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iHUNTcriminals , in FBI arrests Proud Boys member who disappeared days before sentencing over role in Jan. 6

Fuck proud boys bloods, Mason, and oath keepers. Modern day mafias. Call em out.

glitch1985 ,

Wait masons are mafia? They never covered that part in National Treasure.

iHUNTcriminals , (edited )

Not mafia. All names I said are separate.

They are more like boogaloo… sovereignty…

It’s a group of men that believe in brotherhood over government and are willing to defend it.

Where I live stolen goods mysteriously show up near their lodges but no one ever gets arrested. It’s a nation wide click of sovereign citizens whether they are crims or not the badges on the blazers get you easy connections nationwide. Free work free connections.

Useful for criminal networking.

chiliedogg ,

Are you sure you’re not talking about the Hell’s Angels?

Because the Masons definitely aren’t organized crime. They’re a formal society with silly secret handshakes. They haven’t been relevant politically since the Enlightenment.

The organizations most-opposed to the Masons in the last century have been the Catholic Church, LDS church, and Nazi Germany (hundreds of thousands of Masons were killed in the Holocaust).

They do have a problematic history with race and gender, which is why I have decided not to join them (I do have Masonic friends and family), but overall they’re pretty much the most-innocuous “secret society” there is.

Yes, being a Mason can get you an inside scoop on a job opening. But that’s just how networking works. You can do the same thing with church connections, bowling leagues, alumni associations, professional organizations, and more.

Cethin ,

The masons are just a bunch of old men who get together to hang out and sometimes do charity work. They aren’t evil or really that mysterious. If you go to a lodge and ask for a tour they’ll likely show you around. They’re basically just weird churches. The one I’ve been to just had a large hall for ceremonies and a few other rooms. The foyer had a very large bible under glass IIRC, but its been more than a decade since then. They’re basically dying out because young people want nothing to do with that crap.

JJROKCZ , in Witness to the 1996 drive-by shooting of Tupac Shakur indicted on murder charge in rapper’s death

Wait a witness is now being charged as an accomplice almost 30 years later? I thought they had pretty much dropped this case as the cops didn’t want to solve it

charles ,

I haven’t read the article OP linked but this CBS article I read mentioned that the case was essentially dropped as prosecutors didn’t feel good about it, but after Duane “Keffe D” Davis started doing talk shows and released his book, they felt the case against him got strong enough to prosecute.

Zetta ,

Well, the witness in this case is a gang leader and the one who provided the gun to the shooter and I believe probably gave the command to shoot. So I think getting charged for murder is not necessarily unreasonable.

cedarmesa , (edited ) in Proud Boy who disappeared ahead of his Jan. 6 sentencing was found unconscious by FBI agents at his home
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dhork , in Proud Boy who disappeared ahead of his Jan. 6 sentencing was found unconscious by FBI agents at his home

I like how they refer to singular members as a “Proud Boy”.

“Proud Boy” sounds like a toddler who just made wee-wee and poo-poo in the potty all by himself!

ColonelSanders ,

Which is still more of an accomplishment than any of these adult asshacks are capable of.

refurbishedrefurbisher ,

I always thought “proud boys” sounded like a gay pride movement.

foggy ,

Reddit did a good job making sure that “proud boys” returned very homosexual content in a Google search before Jan 6th. They took that back by… attempting a coup. Pretty hefty uno reverse card in the world of SEO if I’m being honest, it was a bold move and it payed off. SEO-wise, anyways.

IWantToFuckSpez ,

There is a Swiss professional soccer club called “Young Boys” and it sounds like some sketchy gay nightclub. Even funnier is that their stadium is called “Wankdorf Stadium”

And I’m not making it up https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/BSC_Young_Boys

refurbishedrefurbisher ,

I’m sure the Catholic church loves them

Blamemeta ,

Its based of a broadway play.

spider ,

a toddler who just made wee-wee and poo-poo in the potty all by himself

Now he’s doing it on the whole country.

