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lemmyingly , to asklemmy in Why do most people choose to use WhatsApp over telegram??

I don’t understand the love for Telegram.

In the short period of using it I had so much BS come through by scammers/spammers - both as DMs and group messages. I’ve rarely had that with WhatsApp.

In my eyes WhatsApp is far better than Telegram. And Signal is far greater than WhatsApp. The only thing I wish Signal had was inbuilt GIFs; it’s not that much of an issue on mobile but it’s a pain on desktop.

cyberpunk007 ,

I get you, but I don’t get the love for Facebook/meta/whatsapp

boogetyboo ,
@boogetyboo@aussie.zone avatar

There’s no ‘love’ for Meta, most people don’t think in those terms. It’s just that their platforms are in heavy use in many countries and you tend to use the method most common to people in your circle.

My older friends and family use Messenger and SMS, my similarly aged peers use WhatsApp, and my work colleagues use Signal. So I correspond across all these. I know the benefits and pitfalls of each but I can’t influence the established communication choices of others. The only people i know who use Telegram are racist nutjobs.

sounddrill ,

Same but android development communities for me, on telegram

Tuss ,

I’ve had way more scam calls, groups and texts on whatsapp than on Telegram.

So I definitely don’t understand why anyone would like whatsapp.

With Telegram you can easily limit any communication requests to only come from your list of contacts while that is impossible with WA. The only way you can get out of getting scam calls is by turning on “mute unknown calls” and “limit groups to contacts” but the calls will still pop up and you will still get chat requests so you will have to block and delete each one of them manually.

Instead of just limiting all communication to your contacts like on telegram.

lemmyingly ,

I believe the same settings are also in WhatsApp.

Tuss ,

No in whatsapp you can’t limit requests to only your contacts. It’s only with groups. I’ve checked and googled.

lemmyingly ,

Isn’t it the same in Telegram? Interestingly, in Telegram it looks like everyone can send you a voice message unless you pay Telegram money to unlock the ability to restrict it.

Tuss ,

In telegram you can restrict people from calling you completely. WA doesn’t have that function.

And yes it sucks that VMs on telegram is behind a paywall but at least the restriction exists unlike WA.

lemmyingly ,

Interestingly they don’t appear to advertise it at all as a perk on the premium purchasing page.

Chozo ,

Telegram is awful with spam. I'm constantly getting sent links to Telegram groups for Russian porn models who all pretend to be underage and spamming their Boosty links. I feel like it's probably part of some scam to bait people into buying something illegal and then blackmail them later. I don't keep it installed anymore because I don't need that sort of incriminating shit on my devices.

I'd delete my account, but I have a couple people who only use Telegram, but I'm getting close to cutting them off over it unless they switch to something else. I've reported this to Telegram numerous times, but these accounts keep popping up and keep managing to reach me.

u202307011927 ,
@u202307011927@feddit.de avatar

Just change your privacy settings then.

Dark_Arc ,
@Dark_Arc@social.packetloss.gg avatar

It’s either something about your phone number or your username. I’ve never had a problem on there

silvercove ,

Telegram is more user friendly than Whatsapp, it’s clients are open source and has a decent desktop app.

It’s way better than Zuck’s trash.

RaivoKulli ,

No E2EE by default though

manuel19 ,

How? I’ve been a heavy telegram user for more than 8 years now. Not a single time I have unwillingly been added to a group I had no interest in or been messaged with any scam message.

I know of privacy settings that limit these, but I have none of them turned on, because I have some people that might add me to important groups.

Frub OP ,

That’s interesting I never had that experience with telegram. It’s been cust as “clean” as Whatsapp for me

applejacks ,
@applejacks@lemmy.world avatar

why did you enable DMs from random accounts?

Easily turned off.

lemmyingly ,

I didn’t enable anything. One would assume the default settings should offer a good level of protection to the users.

Interestingly I haven’t had a single spammer/scammer annoy me on Signal. I’m not sure if there are any of these settings in Signal?

Extrasvhx9he , to nostupidquestions in Small children are well known to be afraid of voids (closets, under the bed) in their sleeping area. Knowing this, why don't we design children's rooms to eliminate them?

