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RatzChatsubo , in those ppl...

Lemmy will dethrone reddit once you are able to google a question and the Lemmy link is at the top as opposed to reddit

DannyMac ,
@DannyMac@lemmy.world avatar

Whelp, better get to asking questions… Someone ask me a question to an answer someone may want to search for

AhismaMiasma ,

I’ll start with something wholesome:

What’s the best way to make someone smile?

flansyrup ,

Punch someone they hate.

xsh ,

Just punch Trump then. This will make a lot of people smile.

Shea ,

I’m the leftest leftist ever to left but had to downvote for such low effort

Shea ,

Apply your thumbs in an upward motion to the corners of their mouth. Use force if necessary

if_only ,

What is the average airspeed velocity of an unladen swallow?

SARGEx117 ,

African, or European?

if_only ,

Well I don’t know that

Facebones ,

sproing

SaltyIceteaMaker ,

What’s Ligma?

Shea ,

Ligma baaawwllls lmao goddim

SaltyIceteaMaker ,

Oh nooooo ya gawt me😭

SnowBunting ,

Is there anyway to control how high I want my android phone to charge? I would like to set it to 90%.

Shea ,

Samsung phones have an option in the battery settings called “charge protection” and it makes your phone stop charging at 85%. Look through your battery settings to see if you have a similar option.

Someone64 ,

If you have root you may want to use something called ACC (Advanced Charging Controller). You can use its official app, ACCA, to install it. Very customizable.

DannyMac ,
@DannyMac@lemmy.world avatar

Not without rooting it or the manufacturer including a custom option for it, but if it has adaptive charging, you can set an alarm and it will charge the phone up to 80% and then wait to charge it the rest of the way to coincide with the alarm so that it isn’t at 100% for a long time.

interdimensionalmeme ,

I was so insulted when I realized I could never root my phone. Fuck Verizon!

Schnitzel_bub ,
@Schnitzel_bub@lemmy.ml avatar

Why is my poop green?

DannyMac ,
@DannyMac@lemmy.world avatar

Your poop is green because you consumed something with food coloring in it.

CileTheSane ,
@CileTheSane@lemmy.ca avatar

Reddit also had the ability to just type in my address bar “/r/obscurefandom” and be taken directly to the subreddit for it. Lemmy doesn’t have those smaller subs yet and you have to hunt for the right instance if it does.

pingveno ,

Even TV shows that have been off air for a decade often have a thriving community. Merlin, the BBC show, has several posts per day. Similarly with Smallville. Lemmy’s communities are smaller and tend to be broken up across instances.

CileTheSane ,
@CileTheSane@lemmy.ca avatar

Reddit will have active subs for specific board games. The general board games magazine on Lemmy has 1 post a month.

So ya, if I want to read comments on the latest episode of Loki to see what things people picked up on that I missed Reddit is currently the only place to find that.

mkrup ,

I feel like there needs to be instance aggregation for Lemmy to really work in the long run (and really this is probably true of the fediverse in general). Having to add communities across multiple instances, and not being able to browse them in a centralized way, really detracts from the experience. On Reddit, I subbed to the stuff I wanted and just lived off that feed. With Lemmy, I feel like I have to stay in unfiltered view to get anything of interest–the fragmented niche communities are just too limiting.

IMALlama ,

Add in people posting the same thing across the various “same community” on all the various instances for extra silliness.

interdimensionalmeme ,

Yes, Lemmy is Reddit with extra steps as long as you can’t click this /c/books And see, by default, every books community , on every server at once in a single place.

The Redditors who made it here, saw this and realized the fediverse promise, was just bait.

shneancy ,

alternatively r/obscurefetish

Defnottheone ,

I just started using lemmy today, so I definitely could be wrong. But doesn’t the website browse.feddit.de kind of do this for you already?

interdimensionalmeme ,

This illustrate the fatal flaw with Lemmy.

The fediverse is made pointless because now a community only exists on one server at a time, instead of on every server.

It is Reddit, with extra steps

MJBrune ,

Since lemmy instance are hit and miss. Some popular ones are already talking about shutting down or have shut down. I highly doubt lemmy will get there.

rustydrd ,
@rustydrd@sh.itjust.works avatar

Even then, Reddit has accumulated so much technical advice over the years, I hope I can still find archived posts this way, if ever it truly does crash and burn.

RatzChatsubo ,

What’s stopping someone from just copying the reddit history and building that knowledge base as under the hood of Lemmy?

interdimensionalmeme ,

Which is never going to happen because you can’t click this /c/books

And fine an agglomeration of all /c/books on all lemmy servers Ina single location.

This cripples any network effect and any benefice of decentralization and federation

Polar ,

Bro, it’s so fucking frustrating that I need to be subbed to 5 different Android communities just to get my news.

I can’t sub to just one because I miss news if I do.

