fascist, Chinese bot.
Or a woke commie queer groomer in drag.

snausagesinablanket OP ,
@snausagesinablanket@lemmy.world avatar

half 1/10th of voting Americans.

2ndSkin ,

maga is 1/10th of voting Americans?

Forester , (edited )
@Forester@yiffit.net avatar

<span style="color:#323232;">
</span><span style="color:#323232;">Remember only 2/3  of the country votes that has the ability to vote
</span>
Thorry84 ,

But even when someone doesn’t vote, that doesn’t mean they aren’t Maga?

So if half of voters are Maga and 1/3 of eligible voters actually vote, it’s almost impossible to say something about the population as a whole. We can say about 16% would be the lower limit, but it could be a lot higher. If we take the voters as an unbiased large sample, we could extrapolate and say 50% of the population is actually Maga. But since voters are by definition a biased sample, it’s hard to say what the actual number would be. Especially with humans, that have complex interactions, like a certain persuasion could actually mean someone is less likely to vote. Or the other way around, where wanting to vote makes one persuasion more likely. This makes the whole thing pretty hard.

snausagesinablanket OP ,
@snausagesinablanket@lemmy.world avatar

TLDR: Math is hard.

dogsnest ,
@dogsnest@lemmy.world avatar

so, so wrong…can’t you google?

miss_demeanour ,

You’re claiming there are 800 million eligible voters in the USA?
And you got upvoted at least 10 times!

Forester , (edited )
@Forester@yiffit.net avatar

You may notice how I said. I believe not that I factually looked it up. The source was it came to me in a dream this is why it’s important to do research on the internet and to use good reading comprehension skills. I did not make it an authoritative statement. You should not have read it as one. Now that I’ve looked it up I’ve edited it

Dark_Arc ,
@Dark_Arc@social.packetloss.gg avatar

Eligible, not voting. It’s roughly 1/3 of voting folks are maga.

dogsnest ,
@dogsnest@lemmy.world avatar

Ding! Ding! Ding!

EVERYONE here has the internet, yet 4 wrong answers before this…!!!

HiddenLychee ,

Unfortunately it’s way more than that :(

southsamurai ,
@southsamurai@sh.itjust.works avatar

Why not both?

I mean, I can be a woke queer, fascist, Chinese groomer in drag that’s a bot, can’t I? It’s a free country ;)

dogsnest ,
@dogsnest@lemmy.world avatar

“Equal in the eyes of the Creator” allows us to be us, without adversely affecting our equals.
The hypocrites don’t believe in mirrors.

PhlubbaDubba ,

You could, but I’d imagine your therapist sending you a fruit cake every year at christmas as a thank you for latest new lambo you funded

southsamurai ,
@southsamurai@sh.itjust.works avatar

Well, are you okay? You’re kinda not making much sense in your comments here. Like, the individual sentences make sense, sorta (this one anyway), but they don’t match what you’re responding to very well.

It makes it seem like you’re responding to the wrong comments. Is that the case? Gods know I fuck that up myself.

garbagebagel ,

Woke commie queer is my middle name

snausagesinablanket OP ,
@snausagesinablanket@lemmy.world avatar

Too bad his middle name is Elon. 😒

southsamurai ,
@southsamurai@sh.itjust.works avatar

Ima start calling him that lol

PhlubbaDubba ,

I’m guessing either a brit, an aussie who hates rhyming slang, or a VERY unwilling to adapt southerner.

southsamurai ,
@southsamurai@sh.itjust.works avatar

Huh?

robocall ,
@robocall@lemmy.world avatar

Trump isn’t a proper representation of a New Yorker. I doubt he even likes baseball.

kiwifoxtrot ,
@kiwifoxtrot@lemmy.world avatar

Yankee is a nickname for all Americans in the rest of the world.

