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pyrflie , in Brits: Salt is a spice

Chicken Curry is the most popular British dish as of about 10 years ago and It’s only gotten better since then.

It’s like a US state dish but given the size and population that’s fair. Even more important it’s good.

It’s also been developing for about 100 years. It’s the British/Indian equivalent of Pizza. And It’s beautiful.

Maeve ,

Jamaican curried goat is divine, and it must be Jamaican curry, and added water must be tricked very slowly down the side of very hot, cast iron Dutch oven and simmered quite a while. I was fortunate enough to have a Jamaican neighbor show me the trick. And to my American compatriots, sweet potatoes are not yams.

arin ,

Thank you Indians

SpaceNoodle , in All roads

Big tiddy visigoth GF

Anticorp ,

WHERE?

MelastSB ,

Somewhere around Germania, I assume

DragonTypeWyvern , (edited )

The Visigoths rather famously expanded through southern Gaul and Iberia.

www.britannica.com/topic/Visigoth

So you’re just a big titty Goth GF if you live in Germania, but you evolve into big titty Visigoth GF if you conquer Spain and Aquitaine. Don’t sleep on the alternate evolution of big titty Ostrogoth GF from conquering Italy.

SpaceNoodle ,

The Balkans

odium , in Oui

Nah, fuck the fr*nch

Slovene ,

I’d LOVE to. Like Marion Cotillard for example.

AFC1886VCC ,

Alizée bro

Slovene ,

Who’s Alizée bro? Never heard of him.

AFC1886VCC ,

youtu.be/oX5pLwHbllg

watch and be enthralled

snooggums ,
@snooggums@midwest.social avatar

the French liked this

gramathy ,

The French get a bad rep, they riot for anti-worker bullshit, they helped the US win the revolution,and they didn’t go along with dubya’s stupid Iraq war

Gradually_Adjusting , (edited )
@Gradually_Adjusting@lemmy.ca avatar

I’ve never been impressed with my fellow Americans who talk shit on the French. We have mostly let go of our revolutionary spirit, and they never did. We would do well to pick up where we left off at Blair mountain.

EmpathicVagrant ,

Well said.

Baku ,

I’ve always thought that perhaps all the stereotypes about the French being arseholes come from American tourists being entitled and disrespectful and the French just not taking any of their shit

Mr_Blott ,

Lived in Paris for a year and this is 100% the reason, according to Parisian waitstaff I knew. Same for the Brits.

Apparently the reason is the french motto “Liberté, Égalité, Fraternité”

They take that shit seriously. Every job is equally valuable and to be respected. You speak to and treat a waiter or a cleaner the same way you speak to a doctor or a lawyer, they’re all égal humans

A sizeable portion of American and British tourists treat waitstaff like animals, and cleaners as though they don’t exist, then wonder why they’re rude to them

It’s égalité, and yous started it, yous cunts 😂

sailingbythelee ,

The current bad reputation of the French is mostly because of WW2. They surrendered after only 6 weeks of fighting and then heavily collaborated with the Nazis. French collaboration was so heartfelt that they refused to hand over their navy to the British when requested to do so. They even fired on American ships and troops in North Africa when the Americans arrived to liberate them from German occupation.

The French were also enthusiastic participants in the Final Solution. According to Wikipedia, “the Nazis in France relied to a considerable extent on the co-operation of local authorities to carry out what they called the Final Solution. The government of Vichy France and the French police organized and implemented the roundups of Jews.”

After the war, De Gaulle promoted the narrative that the French heroically resisted the Nazis, but this was not at all true. The famous French Resistance was tiny until the last part of the war, and only grew once it became clear that Germany would lose. The French government also denied their role in the Holocaust for over 50 years until 1995 when Jacques Chirac finally admitted that, “[T]hose black hours soiled our history forever. … [T]he criminal madness of the occupier was assisted by the French people, by the French State. … France, that day, committed the irreparable.”

So, yeah, that’s why people dunk on France, particularly when it comes to military matters. They certainly did not live up to the ideals of the Revolution or the martial prowess of Napoleon.