My only hope is that Boost brings multi-reddit support to Lemmy, so I can just click on “Android” and get the news from all 5 Android communities.

interdimensionalmeme ,

“multi Reddit” like feature do not fix the problem.

First, like on Reddit, less than 5% of users will use it as a non default feature which needs to be configured.

Second, even of those people who use the feature, they will have different sets of differently configured “multireddit”.

The end result is a fragmented audience that has no shared experience and never aglomerates to critical mass.

If you have 1725 /c/books communities, that does not make one cohesive books community. These people have nothing in common.

Practical end result, one books community on one Lemmy instance, is “the one big community” and almost every other gets 1 post per year on average, which is never seen by anyone.

For every big community, every once in a while, the moderation dictators sell out or otherwise piss off the community enough that it fragments. That works as well as the current transition from Reddit to Lemmy.

Each schism doesn’t create a new, better community, it creates a smaller, less active community at the expense of the larger one.

There needs to be a single point of agglomeration, which works by default for any community name.

And moderation needs to be something dive by every user and moderation needs to be a filter that you subscribe to.

FierroGamer ,

And Linux will dethrone windows.

I wish they were true but reality is that people will accept just about any and all abuse and stay with the crap despite sometimes getting angry about it.

CorrodedCranium , in Toyota Hilux is best lux
@CorrodedCranium@leminal.space avatar

Here’s the story about the Texas City plumber whose Toyota truck was used by ISIS for those that haven’t read it

www.cnn.com/2015/12/14/us/…/index.html

asbestos ,
@asbestos@lemmy.world avatar

Holy shit thanks for the laugh

kameecoding ,

did he win that? why didn’t he just remove the decals himself?

bizarrocullen ,

The dealer advised him not to remove it because it might ruin the paint, and he won the lawsuit

overat8 , (edited )

The article doesn’t mention whether or not he won the lawsuit. Where did you get the info on him winning the case?

Edit: I found the article - He won an undisclosed sum of money

usnews.com/…/plumber-whose-decaled-truck-went-to-…

Conradfart ,

Almost as lazy as the guy who didn’t bother to read the article, amithe?

kameecoding ,

think you need to edit your comment mate, “almost as lazy” as an opener only works if I had called him lazy.

IHeartBadCode , in home is where you know how to adjust the shower....
@IHeartBadCode@kbin.social avatar

4.2 K (-269⁰C) and 3,695 K (3,422⁰C) respectively for those wondering.

VikingHippie ,

I see. Not exactly ideal, I’d venture to say.

Magnetar ,

Why? My favourite showering temperature is right in that interval.

VikingHippie ,

Mine too! Small world, huh? 😁

FilthyShrooms , in don't try this at home

I’m pretty sure it is ten years in the future by now

And I laughed this time too

wmcduff ,

According to Hank Green, it's from 2007. So 16 years ago.

https://youtu.be/5yWTPtPYukg?si=y8NYIwk-dejUPtQN

owenfromcanada ,
@owenfromcanada@lemmy.world avatar

Yeah, I’ve been seeing this come up for at least 10 years. Still makes me ugly laugh every time.

Endorkend , in everyone fights...
@Endorkend@kbin.social avatar

Between highschool and starting uni, I did a small stint as a cashier.

I called the cops on two people, one was stealing beer, the other some keychain. Both cheap items, but not necessities.

I saw multiple people steal baby formula and diapers and there wasn't a bone in my body that even thought of calling the cops on them.

The first are stealing to steal.

The later are stealing to survive.

Imho the law should make a clear distinction between the two too.

MindSkipperBro12 ,

Problem is that you open one item to be allowed to be stolen, you then set the precedent of anything being allowed to be stolen. That’s what welfare and social programs are for.

10_0 ,

I would imagine that other workers in his store wouldn’t be so human and would balance out this precedent

Endorkend ,
@Endorkend@kbin.social avatar

The distinction in the law should be different penalties, not allow one of them.

Norgur ,

That's why crimes do not have a set penalty but a range for the judge to... well judge taking things like that into account.

dan1101 ,

Yeah just because stores sell food doesn’t mean they should feed people for free. There are a lot of costs involved in getting food onto the shelves such as planting, growing, harvesting, transporting, packaging, and distribution, and the costs of running the store. This especially applies to small mom and pop stores.

Same sort of thing with non-food items, track any particular item and they don’t just appear on the store shelves, it takes a lot of people and effort and materials to get them there.

Endorkend ,
@Endorkend@kbin.social avatar

Hence why stores should deliver unsold goods to food/supply banks instead of tossing it.

The cost was already made, the item gets written of for not being sold, still does some good in the end.

MindSkipperBro12 ,

There may also be legal issues if the stores products gets someone sick or hurt because the store will probably get caught in the legal crossfire.

yyyesss ,

what you did there is called the “slippery slope fallacy”

MindSkipperBro12 ,

Because this tends to happen in law, especially when it sets a precedent for future cases.

