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Pons_Aelius , in Red Lobster says unlimited shrimp promotion was too popular and too cheap

Company surprised that loss leading promotion lead to losses.

Details at 11.

SheeEttin ,

Yes, it’s surprising when a loss leader leads to losses. For example, Olive Garden and their soup, salad, and bread sticks are probably loss leaders because of how cheap they are, but they make up that little loss with much better margins on entrees (and, I assume, drinks).

FuglyDuck ,
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Soup might not actually be a loss leader. Their soups are pretty cheap to make in bulk- especially if they’re using left over ingredients that are not quite as fresh.

roguetrick , (edited )

I'm sure they're fresh, darden(who used to own red lobster) likely doesn't get too granular with it's produce suppliers in the area. They'll make one contract for all their subsidiary restaurants I'm sure.

FuglyDuck , (edited )
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I doubt red lobster seafood is fresh (lobster are from the tank, the rest not so much). It’s frozen. (They’d have to fly it in special, for most of their locations. Which. Is not cheap.)

Their soups… I dunno 50/50 on them being warmed out of giant bags made in some distribution hub.

Their biscuits are made from a dry mix (probably identical to bisquick)

I was speaking to OG’s soups (which are made fresh- during prep that morning.) are pretty freaking cheap to make- especially since they probably use all the not-quite as fresh ingredients left over from the previous night; and stocks made from bits and pieces that would otherwise be tossed (like chicken carcass or skins/peels from carrots and onions).

roguetrick ,

That's what I was taking about. I was taking about darden getting fresh produce. They're who own olive garden. They just also used to own red lobster but got rid of it.

FuglyDuck ,
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There’s levels of freshness, so to speak.

Soups usually get things that are not-as-fresh because they get simmered all day anyway- no one is gonna notice if the the carrots were getting flacid or if the protein is dried out from being cooked and not served.

They make the soup fresh daily- just in the morning. and they keep it hot so as to get it out quickly. The ingredients they use, though “fresh” are not the freshest in their pantry, if that makes sense. It’s the left over trimmings that get chopped up so as to hide it (this is actually a good thing. It reduces waste.)

FlyingSquid ,
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Their biscuits are made from a dry mix (probably identical to bisquick)

Where an I obtain massive quantities of this dry mix?

Asking for a friend.

TwentySeven ,

Walmart bulk foods aisle

FlyingSquid ,
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Are we talking Bisquick or delicious Red Lobster Cheddar Biscuits here? Because there’s a difference.

feminalpanda ,
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FlyingSquid ,
@FlyingSquid@lemmy.world avatar

Pack of 12? What do you think I am, an anorexic?

Tlaloc_Temporal ,
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That’s 12 boxes of mix, which each make 10 biscuits. That’s over 3 kilograms of biscuit mix, which makes 120 biscuits, like 10 kilos of biscuits!

FlyingSquid ,
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I stand by my previous statement.

feminalpanda ,
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Subscribe to weekly delivery lol

doubletwist ,

They sell it at grocery stores. They even have a gluten free version that my wife actually prefers to the regular.

FlyingSquid ,
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Of course, then I have to make it myself…

SheeEttin ,

Yeah, loss leader probably isn’t the right term for those.

_number8_ ,

i hate how the term ‘loss leader’ is bandied about like i’m meant to feel sorry for them so generously losing money on something when at the end of the night it’s obviously one transaction for everything with a healthy amount of profits baked in

FutileRecipe ,

like i’m meant to feel sorry for them so generously losing money on something

But think of the shareholders and CEO. Won’t someone please think of the shareholders and CEO?!

TheOctonaut ,

It’s not meant to make you feel sorry for them and in fact it’s an illegal tactic in many places

nous ,

What places are those?

labsin ,

Belgium. You are not allowed to sell any item at a loss. Fire example Ikea had to increase the prices of its restaurant and a supermarket that did a 3 for 1 promo got in trouble.

zigmus64 ,

What else should it be called? I don’t think there’s some moral responsibility placed upon the patron to make up for the loss, even with that name. It’s a gamble for the business that is usually thought out and is intended to lead to an increase in profits overall due to margins baked into items that aren’t on promo.

