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BumpingFuglies , to asklemmy in If someone's pronouns are any/all, what should I use or how should I determine how to refer to you and what pronouns to use?

If someone tells you they don’t care about pronoun usage, believe them. I’m nonbinary and don’t care what pronoun people use for me, because I identify as both male and female. Most people default to “he” for me because of my beard, but others use “they” because of my proclivity for wearing skirts, nail polish, and lipstick. Rarely I’ll have someone use “she” (or I’ll use it myself), but ultimately, I’m just a person who exists outside of the gender spectrum (or right in the middle), and pronouns are just a grammatical tool to save time, so I prefer that people use whatever comes most naturally to them.

kakes , to asklemmy in What's the closest you have ever been to actually dying?

Back when I was a welder, I was trying to cut something with an angle grinder in an awkward position.

I guess my brain was turned off that day because I decided to grind with the sparks going directly away from me.

So of course, the disc binded, and sent the angle grinder directly at my face.

Thank god I was wearing a face shield, at least. In about 0.1 seconds, my face shield was cut entirely in half.

The fun didn’t stop there, though, because I had the trigger lock on (again, genius). So it was still spinning at full force after it jumped out of my hands.

Also, I was on a ladder, so here I am, trying to throw the grinder away from my with my arms, on top of a ladder, all the while the cutting disc is going absolutely out of control essentially in full contact with my face, neck, chest, and arms.

Finally I manage to push it off of me, it falls to the floor and the disc breaks. I finally get off the ladder and unplug the grinder.

At this point, I can see that my face shield is cut clean down the middle. I’m thinking 1000% I’m gonna be needing an urgent hospital visit. I take off the face shield, and carefully touch my face… No blood… I take out my phone and use it as a mirror, not a scratch… I meticulously check the rest of my body… nothing.

Turns out, after all that, the only damage was to the disc and the face shield.

I can’t even explain how I felt after that. I spent the rest of the day in an almost out-of-body experience, and was shaken for a few weeks at least. I beat myself up a lot for being so stupid, and I literally couldn’t believe how lucky I was. I still can’t believe it.

ExLisper OP ,

Would this actually kill you though? Sounds scary but not really deadly.

AdlachGyfiawn ,
@AdlachGyfiawn@lemmygrad.ml avatar

Angle grinding your neck would most certainly kill you.

ExLisper OP ,

You’re right I guess. Also falling on the grinder would not be fun.

thatsTheCatch ,

An angle grinder to the face could easily kill you. Even falling off a ladder could be potentially deadly depending on the situation

kakes ,

Yeah, it was definitely a situation where all my vital organs were dangerously close to a cutting disc spinning at over 10k rpm, plus the ladder. Definitely enough to stop a guy from living if it went slightly differently.

PM_Your_Nudes_Please ,

Angle grinders will 100% fuck you up. The blade is made of compressed metal dust, so it can erode as it grinds away at whatever you’re cutting. But it also means that the blades are prone to shattering, because it’s basically just dust and glue held together by a wire mesh. The resulting shards are often moving so fast that they can embed themselves in solid concrete.

At the very least, OP would be missing their nose or an eye, and would have a giant chunk of metal embedded in their face. That’s the best case scenario. If the blade hasn’t shattered and is still spinning, then you have something designed to grind incredibly hard materials actively grinding away at your skull. And if they were working alone when this happened, (it sounds like they were) they’d probably bleed out before anyone else found them.

As someone who has done a lot of construction work, I say this with complete certainty: You don’t even want to be in the same room as an angle grinder unless you’re wearing a full face shield. Not just safety goggles. A full face shield.

kakes ,

Right on. Also, can confirm, was working alone at the time.

all-knight-party ,
@all-knight-party@kbin.cafe avatar

Fuck, you got really lucky. There were so many aspects of that whole situation that you could've died from, even just the ladder.

CapeWearingAeroplane ,

I think you should congratulate yourself a bit: You didn’t make it due to dumb luck, but because you were smart enough to have several redundant safety measures in place, so that even though two of them failed (cutting the wrong way, with lock engaged) the last one (face shield) saved you. It wasn’t luck, but routine and skill that made sure you were fine, even though your brain was completely turned off that day :)

PM_Your_Nudes_Please ,

Yeah, it only takes one experience to completely cement the use of PPE. You can always tell when someone has never had an accident, because they complain about wearing their PPE, or neglect to wear it at all. In contrast, the people who have been saved by PPE will wear it without complaint. Every. Single. Time.

