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Tofushopdriftin , in Shouting at children can be as damaging as physical or sexual abuse, study says

Are we just now putting this together?

MisterD , in Ozone hole over Antarctica grows to one of the largest on record, scientists say

Those damn private planes

ricdeh , in [USA] Massive emergency alert test scheduled to hit your phone on Wednesday. Here's what to know.
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Hmm, interesting that this is going to be a worldwide event that is going to affect every Lemmy user no matter from which country they are…

bobs_monkey , (edited )

… you dropped this /s right?

Edit: y’all, the article makes zero mention of this test outside the US

lath ,

Not sure. I’m somewhere lost in Eastern Europe and i’ve been hearing about this supposed test all day.

bobs_monkey ,

No shit? Per the article posted, it’s supposed to be a US national test, hadn’t heard about it in other countries.

Cryophilia ,

Maybe that’s because you’ve been reading articles from a newspaper called “USA Today”

NewNewAccount , (edited ) in House Democrat steps down from leadership role over party's support of Biden's reelection

Dean Phillips, a three-term representative from Minnesota’s 3rd district. He is a current member of both the Committee of Foreign Affairs and the Committee for Small Business.

He has been rumored to be running against Joe Biden in 2024. He is one of the most bipartisan members of Congress. He is also one of the wealthiest.

snooggums ,
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He is one of the most bipartisan members of Congress.

So he is the Democratic version of Charlie Brown falling for Lucy holding a football?

DLSchichtl ,

He is also one of the wealthiest.

Aaand I have stopped listening to what he has to say. Too far gone up the ass of capitalism for me to consider him a better option, age included.

AA5B ,

His Wikipedia page seems to tick all the right boxes, and being related to “Dear Abby” is not a bad thing, but I don’t know anything else about the guy.

For those complaining that he’s wealthy: yeah but it does seem to take that to get elected

PhlubbaDubba , in Shouting at children can be as damaging as physical or sexual abuse, study says

My dad and I have had our ups and downs but I can say beyond a shadow of a doubt that the least productive we’ve been with each other is when he got too frustrated and yelled at me about whatever.

I’d instantly go from frustrated but still trying to calmly explain my side of things to “I DON’T KNOW WHO THE FUCK YOU THINK YOU ARE SON BUT HOW ABOUT YOU SHUTCHO MOUTH AND KEEP IT CLOSED UNTIL THE MAN WHO RAISED ME IS BACK AGAIN‽”

Zaktor , in [US] A nationwide emergency alert will be sent to all U.S. cellphones Wednesday

If anyone has a powered cell phone they don’t want someone in their household to know about, power it off.

kobra ,

Wow, good call out. That never crossed my mind.

cantstopthesignal ,

My ho phone will be off. Thank you for your service

NotMyOldRedditName ,

Ho ho ho!

TheFlopster ,
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If it’s being sent over the cell phone carrier signal, does that mean if you’re at home, or otherwise connected to Wi-Fi, that you won’t get it?

cm0002 ,

No, even on WiFi your phone maintains its cellular signal, even data depending on your settings (it’s just not actively used as wifi will be considered superior).

Vilian ,

why would someone have that?

MinusPi ,
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Abusive relationships.

Fondots ,

To expand on the abusive relationship aspect, say your partner, parents, etc. want to keep you from contacting people, maybe your family/friends, maybe the police, maybe your doctor (for example to seek abortion services, or maybe treatment for a health issue they’ve been trying to withhold medication from you for) they may check your phone to see who you’ve been contacting or even take your phone from you to prevent you from using it.

There’s also of course less savory reasons, cheating, dealing drugs, or other illegal activities.

And somewhat less likely, undercover officers, FBI agents, investigative journalists, etc. whose cover could potentially be compromised if the wrong people are around and that second phone goes off.

Zoomboingding ,
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As an undercover FBI agent, thanks for the heads up

Agent641 ,

As a non-undercover Agent, you arent supposed to tell people that.

Vilian ,

i didn’t thought about abuse etc, make sense, thank for the answer!

Pretzilla , (edited )

And leave it off at least until the end of the hour, until the alerts have timed out

Agent641 ,

And wrap it in tinfoil. Even “off” phones can be woken up and forced to display messages.

MinusPi ,
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That’s absolutely not true

SatanicNotMessianic , in Human knocks down woman in hit-and-run. Then driverless Cruise car parks on top of her, Victim in critical condition

Oh, this company is not doing itself any favors.

There needs to be full transparency on these fleets rather than having governments bend over backwards in the name of trade secrets. We’ve gone absolutely too far in that direction with everything from vehicles on our streets to fracking chemicals in our groundwater.

Kirkkh , in Shouting at children can be as damaging as physical or sexual abuse, study says

Who knew it’s wrong to scream at kids.

doppelgangmember , in WATCH: U.S. announces sweeping action against Chinese fentanyl supply chain producers

Bruh we know China allows it to be gray area. They’ll just spin up new companies and change ports.

But let’s just pretend crackdowns will fix it when the cartels are literally synthesizing their own now with precursors in their own pro clandestine super labs.