Knightfox ,

Would you care to provide some additional context? On some levels I agree with you, but I would be interested in hearing the rest of your thoughts on the matter.

atkion ,

The slippery slope argument is not always a fallacy. The strength of a slippery slope argument relies on the ability to show that the initial action will actually lead to the predicted outcome. The fallacy comes in when connections are drawn between unrelated concepts - an easy example of this is the argument that legalizing abortion will lead to the legalization of murder. In this case, I think it’s pretty likely that making a certain item legal to steal will pave the way for more items to be legal to steal in the future. After all, who decides which items should fall under that law? I’m sure there will be plenty of people with very strong, differing opinions on the topic.

PsychedSy ,

You probably also thought people were stealing Sudafed because they had colds.

Endorkend ,
@Endorkend@kbin.social avatar

This medication in most stores crap doesn't exist here.

PsychedSy ,

Ah. My point was that those are some of the easiest to resell. Sudafed is used in the creation of meth.

Endorkend ,
@Endorkend@kbin.social avatar

creation of meth

Another thing that barely exists here XD

ZoopZeZoop ,

Tell us you don’t live in Florida without telling us you don’t live in Florida.

swab148 ,
@swab148@startrek.website avatar

Where is “here”? Because there’s plenty of meth in my location (I don’t do meth, I’m just aware of it).

Endorkend ,
@Endorkend@kbin.social avatar

While there is meth in Europe, there's nowhere near as much of it anywhere in Europe.

Some countries have a rising meth problem, but it's really nothing compared to the plague it is in the US.

MindSkipperBro12 ,

What about the Czech Republic?

elint ,

Wow! Easily accessible to be stolen? In my country, we have 2 sudafed formulas – the meth kind (pseudoephedrine) and a different type (phenylephrine). The meth kind is only available by asking the pharmacist and showing your state-issued identification. The other kind is freely available to steal.

PsychedSy ,

It’s that way here now. It wasn’t yet when I worked in a grocery store.

Tyfud ,

Agreed. Though judges have some leeway here, there’s nothing official that would give them an incentive to treat the cases differently other than their moral compass.

SharkEatingBreakfast , in And pizza, cant forget pizza.
@SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz avatar

Referring to another human being as “leftovers”

https://sopuli.xyz/pictrs/image/c0611823-338b-45c2-b408-4d6b05391e77.jpeg

apotheotic ,

And like, the setup for the “joke” isn’t even reasonable. They came up with the punchline that single moms are leftovers (dehumanising as fuck) and then the best context was “2 dating people are texting about leftovers lmao” good lord

SharkEatingBreakfast , (edited )
@SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz avatar

inb4 people start saying “lol taking a joke too seriously”

Is it cool to make dehumanizing jokes about men with mental health issues? Men with disabilities? Disadvantaged men who are struggling? Can I imply that they’re less of a person or don’t have any value because of their circumstances?

If you think about it for more than a second, it’s pretty fucked up.

https://sopuli.xyz/pictrs/image/c3a80685-f0da-435a-a037-621413e481b4.jpeg

Catsrules ,

Cannibalism isn’t OK.

AdmiralShat , in The race for "Worst Dumpster Fire" is heating up. Everyone place your bets!

Put Unity somewhere up there for their recent debacle

deus ,

Unity is hors-concours, they’ve already won this race. None of these social networks have managed to fuck up so badly as to fully destroy their reputations like Unity did.

Hiccup , (edited )

I don’t know. Twitter running rampant as a nazi platform and safe harbor under Elon’s tenure/stewardship has been something else. That platform was always a mess/ bad but not to the degree Elon has cranked it up to. It’s full blown mania/ hysteria on that platform.

Edit: I miss the days of Twitter when I could’ve used it as my own personal news ticker/ use it to follow sports and my favorite sports reporters. It’s shocking but there are actual uses and use cases for Twitter. It used to not be social media trash.

Weslee ,

An I the only one who thinks this is exactly what he wanted? Hated seeing the western social media trying to block disinformation, so he buys it and let’s the right wing extremists have free rein

Mitch404 , (edited )

I don’t think that’s what he wanted initially.

Chinese authority doesn’t like twitter. Tesla was incentivised by the Chinese gouvernement to come to china and grow the EV market there. Tesla had a lot of very nice and attractive loans and business opportunities. China alone is now 32% of sales for Tesla. Muskrat buying twitter and driving it to the ground serve the Chinese interest, and I would not be surprised to hear there was an agreement to something along the lines of “you buy this, you do shit with it, we close our eyes on our loans” from the Chinese.

For the nazis, it’s all about the Tesla factory in Texas. Texas is quite red, when COVID happened and California was closing down Tesla factory in Fremont, Shit-face was opening his new factory in Texas. Democrats were all in for the Covid measures. Going strong with anti-vaxxers and republicans gained him favors in Texas, to be able to use his slaves, sorry employees despite the pandemic.