Sort of like wearing your seatbelt. You don’t need it until suddenly you do.

Zippy ,

Likely your biggest fatality risk was the fall but it would have left you with a nasty scar and maybe loss of an eye.

Friend welder did exact same thing. Funny thing was a cop walked in that pretty much exact second totally unrelated. The cop ended up taking him to the hospital. Just a good scar on his head now. But what welder doesn’t have a few?

Sho , to asklemmy in What's a current or growing trend only you seem to have concerns about?

I’m with OP on this one, I can’t stand that everything needs an app to do simple tasks either. And subscriptions are getting way out of hand, the whole technological scope seems way more intrusive then it needs to be.

NotMyOldRedditName ,

Subscriptions are definitely out of hand.

I’ve looked at a few wearable fitness things and most of them come with subscriptions to access the data you want from the sensors, it’s insane.

ashura ,

Ditto. Subscriptions for something you should just pay once is ridiculous. No, I do not owe you a monthly sub for an app that I already paid for.

HouseWolf OP ,

Worse is went you’ve already paid for a lifetime license and they pull the rug out saying they’ll no longer honor it after a certain date.

That’s the quickest way to to get on my ‘Always Pirate’ list

9point6 ,

If a piece of software doesn’t have a perpetual license, I’m not using it. I wish more people would do the same, so this predatory business model dies.

ares35 ,
@ares35@kbin.social avatar

i can't stand the apps and crap either. no i don't want to browse your menu from my phone--hell, i literally can't (flip phone). no i don't want to use the app or 'order ahead' for an 'exclusive' discount. that just tells me you're charging everybody else too much. no i don't want to pay with a card or debit and pay extra for that 'convenience'. no i don''t want to just 'sign up' either, why do i need to do that to read or consume 'free' content or to use a 'free' app or application?

ad placements and 'shrinkflation' are out-of-control, as is the incessant need for companies to nickle-and-dime you to death--and that's on top of the usual greedy price increases 'just because' they can, which are also out-of-control the last few years. the push to the subscription model for everything is part of the latter.

PM_Your_Nudes_Please ,

Yeah, the subscription thing is called Software As A Service, or SAAS for short. Lots of entrepreneurs have been jumping on the SAAS bandwagon in recent years, because it allows them to grow a large user base and passive income, with very little up-front investment.

AI image generation is a good example. We suddenly have a bunch of SAAS image generator apps, which are basically just two or three programmers and a GPU crypto farm rig acting as a server. It’s a relatively small up-front cost (at least when compared to traditional businesses which can take upwards of a million dollars to get started,) and your only real support for the service is keeping the AI model up-to-date and making sure the app’s API is working properly. And your only real ongoing cost for it is the electricity to keep your server running, and an income for your software dev (bonus points if you’re the only software dev, so 100% of the income goes to you.)

krogoth , to nostupidquestions in Why does lemmy have it, so any link takes you off the page instead of opening in a new tab or window?
@krogoth@lemmy.sdf.org avatar

I prefer the current behaviour.

It’s easy to open a link in a new tab without right clicking. You can middle click (Windows and Linux) or command+click (MacOS). However there’s no easy way to force a browser to open a link in the current tab if the site wants to use a new tab.

otter ,

Ctrl+click also works

radix ,
@radix@lemmy.world avatar

I was almost beginning to think I was browsing the whole web wrong by middle-click-opening a bunch of tabs, then going through them all after I’ve seen all the interesting headlines.

fuckwit_mcbumcrumble ,

What I hate is when you click on what’s supposed to be an image that you’d expect to expand, but instead it’s a link because the embed isn’t supported. Then when you hit back you lose your place because the page your on isn’t saved and you’ve lost your place trying to get back.

Archpawn ,

I made this user style to help fix that problem by outlining images, and also make it so when you click an image it expands over the page at full size up to the width of the screen.

Though it’s not perfect. If the image is already black it’s hard to tell. You could change the outline color to something less common, but that looks ugly. Changing the boundary radius would probably be the best, but it’s already marked as !important so I don’t think I can change it. I’m open to suggestions on improving that part.

Archpawn ,

However there’s no easy way to force a browser to open a link in the current tab if the site wants to use a new tab.

Just hit ctrl+w after clicking the link. That will close the current tab.

Tikiporch , to asklemmy in What is the most unnecessarily excessive thing you have ever done to accomplish something?

