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Burn_The_Right , in 3 anti-LGBTQ+ groups are behind 86% of all book bans across the U.S.

I can reduce that further down to one group. Conservatives.

captainlezbian , in Extreme Misogyny in Incels Probably Not Caused by Sexual Frustration

Yeah the sexual frustration is definitely caused by extreme misogyny though

TheWoozy ,

Chicken or egg doesn’t really matter. It’s a vicious cycle that reinforces itself and gets worse the longer it continues.

sasoiliev ,

It matters if you aim at doing something about the phenomenon, no?

JoBo ,

Stupid bitches. Why won’t they sleep with me?

SwingingTheLamp ,

Interestingly, the first paragraphs of the linked article say that researchers found the opposite.

Burn_The_Right , (edited ) in Uber, Grubhub and DoorDash must pay NYC delivery workers an $18 minimum wage

Guess who’s about to keep all employee tips… A minimum wage is a great first step, but stricter regulation will be needed to curtail the absurd levels of greed from these megacorps.

weedazz , (edited )

Guess who’s going to stop playing 20% for tips now that I don’t have to subsidize a subhuman wage?

FoundTheVegan , in Extreme Misogyny in Incels Probably Not Caused by Sexual Frustration
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Sexual frustration comes from mysgonstic talking points that women, rightfully, keep their distance from. Why would I want to sleep with someone who is demeaning and insulting to me? 😂

clearedtoland ,

Maybe not you but someone out there might. Age has taught me the world takes all types.

Contrary to the incel narrative, the study found that extreme misogynistic views were driven by a psychology of dominance and status-seeking, which correlated with having many sexual partners.

That’s the real problem. They’re not necessarily sexually frustrated, that’s only a piece of it. It’s a distortion of their value and self-esteem, projected onto women. “If I matter, women should sleep with me.”

xuxebiko ,

psychology of dominance and status-seeking = entitled

clearedtoland ,

Concise and accurate. Which is odd to me because I’d think that’s an Alpha Bro but apparently it’s a Chad trait.

xuxebiko ,

it's an abuser's trait. Lundy Brancroft taught me that in his book 'Why does he do that?'

TheWoozy ,

I would have gone with pathetically desperate rather than entitled, but close enough.

Drivebyhaiku ,

I think they project it anywhere other than themselves to be honest. I lurked their hideouts for a bit out of curiosity and they seem to place a lot of their hate onto other men too. The whole vibe of the places is to whinge about the success of others (who are doing it wrong by not treating women like shit like they deserve because women having standards at all is wrong somehow) while also reinforcing amongst themselves that whatever is wrong with them cannot be changed, improved, repaired or fixed and any attempt to do so is to be attacked for trying to become one of those men who are doing it "wrong and tgus deserve scorn.

Successful relationships or even short term sexual liasons with women do not give them value in their micro societies. It causes them to lose status. They want a very particular kind of completely unchallengable dominance based on their intrinsic entitlement and any compromise on that can mean exile from the places they go for comfort… It’s a death cult. Flat out they want people to abandon hope forever and wallow in their worst qualities and misery until they no longer feel any point in living.

ElcaineVolta ,
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very well put; vegan btw..

FoundTheVegan ,
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Thank you!

(vegan btw)

blindbunny ,

It also comes from not being able to communicate to a potential partner how you would like to climax. Likely out of embarrassment or shame.

Also you don’t have to do shit for anyone that insults you.

MasterBlaster ,

Interestingly, that is the same logic MGTOW have for not wanting women in their lives. Just replace mysogeny with misandry in the assertion.

Nataratata ,

But that’s not the topic? I wish MGTOW would just go their own way already instead of pestering everyone with their bullshit.

MasterBlaster ,

Is MIGTOW not widely considered a red pill community? Who are they pestering? Wouldn’t that mean they aren’t going their own way?

Casallas , in New York Flooding Live Updates | Weather.com
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LI is flooding too, it’s crazy

TipRing , in Extreme Misogyny in Incels Probably Not Caused by Sexual Frustration

These guys aren’t physically repulsive, it’s their shit personalities that keeps them from getting laid.