Down the line, I think this psychopath is only doing what all billionaire does: using his money to make more, more, more, completely ignoring the consequences. The only thing that drives him is making more money. Not with Twitter, but with using twitter to get what he wants…

Hiccup ,

It’s remarkable the similarities between William Randolph Hearst and Elon. Hollywood can finally make its citizen Kane remake/ sequel.

sour ,
@sour@kbin.social avatar

what happened to unity

AdmiralShat ,

They tried to apply a per install fee and make it retroactive for all games using the Unity Runtime. Meaning games made with Unity even a few years ago who didn’t agree to this would be charged each time someone uninstalls and reinstalls the game.

This is the second time they have tried to make retroactive changes, by the way, and they even deleted the part of the TOS that prevented retroactive changes.

It’s really just one of many things they have done in the last few years

ArmoredThirteen ,

To list out a lot of the many things: They’ve done forced RTO which is pretty internally disliked, fired a ton of people lately, a bit ago the CEO publicly said anyone who doesn’t prioritize monetization are “the biggest fucking idiots”, they bought an ad company known for making malware, and they keep getting in bed with military contracts including Lockheed. Oh and they cancelled their example project game Gigaya which I’m still bitter over

AdmiralShat ,

Just a minor correction, they actually merged with Iron Source, they didn’t just buy them. That means there was a good bit of board carry over, which means Iron Source management is now making decisions at Unity.

KingThrillgore ,
@KingThrillgore@lemmy.ml avatar

They won this is a fight for the 2nd seed

SatanicNotMessianic , in I wonder what they thought of furbies

The 90s are nothing. I remember a flock of seagulls from the 80s that are still flying around.

Hupf ,

They just flew (so far away).

somethingsnappy ,

Hello, fellow old people. My 10 year old is sporting that cut, unironicaly.

AngryCommieKender ,

Your 10 year old is cooler than most of us old people. Lord knows I couldn’t sport that cut ever. I have 1970s hair, and was born in 1980.

Like The Beegees type of hair. That’s what I had naturally.

son_named_bort ,

Spoiler alert: they couldn’t get away.

BaumGeist , in I hear we're tired of American memes so I made this one for the Europeans

Companies in any city when a square millimeter of building isn’t covered in advertisements

Gabu ,

Not in São Paulo - it is forbidden to have most types of public-facing advertisement here.

BaumGeist ,

Gods damn that sounds lovely

Gabu ,

As someone who got to witness the before and after, it is!

PersnickityPenguin ,

Portland Oregon too

EdibleFriend , in really, you coul rent ultra po*n
@EdibleFriend@lemmy.world avatar

Let’s not start that crap of censoring incredibly stupid words on this website. Let’s leave that in the past.

Denvil ,

Fr*nch

Nelots ,

They said incredibly stupid words.

Some words should stay censored.

darcy ,
@darcy@sh.itjust.works avatar

you know what, its best to just never mention the word entirely

dansity ,

You must write p"rn, if you write porn a christian underage instantly becomes gay just by seeing the word.

Viking_Hippie ,

Is it one more every time you write it? Because if so, I’d like to add porn porn pornity porn with extra porn on the side 🤷

red ,

He used “shit” in another post’s title. But porn? Oh Jesus Christ better censor that!

johnthedoe , in EVs

I tell people yes do get an EV for your next car. But also use this chance to really think about if you need the car at all. Or does every adult in the household need a car each. Our city is trash for everyone having to own a car.

Best is to run your car to the ground. Then get an EV if you must own a car.

drdalek13 ,

If I could guarantee that my job is remote forever, or have it written in my contract, I would sell my car.

BeefPiano ,

Your car will be worth less the longer you hang on to it. You can sell it and hang on to the money until your company tries to get everyone back in the office.

GoodGrief_HowDareYou ,

This is likely not going to be the case for the classics (old->modern-day). A Honda Jazz will lose it’s value, a classic Aston? Less likely - even static some of them are works of art.

BeefPiano ,

Ok but what if the Aston isn’t cared for properly and left out to rust? Then the price will go down!

Is my bringing-up-a-small-edge-case helpful? Does pointing to 1% of situations refute the general case or further the discussion in any meaningful way?

GoodGrief_HowDareYou ,

Simply pointing out that not all cars will depreciate in value. Well maintained ones should continue to hold their value until oil prices and taxes make them out-of-reach for the average citizen. Let us not forget that 80 percent of vehicles are bought in the second-hand market… Nobody has raised the prospect of killing that market off yet in a policy sense (of which I am aware).

RushingSquirrel ,

Do you have access to food, stores, etc using public transport? How do you go about buying stuff and bringing it back home?

johnthedoe ,

I live a short bike ride away from the shops. I have some side bags for the ebike I built so lugging groceries isn’t too much of an issue.