Nuke_the_whales ,

I still don’t understand how a bunch of Southern, trailer park rednecks who hate new York city rich people, decided that a Manhattan millionaire was the guy to vote for. Why do they think he’s anything like them or has why idea how they live? He’s literally a northern, cartoonish carpet bagger.

garbagebagel ,

I’m sure there’s deeper takes on this but from my understanding, it’s a mix of things: 1) he convinced them he’s not like other politicians (which is true, he was not a politician at all) and 2) he convinced them he’s the “pull yourself up by the jockstrap” American dream and everyone can be like him - that’s just the typical American lie they’ve been using for decades if not longer. Then sprinkle a little bit of christofacist fear mongering in there and you got some undereducated folks excited to see someone who’ll “fight” for their American dream.

brown567 , to science_memes in Fastest animal

I love how they get less happy the more pedantic they’re being XD

Mojave ,

Their hair also slowly shifts upwards, as they charge their super Saiyan power

notanaltaccount ,

Plus it helps us realize that since they have more masculine haircuts they are even smarter, right?

Because it wouldn’t make sense for the initial female to look the same and still be a physicist, right?

Just pointing out that bias may also be affecting the cartoon too, even if not maliciously intended

Mojave ,

I’m pretty sure it’s the same hair, just getting more and more disheveled (frizzy and standing on-end) using a simpler art style. Not different hair styles entirely

notanaltaccount ,

No, it’s shorter and more masculine… since more masculine people do hard science like physics while even a regular mom who is a little bit smart could learn biology. (I don’t think this.) I am just pointing it out, it probably wasn’t done with intentiinal sexism.

Psionicsickness ,

I be you’re really fun at parties.

the_tab_key ,

And on lemmy

luciferofastora ,

I’m fairly sure SMBC isn’t being misogynistic. They have no issue at all frequently featuring same-sex couples, fem-coded scientists and so on, as a perfectly normal part of the world. This is either you reading something into it, or a sheer coincidence.

notanaltaccount ,

It’s possible it’s a coincidence.

The idea that scientists, especially hard scientists, have a certain look is something many think… so despite literally everyone on lemmy downvoting me, i still think it’s important to notice when these things coincidentally happen or don’t coincidentally happen

However you are saying SMBC is very tolerant and unbiased and I believe you. I was’t saying it was sexism, I was just noticing it. But I understand the defensive reaction: if the comic creator is generally accepting of many people’s identitites then they are less likely to have done this with any sort of biased intent and the comic creator is probably cool and not prejudiced.

bionicjoey , to til in TIL That the entirety of Wikipedia is only ~100Gb and you can download it for offline use

The text version of Wikipedia*

The images and other media are a hell of a lot more.

BuddyTheBeefalo ,

it’s 102GB with images, 53GB without

Silverseren ,

I presume this is images directly hosted on English Wikipedia and not the entirety of Commons where the vast majority of images are kept, right?

BuddyTheBeefalo , (edited )

Wikimedia Commons is 373TB images. …m.wikimedia.org/…/Special:MediaStatistics

clearedtoland ,

So I have to upgrade my NAS again, ay?

gmtom ,

You’re not already running petabyte NAS???

maegul ,
@maegul@lemmy.ml avatar

Kinda interesting at a broad level … that there’s still something to the efficiency of language.

Sure storage is cheap now, but so much of the calculation of the utility of data in modern tech is the presumption of an internet connection and retrieval of information over the network.

With the internet going to shit in various ways, local or decentralised computing is making more sense, at least depending on your priorities and perspective. And so all of a sudden, storage tradeoffs become a bit more meaningful. Do I need all of the pictures and media … or would a simple textual description suffice for most instances with high res media available at a more centralised archive if I’m really interested? A picture is worth 1000 words, but takes a hell of a lot more digital storage space!

iknowitwheniseeit ,

So many home instructions are so much easier with a photograph or two, or better yet a video.

retrospectology OP ,
@retrospectology@lemmy.world avatar

The 100Gb version mentioned above does only have thumbnails/lowres pictures, yeah. Better than nothing for some types of articles, but not everything. The true text-only version is actually only ~53Gb though.

ByteOnBikes ,

Some of the high res photos are ridiculous.

Like a 8000x9000 uncompressed image of someone’s hand and weighs about 22mb.

I know that because I use a lot of royalty free images.

owsei ,

Is there an index of the images or something like that?

morhp ,

commons.wikimedia.org

The images are categorised and there’s a search function.

owsei ,

Thank you very much!