Sure, it’s considered poor taste to come to a restaurant solely for the free bread and some water and then leave, but it’s completely fair game to take advantage of a loss leading promotion like “endless shrimp” or Costco’s $1.75 for a hot dog and soda. The loss leader gets you in the door. They have other strategies to make that loss worth their while. If you walk in and pound more shrimp than Red Lobster can cover with the margins on the rest of your ticket, that’s their fault not yours… the house lost that bet.

Remmock ,

$1.50, and the CEO will kill you if you try to raise it.

shasta ,

I heard they have monthly death matches in the garden section after midnight

SamsonSeinfelder , in Trump should not face trial in Georgia if he wins 2024 election, lawyer says

If the bank robber is able to break into the bank on his second attempt, he should not be held accountable for his first attempt. Solid logic. Sure.

LEDZeppelin , in The Tesla Cybertruck is already being towed and isn't on sale yet

Lara Croft’s boobs had more curves in 1996

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  • RamSwamson ,

    The thing absolutely has potential, just not as a truck.

    Cold_Brew_Enema ,

    It will probably make a great garbage can

    FlyingSquid ,
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    Yes, in a late 1980s post-apocalyptic movie, it would work very well.

    MagicShel ,

    The inevitable Back to the Future remake featuring a Cybertruck instead of a Delorean.

    queermunist ,
    @queermunist@lemmy.ml avatar

    Why must you say something so terrible and yet so true??

    remus989 ,

    Oh lord, you just spoke that into existence didn’t you?

    MagicShel ,

    I think while Robert Zemeckis is still alive were are safe, but once he passes I expect this will be fast-tracked within 6 months. He was born in 52, so I don’t think this is immanent but I guarantee this will happen eventually.

    remus989 ,

    I hate that you’re right but at least we have a buffer.

    JoMiran , in Jimmy Carter, currently in hospice, plans to attend late wife Rosalynn Carter's memorial
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    This is in a way sad and in a way extremely touching. Sad is obvious, but I find the “I’m not hanging out here without her” just heartbreakingly sweet. He’s gonna die right after her funeral because, why shouldn’t he?

    My wife and I are coming up on thirty years and I genuinely don’t remember life without her.

    Ashyr ,

    Congrats. My wife and I are on the way to 14 and I can’t imagine a life without her.

    The_Picard_Maneuver ,
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    Same here. It just wouldn’t feel right - like how far is this car going to roll after half the wheels fall off?

    meat_popsicle ,

    It just becomes a motorcycle…didn’t you see The Dark Knight?

    vrek , (edited )

    That actually is a real thing. Sometimes when one long term partner dies, the other quickly follows with no explainable cause. Like a man who gets yearly physicals and no history of heart problems dies of a sudden heart attack with in a month of his wife dying, that sort of thing.

    Look up heartbreak syndrome it’s sweet and sad

    www.mayoclinic.org/…/syc-20354617

    To save you a Google search

    ipkpjersi ,

    I knew about it, but it’s honestly one of the saddest and sweetest things I’ve ever heard. To be that in love with someone, it’s really incredible.

    admiralteal , in Nonbinary Teacher in Florida Fired for Using Mx. Title

    They were told the other acceptable courtesy titles were Mrs., Ms., or Miss. Using "teacher" was also out of the question.

    After being denied Teacher, Professor, or Dr. as the title (the last because they did not have a PhD even though evidently others in the school go by Dr. without a PhD without discipline). And note that "Mr." was apparently not an option?

    The school's hands weren't tied. They appear enthusiastic.

    FuglyDuck , in City of Marion refuses to turn over records following newsroom raid that should be publicly available
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    Kari Newell, the business owner whose driving record Cody used as a premise to launch a raid on the newspaper and two homes, told the I-Team Cody directed her to delete text messages.

    “He just said to me that he felt it would be beneficial if I deleted those text messages to just kind of remove the element of any connection between him and I that could be deemed inappropriate,” Newell said.

    yeah. that’s not… suspicious at all. nope. Fuck these guys, though.

    mosiacmango ,

    As long as these sleazy fucks were using actual text messages, it’s fully possible their phone carriers have them.