Why not just setup a federal emergency and supplement recovery/therapy/substitution/housing/safe sites/job training+guidance and actually address the root of the problem? It’s the inside of people where the real addiction to escaping their trauma lies.

FARTYSHARTBLAST , in US warns of Chinese disinformation. China says that's disinformation | CNN
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Uno reverse card!?

mojo , in Shouting at children can be as damaging as physical or sexual abuse, study says

This is horrible to do, but I feel like this really downplays physical/sexual abuse.

Gloomy ,

How so? If the result is similar they are just different roots to the same outcome.

The main difference is that the resilience, or the ability of a child to cope with the abuse, may vary greatly between physical abuse, sexual abuse and psychological abuse (like what the article is talking about). So a single sexual abuse is much more likley to cause Trauma, then beeing yelled at once. But beeing yelled at for years? Beeing told that you are wortheles repeatedly? That is likley to cause a lot of harm, especially because it plants a sense of “not beeing good enoth” in you that can take a lot of work to overcome once grown up.

There is no need to rank diffent kinds of abuse against each other. We need to see them as equaly harmful for children and not trivialice them.

MaxVoltage ,
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frankly if my dad was in my life the whole time growing up saying those horrible things

i wouldnt of thought i was capable of being a rocket engineer and fuck myself

LillyPip ,

It doesn’t, really. I experienced psychological and sexual abuse as a child (but not physical). Both were equally bad. I had a good friend who got physical and emotional abuse, but not sexual. She said she preferred being hit by her father over the psychological shit she got from her mother, because it didn’t last as long or hurt as much.

All three are equally bad.

phoenixz , in Man accidentally shot child while officiating wedding near Lincoln, deputy says

I go to a wedding and I take with me…

A gun!

Only in America!

Pyr_Pressure ,

Aren’t there countries where multiple people fire AK47s in the air after a wedding?

tal ,
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Yeah, and those folks aren’t firing blanks.

AnxiousOtter ,

Right, there are. None of those countries merit emulation. On the contrary, they’re blueprints for what not to do, so…

phoenixz ,

Yes and that makes it better somehow?

YeetPics ,
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Not better, no. Makes your statement of “only in america” feel more emotional than factual.

AnxiousOtter ,

It was a comparison among peers, other developed first world countries. While the comment was factually correct, it was not useful.

gibmiser , in Human knocks down woman in hit-and-run. Then driverless Cruise car parks on top of her, Victim in critical condition

It was just protecting her like a dog would.

Whose a good car!? That’s right, you’re a good car!

NatakuNox , in Massachusetts couple denied foster care application over LGBTQ views, complaint says
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This is why LGBTQ rights is so important. Imagine being a foster kids because of the US failed social safety net, only to be re homed in a religious bigoted house?! That’s what the GOP wants for kids.

Diprount_Tomato ,
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“This is why protecting traditional families is so important. Imagine being a foster kids because of the US failed social safety net, only to be re homed in a LGBT groomer house?! That’s what the GOP wants for kids.”

I literally just changed two things and it went 180 degrees on the other extremist side of the spectrum. Do with that info as you wish

kescusay ,
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And with such a simple change, you turned it into a disgusting and bigoted lie, when the person you responded to was completely accurate.

Unaware7013 ,

Yeah, you can make anything sound bad when you just lie and make shit up.

Diprount_Tomato ,
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Could say the same of you calling everyone that points out the dangers of dehumanising “bigots”

Unaware7013 ,

You can say anything, that doesn't make it correct. And it's funny how people call themselves out, because I only call people exhibiting bigotry bigots.

If you're being called a bigot, maybe examine your beliefs and actions. After all, if it smells like shit everywhere you go, it's probably you.

girlfreddy ,
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@Unaware7013 @MicroWave @NatakuNox @Diprount_Tomato

My block button is getting quite the workout these last 10 days or so.

Was there a mass migration I didn't hear about?

Diprount_Tomato ,
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Good luck thinking looking the other way will make people who you disagree with disappear

Diprount_Tomato ,
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If thinking having two halves of a country willing to kill each other to be insane makes people call you a bigot, maybe I’m not the one that stinks after all

Unaware7013 ,

No one thinks you're a bigot for that belief, climb down off your cross or just be honest about your actions.

Diprount_Tomato ,
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Yet I’m being called one for it

Unaware7013 ,

Then post receipts, because I'm sure you're not telling me the whole truth.

Diprount_Tomato ,
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What?

Unaware7013 ,

I'm telling you to post proof of you being called a bigot because of not wanting Americans to kill each other or whatever your argument is. I want to see what you're saying that makes people think you're a bigot.

Diprount_Tomato ,
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I literally got called a bigot here for pointing out extremism

Unaware7013 ,

That's not proof of you being called a bigot unwarranted.

Diprount_Tomato ,
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Guess you don’t want to see it

May God bless your soul

Unaware7013 ,

Lol, in other words, that never happened. If it did, you'd be showing me just how wrong I am, rather than constantly making empty claims about it.