Dasus ,
@Dasus@lemmy.world avatar

Without images Wikipedia is a “mere” 22.14gb.

en.m.wikipedia.org/…/Wikipedia:Size_of_Wikipedia#….

Psythik ,

I’ve installed game patches that were larger than this.

Valmond ,

They should put it in a popular game patch.

ArbitraryValue , to science_memes in Shocking

When I was in grad school, a bunch of us were at the house of a guy with an invisible fence for his dog. Someone wondered if it was cruel and that led to each of the grad students there except me putting on the dog’s collar and then crossing the fence. (The consensus was that it really hurts, but it isn’t agonizing.) At the time I knew that not shocking myself was, in some sense, the smart thing to do, but in retrospect I regret being a boring dork.

Anticorp ,

I once voluntarily shocked myself with a dog collar at a party. It was kind of fun, so I did it about 20 more times and shocked other people with it too. In my defense, I was drunk.

cadekat ,

There’s a whole sexual kink associated with those collars. I’m just sayin’

vaultdweller013 ,

The electroshock tag is a thing on nhentai for a reason.

tinyVoltron ,
@tinyVoltron@lemmy.world avatar

You chose unwisely.

ColeSloth ,

If you ever find a regular electric fence, it hurts way worse if you aren’t wearing shoes. Just FYI.

Zoot ,
@Zoot@reddthat.com avatar

Yeah but it also puts you one step closer to death.

Feathercrown ,

I once stepped too close to an electric fence, barefoot, right after it rained. OW.

smort ,
@smort@lemmy.world avatar

We would sit around the fire pit taking turns zapping ourselves with the electric fly swatter. Good times!

Jessica ,

It allegedly hurts you much more than them due to differences in skin thickness and moisture as well as them having a load of hair in the way

YourPrivatHater , to piracy in DuckDuckGo now shows which one is the official site

Thats great even outside of piracy, there is a gigantic influx of fake websites with very similar URLs

dhork , to nostupidquestions in Is there any significance to people using emojis that match their skin tone?

Use what you want to. Let others use what they want to. Don’t overthink it.

Some people are thrilled with the fact that they can make their little online avatar closer to their reality, others don’t give a damn, because they don’t want to define themselves by their virtual presence. At the end of the day, though, they’re just pixels. What you say and how you treat people is much more important than whatever little +1 icon gets attached.

ZeroHora ,
@ZeroHora@lemmy.ml avatar

Based

Blaze ,
@Blaze@reddthat.com avatar

Indeed

deranger , to youshouldknow in YSK: lemmy.ml is managed by tankies, and lead lemmy developer is a tankie

I had my first ever comment, in decades of forums/reddit usage, get mod deleted because I was critical of China and the USSR. It was a fairly mild criticism. That action turned me off the whole instance.

cloudless OP ,

They learn from who they are worshipping. Exactly how the CCP control the narratives.

fuckingkangaroos ,

They learn from who they are worshipping pays them and might disappear them if they say the wrong thing.

realitista ,

Sad that you chose an .ml community to come back to. You can’t talk about Russia or China at all without getting deleted there, unless it’s saying that Tienamen Square never happened or something like that.

Speculater ,
@Speculater@lemmy.world avatar

Same here, but they tried to claim I called a Steam Deck a “Rice Burner” as a racist insult when I randomly chose “rice” as the title for this meme to fill the mandatory title block. https://lemmy.world/pictrs/image/401adc6d-b735-4496-96e1-cf688536068e.jpeg

Like, bro? Even if that was my intent, which it wasn’t even a term I had ever seen applied to a computer, it doesn’t make sense.

Simon , to fediverse in What are your complaints about Lemmy?

Probably the userbase so far. Love the platform. The political stuff on here especially seems like it comes from people who’ve never been laid or been able to hold a serious conversation in public.

Zarxrax ,

That’s the Internet as a whole.

ptz ,
@ptz@dubvee.org avatar

You’re not wrong xD

SonicDeathTaco ,

Eh, really depends where you hang out. Problem is EVERYONE hangs out at like the same 4 or 5 places anymore. You gotta get real niche to dodge the bullshit.

infinitepcg ,

The political ideas you can find on Reddit are much more diverse. There is usually at least some pushback against some of the most deranged statements.