ArugulaZ , in Oxford High School shooter will get life in prison, no parole, for killing 4 students, judge rules

Michigan doesn't have the death penalty, but I'm nevertheless relieved that the kid will remain in prison for the rest of his life. I'm also happy that his dirtbag kill-billy parents have been charged as accessories. If you've ever listened to these assholes, you'll know they've got absolutely no remorse for what happened. They deserve to share a cell with their brat.

zeppo , in Extreme Misogyny in Incels Probably Not Caused by Sexual Frustration
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Sometimes people mix up the order of things and thus the cause and effect. For instance, with some medical issues, doctors have thought things like “oh, you went on this extreme diet, then you lost weight and had gastric issues”. No, I lost weight and had gastric issues, so I went on an extreme diet. In this case, i think the misogyny precedes lack of success at finding a partner. It can also be a situation of giving up too soon. For me, middle school and high school were so horrible in various ways that i assumed I was 100% doomed - I didn’t realize that life after 20 is very different. It still has high school social aspects, but it’s a lot better in many ways.

dvtt OP ,

Please teach me how to make the best out of my 20s!

johnthedoe ,

If I was to redo my 20s. What worked was going to university in my mid 20s. I was able to finish it much quicker and made some close friends during by that time as well as set my career path going. What I wish I had done was move away from the city I grew up in. I only did it in my late 20s and I regret not doing it sooner.

Have lots of social interactions. It’s valuable. Set yourself up career wise. Always check to know you haven’t hit a ceiling where you’re working. Exercise and travel lots would be my key takeaways.

dvtt OP ,

Great advice, thanks!

tetraodon ,

Same here. I finished my BA at 27 and I went on to take an MA and then a PhD 10 years later.

One more piece of advice: don’t do drugs.

bobs_monkey ,

Eh I’d say experiment if you want, but be responsible about it. Don’t let it consume your life or have priority over family, friends, work, etc. If you’re going to party, best to get it out of your system when you’re young, when consequences are less impactful.

SheeEttin ,

And if you do, do the fun stuff like weed, cocaine, shrooms, LSD, stuff like that. Don’t fuck with the dangerous stuff like heroin, fentanyl, meth, or pills like xanax or other benzos. Also alcohol can be dangerous too.

Unless you are not in a mentally healthy place, or know you are susceptible to addiction. Then don’t even try.

matter ,

Coke belongs in your second list.

rikudou ,

Yeah, way too much sugar.

Illuminostro , (edited )

“Cain’t spell diabeetus without “Die.””

tetraodon , (edited )

Problem with this is, when you realize it’s not fun anymore you’re sometimes too down the rabbit hole.

I did pot only but I wasted 5 years to stupidity and paranoia.

When you’re a teenager you’re not always aware of your mental health issues.

captainlezbian ,

Doing drugs was good for me, but more than doing drugs was being selective about it. I smoked pot sparingly and dropped acid a few times when I was pretty sure I was in a good place mentally.

Ubermeisters ,

Always check to know you haven’t hit a ceiling where you’re working

Disagree. Sometimes its perfectly fine to hit a ceiling if you are comfortable where you are and are withing comfortable means. This always look for better is exhausting, and 100% guarantees you will never like your job.

To be clear, I am NOT advocating that people should stay in dead end job they hate. Do not under any circumstance willingly stay at a job you hate. you only get one life, dont make it about work or money.

johnthedoe ,

I think it’s important in your 20s to push yourself and know where your ambitions and priorities lie. Checking if your work is a dead end can also signify wherever you’re growing in your skill sets too. What you don’t want is suddenly needing to push yourself later in life having to compete with people younger and hungrier than you. Try young and try hard will help minimise regret later.

AeroLemming ,

How did going to uni in your 20s instead of straight out of high school affect your ability to socialize? Did it introduce any sort of unique struggles or problems, and if so, how did you deal with them?

johnthedoe ,

I feel like going straight after high school allows you to naturally join all the parties and clubs. Which will definitely help with socialising. But I’m not a party guy so I might’ve felt left out and alone anyway.

Going later I made friends with mostly people in their mid 20s too. Which was good because we were more focused on graduating so it was more productive. The friendships I made felt tight and not a flash in a pan or party based. But that really depends on the people you meet.

I think it’s still worth going to uni straight after high school unless you have a good reason not to. What I can say is deciding to go later for career prospects is also great and not too late at all.

dogslayeggs ,

Let go of the small things and just be. It’s not exactly “don’t give a fuck,” but it’s close. Aim for meeting people and going out to do things, not necessarily specific people or popular things, just good people and things that are fun for you outside of the house. Realize you will grow and change a lot in your 20s, and so will everyone around you; so if you have a huge crush on someone your age that doesn’t like you back that way, then tell yourself you might really dislike them in 5 years so it’s not a big loss if they don’t like you now. It’s also OK to let friends go if you have an attraction to them that isn’t returned, because you have to protect your mental health. It’s OK to not drink or do drugs, but it’s also OK to drink and do drugs… just don’t do either to extremes and don’t be extreme about not doing drugs/alcohol. Try joining clubs for different things, even things you’ve never done. Realize most people don’t have things figured out in their 20s and that you can make mistakes. Make mistakes. Be well-rounded. It’s cool to play video games and DnD, but don’t JUST do that (especially if you want to meet women). Get clothes that fit properly, not necessarily expensive or cool clothes. A completely plain t-shirt that fits well (go to Target and buy every color of their Goodfellow everywhere V-neck T for $8 each) plus a pair of jeans that aren’t baggy and some Adidas shoes is an outfit you can wear everyday that will look good and is so comfortable.

