The concept of someone being “out of my league” is a myth. We really should stop putting people in these categories and instead see everyone as an equal challenge. By labeling someone as “out of my league,” I am limiting myself and degrading the people who I think are “in my league.” It’s better to focus on people we’re genuinely interested in and not place them on such a high pedestal that they feel they need to be worshipped. Rather place them high enough to think they are prized. The people we date are the ones who we think are great, and we believe they could make us great too.
I feel we should remember that no one is out of anyone’s league. We should rather focus our attention on a person we’re genuinely interested in and challenge ourselves.