A coworker once said I sounded a little flat on Teams, so I bought a USB Audio Interface, boom arm, shock mount, shotgun mic. Couldn’t stop there, of course. Bought two studio monitors, foam pads for the speakers, and audio foam for my bare walls. A little over board, but now my coworker can hear me apply chapstick like I’m two inches from their ears.

teawrecks ,

Someone needs to remake conferencecall.biz but with ASMR quality dialogue. That would add a whole new level to the madness.

Saraphim ,

Someone has adhd. This is the exact amount if insanity I would participate in.

Tikiporch ,

Game recognize game.

gerryflap , to asklemmy in What browser do you use on your PC/Mac?
@gerryflap@feddit.nl avatar

Firefox. I used to be an avid Chrome user, but the domination of Chromium-based browsers (Chrome, Edge, Brave, Opera, Vivaldi, etc) is scary. It essentially gives Google control over what happens on the internet. So I switched to Firefox and it’s been a great browser ever since

drekly ,

Unfortunately Google control Firefox too 😐

renlok ,

In what way?

drekly , (edited )

They pay Mozilla between 83-86% of their yearly revenue to be the default search engine.

That’s where basically all Mozilla’s funding comes from.

If Google decides they want their competition gone, they just turn off the money pipe. They are at their mercy.

Edit: here’s an interesting article I found with a quick search. I’m sure there are more.

Rescuer6394 ,

Mozilla can’t fail. if it does, chrome will be a monopoly and the law disallows that strictly.

at least where i live.

drekly ,

If that’s why Google is paying them, to keep them alive, then they’re effectively a puppet

DestroyerOfWorlds , to nostupidquestions in Why doesn't the United Kingdom rejoin the European Union?

it’s like an unstable ex-girlfriend trying to get back together. and now she’s down on her luck with even less to offer.

idunnololz ,
@idunnololz@lemmy.world avatar

UK just needs to suck a few dicks and we’re all good ;)

Absolutemehperson ,

Idk about you but I’m not letting Boris anywhere near my dong.

lord_ryvan ,

I think you meant Mr. Sunak, which is only a marginal improvement.

thantik , (edited ) to selfhosted in What is your favorite domain name provider, and why?

I use Namecheap. They have a URL you can visit to update DNS records if you’re doing it from the server that you need to point DNS at. They’ve been pretty much…non-eventful. I’ve never had to call them, everything online, they’ve been reliable enough to just say my whole experience has been pretty boring. Boring is good. I log into them once every 2 years to renew my domain and that’s generally it.

Then on top of that I use Caddy for SSL Encryption/Reverse Proxy. All I need is the domain registrar, I don’t use any other services.

delver ,

Same pretty much. I use them too and non-eventful is the perfect way to put it. I can even update ddns records using my fritzbox directly and namecheap which is super handy.

WingedObsidian ,

Have heard that searching domains through the site can cause the domain to become unavailable or prices to go up briefly afterwards… kind of like how go daddy also has a reputation for doing that. Anecdotal and second stories for sure but something to be aware of if there is any credence to it…

hedgehog ,

I’ve experienced this and also read reports of it with GoDaddy. But I cannot say the same for Namecheap - I’ve searched for several domain names multiple times through Namecheap and never noticed a price increase (outside of a sale ending and/or the search being multiple weeks later, at which point it makes sense). I’ve also never seen any detailed reports of this happening with Namecheap, and if I’ve seen any at all, I can’t remember them. I have occasionally searched for a domain name that was later unavailable, but that happens infrequently enough that I doubt it’s due to Namecheap doing something nefarious.

CetaceanNeeded ,

I’ve seen it with GoDaddy but not namecheap.

M500 ,

Their customer support has been great. I needed help with some certs and they just walked me though everything.

agitated_judge ,

I’ve been using namecheap for about a decade too. But, be careful with their free email forwarding service. They do not forward all emails. The ones that they consider spam, they proceed to drop silently. There is absolutely no way to access those emails. The service is essentially useless. I have lost several important emails like that.

caleb ,

I use them too, but have a few complaints and am thinking about switching.

  1. Dynamic DNS doesn’t support ipv6 addresses
  2. You have to have a $50 account balance to use DNS based dynamic dns
  3. Buggy DNS editing. (Try to create a SRV record then edit it later. It never works properly. Always have to delete and make a new one)
MajorHavoc , to asklemmy in You can change the spelling of one word in the English language to match how they are pronounced. What word do you pick?

In this thread, a lot of folks who would use their one wish to make the language better.