dvtt OP ,

really depends on the drug imo… It is like playing the lottery… I know people who have permanent health issues (ie - halucinations) now as a result of cannabis and my father died of an OD and got started on hard drugs via a laced joint. I’m not going to be an asshole about it but I really wouldn’t recommend doing drugs.

dogslayeggs ,

And that’s totally your choice, but if you judge or avoid others because of their choices then you will be limiting who will be comfortable hanging out with you.

NuPNuA ,

On the other hand, I know plenty of people who get high daily and hold down jobs, families, etc without issue. We’ve all got andecdotes, they mean nothing compared to actual hard data.

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  • dvtt OP ,

    I guess as long as they’re not maxxed out lol

    EdibleFriend ,
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    Oh god no I’m joking dude no don’t do that lol

    devil_d0c ,

    You could join the AirForce. Get a degree or two out of it and get to travel some. 4 years isn’t a terrible commitment. I’d avoid the navy, army, or Marines tho, unless you also want to aim for medical disability lol

    devil_d0c ,

    I was 21 when I joined up. Got my batchelors, saw the world, met some people, did some things. Now I’m settled where I want doing the career I want. I credit the navy with a lot of the growing up/maturing I did.

    Uranium3006 ,
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    Don't serve the evil empire

    devil_d0c ,

    Worked out ok for me

    Cheesus ,

    Be more accepting of yourself and follow those passions. Nobody cares in your 20s what you do in your spare time, as long as it is something. There is nothing more boring than a person who has no passions and just exists.

    foggy ,

    Find exercise that’s fun, that you will continue to do for the rest of your life. Exercise regularly. You don’t need to get swole, but it staves off mental health better than anything.

    Compare beers to sodas. If you would feel odd drinking 5 sodas in a row, you should feel odd drinking 5 beers in a row. Don’t be the last guy at the bar/party.

    Just build healthy daily habits.

    NuPNuA ,

    A good beer tastes much nicer than most soft drinks though, and in some cases may well be healthier.

    captainlezbian ,

    Take care of yourself, dress in a way that makes you look your best, and pursue what you want. Also be fun to be around. Moderately attractive and fun beats out hot and miserable nearly every time

    Johnvanjim ,

    Get fit by finding something you enjoy that gets your heart going, track your spending, learn cook healthy meals, listen well and develop empathy. Good things will come.

    hightrix ,

    One tip, say yes more than you say no.

    Of course, there are exceptions, but try to say yes more than you’d initially want. If coworkers are going out for drinks after work, but you’d rather go home and stream/game/etc, go out. Same for other social activities.

    CordanWraith ,

    As someone in their 20s who detests that kind of thing and wouldn’t ever say yes, what’s the reasoning behind saying yes?

    Drunk people are awful, and going out is loud and annoying. Is it just that it’s a good skill to be able to do things that make you miserable?

    iopq ,

    No, it’s good to improve your social skills

    CordanWraith ,

    For what purpose though? Socialising seems like a waste of time.

    Microw ,

    For the purpose of not being completely alone and sad in your 30ies

    iopq ,

    If you never want to have a partner or socialize ever and want to live alone, I guess you could just not talk to people other than for work

    This is not the most common case, though

    dvtt OP ,

    “your network is your net worth” also loneliness kills

    Illuminostro ,

    Then why are you here?

    uranibaba ,

    Suggest an activity not involving drinking that would like to do with others instead.

    CordanWraith ,

    Just spending time with them without drinking? It’s not a difficult concept. Why do you require alcohol in order to interact with others?

    But why do I need to spend time with others at all? Work is for working, I don’t go to work to make friends or socialise.

    Lazylazycat ,
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    You don’t have to socialise with co-workers, but if you don’t have many friends it’s a good start. Interacting with other people, improving your social skills, learning and sharing from/with others all help you grow as a human and find your place in the world.