Not a psychologist or anything but isnt it healthy for a child to overcome a fear and not just avoid it

HandwovenConsensus OP ,

Also not a psychologist, but I would say that’s only true if the fear keeps them from enjoying life

As adults, we design our living spaces to be comfortable to us. We don’t intentionally make them scary so we can overcome.

collegefurtrader ,

Who intended for the closet to be a scary void?

HandwovenConsensus OP ,

The people who think not having it be one means children are avoiding rather than overcoming their fears

It may not have been intended as such originally, but if you defend the design on that basis, it becomes intentional.

HeyThisIsntTheYMCA ,
@HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world avatar

Same dude who put a bucket of truth outside the master bathroom

andrewta ,

Dealing with ones fear should be learned at an early age. I didn’t start dealing with my fears until I was 17.

HandwovenConsensus OP ,

What stopped you from doing so prior to that?

OsrsNeedsF2P ,

My parents build a room where I didn’t have to face my fears

HandwovenConsensus OP ,

And you never left there until you were 17?

(I know you’re not OP, but still.)

concrete_baby ,

Whoosh

andrewta ,

Fears are a tough thing to face.

DharmaCurious ,
@DharmaCurious@startrek.website avatar

Speak for yourself. My home is entirely sharp angles and unsecured towers of broken glass and rubbing alcohol suspended in petroleum jelly that also slicks the floor. I will brook no weakness in my home.

Zippy ,

Comfort ya. But we do not succumb to irrational fears either. Our more to the point, it may not be healthy to say place ten locks on our doors because we think someone is trying to break in always.

Surp ,
@Surp@lemmy.world avatar

If your kid can’t overcome a closet you’ve got bigger issues. I’m sorry but this entire thought process is too much.

canis_majoris , to gaming in What is up with Baldur's Gate 3?
@canis_majoris@lemmy.ca avatar

It’s a perfect digitization of D&D 5th edition - it’s like having an automatic dungeon master using the rules and regulations we’ve been playing with on paper for ages.

It has a massive plot that can vary wildly on playthroughs depending on how rolls go, just like the real version.

It’s four-player co-op with PVE in an age where cooperation is increasingly rare outside of competitive team games.

It’s a well designed, properly built, finished product that can be expanded on with DLC, rather than using them to address core gameplay issues. (looking at you Paradox)

ivanafterall ,
@ivanafterall@kbin.social avatar

Can you imagine what the mod scene for this game will look like in a year or so? It's going to be amazing.

contrefeu ,
@contrefeu@akko.contref.eu avatar

@ivanafterall @theangriestbird @canis_majoris Did they announce mod support?

dingus ,
@dingus@lemmy.ml avatar

larian.com/support/faqs/mod-information_77

We loved what our modding community did with DOS2, and we’re excited to see what they’ll do with BG3. Modding will be supported after the full release, though not exactly at launch.

I would expect some news in the coming weeks.

contrefeu ,
@contrefeu@akko.contref.eu avatar

@dingus Can't wait to have the first two BG remastered à la Skyblivion. Maybe.

DonnieDarkmode ,

My gut feeling is sometime around the original release date? If memory serves, DOS2 got it like the day after launch

Neato ,
@Neato@kbin.social avatar

Mmmm good point! I'm imagine some of the bigger 5e 3rd parties straight porting their magic items, spells and monsters into the game (monsters would be for custom campaign eventually).

superkret ,

There’s going to be soooo much beastiality.

teawrecks ,

There’s going to be soooo much more beastiality.

ftfy

Vittelius ,

Sure, but people were really mad earlier this year because Wizards of the Coast, the company that owns D&D tried to pull some licencing related shenanigans that would have massively fucked over the community. People were boycotting the movie a couple of months ago over that. It’s interesting, that Baldurs Gate seems to not be affected by this at all.

canis_majoris ,
@canis_majoris@lemmy.ca avatar

Yeah because Twitter is not a real place. The actual D&D community spoke with their wallets and they said “we like a good, finished product without stupid terms of use” and all bought BG3. People who don’t even play D&D bought BS3 to play with folks who do play D&D.