    Poayjay , (edited ) in Court arguments on blocking Trump from the presidential ballot under the ‘insurrection’ clause begin

    That Supreme Court decision will be the embarrassment of our generation. Even though the constitution says nothing about a conviction, they’ll say that without a conviction he won’t reach the threshold of “insurrection.” Or maybe they’ll conveniently redefine the word insurrection. Or maybe they’ll say he didn’t technically “engage.” The possibilities are endless if you decide the verdict first and work your way back creating a legal justification.

    Jaysyn ,
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    Even though the constitution says nothing about a conviction

    That's actually the easiest argument there to counter. None of the politicians & officers of the Confederacy were convicted for insurrection, yet they were still barred from office.

    Wooster ,
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    What would prevent them from arguing that was improper, and thus invalid?

    EatYouWell ,

    The fact that they don’t even have to argue. They don’t have to justify their decisions to anyone, really, since there’s no oversight.

    Honytawk ,

    A bayonet in their face probably

    Jaysyn , (edited )
    @Jaysyn@kbin.social avatar

    The same thing that prevents the Executive Branch from ignoring their rulings.

    If they are going to play Calvinball, Biden should take a page from Andrew Jackson ask them how they plan on enforcing any of that.

    I think that would be terribly dangerous for Thomas' continued freedom, with all the light being shined upon the bribes he's taken. He's still a Federal Officer & beholden to those laws despite his recent mouth-noises to the contrary.

    troglodytis ,

    “None of the members of Congress that gave aid or comfort to the participants of the Nov 6th riots have been barred from holding office, so it must not have been an insurrection.” - Justice Thomas probably

    It’s the fact that we haven’t held any of our elected officials accountable for their actions and words that will bite us in the ass.

    Pyr_Pressure ,

    “We haven’t held anyone to account for their crimes so we cannot hold someone to account for their crimes”

    troglodytis ,

    Yep. Stupid as fuck, but little pink houses for you and me

    1847953620 ,

    chippity chop

    Nougat ,

    Section 3 Disqualification from Holding Office
    No person shall be a Senator or Representative in Congress, or elector of President and Vice-President, or hold any office, civil or military, under the United States, or under any State, who, having previously taken an oath, as a member of Congress, or as an officer of the United States, or as a member of any State legislature, or as an executive or judicial officer of any State, to support the Constitution of the United States, shall have engaged in insurrection or rebellion against the same, or given aid or comfort to the enemies thereof. But Congress may by a vote of two-thirds of each House, remove such disability.

    https://www.c-span.org/video/?507774-1/president-trump-video-statement-capitol-protesters

    "We love you. You're very special."

    Dippy ,

    Could still say he was not convicted of giving aid or comfort. Seems obvious he did, but without a trial not sure it would count. Although that would be an interesting trial as they track down the funding of these groups and how they are interconnected. Probably reveal some interesting players behind the scenes.

    Nougat ,

    Conviction is not a prerequisite.

    Dippy ,

    It doesn’t explicitly require one, but that’s what the Supreme Court could argue to strike it down. While you and I can say it’s obvious based on what happened, I’d rather have a conviction to take someone off the ballot, otherwise it would be exploitable.

    Nougat ,

    There is precedent. Many Confederates were excluded from holding office, even removed from office, based on 14AS3, without convictions of any kind.

    Dippy ,

    Didn’t know! Interesting many “were understood to be” disqualified. Most without trial, but they also didn’t attempt to run under that understanding.

    citizensforethics.org/…/past-14th-amendment-disqu…

    homesnatch ,

    It is only a relevant precedent if it was challenged and brought to the Supreme Court. Otherwise, it is merely untested.

    thesohoriots ,

    “I’ll take the shadow docket for $400, Alex”

    dhork ,

    “The Founders never intended for a President to be barred from running again due to formenting insurrection via Social Media, because Social Media hadn’t been invented yet.”

    EmpathicVagrant ,

    Wild to think we don’t already have a dozen points of embarrassment of our generation

    Nastybutler , in Trump committed egregious intelligence breach, ex-UK spy tells court

    Mueller concluded in 2019 that there was no evidence of a criminal conspiracy between Trump’s 2016 campaign and Russia.

    That’s not what Mueller said at all. Did Bill Barr ghost write this paragraph?