Piecemakers3Dprints ,
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They may not all be physically repulsive, and all of their shit personalities aren’t all that keeps them from getting laid. 🤪🤣

quindraco ,

The study found the opposite. The really bad guys were the ones with many partners.

Nataratata ,

Where in the study did they wrote that?

WhiteHawk ,

Contrary to the incel narrative, the study found that extreme misogynistic views were driven by a psychology of dominance and status-seeking, which correlated with having many sexual partners. The study suggests that individuals who hold these extreme views are more similar to socially dominant “Chads” than to the stereotypical incel who turns his sexual frustration into hatred and a desire for revenge against women.

roboticide ,

At least a subset do. The study concedes it’s self-reported and not necessarily a representative sample of all incels.

At the very least, it sounds more to me like there’s now just cross-pollination between the old PUA community/philosophy and the incel community. Both are highly misogynistic, but incel culture is literally defined by men unable to find partners and PuAs are defined by men who only find many multiple partners.

A mysoginist claiming to have multiple partners just sounds like a Red Piller to me, not an incel, and I’m a bit suspicious of this whole “study”. I’m curious whether this study even bothered to consider that distinction. I read the article top to bottom and found no indication on how they actually identified their sample of incels as incels, and couldn’t find a link to the study itself. It appears like they simply found some online mysoginists and assumed they were all incels.

Sniper ,

RTDA

phoneymouse , in U.S. Senate unanimously passes formal dress code after uproar

Seems blatantly discriminatory on the basis of gender

TrismegistusMx ,
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Discrimination is the point of every dress code. They can’t have commoners walking freely through the House of Lords, or whatever these fuckheads want to call themselves this incarnation.

They should be hung from the roof upside down and naked. Instead we get to watch them bicker like children over the scraps of the government they’ve yet to destroy.

fluid_neutral OP , in Threats to Tigard-Tualatin Sch. Dist.
snooggums , in McCarthy’s last-ditch plan to keep the government open collapses, making a shutdown almost certain
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He could make a last last ditch effort and put the Senate compromise bill up for a vote and let the Dems and Republicans who aren't completely insane have a chance to pass that. It would show he isn't a slave to the extremists who openly hate him, so he won't do that.

dhork , in A Phillies fan tried — and failed — to bring an emotional support alligator to a game

They should have dressed him up as Santa Claus, they would have let it into the stadium just so Philly fans could boo it.

klemptor ,

Or throw batteries at it

(Who knows if we’ll ever get enough snow for snowballs again)

solidgrue ,
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Not with THAT attitude. This is your year!

jeffw ,
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Jesus if we could just mention Philly sports without someone else in the room bringing up the 50 year old Santa incident…

FlyingSquid OP ,
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Sorry, never going to happen.

solidgrue ,
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And the D-cells! Can’t forget the D-cells.

FlyingSquid OP ,
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Yep. You can’t really live down pelting one of your players with batteries because he’s switching teams.

mightyfoolish ,

So people from Philly hate Santa Claus?

dhork ,
PugJesus , in A Phillies fan tried — and failed — to bring an emotional support alligator to a game
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"When he's calm, I'm calm"

nobleshift , in Trump co-defendant pleads guilty in Georgia election case
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  • downpunxx OP ,
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    so is actual guilt

    Tigbitties ,
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    I don't I don't see this guilty speak of

    FoundTheVegan ,
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    And what a deal he got!

    $5,000 fine, 200 hours of community service and has to write a sorry note? Feels like nothing versus election fraud. Tbf, he is lower level, first and cooperative but still....

    squiblet ,
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    Something about his Trump/Eastman mug shot glare tells me he isn’t sorry.

    _Sc00ter ,

    It’s a small price to pay for a corroborating witness. This guy is a footnote, at best, in this story.

    FlyingSquid , in NYC streets turn into raging rivers during epic downpour flooding roads and subways
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    God damn there are some stupid fucking drivers in NYC.

    You don’t drive through a puddle that goes above the doorframe.

    generalEdo ,

    You don’t drive through anything that looks to be deeper than 5 inches. That still can take your vehicle.

    ThatWeirdGuy1001 , in McCarthy’s last-ditch plan to keep the government open collapses, making a shutdown almost certain
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    Why is it whenever a govt shutdown occurs it’s because of Republicans?

    Millions of people are affected by these shutdowns and it’s never brought up during elections.