Draft ,

Ss

imPastaSyndrome ,

Image of a big snake and a small snake

Draft ,

I honestly have no idea how that posted, so when I got your reply I was very confused.

ivanafterall ,
@ivanafterall@kbin.social avatar

It's not small, it's just further away.

imPastaSyndrome ,

Hey momma, I’m not small I’m just really really far away, hoo-ha!

oo1 ,

First you draw an "S" . . .
then you draw a more different "s" . . .

imPastaSyndrome ,

Consummate vees

entropicdrift ,
@entropicdrift@lemmy.sdf.org avatar

Trogdor ended up being the big bad of my brother-in-law’s homebrew campaign that he ran for our family D&D group

ryven ,
@ryven@lemmy.dbzer0.com avatar

Well, I had already bought BG3 in Early Access before the OGL debacle, and before Hasbro (WotC’s parent company) sent the Pinkertons to intimidate some small time Youtuber into giving back some unreleased Magic: the Gathering cards that he had been erroneously sold early by a distributor. So I couldn’t very well boycott it when I had already purchased it and played like 30 hours of it.

I’m still not buying new D&D books or MtG cards.

Vittelius ,

You don’t need to justify your purchasing decision to me. I am not even calling for a boycott of the game. I know people at Larian and I wish them all the success they can get.

I am just surprised that this whole thing seems to be completely absent from the larger discussion about this game. I would have assumed, that it would have been at least a footnote.

MajorMajormajormajor , to asklemmy in What's your natural talent?

I can cook minute rice is 56 seconds.

FReddit ,

God damn it!

Num10ck , to asklemmy in What rule was created because of you or someone you know?

late 1970s mcdonalds menu says hamburger and next line is slice of cheese. smart ass kid rolls in and orders just a slice of cheese. cashier has to bring over the manager… doesnt know how to prepare and serve it. manager has to call district manager, who has to call corporate. its on the menu they have to serve it, and safely. they end up heating up a slice on wax paper. after that all the mcdonalds menus in the country is changed to say cheeseburger.

radix ,
@radix@lemm.ee avatar

Impressive.

NathanUp , to asklemmy in What rule was created because of you or someone you know?
@NathanUp@lemmy.ml avatar

Beyond innumerable rules at home (no sneaking out of windows, no making potions out of toiletries, no growing mold in the bathroom, no snakes in the house, etc.) once as a kid I had $5 of birthday money burning a hole in my pocket, so at lunch I asked for as many $0.25 cinnamon rolls as I could get with a $5 bill. Although the cafeteria workers tried to talk me out of it, I spent the rest of the day parading around with a huge sack of cinnamon rolls which I didn’t share with my classmates, as I was determined to bring my catch home to impress / share with my family. The same day, an announcement was made over the intercom to the entire school announcing a new two-per-person limit for cinnamon rolls. Details may be off as this was years ago, but that’s what I remember!

Unanimous_anonymous ,

I used to have people pay back borrowed lunch money in 5 cent cracker packages. I still remember the time i saved up about $5 in crackers because of one friend’s debts.

Mothra ,
@Mothra@mander.xyz avatar

So, what was your family’s reaction? What what did your classmates say after the max of 2 rule got implemented?

NathanUp ,
@NathanUp@lemmy.ml avatar

I can’t remember I’m afraid.

lambchop ,

Reading that as “I can’t remember, I’m afraid” gave it a different feeling.

pizza , to asklemmy in Without using pronouns (me, he, she, it, etc) or articles (a, an, the), how did you come up with your user name?

pizza like pizza

lol ,
@lol@lemy.lol avatar

lol like pizza too

pizza ,

pizza like lol too

lol ,
@lol@lemy.lol avatar

:D

w00 ,

Ü

Infernal_pizza ,
@Infernal_pizza@lemmy.world avatar

Hi

eroc1990 , to piracy in Reiverr: A clean UI for Jellyfin, TMDB, Sonarr and Radarr, as well as a replacement to Overseerr

You should post this over on one of the Self Hosted communities. I’m sure they would appreciate this as well.

Blizzard ,

Crosspost to !selfhosted (instead of duplicating, I mean)

matey ,

It just duplicates it anyway, doesn’t it?

Blizzard ,

Does it? It links them together so maybe it doesn’t show up twice in your feed? Let’s test it.

NateSwift ,

If you’re using the lemmy website, you should only see crossposted posts once in your feed. App support varies IIRC

MonetarySqueeze OP ,

Thank you for the tip, I will!

luthis , to android in When the fuck did a mobile hotspot become something you have to pay extra for?

I’ve heard about this happening and I couldn’t believe it.