Grandwolf319 ,

What are some of these deranged statements?

Back in the day before the Reddit purge, you would find the most outlandishly wrong opinions in fringe sub Reddits.

yoyolll ,

I think there’s a lot of self selection going on. Most people who migrated here did it based on principles (or a persecution complex), so of course they will have lots of political opinions, often extreme. Frankly, it’s getting a little tiring seeing it everywhere. Even on gaming subs it seems like every other post results in a discussion about the evils of capitalism.

Graphy ,

Yeah I’m always glad that certain communities are thriving on here but they tend to bleed over into every single thread.

I find it most annoying when someone’s just casually venting and someone else comes in swinging. I get that it’s especially hard on the internet to tell if someone’s venting or looking for solutions.

Like at this point I think it’s safe to say everyone on Lemmy has seen the same pro Linux, fuck cars, and fuck capitalism posts a million times. I think we do without one post dogpiling on some poor dude if they’re like “man traffic sucked the big one today!”

Grandwolf319 ,

So I don’t agree with fuck cars much. I do see their point and it’s valid but it doesn’t represent my views.

Am I gonna go on their sub and just argue? No. So you won’t notice me since I won’t be vocal about my opposing viewpoints.

misk ,
@misk@sopuli.xyz avatar

Even on gaming subs it seems like every other post results in a discussion about the evils of capitalism.

I think it depends on community, I avoid all .ml ones for that reason. Don’t get me wrong, I could go on about evils of capitalism for hours if prompted but the real issue is that most of the user base is 13 years old either in their actual age or mentally so you’re seeing same performative cynicism over and over again. I’m also getting a feeling that over last 3-4 months it got much worse.

GreatAlbatross ,
@GreatAlbatross@feddit.uk avatar

I’ve been really pleased with the feddit.uk community so far. It probably helps that a lot of us are geographically similar.

misk ,
@misk@sopuli.xyz avatar

It’s the common spaces / topic-based communities that are mostly affected by this so there’s no escaping this if you’re here for the news etc

Grandwolf319 ,

I agree, the issue isn’t that people here have the wrong political ideas, it’s that most post get pretty political.

Imo it’s best to keep those stuff on the political communities so people who are not in the mood at the moment can get a break.

QuarterSwede ,
@QuarterSwede@lemmy.world avatar

They do seem to be confidently incorrect often.

Grandwolf319 ,

Are they though? Lemmy is the only social media site they complains about big issues AND does something about it (we are self hosted).

People on lemmy actually put their money where their mouth is, imo that’s better than Reddit that complain and still use the platform and help it grow.

QuarterSwede ,
@QuarterSwede@lemmy.world avatar

I’ve had people argue about a specific field I’ve been in for 20+ years and be dead wrong. So yes, often, as I said.

ExcursionInversion ,
@ExcursionInversion@lemmy.world avatar

100%

Had to use filters to block most of it out

1984 ,
@1984@lemmy.today avatar

Politics is always the worst communities because people are there to be little keyboard warriors and fight for their cause.

Lemmy becomes 100 times better if you don’t subscribe to politics.

laxe ,

I subscribe to very few communities and only browse my home feed. It’s been great so far.

Thorny_Insight ,

This and also that Lemmy has a major left-wing bias. I’d gladly take more right wingers here to even it out a little. Not that social media represents real life anyway, but being on a left-left wing platform does distort one’s reality a little. There’s a lot of views that are mainstream here but which I almost never encounter in real life.

ahornsirup ,
@ahornsirup@sopuli.xyz avatar

Lemmy doesn’t have a left-wing bias as much as it has a far-left and authoritarian bias. Though this heavily depends on instance. Continental European instances tend to be far more moderate than Anglo-dominated instances, probably because at least parts of continental Europe have actual experience with real socialism.

Simon ,

What if I told you the words right wing and left wing had only a marginal relevance in reality. Mind blowing I know.