    NewNewAccount ,

    Weird coming from Reuters.

    vanontom ,
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    Reuters also regularly regurgitates disinformation and obvious lies coming directly from the Kremlin. I guess they don’t consider truth or accuracy very important, only “reporting news”.

    Naja_kaouthia , in Remote work is still 'frustrating and disorienting' for bosses, economist says—their No. 1 problem with it is how difficult it is to observe and monitor employees

    I’ve been working remotely for almost a decade now and have been a manager for 6 of those years and I do the following:

    Is [EMPLOYEE]’s work getting done? If yes then do nothing aside from thanking them. If no then talk to employee and/or start the corrective action process.

    I have neither the need nor the desire to hover over them. They’re grown ass adults.

    The_v , (edited )

    A few issues with your method for the average manager.

    What work exactly is the employee doing?

    How do you know if it is being done correctly?

    The average manager has no clue on either of these questions.

    These managers rely on wandering around the office judging productiviy by who looks busy and holding constant meetings to hear themselves talk.

    Naja_kaouthia ,

    Fair. I’ve had a few bosses like that.

    time_lord ,

    The average manager has no clue on either of these questions.

    But being in person wouldn’t help.

    BradleyUffner ,

    That sounds like the manager is the one not doing their job and is in need of monitoring.

    karmiclychee ,

    As a manager, agreed

    frank ,

    I managed a support team of about 30 people at a fully remote company. I’d check their numbers of closed cases, review cases when customer feedback was bad, and take into account any other side projects they were working on.

    Praise when people did good and have one on one talks with people that were falling behind to see what the cause was so we could work on it. It’s not that hard.

    Naja_kaouthia ,

    I have a pretty similar work flow. I stay on top of my crap, they stay on top of theirs and everyone’s happy. As long as they’re doing what they’re supposed to I don’t give a damn if they’re also taking some down time during their day.

    Ensign_Crab , in Children’s picture book flagged at Alabama library because author’s last name is ‘Gay’

    And as always, the library has a copy of Mein Kampf that no rightwinger has a problem with.

    Uranium3006 ,
    @Uranium3006@kbin.social avatar

    The people.complaining put quotes from it in their newsletters

    Ghyste ,

    And the Bible. Let’s not forget that.

    TechyDad ,
    @TechyDad@lemmy.world avatar

    Hey, the Bible is totally child friendly. Like that passage where Lot’s daughters get him drunk and have sex with him in order to have his babies.

    Or the one that describes how a guy’s brother died without having an heir. So the guy got to have sex with his sister-in-law in order to give her a son. Except he pulled out at the last second and “let his seed spill on the ground” and was killed for breaking his word.

    Or maybe the passage where Dinah was raped and her rapist wanted to marry her. Dinah’s brothers agreed, but only if all the men in that village got circumcised. Then, when all the men were “indisposed,” the brothers ran in, killed all the men, and took the women and children captive.

    See? So totally child friendly!

    AngryCommieKender ,

    "Let the heathens spill theirs on the dusty ground. God shall strike them down for each sperm that can’t be found."

    • Book of John ^(Cleese)
    tryptaminev ,

    Mein Kampf has very interesting parts about reproductivity of animals. Statements such as

    “the stork goes to the female stork, field mouse to field mouse, house mouse to house mouse, wolf to wolf, etc…”

    are truly remarkable in his incomprehensibly big brain revelations about biology. Then he moves on to explain how the same would apply to humans, completely brushing over the fact that storks and mouse are different kinds and he is too stupid to differentiate between race and kind.

    prole ,

    Shut up nerd, save the science for the vivisections!

    – Hitler (probably)

    cricket97 ,

    Fyi since I’m assuming you didn’t read the article, the book was just moved out of the Children’s section. Obviously a mistake in instance, but it’s not being banned. Mein Kampf is not in the children’s section. I think it’s fine for sexually explicit books (i.e. the book “Gender queer”) to be moved out of the children’s section

    Ensign_Crab ,

    “See, it’s not really censorship because…” is an argument anyone should be ashamed to make. Conservatives never have a problem with Mein Kampf in any context.

    cricket97 ,

    Mein Kampf is not in the children’s section, which is what this article is about. The comparison is useless in this circumstance. Read the article before commenting.