The biggest shift is learning you wouldn’t shop the same way you do with a car. With a car you go to a big supermarket and load up a trolley. Spend over a hundred for a week’s worth and drive home. With a bike you kinda just buy as needed for the next couple days. You do more trips throughout the week which is kinda nice too. Forces you to get out of the house more. Benefit I realised when doing this was vegetables were less likely to just die out in the fridge since I bought as needed. Which meant I spent a little less overall.

Viking_Hippie ,

Best is to run your car to the ground.

Absolutely not if you have an older ICE car with bad gas mileage and/or a diesel. Even getting a NEW EV would be better for global warming and the health of your fellow humans than continuing THAT shit show.

Of course, as per the OP, bicycle and mass transit is still much better than any EV, but the really bad emissions cars should NOT stay on the road until their “natural” death unless absolutely necessary.

Leer10 ,

I don’t understand. I thought there’s more emissions being made from the creation of the EV and its lithium battery than using the remaining life of a gas beater.

johnthedoe ,

The idea is the concentration of lithium production can be more controlled (and recycled?) as opposed to leaving gas guzzlers out on the road. Plus the distribution of gas to gas stations and such.

As much as I want an EV. My country is just not set up for a smooth transition to EV yet. Until then it’s best to just not give the auto industry more sales and run what you have until you’re realistically ready.

Grayox ,
@Grayox@lemmy.ml avatar

They offset the Co2 used in production at around 40k miles, but the batteries are extremely recycleable as battery banks for solar systems, or as raw material for new batteries since it is already out of the ground and they have processes to recycle it now. The gas burned by a car can never be recycled or reused and is extremely inefficient in moving a vehicle. Not to mention the toll extracting fossil fuels is having on this planet. EVs get almost 200 mpg equivalent because of their efficiencies of motors and aerodynamics.

Viking_Hippie ,

That’s a commonly believed myth. In reality that’s only true for the most efficient ICEs, not the ones I mentioned.

lameJake ,

Source?

Viking_Hippie ,
andy_wijaya_med ,
@andy_wijaya_med@lemmy.world avatar

Live in a not so small town in Germany. I haven’t had the need to have a car after I have been living for 9 years.

I commute with bike to work, take public transport when it’s a farther journey.

Until I have a daughter a couple of months ago. I realize that I really need a car. :(

johnthedoe ,

It’s hard to have a baby without a car. It’s for sleep, for nappy changing, your closet and your pantry. Those first few years especially. If you need one even for a few years it’s totally understandable.

andy_wijaya_med ,
@andy_wijaya_med@lemmy.world avatar

Yeah. It’s very difficult. Going to pediatrician for example. Or if it’s raining. It’s so troublesome to bring a baby with a bike in that situation.

paddytokey ,

The cargo bike boom has brought us some really decent ways to transport small children and stuff by bike, I actually think it’s quite possible to use is you live in a not so small town. There are accessories to weather proof the cargo area, there are Iso-fix mounts for child seats and once the child can sit by itself it’s usually quite a joy for them as well. These bikes are also protecting the child in case of a fall much better than you would think.

However I really do understand that a car is significantly more convenient. I live in rural Germany and there distances can easily amount to 10-15km one way to run errands such as going to the pediatrician. It’s just a bit much, particularly with a toddler. And the car really does become storage for clothes and all that, you can just park it and everything in there is dry and safe, all that makes the car very attractive. Also a decent cargo bike with kids-friendly accessories will run you as much as a cheap small used car, although only the initial cost of course.

The key to bad weather is decent clothes, and children can easily be weather proofed for the most part. My kid is three now and I’ve seriously considered switching over to a bike, but only to replace the second car that I frequently use because my partner will need one to go to work anyways. But running the car cost me around 250€ every month (I keep track of every expense except cleaning) and that is only as long as nothing major breaks. Upkeep of even a large cargo bike is a fraction of that.

andy_wijaya_med ,
@andy_wijaya_med@lemmy.world avatar

Sounds great! I still don’t think that a cargo bike is very safe. Especially for a baby. :(

It definitely crosses my mind, that I’d do that if the kid is getting older. But definitely not before 2-3 years old.

I haven’t bought a car yet. I’m still in paternal leave so I can manage to do everything. Once I start working, let’s see how well we are doing without a car. :)

Katana314 ,

Even in America, I have seen a fair few parents carrying their kids around by bike. It seems it’s not totally impossible, though you may need to put your bike through some upgrades.

Kolrami ,

I bet those people are doing it for economic reasons, not environmental ones. A bicycle is probably the most dangerous form of transportation for you to have your kid on.

CyberEgg ,

It wouldn’t be any dangerous if car and bike infrastructure was structurally separated (and if there were far fewer cars).

Kolrami ,

But they aren’t.

CyberEgg ,

That should be changed, shouldn’t it?

Kolrami ,

Of course, but if my vehicle was the only vehicle in the world, I’d still feel like a 2 year old kid on the back of my bike going 7 miles is more dangerous than on a bus, train, or even a car over the same distance.