I don’t even understand this from a networking perspective… Your phone just becomes a router, forwarding requests, so from the ISP perspective it’s still the same?

How do they even know?

Boinketh OP ,

They worked with OS developers, certainly. My phone says it’s “verifying” for a sec before it fails.

luthis ,

That’s some bullshit right there. Can you get around this with a custom rom?

TheEntity , (edited )

"Yes but actually no." If they can get a custom ROM flashed, yes. But it's very likely everything is just locked down, so it's not an option.

EDIT: According to the other comments even that might not help. YMMV

MigratingApe ,

Someone gave a great workaround though - use an app that creates a local proxy available through legacy Wi-Fi Direct

lunaforlemmy ,

Very likely. Even an unlocked phone without carrier bloatware is likely to work - f-droid might even have something to do it without rooting, or even something to access hidden settings and disable whatever bloatware or setting is blocking it

MigratingApe ,

They detect lower than usual TTL of packets coming from your mobile device when it routes packets during tethering. They might also set TTL to 1 to packets going from internet to your mobile, so they get dropped instead of being forwarded further. You would need to plug the SIM card into your own modem+router combo with TTL modification rules in place to avoid detection. But then they might just block your modem by checking IMEI…

luthis ,

Is that actually it? So could software be written to just +1 TTL on incoming and -1 on outgoing packets and then problem solved?

You would need pretty low level access so that comes around to custom rom again…

You can spoof MACs so couldn’t you spoof a IMEI as well? Theoretically speaking, not on your bog standard $2 ISP modem

jumping_redditor , (edited )

You can spoof inei information, but it appears difficult r/privacy thread on the topic.

reddithalation ,

That is a very old thread, I bet things are different than they were 8 years ago

Spiralvortexisalie ,

Yes, I don’t know all the solutions but one would be using iptables in linux and mangling the packets to adjust ttl, “normal” ttl can vary by carrier though, and with many phones there is an extra hop to account for as the phone is a router. You should be able to tell from a ping or trace route whats “normal”, but nowadays with carrier grade nat, I think it gets messed up sometimes.

Boinketh OP ,

Or we could cut their cocks off have a very nice chat with them about the ethics of taking advantage of consumers.

lazycouchpotato ,
@lazycouchpotato@lemmy.world avatar

Back in college, we would use a hotspot on someone’s phone (with mobile data off) as a WiFi router to play LAN games.

I just checked my Pixel 6a and it doesn’t let me do that.

https://lemmy.world/pictrs/image/d55e17ae-93c3-4eb3-b023-12fd8e0972a9.png

Thank you, smooth brained developers at Google. I love not being able to do what I want with my purchased device.

CafecitoHippo ,

That’s not Google pushing that message. That’s your mobile service provider.

lazycouchpotato , (edited )
@lazycouchpotato@lemmy.world avatar

It’s Google.

I think there’s a misunderstanding. I was trying to convey in my previous comment that Google does not allow me to create a hotspot with my mobile data turned off.

I put my SIM in my backup phone, a OnePlus Nord N10, to prove it to you. I can create a hotspot with my mobile data turned off on it.

https://lemmy.world/pictrs/image/c87085e5-ffd9-430e-9a60-52064c2c9c25.png

I can’t do so on my Pixel 6a.

EDIT: Apparently it’s working for others on Pixels. See this comment further below in the chain. Not sure why its disabled for me.

shitwolves ,

Did you buy your Pixel directly from Google? If you got it from your cell carrier, they probably have the option to lock certain settings. I have a Pixel 5a from Google and I can tether all I want.

lazycouchpotato ,
@lazycouchpotato@lemmy.world avatar

Bought from the Google Store. Running Android 13.

Which Android version are you on? And just to confirm, you’re trying tethering with your mobile data off, right?

shitwolves ,

I’m on 13. I just turned off mobile data and I am able to turn on the hotspot.

lazycouchpotato , (edited )
@lazycouchpotato@lemmy.world avatar

Interesting. I’m not sure why it’s disabled for me then.

Spliffman1 , to asklemmy in What is an item below 100 bucks that everyone should own?
@Spliffman1@lemmy.world avatar

A Sync lifetime ad free for $19.99?

Piecemakers3Dprints ,
@Piecemakers3Dprints@lemmy.world avatar

Ayyy. 🤌🏼🤣

fubo , to asklemmy in What are the benefits to the US Electoral College system?

