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Meltrax , to asklemmy in What's the men's version of Victoria's Secret?

To take your question slightly more seriously: Victoria’s Secret is a brand that mostly exists for men to ogle the female models.

So… Calvin Klein, maybe? Not quite the same number of women ogling the male underwear models but, seems as close as we will get.

Nemo ,

Calvin Klein was my answer, too.

Rhynoplaz , to nostupidquestions in I want to donate old work shirts, but I don't want people to be mistaken for employees there. How do I remove the logos?

I wouldn’t worry about it. If you don’t feel comfortable donating that stuff, then don’t, but I don’t think there’s any easy way to remove the logos without ruining the shirt.

skatrek47 , to asklemmy in What's an immediate turn off in a person?

+1 to being rude to service staff Also MAGA apparel or citing Jesus/God constantly

some_guy ,

Can I interest you in this Chick Tract?

/s

John_McMurray ,

It depends. I run a bar and also frequent bars. I see a lot of behavior from wait staff I’d fire them for. Wait staff endlessly bitch about customers but its a two way street, staff develops a blind spot to their own behavior due to spending so much time in a bar.

Randomgal ,

Bro they are working in a high intensity environment. You are there to have fun. They are talking behind your back. (So how does that affect you?) Versus actively being a jerk to someone just doing their job (which is, unfortunately, to engage with you). It’s not the same.

John_McMurray , (edited )

Are you really trying to explain running a bar to me? Anyways your answer is horseshit. I work in that high intensity environment and see the blinders go on. Innocuous requests by customers turn into staff acting like it’s a massive imposition. They openly talk to me because they’ve been at my bar, served by me, and I know who’s I’d hire and I wouldn’t from the free talk.

Randomgal ,

Cool story bro.

PenisDuckCuck9001 , to nostupidquestions in if the total fertility rate drops and stays below global replacement rate, will humans disappear?

All I know is that if the government wants my cum they’ll have to cum and take it. I’m never having kids unless a lot of other shit improves.

BackOnMyBS ,
@BackOnMyBS@lemmy.autism.place avatar

omg, a gem! this is the quality shit i suffer thru hours of mindlessly browsing on the internet for. thank you, PenisDuckCuck 😘

zcd , to asklemmy in Men in their 40s, what’s one piece of advice for men in their 20s?
  • Stay out of debt
  • Strength train (5/3/1 three or four days per week)
  • Avoid substance abuse
  • Only settle down with someone who is a HELL YES. If you’re lukewarm about them, it’s a no
  • Make time to do something creative like music, make it a habit
  • Say no if you’re not interested in something or someone. Its ok to say no to shit
Nemo , to asklemmy in How do you feel about shopping in stores?

I’m not a fan. It’s almost as bad as shopping online. If I had my druthers, I’d never shop again, just repeat-order things I already know meet my needs.

finley , to asklemmy in Men in their 40s, what’s one piece of advice for men in their 20s?

Don’t smoke

Varyk , to android in PSA: Grayjay is really good

Okay cool thanks. Will check it out

ictinus , to asklemmy in What is a product you would never recommend?
@ictinus@lemmy.world avatar

Anything from Anker after they cancelled an order with PayPal approved payment because ‘they couldn’t verify payment’. Then they insist that the cancelled order could be reviewed if I put personally identifiable information into a random Google sheets doc.

All complaint handling appeared to be a bot. They refused to explain what was the concern with the payment and always responded with very similar ‘apology’ emails even when I indicated for every email they send i’d inform another person to avoid them.

Empricorn ,

Also, Eufy is owned by Anker. They claimed they weren’t transmitting images until hackers proved they could access your “smart” cameras…

esc27 ,

The problem is, in order to view the cameras in their app, the video has to relay through their cloud servers, and they had little to no security. Since then they have added encryption which hopefully helps.

Best practice is to avoid placing any cameras, especially big box store cloud cameras, anywhere sensitive. The two cameras I have online right now are outside where hackers won’t see anything my neighbors can’t see.

snek_boi ,

On Christmas 2023 I was given an Anker charger. By March 2024 it stopped working…

MerchantsOfMisery ,

I really wonder if their product quality fell off and why. I have chargers/cables/batteries from Anker that I bought in 2016 and not a single one has failed.

gorgor301 ,

Ive only used their headphones and chargers, which I bought recently, theyre still working fine. Mostly. Except for my bluetooth earphones. Theres occassional lag and stuttering problems with it on my laptop.

AFC1886VCC ,

That’s interesting, I’ve always had a very good experience with Anker.

ictinus , (edited )
@ictinus@lemmy.world avatar

I have bought a couple of products in the past also. I searched up my recent scenario and found others with the same experience

gorgor301 ,

I had an Anker headphone break within a year or so. I asked for a replacement and sent a picture of a broken hinge. Despite heavy insinuations from them that it was probably because of my rough use (lkely true), they sent me a replacement and asked for my feedback with the whole process. Nicest customer service experience Ive had.

spongebue ,

This was the same company that refused to ship to Rhode Island, suggesting you had their product shipped to a friend on “the mainland” who could then forward it

MerchantsOfMisery ,

Hard disagree. That sucks about what happened to you but in my experience, Anker products (especially their USB cables, chargers, and batteries) are the best.

Edit: Just learned about this shitty news regarding Anker’s cameras (didn’t even know they had cameras) thanks to /u/Empiricorn. Personally, I don’t trust any security cameras that are cloud-based.

barsquid ,

Anker is off my list because of the cameras. They used to be my go-to for cables and chargers. Completely unacceptable.

frunch ,

Any suggestions for a different company to buy cables etc from? I’ve bought their chargers and cables and been happy with them but I’m fine with trying something different next time.

barsquid ,

The suggestion I took was Ugreen for chargers and cables. Cables seem to work, and don’t instantly fray, that’s all I want. I got a compact GaN wall plug and it is reasonably fast for the size. No fires and no fried electronics so far.

frunch ,

I appreciate the recommendation! Thanks!

pineapplelover ,

Where should I get my phone cables and battery banks from?