    Gumbyyy ,

    So then are you suggesting that it’s totally ok to remove a book from the children’s section because the author’s last name is “Gay”? Because that’s what this entire post is about.

    cricket97 ,

    I’m saying the process of removing books from the children’s section is an appropriate policy, even if it was misapplied in this case. It’s not banning books, like many people in here seem to believe.

    Ensign_Crab ,

    Hiding children’s books from children at the behest of bigots kinda defeats the purpose of having children’s books. It’s effectively a ban, which is why you’re defending it.

    cricket97 ,

    I’m ok with removing sexually explicit books from children’s sections yes. Especially ones that show gratuitous sexual activity, such as the book Gender Queer data.ibtimes.sg/en/full/52824/gender-queer.jpg?w=…

    Or “This Book is Gay” which gives a step by step on how to use gay hookup apps. These are the books that people are demanding remain in front of children.

    Ensign_Crab ,

    So you support book bans and want to call them something else.

    cricket97 ,

    It’s not banning them, just removing them from the Children’s section. Children’s media has always be moderated

    Ensign_Crab ,

    “It’s not banning! It’s just hiding them from their intended audience because bigots don’t like them!”

    Quit splitting hairs just because you support bans but don’t want to call them bans.

    TheRealKuni ,

    Gender Queer was never intended for children. It is aimed at adults and young adults.

    The NEA recommended it on a list of books for educators and some people misinterpreted this (perhaps purposely, since it acts as really nice fuel for the fear fire) as being recommended for children.

    It is not, nor was it ever, a children’s book. And should not be in a children’s section. At the youngest, it could be in the YA section (depending on a local library’s discretion).

    squiblet , in Texas Man Allegedly Used Abortion Lawsuit To Blackmail Ex-Wife For Sex
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    Of course... as intended. A way for abusive men to control women.

    send the video directly to her family members ― unless she continued to do his laundry.

    almost funny how pathetic that is.

    Star ,
    @Star@lemmy.blahaj.zone avatar

    They want slavery back so badly.

    Wiggums , in North Carolina Republicans create "secret police force"

    GOP are fascists

    zeppo , in Extreme Misogyny in Incels Probably Not Caused by Sexual Frustration
    @zeppo@lemmy.world avatar

    Sometimes people mix up the order of things and thus the cause and effect. For instance, with some medical issues, doctors have thought things like “oh, you went on this extreme diet, then you lost weight and had gastric issues”. No, I lost weight and had gastric issues, so I went on an extreme diet. In this case, i think the misogyny precedes lack of success at finding a partner. It can also be a situation of giving up too soon. For me, middle school and high school were so horrible in various ways that i assumed I was 100% doomed - I didn’t realize that life after 20 is very different. It still has high school social aspects, but it’s a lot better in many ways.

    dvtt OP ,

    Please teach me how to make the best out of my 20s!

    johnthedoe ,

    If I was to redo my 20s. What worked was going to university in my mid 20s. I was able to finish it much quicker and made some close friends during by that time as well as set my career path going. What I wish I had done was move away from the city I grew up in. I only did it in my late 20s and I regret not doing it sooner.

    Have lots of social interactions. It’s valuable. Set yourself up career wise. Always check to know you haven’t hit a ceiling where you’re working. Exercise and travel lots would be my key takeaways.

    dvtt OP ,

    Great advice, thanks!

    tetraodon ,

    Same here. I finished my BA at 27 and I went on to take an MA and then a PhD 10 years later.

    One more piece of advice: don’t do drugs.

    bobs_monkey ,

    Eh I’d say experiment if you want, but be responsible about it. Don’t let it consume your life or have priority over family, friends, work, etc. If you’re going to party, best to get it out of your system when you’re young, when consequences are less impactful.

    SheeEttin ,

    And if you do, do the fun stuff like weed, cocaine, shrooms, LSD, stuff like that. Don’t fuck with the dangerous stuff like heroin, fentanyl, meth, or pills like xanax or other benzos. Also alcohol can be dangerous too.