Titou ,

You’re acting like every others countries are angels

sailingbythelee ,

Not at all. I identified a particular historical event where the French failed badly. Identifying one country’s specific mistakes doesn’t imply that others are angels. For example, obviously no one would claim that Germany and Japan were “angels” during WW2, but that goes without saying, right?

In fact, I responded to another commenter who called them out for racism and arrogance because that is far too general a claim with no evidence.

ddkman ,

More relevantly SOME people can be discriminated just based on where they were born, and it is perfectly fine, since they are white and european…

Titou ,

Bro insulted us but probably daily use words we invented

WhiskyTangoFoxtrot ,

Most of them were invented by Italians.

Mubelotix ,
@Mubelotix@jlai.lu avatar

France was created way before Italy

Titou ,

Not at all but ok, never heard of guillaume le conquérant ?

MrBusiness ,

Can’t say I have, but I do enjoy the works of Guillermo del Toro.

Jk, thanks for the interesting read. That was one phenomenal life.

meanPresentation80 OP ,

Dude I’m french

Titou ,

Mais je te parlais pas a toi

meanPresentation80 OP ,

A my bad

Titou , (edited )

Aucun soucis, mais pk tu continue de me parler en anglais si ont parle tt les deux fr ?

meanPresentation80 OP ,

J’en sais rien comme tu veux

db2 , in I do not condone violence against political opponents

They’re not Republicans the way that word meant, but the ones that were won’t be coming back out of cowardice and have abdicated the name to the fascists, so now they are de facto Republicans.

Note that anything to do with southern US states makes all of the above confusing and incestuously intertwined, so we will stick to the simpler less inbred definitions.

joyjoy ,

Being Republican is always a choice.

cmbabul ,

It’s always a choice eventually, indoctrination from a young age is difficult to shake but I stop that lenience around age 23-25

Bristle1744 ,

I stop that lenience when they casually slip into conversation that trans people should be murdered on sight.

In what world bob? Even in your fantasy world where they are mentally ill, they should still be murdered on sight?

DragonTypeWyvern ,

There was a great clip of some chud who argued himself into accepting trans people with that exact kind of reasoning.

It’s a mental illness, you can even see brain chemistry differences -> They deserve therapy -> failing that, corrective surgery or hormones-> oh

I don’t know if it stuck, but it was still hilarious. And it demonstrated the point rather handily that the rational folks are all already on team Woke.

xthexder ,
@xthexder@l.sw0.com avatar

It’s taken a while to figure out the meaning, but the reading I did basically defines “Woke” as generally being aware of the world and its problems, (Or in other words, not having your head in the sand). It’s baffling that the term has been used as an insult by anti-intellectuals.

stringere ,

It’s baffling that the term has been used as an insult by anti-intellectuals

The end of your sentence is the unbaffler you need.

xthexder ,
@xthexder@l.sw0.com avatar

Okay, fair. Let me reword that: I’m baffled that anti-intellectualism is a thing.

EmpathicVagrant ,

I didn’t wake the fuck up until I was about 27, and every day of my life since I’ve focused on practicing empathy and mindfulness - the little fantasy world they live in was comforting and it was difficult to break some habits.

Anyone, even an octogenarian who is trying to grow and acknowledge their own faults of the past should deserve to be met with understanding, not malice.

Fapper_McFapper ,

Thank you very much! I loved your words. To hear that there are people out there like you gives me hope.

JusticeForPorygon ,
@JusticeForPorygon@lemmy.world avatar

Im a senior in high school and a couple of guys in my class are just so close to their big breakthrough

original_reader , in [gasp]

TBF, that’s actually a pretty profound insight.

Most, if not all, of us take certain concepts for granted until someone points out that it’s more complex than we realise. Examples like Dark Energy & Matter, entropy, the placebo effect, the nature of mathematical objects, etc. are proof of this.

niartenyaw ,
@niartenyaw@midwest.social avatar

we also live in a world which has now known that premise and used it for 300 years, which makes it seem much more trivial than it was at the time.

flamingos , in Leftist game be like
@flamingos@ukfli.uk avatar
C3D , in No sir

This has no right being this funny

Usernamealreadyinuse , in Zendaya's original dress

To be honest I think it looks cool! Why not? Bring back the armor, capes and/or swords!