CyberEgg ,

Fair enough, a seat on the back is the least safe option to transport kids.

There are options like this though. Seatbelts, low position, side walls.

Kolrami ,

I don’t mind this too much, but I’d want more padding for the kid and an extra wheel in the back for stability.

Michal ,

How us bicycle more dangerous than cars?

Sure cars have all the safety features for people on the inside, but on a bike you’re exposed to much slower speeds and better field of view. Bike accidents have much smaller fatality rate than car accidents.

Unless of course you mean cycling among cars is less safe, but that argument just confirms that cars are unsafe, not bikes. Bikes are not dangerous. Cars are.

andy_wijaya_med ,
@andy_wijaya_med@lemmy.world avatar

I don’t dare to bring my now 3 months old baby with bike. The weather is still "summer"y now. In winter I wouldn’t do it. I myself have fallen down from bikes at least 4 times in the last couple of years. I can’t imagine if that happens while I’m taking my baby with bike.

AlexWIWA ,

It’s possible, but it’s really obnoxious and shitty. Especially if the weather is too cold for a new born to be outside.

New born parents is one of the few true excuses to use a car over a bike, imo.

But that’s okay, we’ll still need roads for emergency services anyway so it’s okay if some people use them.

Toine ,

I have two kids and use a bike (for ecological reasons). I realize I’m incredibly lucky my area has very good and safe biking infrastructure. Had to upgrade to a electric cargo bike when the second one came about, but I don’t regret at all, it’s more’confortable and safer for the kids. I do own an old ICE car, which I considered replacing with a new EV, but since I drive maybe a few hundreds of kilometers per year, I figured it’d make more sense to keep the old diesel than to replace it.

Lintson ,

Unfortunately mass transit that works for everyone is the enemy of vehicle manufacturers.

Titan ,

And the rich. They need to differentiate themselves somehow from the poor

django ,

Optional first class for higher price could be used for this.

Titan ,

That’s a good idea

andrewrgross , in We should have adult playgrounds too. How much could it cost?

Setting aside the fact that the post is a joke, it actually makes a good point.

Playgrounds are one category of common resource, and we should have way, way more of these. I see a bunch of people suggesting that workout equipment or libraries count, but that’s not really sufficient. At playgrounds, it’s common to have a structure for kids under 8 and one above. We actually should have more for teens and above. We SHOULD have all-age group play structures.

This article examines how teenage girls in particular, for instance, often lack welcoming places to safely hang out outside the home: bloomberg.com/…/we-need-more-public-space-for-tee…

We should have more skate parks. We should have urban bouldering walls. Swimming pools and fishing holes, and public gardens along with structures for adults to play tag on. That would be an improvement on most urban landscapes.

Agent641 ,

In australia, many playgrounds also have gas BBQ cookers that you can use for free, and picnic tables. So the taxpayers benefit by having free gass bbq and can cook dinner in the park while their kids are distracted in the playgroud. Pretty sweet deal if you ask me

Saneless , in It's true.

It’s also amazing that they’re “perfectly compatible” with the first teenage boy their parents let her talk to for more than 4 minutes alone

the_third ,

Hey, no reference frame, no problem.

pc_admin , in "Smugly"

I’m guessing thick and burny…

qooqie ,

Maybe more like extremely painful into no pain. The pain would be overwhelming any sensation and you’d quickly destroy any receptors in the area plunged, is what I’m saying.

NightLily ,
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My man you aren’t supposed to release need to know information like this on the internet smh. Going to get lemmy shutdown.

Carighan ,
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Yeah the only thing I’m wondering about is whether you’d actively feel the pain before the receptors are destroyed. Not sure the brain would start interpreting the catastrophic receptor firing as pain in time for it to matter before the signals just shut down.

Oszilloraptor ,

I would be more concerned about phantom pain.

Sure, your fried receptors are not firing anymore; but your head may interpret the absence of any sensory input as pain.

Holzkohlen ,

Only one way to know for sure…

SeabassDan ,

From an evolutionary standpoint I can see how that would be beneficial, which is why those people that don’t feel pain at all hurt themselves badly as kids, but it would be nice to lose an arm and orgasm every time my brain decided to do inventory.

Rootiest ,

My friend burned through his finger with a welding torch. He said he didn’t feel anything until he took the glove off and saw the carnage.

kepr ,

One time I accidentally touched my hand against an active coil at the top of a 450° oven. I heard the noise, felt the contact, and smelled the hair on my hand, but there was absolutely no pain or burning sensation. The burn was pretty bad and the mark is still visible. Never hurt at all though.

Confused_Emus ,

I’d think being close enough to any amount of lava large enough to plunge your arm into would be putting off a considerable amount of heat. Even if you damage your arm enough to not feel it, the rest of you is gonna be pretty uncomfortable from the radiant heat.

casmael ,

Yeah you know, lava-y

saltesc ,

So, gonorrhea. But a lot and suddenly and for the forearm.

original_reader , in Just be yourself, champ.