The phone cables are shit but I haven’t found any other good alternatives. The battery banks are alright.

CaptainKickass , to asklemmy in What would you like to change about Lemmy culture?

Ban obvious actors Mods stop being little bitches

That would clean things up nicely

Kit ,

The Block function has been instrumental to my enjoyment of Lemmy. There’s only a handful of bad actors and they’re obvious when checking post history. There was even one user who was a bad actor on Reddit with literal millions of Karma who moved to Lemmy and made the front page daily with bad faith BS.

Blaze ,

Who’s that?

Kit ,

I got banned from another group for saying their name so I sadly have to refrain from mentioning it here.

JackGreenEarth , to asklemmy in What isn't illegal but should be?

Mutilating the bodies of people too young or otherwise unable to give consent.

undergroundoverground ,

I want to live in a world where “stop cutting bits of babies dicks off” doesn’t require any further explanation.

“No, actually, its you who needs to justify cutting bits of babies dicks off. Not the other way round. Unless its hair, nails or connected to the mum, the default position is actually not to cut bits of the baby off.”

ArcaneSlime ,

Oh lmao I was way off, I was like “damn I’m surprised to see an anti abortion post at +9 -0 on lemmy, wtf?!”

I didn’t realize until I read your post lol.

Deepus ,

So im asking this question as a person who has had to have an adult circumcision, I get the consent part, but why is this considered mutilation?

Again, im genuinely ignorant of the subject beyond medical requirements

cheers_queers ,

vocabulary.com: “When a person or an object has been altered or damaged in a permanent way, that’s a mutilation.”

it can desensitize the penis and cause health issues and/or sexual dysfunction (arguably its intended consequence). forced body alteration is mutilation

Ifera ,

Because it serves a genuine function, because the process poses an unnecessary risk, because there is no way to know how big the penis is going to get when the kid grows up, and that is part of the reason for the foreskin, to have a ton of give so it doesn’t happen like it did to my ex. He got circumcised as a newborn, and by the time he finished puberty, his penis grew far more than the leftover foreskin, so he wasn’t even able to have full erections without a tremendous amount of pain and sometimes, even tearing.

velvetThunder ,

This is a complicated way to flex with a big dick. But thanks for the insight. Didn’t know about this specific problem circumcision has.

shottymcb ,

If you chop someone’s leg off without consent for no good reason, that’s mutilation. If you amputate it with consent for legitimate medical reasons that’s a medical procedure.

HelixDab2 ,

This 100% reads to me as an anti-trans post. Maybe that’s not your intent, but that’s the way it reads. Esp. since anyone under 18 con not legally give consent to anything.

swordgeek ,

I read it as an anti-circumcision post. You ckuld be right, though.

communism ,
@communism@lemmy.ml avatar

It’s not because young trans people can consent to transitioning. Consenting to sex is not the same thing as consenting to medical procedures. Would you forcibly hold down a 12 year old to give them a vaccine despite them refusing and resisting? If not, then clearly you recognise that under 18s have a degree of bodily autonomy and have to consent to the medical procedures they receive once they are mentally capable of understanding and expressing a choice on those procedures.

It would be pro-trans given the habit of surgical mutilation of intersex infants, which causes a lot of problems down the line for trans intersex people seeking transition surgery that would essentially reverse the mutilation they experienced as infants when they couldn’t consent.

If they meant it in an anti-trans way then they would be factually wrong insofar as transition procedures are, by definition, consensual. The non-consensual procedures (which may be the same procedures) are done to “correct” children’s (usually, though some cis adults opt to have them done) sexes towards the one they were assigned.

HelixDab2 ,

Would you forcibly hold down a 12 year old to give them a vaccine despite them refusing and resisting?

That can and does happen. Do you think that children enjoy getting shots? Children generally do not have bodily autonomy, no. Parents can refuse certain non-critical medical care for their children, even if the child wants that care. The state can force a child to receive certain medical care, even if the child doesn’t want it. Whether it’s morally right or not to deny a minor bodily autonomy is a different question, but as a matter of law, they do not generally have bodily autonomy.

communism ,
@communism@lemmy.ml avatar

Well I guess the laws where I live are quite different to where you live. I don’t have the statistics but I imagine that a non-insignificant number of countries set the age of medical consent to a reasonable age at which people understand and have their own preferences as to the medical care they receive.

Do you think that children enjoy getting shots?

I said 12. 12 year olds can refuse vaccines (and those who do are not physically forced to, that sounds insane to me), in my experience at school when vaccines were offered at that age almost everyone opted to have them though.

Rhynoplaz , to showerthoughts in Upvotes on memes function like modern day laugh tracks

🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤣😂😂

I didn’t know how to react at first, but once you got over 20 upvotes, it all made sense.

ouch , to games in Good game soundtracks?

Total Annihilation

ouch , to games in Good game soundtracks?

Transistor

GoodEye8 ,

Personally I prefer Bastion soundtrack over Transistor but both a good.

Nemo , to asklemmy in What things would you standardize globally if you were the Supreme Leader? All violations punishable by death.

If all punishment is capital punishment, then I’d keep it as laissez-faire as possible.

Except for “no parking in the bike lane”. That one’s worth.

corsicanguppy ,

That one’s worth.

You a word.

Nemo ,

Alright, “That one is worth.”

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