At the time the electoral college was devised, the only way to reliably get an important message from a state capital to the federal capital was to send a trusted messenger on a horse. The electors are those trusted messengers.

BartyDeCanter ,

Also, back then there was still a lot of disagreement about how the US would work. Was it going to operate be a single, unified country or would it be more like an EU style organization with a unified defense? IE Federalists vs Anti-Federalists? The electoral college was a compromise to let each state run its own elections and only franchise who they wanted. It’s important to remember that the US was not founded as a universal suffrage nation, and has only slowly and after much painful internal struggle expanded civil rights.

kersploosh , (edited )
@kersploosh@sh.itjust.works avatar

IIRC there was also a desire to put some distance between the unwashed masses and the election. James Madison, for example, was clear in his writings that he feared the system would devolve into mob rule by whichever group could whip up the most angry followers (January 6, 2021 anyone?). The presidential electors have an opportunity to be the adults in the room if the election is a hot mess and cooler heads need to prevail (though they can also swing the other way and wreak havoc so it’s a double-edged sword).

snailwizard , to nostupidquestions in Is it possible to eat in such a way that you'll never have to fart?

In short, no. To explain: you have a bunch of beneficial bacteria living inside your digestive tract. These little guys help you digest your food, and in return they get a free meal. This basically means that the food you eat ferments into poo. Fermentation always results in gas being released (think how the plastic wrap on a bowl of dough can puff up as it proves.) So to sum it up, unless you drank a strict water-only diet, anything you eat can give you gas. (Even then, you would probably still naturally swallow some air with the water, and some would make it to the other end as a fart.)

Fredselfish ,
@Fredselfish@lemmy.world avatar

So we go to no pooping for 3 days to now someone wants to stop farting. What is going on here in lemmy?

bluejay ,
@bluejay@lemmy.dbzer0.com avatar

Butthole problems

HeyThisIsntTheYMCA ,
@HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world avatar

Ooo good band name

4am ,
@4am@lemmy.world avatar

That first guy went 3 days and then posted a follow-up looking for constipation relief.

Seems that opened the floodgates. 😏

Fredselfish ,
@Fredselfish@lemmy.world avatar

Our stop up the dam more likely.😹

Kwaker76 , to mildlyinfuriating in My dad just died a few minutes ago, and the paramedics left a mess hidden under his bed.

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  • Tangent5280 ,

    Lmao I just checked and you’re right. Feels surreal, like that video of that girl whose mum comes in while she’s singing apple bottom jeans, yells at her for sleeping with a teacher, and leaves, just for the girl to continue singing through her tears.

    https://lemmy.world/pictrs/image/17251873-592c-47b7-9fcf-367ff887523b.jpeg

    yeather ,

    Difference is that video was staged.

    Blamemeta ,

    I think dude is having a mental break down or something.

    popemichael OP ,
    @popemichael@lemmy.sdf.org avatar

    Yeah, I’m having a bad day after and I needed to take my mind off of things for a while.

    We all grieve in our own ways.

    uhauljoe ,
    @uhauljoe@lemmy.world avatar

    They meant the asshole commenter was having a mental breakdown. I’m sorry they said that, it’s ridiculous.

    You’re allowed to grieve or distract yourself in any way you want. (I would discourage anything self destructive obviously)

    There’s absolutely nothing wrong with going online. I’m incredibly sorry for your loss, and I am sending many good thoughts your way. ♡

    popemichael OP ,
    @popemichael@lemmy.sdf.org avatar

    I spent nearly the last 5 years of my life dedicated to taking care of my elderly father and my grandmother.

    I don’t have anyone else to vent to, and my father was the last of my family.

    So excuse me when I used a public forum to try to take my mind off of my world collapsing.

    WhoRoger ,
    @WhoRoger@lemmy.world avatar

    I have no stake in this thing, but I can say condolences and you’re doing good. I can imagine needing to get your mind off things. When I was dealing with a death, I didn’t want to be left alone in the same flat for 5 minutes.

    I’ve dealt with paramedics a bunch of times and they always leave a mess behind. I can understand that since they have more urgent things to do (I only wonder about the biohazard rating of such trash), but combined with this situation, it can certainly leave a shitty feeling.

    popemichael OP ,
    @popemichael@lemmy.sdf.org avatar

    Thank you for your kind words.