Viking_Hippie ,
prole ,

I imagine plate armor is uncomfortable as fuck… Capes are dope though, but I can imagine them getting caught in various things causing fatal accidents (escalators, revolving doors, moving trains, etc.)

EmpathicVagrant ,
Shard ,

Its not difficult to engineer a bit of safety into a cape. The clasps holding the cape around your neck/on your body can be designed to have a low breakaway strength to prevent strangulation(150N is a typical force). This is a feature designed into most safety helmets. Its secure enough to never fall off unintentionally, but weak enough that it removes the risk of strangulation.

crushyerbones ,

This is literally what capes were like. The world was even more dangerous back then and the human brain hasn’t received any upgrades since capes went out of fashion :)

EvolvedTurtle ,

I mean That’s just what cat collars have lol

thisNotMyName ,

Zendaya switched to a dress after the red carpet walk, so you are probably right about the comfortability

FlashMobOfOne ,
@FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world avatar

Exceedingly cool.

She’s the upgraded model of protocol droid and I dug it!

SatansMaggotyCumFart ,

Could it be some kind of sexbot?

THE_MASTERMIND ,

I for one would like to dress in 80s coat and suit

Usernamealreadyinuse ,

Or the 50s with 3 part suite with complimenting fedora!

captainlezbian , in Can't win with some people

Ok but also you aren’t nonbinary just because you’re an effeminate man. They’re different things entirely

anarchy79 ,
@anarchy79@lemmy.world avatar

Nothing is anything, did people forget that these are all completely nonsense words with no connection to reality? No matter how scientific and very legal very cool semantic concepts you come up with it won’t change reality one fucking bit. Non binary… Nobody gives a FUCK, it has no correlation with ANYTHING in the Universe, it’s just another shit pseudophilosophical concept being shoved down everyone’s throat like it’s some kind of objective reality.

It’s metaphysics, and “you people” (yes, YOU PEOPLE) suck at it.

The shit you find in your belly hole while navel gazing is not worth shit.

LainTrain ,

Are you transphobic as well? I’m genuinely curious. Or does transgender count as “real” in your view because it does have a far more strict definition?

MetaCubed ,

I thought they were gender abolitionist, but I… I’m not too sure anymore.

LainTrain ,

I am too tbh, I think the weird thing is enbies to me are inherently a sort of political commentary through identity on gender and our relationship to it, unless I’m just wrong.

I think the whole issue is somewhat separate from trans people who mostly are just people with a mental neurodivergence/disorder called gender dysphoria that causes them anguish and is caused by their body’s sex and their brain’s innate sense of sex don’t agree and therefore they seek medical treatments like HRT and surgeries and documentation changes to help them perceive themselves and be perceived by others as members of the target sex as much as is humanly possible.

Their political angle is to fight for access to said healthcare to be more common, available through insurance, be taken more seriously with faster wait times and be available to younger people since the effectiveness of a lot of the treatments like hormones depends on the age you start.

Conflating the two imo is kinda like commentary on attention spans relating to social media and the actual neurological disorder ADHD.

MetaCubed ,

I think it’s a little “exotic” to call my existence an inherent political commentary. It’s certainly something that can be used to inform political debate, but I believe saying that it’s inherent misses the point that our existence is only political because it’s politicized

And for what it’s worth, gender dysphoria is also something experienced by nonbinary folks, but it isn’t a requirement of being trans or non-binary either. Some people just don’t experience it and requiring it as a clinical diagnosis is part of the medicalization of our and trans people’s existence as well.

I don’t really know how to finish this lol, I agree with the rest of your comment. I just wanted to correct what I feel are common misconceptions.

LainTrain ,

Maybe dysphoria isn’t a precondition to being trans, but I don’t get how.