    Unless you are not in a mentally healthy place, or know you are susceptible to addiction. Then don’t even try.

    matter ,

    Coke belongs in your second list.

    rikudou ,

    Yeah, way too much sugar.

    Illuminostro , (edited )

    “Cain’t spell diabeetus without “Die.””

    tetraodon , (edited )

    Problem with this is, when you realize it’s not fun anymore you’re sometimes too down the rabbit hole.

    I did pot only but I wasted 5 years to stupidity and paranoia.

    When you’re a teenager you’re not always aware of your mental health issues.

    captainlezbian ,

    Doing drugs was good for me, but more than doing drugs was being selective about it. I smoked pot sparingly and dropped acid a few times when I was pretty sure I was in a good place mentally.

    Ubermeisters ,

    Always check to know you haven’t hit a ceiling where you’re working

    Disagree. Sometimes its perfectly fine to hit a ceiling if you are comfortable where you are and are withing comfortable means. This always look for better is exhausting, and 100% guarantees you will never like your job.

    To be clear, I am NOT advocating that people should stay in dead end job they hate. Do not under any circumstance willingly stay at a job you hate. you only get one life, dont make it about work or money.

    johnthedoe ,

    I think it’s important in your 20s to push yourself and know where your ambitions and priorities lie. Checking if your work is a dead end can also signify wherever you’re growing in your skill sets too. What you don’t want is suddenly needing to push yourself later in life having to compete with people younger and hungrier than you. Try young and try hard will help minimise regret later.

    AeroLemming ,

    How did going to uni in your 20s instead of straight out of high school affect your ability to socialize? Did it introduce any sort of unique struggles or problems, and if so, how did you deal with them?

    johnthedoe ,

    I feel like going straight after high school allows you to naturally join all the parties and clubs. Which will definitely help with socialising. But I’m not a party guy so I might’ve felt left out and alone anyway.

    Going later I made friends with mostly people in their mid 20s too. Which was good because we were more focused on graduating so it was more productive. The friendships I made felt tight and not a flash in a pan or party based. But that really depends on the people you meet.

    I think it’s still worth going to uni straight after high school unless you have a good reason not to. What I can say is deciding to go later for career prospects is also great and not too late at all.

    dogslayeggs ,

    Let go of the small things and just be. It’s not exactly “don’t give a fuck,” but it’s close. Aim for meeting people and going out to do things, not necessarily specific people or popular things, just good people and things that are fun for you outside of the house. Realize you will grow and change a lot in your 20s, and so will everyone around you; so if you have a huge crush on someone your age that doesn’t like you back that way, then tell yourself you might really dislike them in 5 years so it’s not a big loss if they don’t like you now. It’s also OK to let friends go if you have an attraction to them that isn’t returned, because you have to protect your mental health. It’s OK to not drink or do drugs, but it’s also OK to drink and do drugs… just don’t do either to extremes and don’t be extreme about not doing drugs/alcohol. Try joining clubs for different things, even things you’ve never done. Realize most people don’t have things figured out in their 20s and that you can make mistakes. Make mistakes. Be well-rounded. It’s cool to play video games and DnD, but don’t JUST do that (especially if you want to meet women). Get clothes that fit properly, not necessarily expensive or cool clothes. A completely plain t-shirt that fits well (go to Target and buy every color of their Goodfellow everywhere V-neck T for $8 each) plus a pair of jeans that aren’t baggy and some Adidas shoes is an outfit you can wear everyday that will look good and is so comfortable.

    dvtt OP ,

    really depends on the drug imo… It is like playing the lottery… I know people who have permanent health issues (ie - halucinations) now as a result of cannabis and my father died of an OD and got started on hard drugs via a laced joint. I’m not going to be an asshole about it but I really wouldn’t recommend doing drugs.

    dogslayeggs ,

    And that’s totally your choice, but if you judge or avoid others because of their choices then you will be limiting who will be comfortable hanging out with you.

    NuPNuA ,

    On the other hand, I know plenty of people who get high daily and hold down jobs, families, etc without issue. We’ve all got andecdotes, they mean nothing compared to actual hard data.