    Yeah, it’s like the last thing I needed in my life at that moment was to grab some bloody life-saving instruments.

    To be safe, early today I made sure to call the local non-emergency line and let them know what they left behind.

    Not to be a karen, but to double-check Washington state laws on trashing that sort of stuff.

    WhoRoger ,
    @WhoRoger@lemmy.world avatar

    Geesus fuck people… What else you want to mandate? How long after family death are you allowed to go online? A day? A week? How long until you’re allowed to watch a movie? I’d bet you’re one of those people who accuses everyone of being nazis. Next time use your hands to wank rather than be a wanker.

    Mowcherie ,

    Username is now kwanker

    dustojnikhummer ,

    Judging by 74 up 48 down many agreed with him

    WhoRoger ,
    @WhoRoger@lemmy.world avatar

    Lots of judgemental wankers around here.

    MaxVerstappen ,

    Shame on you.

    kool_newt , to nostupidquestions in Why is there such a large amount of communist and transgender related posts on the Fediverse compared to other platforms?

    I find myself to be a stereotypical Lemmy user. I’m trans, (anarcho-) communist, a programmer and Linux engineer.

    I’m older, I transitioned (ugh I hate that word) about 2 decades ago. I got into computers consciously and very intentionally. I knew I’d need to support myself soon and spent a good amount of time thinking what industries or companies might be willing to hire someone like me (this was even before trans people had employment rights in California!). I chose computers because I felt like it was an industry where someone might hire me, I could make enough to survive and pay for surgery, and because it seemed one where my co-workers would be less likely to beat me up or kill me.

    When it comes to communism, I have a hunch that being trans forces you to think about society and why you are not accepted, who is causing your troubles and why. It seems apparent why someone so low on the social acceptance ladder as a trans person would be repelled by exploitation based zero-sum systems and attracted to systems that would allow them to survive and thrive.

    Linux seemed just fundamentally awesome to me. You mean people could just choose to get together, coordinate, and build one of the most complex things to exist on the planet and give it away for free? Sign me up! I think Lemmy and the Fediverse are attractive for similar reasons.

    Pengui ,

    Ahhh, yes, the good old anarchocommunism, also known as bigotry 😆

    Discoslugs ,
    @Discoslugs@lemmy.world avatar

    Care to explain buddy?

    Kinda sounds like you dont know what your talking about.

    salient_one ,
    @salient_one@lemmy.villa-straylight.social avatar

    Did you confuse it with “anarcho-capitalism”?

    tristar ,

    Yeah, that’s the reason. Trans girls just often happen to be good at IT and leftist.

    Kribensis ,

    Thanks for this. It was very well-reasoned, and gave me a perspective I hadn’t thought of before.

    Lilith02 ,

    I was going to say because Linux is a big community on lemmy. And as we all know, Linux users are all either trans or femboys. /s

    ZodiacSF1969 ,

    Why do you think communism would allow you to thrive?

    Seriously, take a look at the history of communist countries and tell me which one you think you would have looked to exist in as a trans person 🤣

    kool_newt ,

    You’re conflating communism with authoritarianism.

    ZodiacSF1969 ,

    Communism = authoritarianism.

    I notice you didn’t answer my question either.

    psud ,

    So far communism had only been tried in small groups (where tribal dynamics make it work) and in Soviet and Chinese authoritarian regimes

    Communism ≠ command economy

    Communism ≠ authoritarianism

    Communism = a broad selection of idiologies more or less agreeing with the idea “from each according to their ability, to each according to their need”

    Several countries have such strong socialist policies in place that they could reasonably be called communist if we didn’t pretend that capitalism was opposite to and incompatible with communism. Capitalism is an excellent technology for extracting from each according to their ability.

    “Full communism” where you strive for perfect equality is probably less bad than “full capitalism” where you strive for full freedom of capital. Enough capitalism that you have the incentives it supplies and enough communism that those who won’t or can’t work are paid enough to live healthily and be in a position to seek work if they wish to, seems to be a good and reasonable position.

    I’ll answer the other part for the parent comment too

    If they fail to fit in to normal culture at work and are so unsuccessful at working, communism gives them a safety net.