What does “out of my league” even mean?

The concept of someone being “out of my league” is a myth. We really should stop putting people in these categories and instead see everyone as an equal challenge. By labeling someone as “out of my league,” I am limiting myself and degrading the people who I think are “in my league.” It’s better to focus on people we’re genuinely interested in and not place them on such a high pedestal that they feel they need to be worshipped. Rather place them high enough to think they are prized. The people we date are the ones who we think are great, and we believe they could make us great too.

I feel we should remember that no one is out of anyone’s league. We should rather focus our attention on a person we’re genuinely interested in and challenge ourselves.

You never know what might happen until you try.

Semi-Hemi-Demigod ,
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"Out of my league" also removes the other person's agency. Maybe they really like people who look like you, despite what popular culture implies. By approaching someone with that attitude you've already made their decision for them, which isn't fair.

foggy ,

Reminds me of an old David cross bit about an NYC garbage man that hits on every woman he sees while on the job, because surely someone out there wants to fuck on a pile of trash.

kamenlady , (edited )
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You would be surprised… Like 15 years ago a guy entered the U-Bahn ( subway in Germany ) where i was in, sat beside me and was like, talking a lot and i was pretty relaxed and got into the conversation. Turned out, he was Brazilian ( i grew up in Brazil) and we actually had a nice conversation.

But like after 10 minutes he stood up and said “time to get to know some girls, bye - see ya”. A lean guy, tall, wicked, but in a one piece luffy kind of way. He looked around and went straight to a woman, sat beside her and guess what. They were immediately in a deep conversation, but she got out just two stations later, but not without exchanging numbers.

A moment later he was already talking to another woman and she was visibly positively engaged in a conversation.

I was dying inside, when he went to the first woman. Then I was intrigued and this made me think a lot. For example, this is normal behavior in Brazil ( still, not that bluntly ), but here in Germany not. People are usually very reserved, keep for themselves. This guy, talking, very broken English, doesn’t even know that any kind of other leagues exist. He exists in a language overriding, extra smooth king of league.

Here’s the thing, i admit that my first thought was: he went ti the most"out of his league" woman. I was sure this was gonna be a

“Bitte, lassen Sie mich in Ruhe!”

moment or that she would just change seats, without engaging at all.

I met him a few times after that, he was like, at all parties for the next few months, always talking to everyone and making lots of friends.

I was 22 and this encounter changed some of my views for the better. I learned that you should not judge or assume anything, about anyone, just by their looks.

There are people that are not open to this kind of direct talking, even more so in the subway and I’m sure people told him off. I certainly am not looking for new friendships, when i commute and would rather be left alone. Ah yes, that happened at 7:30 in the morning, on my way to work, of all times and places.

Only the Spanish inquisition storming in, would have topped the unexpected-ness.

r_ffer23 ,

Duuude, that happened to me. I felt so stupid when she told me that back then, I only had to try and we would be together. :(

LaSaucisseMasquee ,

Easy to say when you win the genetic lottery.

HopeOfTheGunblade ,
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I absolutely did not win the genetic lottery. On a very good day I might be a 4. I also have a confusing to me amount of romantic success. Like, dating multiple people, and this having been the case for years, successful. It's not about winning the lottery, it's about cultivating yourself as a person, and being open to opportunities.

agressivelyPassive ,

Then cultivate the idea, that the other person is also, in fact, a person and gets a ton of advances.

Especially as a man it is difficult to approach a “high league” woman, because she gets approached by tons of guys and you have to convince her somehow that you’re a) not another creep and b) actually maybe worth her intention.

I’m not trying to blame women here, just keep your eyes open to what good looking women have to endure in some circumstances. That’s horrible. And blocking many advances by default is kind of self defense.

drolex ,

OP is the second guy from the left. OP knows that the girl is very fond of creepy clowns, but still hopes that she’ll like funny memes shown on his phone.

Also, the clown is well known to have a very large penis. He’s able to give pleasure to multiple partners at once, for a long time.

Littleborat ,

About the pedestal thing: if you look closely you will most likely see many things that are not perfect about that person be it looks or otherwise. I have put people on pedestals that were neither really good looking, nor good people, they just seemed like that superficially.

BackOnMyBS ,
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I have put people on pedestals that were neither really good looking, nor good people, they just seemed like that superficially.

Same. As I got to know them, I learned that it was all a facade. They practiced that look, both in trying to seem really attractive and also trying to seem like they weren’t trying to be attractive, when in reality, their lives revolved entirely around that false image.

demonquark ,

Out of my league means that there’s a high chance I’m going to get rejected. How do I know? It happened to me. It happened to my friends.

Does this guarantee that I will be rejected? No. Does mean that I’m putting the person on a pedestal? No.

It merely means that being rejected sucks. It’s not fun. And to avoid that sucky feeling I’ve chosen to avoid pursuing people with a high chance of rejection.