So again, post your proof if you're not just lying on the Internet about being called a bigot for no reason. Otherwise, I'm probably right to assume you're being called a bigot for entirely warranted reasons.

czech ,
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Do with that info as you wish

You mean put it into proper context, look at the stats, and acknowledge you're full of shit? Sure thing! But you won't let facts get in the way of your feelings amirite?

x4740N ,
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Have fun having your comments being removed bigot

Diprount_Tomato ,
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  • NatakuNox ,
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    Uhhhh what? One, “traditional families” aren’t anti LGBTQ by default. Second, LGBTQ parents aren’t groomers. (can LGBTQ individuals be terrible humans just like everyone else? Yes!) Third, asking a foster family if they hate LGBTQ people is critical for the safety of foster children because mathematically 10% will be LGBTQ. And since there’s no “Gaydar” to tell you can’t risk putting any child with them!

    You didn’t prove anything except how ignorant you are. Do with that info as you wish

    Diprount_Tomato ,
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    Bro those aren’t my actual opinions

    NatakuNox ,
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    Bro don’t make ambiguous statements. Use your words more wisely so everyone knows exactly what you are saying

    Diprount_Tomato ,
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    Ok, maybe I needed to say that dehumanising and treating other human beings as demonic monsters is tearing countries apart

    TheBenCommandments ,
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    Don’t be a demonic monster you won’t be treated like one.

    Diprount_Tomato ,
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    To the others you’re a demonic monster too, and until you realise that your country will sink down the drain

    TheBenCommandments ,
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    See the difference is that being tolerant and accepting of other people’s life choices that don’t impact my life is objectively not monster-esque, whereas imposing your beliefs and codifying hate and fear into laws that control what others can do with their lives is actually behaving like a monster.

    Diprount_Tomato ,
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    Any examples of “imposing beliefs and codifying hate”?

    I could definitely say that the constitution is nothing but a bunch of former British upper-class men who owned slaves and just wanted to evade taxes imposing their beliefs upon America and codifying it in a document

    Drivebyhaiku ,

    Pendantic though it may be… 30 percent is more accurate for children in foster care to be LGBTQIA+. Many lose their homes of origin and support BECAUSE they are LGBTQIA+ so the instance is way higher.

    Kind of a no brainer to have homo/transphobic foster parents struck from the rolls. It’s enough to be traumatized once by having your authentic self rejected by a supposed safe haven. Twice is unconscionable.

    bobs_monkey ,

    These boneheads seem to mix up up supportive with grooming. I had a conversation at a bar the other day with some dipshit that said if you support your child coming out as gay or trans, you’re effectively grooming them to be a sexual deviant. They fail to realize that grooming is an active nudge or conditioning in the direction of a desired behavior, whereas being supportive is unconditional love regardless of identity. My buddy’s kid is identifying as a girl atm, and while he and I both think it’s a phase (he’s 15 and just an awkward kid in general), we are supportive of his/her choice.

    On the other hand, there are parents out there that actively nudge their kids into being some brand of queer from a young age (not just in providing an open minded atmosphere, but almost to discerning them gay from a stupid young age) that, to me, begins to cross a line. In my mind, let be kids be kids that become teenagers and then adults, and just support them in their choices while guiding them to be the best person they can be.

    FlyingSquid ,
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    You changed two things and into something imaginary. There is no such thing as an “LGBT groomer house.” You can’t force a child to be gay or trans no matter how much you want to.

    You might as well say “only to be rehomed in a dragon’s den.” It would make about the same amount of sense.

    Bartsbigbugbag ,

    That’s exactly what happened to me as a kid. As a bonus, these religious nutjobs sexually abused their actual kid, and because I was just a foster kid, I wasn’t believed. Thank god my mom was able to get me out of that hell hole, but the trauma it caused me was so deep I didn’t even recognize how deep it was for almost 20 years.

    NatakuNox ,
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    And now red states made it legal to kidnapping LGBTQ children from loving homes to traditional homes

    bobs_monkey ,

    Wait, they’re allowing kids to be removed from foster/adoptive homes and transferred to a religious home? On what grounds and who’s authority?

    NatakuNox ,
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    They are talking LGBTQ kids from their families because gender affirming care is illegal.

    HotDogFingies ,
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    I don't know what to say. I'm so sorry you went through that.

    Bartsbigbugbag ,

    Nah don’t be sorry, just be angry at a system that allows such things, and at a religion that shields such people. I came out okay in the end, because I have a family that loves me and helps support me through my traumas, but I don’t know what happened to their kid, or if they were ever stopped. That’s the part that bothers me. Knowing that those sickos could still be out there presenting themselves as righteous Christians while doing such things.

    Infernal , in Human knocks down woman in hit-and-run. Then driverless Cruise car parks on top of her, Victim in critical condition
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    ”The driver of the other vehicle fled the scene, and at the request of the police, the AV was kept in place.”

    Hopefully not while still on top of her!

    baggins ,

    If you get stuck under a car the fire dept is going to come lift it off of you. They aren’t going to try and drive it off that would almost surely cause further injuries.

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