    • They could have taken a risk and selected a job they expect to enjoy rather than one that will accept them if there’s a safety net
    • they could have selected a job they might enjoy rather than one calculated to pay enough to save for gender reassignment surgery if the state would pay for the surgery
    • they could have had the surgery earlier (which makes it better) if the state paid for it
    Katana314 ,

    It’d be fantastic evidence if we could actually look at documentation of how these small group trials have worked out. Honestly, it’s the first I’m hearing of them.

    I don’t understand the word “paid” appearing in your third bullet point. Wouldn’t a communistic society operate without money? Generally speaking, what would a doctor’s motivation be to get 11+ years of medical school + residencies, then perform a difficult operation on a patient that has potential for complications and blame? (In a capitalist society, the motivation would be “Helping people” plus “Money”, tied with hospital-level protections against malpractice suits, but I’m curious about your answer)

    some_guy ,

    Wouldn’t a communistic society operate without money?

    You could have communism with money. People still need a way to allocate resources and barter. I’m out of my depth here, as I’m a socialist but not a communist. However, I recognize that communism isn’t the bogeyman US propaganda (in schools, media, culture) taught me to think of it.

    mimichuu_ ,

    To give you the less complicated answer, communism is an economic system, not a form of government. Communism can and has been authoritarian, but it can also be libertarian or anarchistic. There’s nothing inherently authoritarian about an economy without money and without classes, based on need. It’s just the ideologies that want to (or say they want to) implement it in authoritarian ways that got to run the more famous socialist experiments. If you want to see how non-authoritarian communism worked, there are also historical examples of it, they’re just smaller and lasted less.

    Answering your question - in the period where most countries that called themselves communist existed, no capitalist countries accepted trans people either. But you are a capitalist nonetheless no? Huh, I wonder why.

    AgentOrangesicle ,
    @AgentOrangesicle@lemmy.world avatar

    Unregulated capitalism causes more harm than any other form of government not appropriately regulated. It’s worth more thought if you find yourself actively against it. We’ve been indoctrinated hard.

    hikaru755 ,

    I transitioned (ugh I hate that word)

    Slightly off topic but I’m curious, why do you hate that word and is there different wording that you’d prefer?

    grysbok ,
    @grysbok@lemmy.sdf.org avatar

    Not the person you’re replying to, but my guess is that “transition” implies some sort of inner journey, but transitioning is often really about changing how the world views you. You’re still the woman, man, or non-binary entity you always were, you’re just making changes to encourage/force everyone else to see you the same way.

    kool_newt ,

    This makes sense, transition also implies I changed from one thing to another, which is how it appears externally I suppose but for me it was more like being let out of a prison where personal expression suddenly became possible. I didn’t change so much as people just started being able to seeing the whole me for the first time.

    kool_newt , (edited )

    I’m not sure, I just cringe every time I have to say it. I guess it’s just kinda like referring to one’s puberty as “blossoming” and feeling cringe when talking to friends and you’re like, “…before I blossomed …”. In that case you’d more likely say “when I was a kid”, but I don’t want to say “when I was a dude” lol.

    It’s just a personal thing, no issues with the word or those who use it/like it. I don’t have a word I prefer.

    hikaru755 ,

    Makes sense, thanks for elaborating :)

    sol , to showerthoughts in I've noticed that lemmy as a whole is much more leftist than reddit (outside of political servers of course)

    Left and right are two stupid categories built up by propaganda, get them out of your head and start to think on your own terms

    bric ,

    This. There an infinite number of ideologies that you could have, but our first past the post voting system (in the US) only allows for two candidates, so an infinite spectrum gets funneled into two camps.

    yata ,

    Left/right isn’t an exclusively American concept, it is used all over the world regardless of the political system of the country.

    sab ,

    I think that’s what they’re saying: in most of the world it’s used as a gradient/spectrum, just a few countries consider it absolutes (you’re either left or right).

    bric ,

    Yeah, that’s why I specified US, there are plenty of places where it’s more of a gradiant, or where left and right are just two of many options. although unfortunately fptp is the norm in most of the world. The US is unusually polarized even among fptp countries, but countries that have better voting systems that allow for more than two parties are the exception, not the norm.

    sab ,

    countries that have better voting systems that allow for more than two parties are the exception, not the norm.

    Are you sure about that? I have no numbers to back it up, but at least here in Europe many countries have more than two parties to choose from, and the winning parties form a governing coalition (alliance).