This behavior is not putting people on a pedestal. After all, if people of my league were truly that amazing, it would be worth it to pursue them. Kind of a high risk, high reward approach. Instead, it’s generally true that a relationship with of an out of my league person is just as fulfilling as someone in my league.

Tldr: out of my league means high risk, low reward

thefartographer ,

No one is “too good for anyone” and no one is “beneath anyone.” But anyone can certainly act that way!

Asafum ,

I mean I get it, but I’m a short, balding, blue collar schmuck with no education above a trade school after highschool. There absolutely is a league and I’m not in it, I’m not even in the same sport as some people.

To use the rather gross scale for reference a 6/10 with a good job and a degree wouldn’t spend 2 seconds thinking about dating me, she’s got 262948291 options that are better than me. That’s what out of my league is. It’s that line of chads in the image, they’re all the people that are better than me. Usually people talk about looks, but it’s also the whole package of what you have to offer. All I have is the clown outfit.

I’ve used dating sites where I can’t even get responses from 2/10s, they were put together with decent jobs just not attractive, even they dont give me the time of day. There are people that are just out of your reach, they won’t pay you any mind because you are “beneath” them, as in they can do better and they know it.

No shame or disrespect in that, know your worth and aim for the best you can get. I don’t blame people for not giving me a shot, they’re smart lol. For me the limit is somewhere between brain dead and animatronic women lol

uxia ,

What do you mean by 2/10 like is that your own subjective rating? What do you mean by “do better?” Like people are so freaking complex, for me no measurement scale can encapsulate it all.

Asafum ,

I suppose it’s a subjective thing, but I think once you’re lower than 3 that’s where most people would agree that you’re not generally physically attractive.

By “do better” I mean finding a more attractive person with a better job and is humorous.

Being “nice” and “funny” are like condiments on a sandwich: they’re nice to have, but people are looking for the turkey, ham, whatever sandwich and are happy to have nice condiments if they’re there, but if they aren’t it’s not a big deal. I’m not winning anyone more attractive or even equally attractive with my ketchup ass self lol

Moeaverage ,

You’re correct but from a joking standpoint it’s funny

LaChaleurDeLaNuit ,

I mean if I’m ugly and the girl is hot I think she’s out of my league.

flubo ,

You seriously shouldnt. Of course it matters whether people feel physically attracted to someonee… But attractiveness is not the same as beauty. I noticed that a big push for being attractive is a high self confidence. I personally also get attracted when someone speaks really passionate about something.

LaChaleurDeLaNuit ,

That’s a good point. Attractiveness is different than beauty, and I guess looking like a model won’t be worth much if you’re an asshole.

meekah ,
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I have a bunch of women as friends and many of them say the same: A guy can only be average looking to them but say something really smart or nice or funny, and all of a sudden everything about him is beautiful.

Sure there are some people who really got dealt a bad hand when playing poker for their face but there’s definitely much more to attraction than just physical appearance.

ParsnipWitch ,

Is the same true for women, though?

meekah ,
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Yeah, I think so.

Grumpy ,

You’re kinda telling people to waste time. It is not a myth.

League, rating scale, etc. are a measurement that’s made from the outside. Not internally. Everyone wants to date the best that they can date. A fit muscular guy is likely going to garner more attention from more people than a fat guy. That is a fact. Subjectivity in attraction certainly exists, but it’s not that widely swinging. A very few curve extremely outside of the norm (i.e fetish). For example, almost every person attracted to a male would find Brad Pitt very attractive. Etc.

So if you go after the attractive person, they’re also going to get many alternate options. And they’re going to pick someone they find most attractive among their suitors. If I had 100 matches on a dating app for example, I’m only going to bother spending my time talking to 10 of them and ghost the 90. I just can’t deal with the rest, humans only have so much time. If I get 1000 matches, I’m going to ignore 990 of them. My criteria in picking who is most attractive is likely not that much different from anyone else.

Question of if they’re out of their league means are you in the ignore pile, or the talk to pile, and sometimes the friendzone pile (i.e. you’re the backup). You can try to claw your way out of the ghosted, but your chances are slim. So it’s better use of your time and resources to retarget to another lower tier person who might only get 20 matches and will bother talking to 10 people. If that still doesn’t work, you keep going lower. This is effectively how the “dating marketplace” puts values on people.

You can keep trying to date the higher tier people, but you’ll keep getting outright rejected or not have a long term relationship with them. Because they know they can do better because they’ll keep getting suitors throughout their life.

World was certainly easier to date in the era of pre-dating apps or social media. Since the pool of people around each other is a lot smaller. But thanks to online interactions, we’re literally competing against countless others. So, it’s better to not waste your time on someone out of your league. You aren’t going to keep them. All you did is waste time (and probably lot of money if you’re a guy, and that money is going to be proportional to the gap between your leagues).

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