What I don’t understand is then why transition? If you’re fine as you are, why the hassle? Just as fashion/identity? Body modding for lulz? Nothing wrong with either but it’s very removed from my XP.

I only transitioned because I needed to, to me GD is a curse treated with medication and surgeries I couldn’t live without and that’s basically all that being trans is to me. The identity of being trans is defined to me by dysphoria - mental torture associated with one’s birth sex fixed by becoming the other, or as close as possible with current tech.

Also how does enby dysphoria work? Do you just feel dysphoric about a mix of male and female traits? That’s wild if true.

chetradley ,

Telling someone whose gender doesn’t conform to the male/female binary view of gender that the term non-binary is a “shit pseudophilosophical concept” that “has no connection to reality” fucking sucks. Either you don’t recognize gender outside of the binary, or you just think these people don’t deserve a way to express and talk about their gender. Either way it’s a garbage take.

tan00k ,

You can’t gatekeep being nonbinary. Not unless you’re prepared to define it explicitly, which will exclude many people - and not everyone will agree with your definition either.

captainlezbian ,

I said just because. Not that effeminate men aren’t capable of being nonbinary, merely that it is not sufficient (or necessary for that matter). You have to like actually not identify as entirely a man.

But it’s not my place to fight I’m very much in the binary side of transness.

tan00k ,

Whose authority says it’s not sufficient? If they say they are nonbinary, they are nonbinary.

aBundleOfFerrets ,

OP means “don’t assume someone is non-binary because they are an effeminate man” and not “you aren’t non-binary just because you are an effeminate man”

tan00k ,

I suppose that’s possible, but the thing you say OP is not saying is literally a quote. So at best it’s worded poorly.

The_Lopen ,

Except they literally said that

aBundleOfFerrets ,

Their intent with the message was clearly less-than-literal. They tried to clear things up in replies but failed. I think it is quite clear that they meant no one any harm, and simply failed to convey their idea properly.

The_Lopen ,

The comment itself should be edited to reflect the original intent, then. People can’t just say stupid and hyperbolic things and not be held socially accountable.

Sadbutdru ,

This is a miscommunication, you two are not really in disagreement as far as I can see. If someone {presents as an effeminate man} AND {they say they’re non-binary} => {they are non-binary}. However if someone {presents as an effeminate man} AND does NOT {say they’re non-binary}… Then it’s not sufficient.

Flughoernchen , in Imbecile

Is this some kind of American joke that I’m too European to understand?

yeather , (edited )

Yes, the yellow flag is anti-government, libertarian, while the black and blue flag is pro government and specifically pro police.

prettybunnys ,

They can’t be oppressed, but they support the boots who oppresses you the other.

PsychedSy ,

Stepper no step.

NutWrench ,
@NutWrench@lemmy.ml avatar

It’s propaganda. Cops have a serious image problem in the US so they cynically co-opted an American flag for their cause, figuring that people won’t criticize the FLAG, right? It’s a marketing strategy that only appeals to folks who already have a child-like worship of authority.

brygphilomena ,

It’s hilarious that they do it in a way that blatantly goes against the flag code. How disrespectful it is to change the flag, to wear the flag, or use it for advertisements.

I have seriously considered creating and printing pamphlets with the flag code on it to give to these faux patriots. Or maybe even those fake ticket things where I can check off what exactly they did to disrespect it.

I even had a neighbor who painted the floor of their trailer with it. They literally drove vehicles and trampled on the flag daily.

4 U.S. Code § 8 - Respect for flag

(d) The flag should never be used as wearing apparel, bedding, or drapery.

(g) The flag should never have placed upon it, nor on any part of it, nor attached to it any mark, insignia, letter, word, figure, design, picture, or drawing of any nature.

(i) The flag should never be used for advertising purposes in any manner whatsoever. It should not be embroidered on such articles as cushions or handkerchiefs and the like, printed or otherwise impressed on paper napkins or boxes or anything that is designed for temporary use and discard. Advertising signs should not be fastened to a staff or halyard from which the flag is flown.