    NuPNuA ,

    As a fellow introvert, I sympathize, but there’s certian things that are cornerstones of western civilization and unfortunately going out for a pint or five is one of them and has been for centuries, so it’s not going to stop being so any time soon. Adopt a “when in Rome attitude”.

    dvtt OP ,

    you don’t have to get shitfaced. I usually get non-alcohlic beer

    SCB ,

    You’ll hate having fun less if you have fun more.

    I’m literally on the spectrum and being around people can be the exhausting, but it’s still a good habit to say yes more, because you will genuinely enjoy those experiences, and your life, more as you engage more.

    CordanWraith ,

    I’m also autistic and I have tried saying yes to things, but I just don’t enjoy it.

    Friends are mainly just extra effort that I don’t have the time or energy for. I have one, and my dogs, and I don’t feel I need anything more than that.

    Now I just work from home and only have to see coworkers every six months or so for an office visit. It’s pretty great.

    Whilst I respect your experiences, they’re not a universal truth for everyone.

    hightrix ,

    I 100% empathize with your situation. Mine was nearly identical in my early 20s. I’m very introverted, spending time with people is draining.

    In my late 20s, I started forcing myself to say yes more to nearly anything and everything. I made some great new life long friends, had experiences that I’d never had considered in the past, and overall became a better person due to more varied experiences. Additionally, I’ve had many career opportunities open up because of these relationships.

    Trust me, I know the comfort zone is easy to stay in and enjoy all the time. I do it still! But I also try to force myself out of my comfort zone. It makes me a better person with more perspectives to draw upon.

    Finally, drinking doesn’t have to be the activity, that was a quick example. Going to the beach, go for a hike, go to an arcade or barcade, play board games, and on and on.

    And if you don’t want to, that’s perfectly fine. But I’d highly suggest just trying it for a period of time. You may dislike it at first, but it will affect you as a person in many ways, some of those may be positive.

    FlyingSquid ,
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    Don’t have kids until your 30s.

    roboticide ,

    And don’t feel the need to have kids in your 30s either.

    meyotch ,

    Then enjoy your fourties while the parents get ground down by the unreasonable burdens of raising kids.

    iopq ,

    That’s not what this link says

    zeppo ,
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    Yeah, i drink wine all day and can’t actually read.

    FlyingSquid ,
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    Probably not the best thing to do if you have gastric issues.

    zeppo ,
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    Yeah, I don’t think it’s recommended in general.

    KevonLooney , in Witness to the 1996 drive-by shooting of Tupac Shakur indicted on murder charge in rapper’s death

    I don’t think the actual charges were released before. Looks like murder was the case that they gave him.

    danc4498 , in Las Vegas police arrest man in Tupac Shakur drive-by shooting case

    DiGiacomo said the grand jury heard evidence in the case for several months, and alleged that Davis acted as the “on-ground, on-site commander” who “ordered the death” of Shakur.

    I’m curious what evidence they found after all these years that confirms this.

    foggianism ,

    Keffy D basically implicated himself in this case by failing to shut up about it in various interviews. And he even released a book where he describes his role in the shooting in detail.

    reagansrottencorpse , in U.S. Senate unanimously passes formal dress code after uproar

    They don’t care about us at all and it shows.

    Ryan213 , in Proud Boy who disappeared ahead of his Jan. 6 sentencing was found unconscious by FBI agents at his home
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    So… They’ll be seeking at least 14 years now?

    LifeInMultipleChoice OP , in Witness to the 1996 drive-by shooting of Tupac Shakur indicted on murder charge in rapper’s death

    Should I crost post this in worldnews?

    Wermhatswormhat ,

    Dude, why not! This is fantastic news!!

    xc2215x , in Black musician says he was falsely accused of trafficking his own children aboard American Airlines flight

    Sad to see this happen to this black father. Racism likely played a role.

    ryathal ,

    Good candidate for understatement of the year.

    doubletwist ,

    Gee, you think?

    robocall , in Sen. Dianne Feinstein, an 'icon for women in politics,' dies at 90, source confirms
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    May all the 80+ year old senators and congress members take note at how many people are celebrating Feinstein’s death today.

    SheeEttin ,

    “idgaf, fuck you got mine”

    Ubermeisters ,

    the American mantra

    UncleJesus , in Sen. Dianne Feinstein, an 'icon for women in politics,' dies at 90, source confirms

    Truly an icon. And not only for women, but for everyone that overstays their welcome.

    macallik , in NYC streets turn into raging rivers during epic downpour flooding roads and subways

    Currently @ jfk. Good luck to those waiting

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