But I would change “their” to be spelled “the’re” and pronounced “all’y’all’s”.

I hope I do grow up to be more like the rest of you, and make better choices, in the future.

ericbomb OP , (edited )

People like you being in charge is how English got to this position in the first place!

MajorHavoc ,

Your rite, and I regret my choices.

MidwayTheMagnificent ,

twitch

Rozz ,

I would expect nothing less, MajorHavoc 🫡

reagansrottencorpse , to nostupidquestions in Why is everyone so giddy about the flooding thay happened at burning man?

Fuck these rich twats

douglasg14b ,
@douglasg14b@lemmy.world avatar

Apparently middle class Americans are now “rich twats”?

Cryophilia ,

It’s mostly rich twats with a few upper middle class twats.

simply_surprise ,
@simply_surprise@lemmygrad.ml avatar

middle class Americans.

Not a thing

BrokebackHampton ,
@BrokebackHampton@kbin.social avatar

Say it louder for the libs in the back

WheeGeetheCat ,
@WheeGeetheCat@sh.itjust.works avatar

Something ‘middle class’ Americans may want to notice:

When people are living in abject poverty, you are comparatively ‘rich’.

Anger at the ‘rich’ is at an all time high.

The ‘true rich’ are out of reach of the poor.

As income inequality grows, this will get worse.

tsonfeir , to asklemmy in What's going on with hexbears
@tsonfeir@lemm.ee avatar

They’re just trolls. They say their communist, but I haven’t seen any evidence other than they say they hate capitalism. But who doesn’t nowadays? Really they’re anarchists with nothing more to do.

Imagine the worst right wing trump supporter spouting off crazy shit and trying to get you pissed off. That’s them, but the left side.

They also like to team up and have multiple accounts.

Buuut… they usually hate all the same things I do, so it’s hard to hate them too. 🤷‍♂️

Don’t feed the bear.

Nakoichi ,
@Nakoichi@hexbear.net avatar

Wait so are we anarchists or tankies? I’m confused…

PrettyBlackDress ,
@PrettyBlackDress@lemdit.com avatar

🤣

mayo_cider ,
@mayo_cider@hexbear.net avatar

Leftist unity through political illiteracy

Nakoichi ,
@Nakoichi@hexbear.net avatar

More like anti-left unity. This person clearly hates both “tankies” and anarchists. Of course they probably have zero grasp of Marxist Leninism, Maoism, anarchism, or historical materialism in general.

Limitless_screaming ,
@Limitless_screaming@kbin.social avatar

Usually when I see hexbear users around, they are just holding a normal conversation. But there's this one thread I found where a guy with three obvious alt accounts is trolling, and a dozen hexbear users are licking a certain dictator's boots. So I would say it ranges from Normal to Tankies.

Fisk400 ,

You are ideologically incoherent which is descriptions of you are incoherent too.

AceQuorthon , (edited ) to asklemmy in What's going on with hexbears

In short, tankies that won’t shut up and stop shoehorning themselves into every conversation. Feel free to block every user that will inevitably reply to this comment about how I’m not Trotskij-pilled and really a bourgeoisie Jeff Bezos semen demon, or some stupid shit like that.

Viking_Hippie ,

If you remove Bezos from it, semen demon actually sounds like a kinda badass thing to be 😆

AceQuorthon ,

Hell yeah bro!

culpritus ,
@culpritus@hexbear.net avatar
AceQuorthon ,

MEMES

LrdThndr , to asklemmy in Who Is The Person Bullying You At Work Right Now? How Are You Dealing With This?

I keep having to deal with this asshole senior developer that makes the dumbest fucking decisions that affect the entire codebase, giving me tons of extra work in the process, guilts me when I need to take time off, and writes dogshit code on top of that. I have no idea how this complete dipshit made it to senior.

It’s me. The dipshit is me.

FARTYSHARTBLAST ,
@FARTYSHARTBLAST@sh.itjust.works avatar

Have you tried working with them to figure out a more sustainable decision making process? :D

inetknght ,

Take the time estimates that this bully gives you. Tell them the time estimates are way off. Take their estimate, multiply it by three. So, if it would have taken 3 days, then it will really take 9 – that’s two whole weeks of 40 hours each. If it would have taken 3 months then it will really have taken 9 months.

When you get a calendar invite and this asshole bully accepts it for you, make sure to include that cost in your time estimate.

And make sure to stick to your 8 hours each day. If you didn’t get work done because some asshole bully filled your calendar with meetings and left you with no time to work, and then also made stupid decisions about the entire codebase, make sure to report that to your manager. Your manager needs to know when time estimates are going to slip.