(k) The flag, when it is in such condition that it is no longer a fitting emblem for display, should be destroyed in a dignified way, preferably by burning.

hemko ,

The flag should never be used for advertising purposes in any manner whatsoever.

Lol

FlyingSquid ,
@FlyingSquid@lemmy.world avatar

You’re talking about cops who use the Punisher logo unironically despite the fact that Frank Castle kills cops every chance he gets.

KazuyaDarklight ,
@KazuyaDarklight@lemmy.world avatar

Bottom is just a classic meme, top is a guy flying near full size “don’t tread on me” and “thin blue line”( fanatic police support) flags. Many would argue these are varying levels of contradictory. It’s also a very MAGA thing to do so you can draw conclusions from that as well.

Flughoernchen ,

Wasn’t able to identify the left flag, so I made a (rather lame) joke instead of asking directly. Thanks for clarifying!

HikingVet ,

Good use of Cunningham’s law.

PsychedSy ,

Add the punisher logo for the trifecta.

waigl ,

The way I, as another European, understand this, he’s flying an anti-oppression flag and a pro-oppression flag at the same time.

velox_vulnus ,

South Asian here, so I don’t know well, but left one is appropriated by ancaps. Right one is used by MAGA crazies. Both are economically right leaning ideologies. One is anti-government, other is pro-government.

Kecessa ,

First one is libertarian (do your own shit, protect your own shit by yourself), the other is pro-police forces. In the end it’s just pretty ironic.

someguy3 ,

Well not to him because police are to tread on the others, not him.

Fuck_u_spez_ ,

Right, because this dude is totally 100% law abiding.

someguy3 ,

There was a story about a guy giving his sister a ride to court. When she was there she was in disbelief that they holding her to account because she was not ‘one of them’ gesturing to the other people there.

prettybunnys , (edited )

The Gadsden flag, the snake, was a patriotic symbol during the American revolutionary war.

The snake in general was a common symbol used at the time with a famous (Franklin?) illustration of a snake in 13 pieces representing how the snake needs all 13 colonies to be whole.

The Gadsden flag was the “13 pieces of the snake united, coiled and dangerous” with its “don’t step on me” motto. This flag despite being anti-government oppression was actually supposed to represent the strength in our unity (sad they now use it to divide).

The blue line flag is part of a movement that implies that the police are the only thing holding back chaos from society. It’s designed to mean the flag only exists because police keep society existing. This has and was always been a load of shit but now has moved more into meaning “our side is the side who makes stuff work” and sliding even further into a fascist strongman style ethos.

Both are now effectively just “brands” of the American conservative right.

The thin blue line flag is supposed to support police, the weapon of the state. But the Gadsden flag represents that “they can’t or won’t be oppressed.” The Gadsden flag made a big comeback during the Bush years and the spread of a more “(what they called) libertarian” sect of the American right. Which frankly is bullshit because it’s an American symbol not the hate symbol they’ve coopted it into these days.

It’s a grab bag of US conservative branding but all in all on the surface you can make a measured bet that this person complains very hard about the taxes other people pay, don’t understand civics at a fundamental level, and likely while pretending they aren’t they are supremely racist.

You could equate these two flags to be the equivalent of someone flying a Thor Steinar logo flag in europe.

A better idea of how dumb this is would be imagine someone driving down the road in 2250 flying a Brexit flag and a EU flag on their truck

NutWrench ,
@NutWrench@lemmy.ml avatar

This. It’s a typical example of how conservatives are utterly clueless about American symbols. Like how they adopted Springsteen’s “Born in the USA” thinking it’s a patriotic jingle, when the song is completely critical of the USA. Just read the lyrics of the song for God’s sake.

But the only thing Goober Nation hears is “Born in the USA.”

Carvex ,

They used the song for an American win at the 2012 London Olympics, as well as “Werewolves of London” for a British win, a song with the line “little old lady got mutilated last night”.

Bytemeister ,

Werewolves of London again.