Akisamb ,

people who’ve never been laid

That was unnecessary. I know that people with poor social skills have more trouble with romance, but implying that all virgins are socially inept is a harmful stereotype, luck is a big factor in finding relationships.

OneOfTheMicahs ,

Not to mention that there are entire groups of people who abstain from sex for one reason or another, and that has nothing to do with political ideology or intensity of belief.

alexdeathway , to linux in I need a distro that can work right out the box without too much hassle to configure it, which one would you recommend?
@alexdeathway@programming.dev avatar

linux mint

db2 ,

Seconded. I’ve been using it for years because it just works, but if I want to try to break shit do things myself I can.

bluetardis ,

Thirded. It just works. Even deployed to elderly relatives with wifi printers with no issues.

balancedchaos ,

The one and only objectively best answer, imo.

markstos ,

I researched this question for a laptop to sell on eBay. I tried Pop OS and Mint and choose Mint.

It seems that Mint may be the most popular distro for older Linux laptops sold on eBay.

MonkeMischief ,

That’s exactly what I did with my old Core2Duo laptop because I couldn’t in good conscience sell it with factory-loaded Win-Vista LOL.

If somebody with knowhow gets it, they can put whatever they want on it. If someone without? They get a solid OS that gets security updates. Win-win.

pineapplelover ,

More specifically, Linux Mint Debian Edition. Canonical has been very weird, I would get the debian based branch

www.linuxmint.com/download_lmde.php

maxprime , to asklemmy in What is a gender neutral replacement for man, guys, buddy, etc?

A lot of people use “folks” for plural.

I feel like “guys” is fairly un-gendered but people disagree with me. Personally, I haven’t used the word “guys” to refer to anything male in what seems like forever.

“Bud” and “fella” are good singulars.

TWeaK ,

I used to have a maths teacher who called almost every number “guy”.

“And this guy goes to zero, while this guy goes to infinity!”

FlashMobOfOne , (edited )
@FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world avatar

“Guys” is ungendered.

Reconsider whether it’s worth being friends with people that insist on fighting over the term “guys”.

And if you are surrounded by a lot of particularly sensitive people, just call them “friend” or “friends”. It works for people you both like and dislike. Glorious.

maxprime ,

Sure, but as a professional (teacher) I’m not willing to put my career on the line by challenging a sensitive parent. A few years ago we were told not to use that word, and when it comes to things like that, I do as I’m told.

FlashMobOfOne ,
@FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world avatar

That makes sense.

Teachers have to do a lot of stupid shit these days.

jumjummy ,

“Listen up you little shits”. Perfectly non-gendered!

mostNONheinous , (edited )

If you are in the Midwest, Guys is absolutely gender neutral.

Edit: downvote me all you want guys, it won’t change the truth.

FlashMobOfOne ,
@FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world avatar

It is indeed.

FlashMobOfOne ,
@FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world avatar

Meh, people who want to fight over the term ‘guys’ are in the minority.

They can probably just be ignored.

dead ,

Aw yeahhhh, everyone’s into guys 🫦

(well, except aro/ace people maybe)

GlitterInfection ,

Modifying my language choices is literally the least I can do to make people feel more included, so anyone who can’t fathom doing that is for sure, not worthy of being a friend.

unfnknblvbl ,

I really, really wish we could degender “guy” and “guys”. I know plenty of people of all genders that use the words in general to describe people, objects, concepts, everything. The only holdouts are people that insist on it specifically meaning males. Ironically, these people are often the hardcore feminists.

If other English words can change their meanings and be claimed/reclaimed by certain groups, why can’t others?

Take guy! Use it to describe whatever you want! Free it of its historically phallic shackles!

frefi , (edited )
@frefi@lemmy.dbzer0.com avatar

Yeah, I agree with you gal, while we’re at it I wish we could degender “gal”, “chick”, and “doll” too. Equality for all!

ShepherdPie ,

This sounds not to dissimilar to those who argued that legalizing gay marriage would lead to people marrying horses or their cars.

frefi ,
@frefi@lemmy.dbzer0.com avatar

How’s that? I’m not arguing against anything, I said I want more words to be disgendered

How come people seem to only want words that were originally masculine coded words to be disgendered, but don’t want that for words that are originally feminine coded?

jabib ,

My car married the horse down the road last year

ready_for_qa ,

Guy was originally gender neutral as it was used to call someone stupidly bold (iirc). The term was most often used toward a single gender that was known for being stupidly bold and became synonymous with that gender. That’s how it became gendered.