    Unless by beter voting system you mean something like Ranked voting etc, in which case I agree, that is unfortunately very rare.

    rm_dash_r_star ,
    @rm_dash_r_star@lemm.ee avatar

    The main thing I don’t like about these categories is how they try to lump both moral and political issues into one group as either right or left. They’re two different things. Societies do legislate morality, but as far as defining a person’s overall views I think it’s a poor metric. Personally I have some left views politically, but some right views morally.

    I think it can be expected people participating in the Fediverse are somewhat anti-capitalist. We come here to get away from corporate driven media. That being the case I think it’s not erroneous to say Lemmy is more left politically and I appreciate that. However that does not mean I agree with all left views. There are some moral issues I may not agree with, but I don’t engage since I’m not interested in debating morality in these forums.

    IndisposedShakerCup ,

    Amen. I wish more people would do this.

    icepuncher69 ,

    Finally words of wisdom. The rest of the comment section is a dumpster fire.

    soviettaters OP ,

    I’m not gonna start using niche political terms on a daily basis. Yes, I know that Democrats and Republicans are basically the same but nobody outside a small group of people cares. See that I put both in quotation marks as well.

    orrk ,

    to be fair, you wouldn’t say that Democrats or republicans are the same if you happen to be part of the groups the Republicans are currently advocating death for. There is a difference between NeoLiberal shill and “America should be a white ethnostate”

    sab ,

    Wait, is “advocating death for” the evolution of “right to exist”? That sure escalated quickly.

    orrk ,

    I mean, sure one could argue that the Rights attacks on trans and LGBTQ people, calling them all pedophiles that need to be exterminated can be seen as a “right to exist” argument, in the same way that “We must secure the existence of our people and a future for white children.” can be seen as a “right to exist” statement…

    sab ,

    Very nuanced take, I like it.

    yerbuddyboston ,
    @yerbuddyboston@lemmy.world avatar

    I couldn’t help but notice the lack of “quotation marks”

    jerkface ,
    @jerkface@lemmy.ca avatar

    Sure, I’ll just make up my own political philosophy outta nothing, without the benefit of other’s experience, and then use it to classify and understand all the political thought I encounter which has not been informed by my pet philosophy, that’ll go GREAT

    A2PKXG ,
    @A2PKXG@feddit.de avatar

    Nah, it’s a fairly good way to differentiate between collectivist and individualistic ideas.

    dx1 ,

    It’s a whopping two sides of a scale, which doesn’t unambiguously refer to “individualism” or “collectivism”, also referring vaguely to associations with dozens of other issues. So it’s actually a worse way of describing those ideas than saying “individualist” or “collectivist”, because you’re no longer even specifically saying that. And “individualist” vs. “collectivist” is already a terrible way to categorize all political ideas. What does abortion have to do with collectivism? How about zoning laws, or environmental protection?

    This is the issue…left vs. right has nothing to do with any one issue, in fact it actually serves completely to distract people from the specifics of issues, because instead of actually figuring out the nuance of something, people fall back on their group identity and go, “well if the leftists hate it, then it must be good, because fuck the left!”

    A2PKXG ,
    @A2PKXG@feddit.de avatar

    Environmental protection is collectivist. It’s what is best for everyone. (Including future generations).

    But abortion is a good exception.

    dx1 ,

    But what’s best for every individual is what’s best for everyone…

    OCATMBBL ,

    It’s pretty meaningfully different when one side wants to fix the climate and create social and economic policy that benefits the majority, while the other wants to concentrate wealth into the hands of the few at the expense of everyone else, and the climate, and is creating propaganda aimed at the dehumanization of LGBTQ+ and perceived-non-Americans (even when they’re citizens).

    sol ,

    Any party that label themself as left or right is applying the same politics that benefits those in power and lie about it to the public.

    Aceticon ,

    It think it’s more that, like with everything to do with Politics, the words have been repeatedly redefined by people who wanted to obtain the support of pre-existing tribalists emotionally bound to one or the other as “tribe” markers, and what is now said to be Left and Right is the product of a lot of such manipulation.

    As I see it there is definitelly a range between the pure selfish “I do what’s best for me and fuck everybody else” thinking and acting and the entirelly selfless “think of everybody else” one and somewhere in between sits a vague border one side of which can be thought of “left” and the other “right”.

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