Ahwooooooooo!

scrubbles ,
@scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech avatar

Springsteen was a genius, knew exactly what he was making. I remember the first time I listened to the lyrics and my heart broke a little. The lyrics are all too familiar and sting, with the sharp positive turn to the chorus. It’s a perfect metaphor for society.

Whenever I hear it I get angry with America, and I get angry with conservative boomers who use the verses as drinking breaks so they can belt out the chorus proudly thinking they are real patriots.

Easyreever ,

I do believe it was Franklin who had the 13 pieces of the snake but I always thought the 13 pieces of the snake was printed with the slogan “Unite or Die” which had a slightly different context than the more commonly seen “don’t tread on me”.

I expect that both were kicked around at the same time during the revolutionary or pre-revolutionary war and Franklin made use of it as he saw best.

Of course I could just search for it, but what fun would that be……I already researched it a long time ago, why go back and try to correct memory, right?

prettybunnys ,

The Franklin illustration and Gadsden flag are separate, I was just referencing the common use of the snake to represent the colonies

Anticorp ,

If ignorance and foolishness is a joke, then yes. The meanings of the two flags are ideologically opposed to each other.

Rezzit , in I need MORE

No sway? No Fluxbox? No i3? No Plasma(wayland)? Pathetic. (jk)

zyratoxx OP ,
@zyratoxx@lemm.ee avatar

Good input, I’m gonna add these to my collection

AI_toothbrush ,

Also hyprland if your distro has it.

knorke3 ,

awesome while you’re at it

zyratoxx OP ,
@zyratoxx@lemm.ee avatar

Ohoho write that down write that down

umbrella ,
@umbrella@lemmy.ml avatar

no Pantheon, arguably the most polished DE

sagrotan ,
@sagrotan@lemmy.world avatar

Bspwm? dwm? What about my favorites??

Drusas , in Liquid fire

I'll never understand all these people with such sensitive digestive systems that they can't eat Taco Bell.

Viking_Hippie ,

I don’t know about yours, but my digestive system isn’t a big fan of salmonella and e coli.

TxzK ,

skill issue

Viking_Hippie ,

True, I didn’t go for the Iron Stomach skill. Will in the next playthrough, though.

lolcatnip ,

You can find the same problems with any fast food chain. And neither of those things affect your anus specifically, so they can’t be what OP is referring to.

Viking_Hippie ,

You can find the same problems with any fast food chain.

Other fast food chains having unacceptably lax hygiene doesn’t make it acceptable for Taco Bell.

neither of those things affect your anus specifically

Both give you diarrhea, which necessitates a lot of wiping, which affects the anus specifically.

Have you never had diarrhea, have you always used a bidet or are you just full of shit (pun intended)?

Drusas ,

Which are not common problems at Taco Bell.

Viking_Hippie ,

Those two links are both to descriptions of major outbreaks originating at Taco Bell…

Drusas ,

Two instances does not make something common.

Viking_Hippie ,

Two major outbreaks are still two too many. Stop simping for a megacorp that doesn’t respect it’s employees or customers enough to pay enough to care about hygiene.

Drusas ,

Stating factual information is not simping. Two outbreaks does not make it a common problem, no matter how you feel about the corporation.

Viking_Hippie ,

They’re not isolated events unrelated to how they run things, though.

One might be a fluke, but two or more (and there’s probably more, those were just the first results of a couple quick searches) is indicative of a more systemic problem of Taco Bell not taking food hygiene seriously.

southsamurai ,
@southsamurai@sh.itjust.works avatar

Grease + spices = increased bowel motility.

If you add to that conditions like IBS, IBD, Chrone’s, etc, you’ve got a recipe for blowouts.

Mind you, Taco Bell has nothing on places like chipotle with even higher spice levels. But it’s the grease that fucks with most people. Since there’s also far less in the way of soluble fiber and/or things that can hold onto the grease in the bowel, even someone without an unusual sensitive gut can have trouble if they aren’t used to it.