MissJinx ,
@MissJinx@lemmy.world avatar

I’m a cis woman in IT, I’m guy, dude, man, bro… I don’t really care. You can change to make a specific person feel more confortable but most woman don’t care to be dude or guy

garbagebagel ,

Bud is very rarely used for women (or at least for me), but it is one of my favourite things to hear tbh

Lath , to asklemmy in Was the allegations against michael jackson ever proven right or wrong ?

Nothing proven. Much documentary about it though.

There's a vine/TikTok dude that made a short about it somewhat recently in a shallow and humorous fashion.
Basically, the Jackson dad was an asshole who beat his kids. Michael being the most successful one got the worst of it, as per the documentary. Not sure if his brothers covered him and how often.
He didn't have a childhood, he had beatings, training and concerts.
His soft-spoken voice was beaten into him, only allowed to use his full voice for singing.
His Neverland was built for that which he never had and he tried to give that to other children he felt were like him.
Whether something happened is only known by the the people involved, but odds are that unless Michael himself was molested as a child, it's far more likely that he was deeply traumatized, cried himself to sleep and had recurring night terrors.

I'll repeat, only the people involved know what happened and they're not talking.

schteph ,

Mac is talking and denying any wrongdoing on Michael’s part.https://unilad.com/…/macaulay-culkin-michael…

fidodo ,

If he was specifically trying to invite children with bad childhoods then it’s not actually too surprising that some of their parents would come after him.

queermunist , to nostupidquestions in Why were so many people believers in the conspiracy that 9/11 was an inside job
@queermunist@lemmy.ml avatar

It’s easier to believe the people in charge are secretly in control of everything than to believe they’re barely in control of anything.

tiramichu ,

This.

Conspiracy theories are comforting because they are more pleasant to believe than the truth, which is that we’re all aboard a ship going full steam ahead with nobody at the rudder.

BeardedSingleMalt ,

It also gives people a sense of deep satisfaction believing they know some dark hidden secret nobody else does... regardless of how absurd it is

Hyperreality ,

Vanity. It's the Devil's favourite sin.

captainlezbian ,

Nobody’s at the rudder, but also all of us are. Everyone has more capacity than anyone is comfortable with

Apepollo11 ,

Also, at the time, in the west, Al Qaida were a largely unknown terrorist cell operating in far-away third-world countries. It seemed incredible that such a devastating attack could be carried out on US soil by a small group most people had never heard of.

acceptable_pumpkin ,

And yet, this all powerful government couldn’t even fake finding weapons of mass destruction in Iraq to “validate” their invasion reasons.

queermunist ,
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Government incompetence is the main reason I didn’t go down the conspiracy rabbit hole. They’re too stupid to pull most shit off without tripping over their own dicks.

conciselyverbose , to linux in Stop being elitist, spread Linux!

If you're actually expecting people to transition without asking for help on a regular basis, you don't know people.

You just made yourself their IT guy for life.

krolden ,
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This

hendrik , (edited )

And I think there isn’t a good solution to this. Ideally you would enable people to make good choices for themselves, know how to handle the tools they use…

Interesingly enough they come to me to fix their printer and antivirus anyways, and I have no idea of what I’m doing since I haven’t used Windows in like 15 years, except for updating my GPS and filling out time-sheets for work and stuff like that. And in the meantime Microsoft switches things around every few years and bolts on a new interface onto their office suite and then moves it to the cloud. I don’t think it would make any difference if my relatives were using Linux in the first place. They would still need to ask someone to fix their printer drivers and handle big version upgrades. And if it was me at the other end, it would be way more convenient to me to help them.

I stopped advertising Linux to people who didn’t ask me to… I’ll tell them I use different things on my computer and why this software is way better. If they pick up on that and want to try out of their own motivation, I’ll gladly help.

VampyreOfNazareth ,

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