That dipshit will start to figure out how much time it really takes to get work done. It might take a while though for that to be learned so bear with it.

WeLoveCastingSpellz , to asklemmy in What job do people take way too seriously?
@WeLoveCastingSpellz@lemmy.fmhy.net avatar

CEOs and high ranking business people, what they get to do is not work or work significantly less than a working class people therefore I have no respect for most of em

Hazzia ,

“Running a business is hard work, you wouldn’t believe the number of meetings-”

Oh yeah meetings where you and “experts” on maximizing profits talk about how many people you can get away with laying off this quarter and other meetings where you work out a deal to buy a competitor startup in order to immediately and intentionally run it into the fucking ground sounds really fucking essential to the world Allan

kava , (edited )

The higher up you go the less work you do and the more stress you take on. You’re essentially trading your peace of mind for more money.

When you work a simple manual labor job you clock in and clock out and then go home and live your life. Work stays at the office.

When you’re an executive or a business owner you’re working 100% of the time. Something happens, you need to respond. Sometimes you need to make hard decisions where you’re fucked either way but you need to minimize damage.

You need to find solutions to problems and that keeps you up at night. Don’t have enough money for payroll next week? How you gonna do it? Not pay vendors this week? Take out another line of credit at ridiculous rates? Skip a payment on your rent? Equipment financing?

You have to do something- you stop paying your employees and the company falls apart very quickly. Could start a chain reaction of good people leaving, making the situation worse. The buck pretty much stops with you, you can’t pass off the problem to someone else.

It’s not easy to be in charge. Lot of blame rests on your shoulders if things go wrong.

Of course that doesn’t mean they deserve 10,000x the salary of a regular job. I think CEO pay should be capped to some multiple of regular employee pay. Whatever that scalar value should be 2, 5, or 10 I think is debatable. But it should be capped.

ImmortanStalin ,

You don’t simply clock in clock out. You walk into a space where everything you do is monitored and critiqued. You are constantly pressured to take on more work, other people’s work, you name it, all while you get paid the same… There’s a lot more flexibility and autonomy as you move up. The stress higher up is peanuts compared to the stress of the working class.

kava ,

I’ve been at the bottom doing manual labor all the way to the top and everything in between. When I was in manual labor at 19, I thought that it was stressful. Truly. I thought I was swamped with work and was always running around with my head off like a chicken.

But now that I’m older I realize the job was dead simple. I know that because I have more experience with both life and work. If I were put in that same position today, it would feel like a vacation.

Imagine a waitress. Their job can be stressful, sure. But imagine they really fuck up and fall and break a few wine bottles. What’s the potential damages? $100? $200? Let’s say $1,000.

A CEO of even a small company can fuck up and lose millions. The problems are on a whole different scale. You will see as you move up. People think it’s easy to be the boss because they only see from the outside. There’s a price you pay in sanity.

Badass_panda ,

Am an executive… agree with you on all fronts

ChaoticEntropy ,
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Moving from being a Product Owner, working on my own projects, to being a Product Manager who works with Product Owners on their projects/hands over projects to them, it is far more stressful. I end up being on the hook for everything, with an expectation that I know everything about a dozen projects, despite being far less actively involved in the underlying work of any of them.

sunbrrnslapper ,

Small business owner here. Just to add to the other responses about the stress and responsibility as you move up that others mentioned here… I cover every one of my employees when they take vacation or sick leave. So I am often doing my job, plus another person’s. It’s not uncommon for me to work 12 hour days without breaks.

Scrappy ,

I don’t think OP was referring to small businesses (< 50 employees), but more like 1000+ employees.

WeLoveCastingSpellz ,
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I am not reffering to small business owners, but big corporate executives

WhyJiffie , to asklemmy in What is your "inexpensive" hobby that turned out to be expensive/ you gradually invested lots of money into?

This is not the first post where I feel it but I love it so much that we have a lot of people on Lemmy that can talk about things not related to computers!

plactagonic OP ,

Except the selfhost crowd here.

iesou ,

Lol that was going to be mine… from using an old laptop as an xbmc->Plex server to running a thread ripper UnRaid server with 48TB and 2TB cache

plactagonic OP ,

There is large thread for this somewhere down.

WhyJiffie ,

Yes but that’s only good. I’m a computer guy too, but I couldn’t talk much about anything else, and I want to read about other topics too, besides this

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