Drusas ,

I've got terrible digestive problems myself and Taco Bell is something that doesn't set me off, so I'll never get it. It's not spicy, it's not super greasy.... But I guess I tend to get the less un-food-like options (such as a regular bean burrito, which has nothing particularly bad in it unless you're sensitive to beans).

southsamurai ,
@southsamurai@sh.itjust.works avatar

Gotcha. Their standard ground beef is maybe a 3 or 4/10 on the grease scale, with the steak notching up to maybe a 7.

The spices aren’t so much hot, really. They don’t add much that carries a lot of capsaicin afaik. But they do use chili powder and cumin in there, both of which are hit-or-miss in terms of being IBS triggers. I can handle both fine, but I know folks that can’t. It’s the grease that gets me, because I can use similar spices at home with no issues.

Then again, not every store is the same grease level. The one in my town is greasy as hell, to the point that the wrappers around the tacos are falling apart sometimes. But the one in the nearest city is nowhere near as bad.

dlrht , in You're just a kid, how would you know what you want for the rest of your life?

At what age are you supposed to know what you want for the rest of your life? You will never have an answer to that in any capacity, and not just in marriage. You evolve as a person, you’ll never have a fixed desire for your whole life. And that’s the great thing about marriage and relationships, they also evolve. And it’s about who you want to try doing that with

Kit ,

At what age are you supposed to know what you want for the rest of your life?

Maybe around the year that the brain finishes developing, which can vary from person to person but is typically around the mid 20s.

dlrht , (edited )

I see/hear about marriages started at 30+ 40+ 50+ all the time that fail. I see people pivot careers and industries in the middle years of their life. People tastes change all the time as they get older. Let’s not pretend that when your brain finishes developing you suddenly have life figured out/know exactly what you want

I generally agree that getting married before 24 is a pretty risky move and you have to have thought it through very carefully, but the argument that “you don’t know what you want for the rest of your life” is not the reason why that is. It relates more to life experience/emotional capability/massive foresight. Marriage is more than just “wanting something for the rest of your life”, it’s a commitment, it’s not just some eternal desire you may/may not have

InfiniWheel ,

I feel like it might come from the fact most relationships are pretty short before you are 24. Few people hold onto long lasting relationships by that age and few (at the time) short ones develop into anything reliable.

A former classmate of mine met a guy and got married after knowing him almost a year, like right out of highschool. Last I heard of her they went through a messy divorce couple of years later, which we all saw coming and tried telling her about.

dlrht ,

That sounds more like an issue with that person not being open/receptive to her peers advice. And I think this is true for many people beyond the age of 24 as well

agressivelyPassive ,

That might as well be an argument for child marriage.

dlrht ,

Uh, no. If you’re just a kid at 24 according to OP, when do you stop being a kid? When OP arbitrarily says so now? Could’ve sworn legal age meant something like “when you’re no longer a kid and can make your own decisions”. I mean I agree, 24 year olds are basically kids and still have a lot of life experience to gain. But they’re not actually children like you’re weirdly implying I’m saying

dudinax ,

You evolve all the time, but you might have some desires that are fixed for your whole life and you might realize it before you’re an adult.

Xttweaponttx ,

Wow, well said!

wandermind , in How I like my pi

Pihole and uBlock Origin have different purposes. Pihole blocks ad domains network-wide. uBlock Origin can remove specific elements from specific webpages with surgical precision regardless of the domain the content is served from, so it is a much more precise wide-spectrum content blocker.

In other words, uBlock Origin can block basically everything, but only works in your browser. Pihole blocks fewer things and less precisely but works for all your devices.

abcde_fz ,

Thank you, this clears it up really well!

reverendsteveii , in This is for something else.

fuck the butterfly effect, do what you want. you’ve thrived in chaos once already.

Timecircleline ,

This is so inspiring.

AlolanYoda ,

I just want you to know this is one of the most beautiful comments I’ve ever read, and it came from a random comment section from an ok comic strip. So much so that I upvoted it once I saw it and came back hours later just to save it.

logicbomb ,

I forget where I heard it from, but somebody said that it’s strange how we believe that if we go back in time and make a small change, it will have a huge effect on the future, but we also believe that making small changes today won’t make any difference in the future.

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