    Govt shutdowns should be enough reason to never vote Republican again.

    BaroqueInMind ,
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    Because Republicans and everyone who votes republican are legitimately fucking retarded.

    CarbonatedPastaSauce ,

    Why is it whenever a govt shutdown almost anything bad in government occurs it’s because of Republicans?

    I didn’t used to think like this and I didn’t used to be so one sided in my political thinking, but events from 2016 on have turned me into a 100% Democrat voter. I always was for presidential elections but I used to consider more nuance in local elections and actually read the positions before voting. Now I don’t even bother. Democrats are not without sin but I’m always going to vote for the party that at least pays lip service to social improvement instead of greed being the core value of the party.

    Ranked choice voting and more than 2 parties would be the best situation but until we get that I’m straight down the ballot with the lesser of two evils.

    jballs ,
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    I’m the exact same way. The first election I voted in was Bush v Gore. Then and for nearly two decades later, I would look closely at each candidate no matter the party, and vote for the best candidate. I tended to vote for the Democrat more often, but was never a straight down ballot voter, especially for state and local elections.

    At this point though, the ® next to someone’s name on the ballot is so toxic that I won’t even consider them. They’ve all drunken the MAGA Koolaid and are doing everything they can to destroy our government and rip up the Constitution in the name of Trump. Maaaaaaaaaybe if I saw someone with balls to standup and say “hey, I’m a Republican but all this Trump worship has gone too far” then I would consider them. But that’s not the case here. Everyone running on the Republican ticket in my area has Trump’s balls in and around their mouth, so I will vote straight (D) for the next several years.

    captainlezbian ,

    Because the democrats want to govern

    Delusional ,

    Republicans are always the cause of it and yet they all shout afterwards that it’s the democrat’s fault. At this point, I’d be surprised if any republican politician ever told the truth once.

    eestileib ,

    And the news media repeats everything the Republicans say uncritically.

    pingveno ,

    There's a quote from P.J. O'Rourke that illustrates the point well:

    The Democrats are the party that says government will make you smarter, taller, richer, and remove the crabgrass on your lawn. The Republicans are the party that says government doesn't work and then they get elected and prove it.

    A central tenant of the Democratic Party is that government can be a force for good and should be run well. Republicans try to tear the government down, especially at the federal level. The party as a whole doesn't care nearly as much about good governance principles, though there are of course exceptions.

    DreddNYC ,

    It’s because of the Two Santa’s Problem. Republicans figured out in the 1970’s they couldn’t get elected competing with Democrats who want to expand social programs. They then adopted the strategy of saying the government doesn’t work, defunding it so that the self fulfilling prophecy comes true and they can be a Santa by giving tax cuts for the programs they defund.

    aesthelete ,

    defunding it so that the self fulfilling prophecy comes true and they can be a Santa by giving tax cuts for the programs they defund.

    This is giving them slightly too much credit. They don’t even shrink the government and pass the savings back to the American people. They continually grow the government, just like Democrats, however they have no mechanism to fund it because they also always support tax cuts. That’s why the deficit and the debt tend to grow even larger under their governance. That’s the two santas: government freebies and tax cuts both. Billions for defense contractors while we’re also giving Mr Private Jet a tax write-off.

    Blamemeta ,

    Because they have more supporters on reddit and now lemmy, so thats how its framed

    Wrench ,

    Because Republicans campaign on the principal of “government is inept” and do everything they can to make it so. They’re literally trying to destroy it from within to make their claim true.

    Their motivation for destroying the government is their corporate funders. A weak government means corporations have more freedom to truly fuck over their customers and workers.

    Money is their God and country.

    Edit - I forgot to include their extremist faction’s motivation since Trump took the wheel. Foreign funders. Russia and China have Trump, and therefore the MAGA faction, in their pocket.

    justastranger ,

    Every single government shutdown in the last 30 years has been caused by Republicans controlling the House

    ArugulaZ , in Extreme Misogyny in Incels Probably Not Caused by Sexual Frustration

    If that pickle is supposed to represent incels, they should have used a baby dill instead.

    ezchili ,

    haha smol peen funi

    hightrix ,

    In a post about misogyny, you being misandrist isn’t helpful.

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