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  • dvtt OP ,

    I guess as long as they’re not maxxed out lol

    EdibleFriend ,
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    Oh god no I’m joking dude no don’t do that lol

    devil_d0c ,

    You could join the AirForce. Get a degree or two out of it and get to travel some. 4 years isn’t a terrible commitment. I’d avoid the navy, army, or Marines tho, unless you also want to aim for medical disability lol

    devil_d0c ,

    I was 21 when I joined up. Got my batchelors, saw the world, met some people, did some things. Now I’m settled where I want doing the career I want. I credit the navy with a lot of the growing up/maturing I did.

    Uranium3006 ,
    @Uranium3006@kbin.social avatar

    Don't serve the evil empire

    devil_d0c ,

    Worked out ok for me

    Cheesus ,

    Be more accepting of yourself and follow those passions. Nobody cares in your 20s what you do in your spare time, as long as it is something. There is nothing more boring than a person who has no passions and just exists.

    foggy ,

    Find exercise that’s fun, that you will continue to do for the rest of your life. Exercise regularly. You don’t need to get swole, but it staves off mental health better than anything.

    Compare beers to sodas. If you would feel odd drinking 5 sodas in a row, you should feel odd drinking 5 beers in a row. Don’t be the last guy at the bar/party.

    Just build healthy daily habits.

    NuPNuA ,

    A good beer tastes much nicer than most soft drinks though, and in some cases may well be healthier.

    captainlezbian ,

    Take care of yourself, dress in a way that makes you look your best, and pursue what you want. Also be fun to be around. Moderately attractive and fun beats out hot and miserable nearly every time

    Johnvanjim ,

    Get fit by finding something you enjoy that gets your heart going, track your spending, learn cook healthy meals, listen well and develop empathy. Good things will come.

    hightrix ,

    One tip, say yes more than you say no.

    Of course, there are exceptions, but try to say yes more than you’d initially want. If coworkers are going out for drinks after work, but you’d rather go home and stream/game/etc, go out. Same for other social activities.

    CordanWraith ,

    As someone in their 20s who detests that kind of thing and wouldn’t ever say yes, what’s the reasoning behind saying yes?

    Drunk people are awful, and going out is loud and annoying. Is it just that it’s a good skill to be able to do things that make you miserable?

    iopq ,

    No, it’s good to improve your social skills

    CordanWraith ,

    For what purpose though? Socialising seems like a waste of time.

    Microw ,

    For the purpose of not being completely alone and sad in your 30ies

    iopq ,

    If you never want to have a partner or socialize ever and want to live alone, I guess you could just not talk to people other than for work

    This is not the most common case, though

    dvtt OP ,

    “your network is your net worth” also loneliness kills

    Illuminostro ,

    Then why are you here?

    uranibaba ,

    Suggest an activity not involving drinking that would like to do with others instead.

    CordanWraith ,

    Just spending time with them without drinking? It’s not a difficult concept. Why do you require alcohol in order to interact with others?

    But why do I need to spend time with others at all? Work is for working, I don’t go to work to make friends or socialise.

    Lazylazycat ,
    @Lazylazycat@lemmy.world avatar

    You don’t have to socialise with co-workers, but if you don’t have many friends it’s a good start. Interacting with other people, improving your social skills, learning and sharing from/with others all help you grow as a human and find your place in the world.

    NuPNuA ,

    As a fellow introvert, I sympathize, but there’s certian things that are cornerstones of western civilization and unfortunately going out for a pint or five is one of them and has been for centuries, so it’s not going to stop being so any time soon. Adopt a “when in Rome attitude”.

    dvtt OP ,

    you don’t have to get shitfaced. I usually get non-alcohlic beer

    SCB ,

    You’ll hate having fun less if you have fun more.

    I’m literally on the spectrum and being around people can be the exhausting, but it’s still a good habit to say yes more, because you will genuinely enjoy those experiences, and your life, more as you engage more.

    CordanWraith ,

    I’m also autistic and I have tried saying yes to things, but I just don’t enjoy it.

    Friends are mainly just extra effort that I don’t have the time or energy for. I have one, and my dogs, and I don’t feel I need anything more than that.

    Now I just work from home and only have to see coworkers every six months or so for an office visit. It’s pretty great.

    Whilst I respect your experiences, they’re not a universal truth for everyone.

    hightrix ,

    I 100% empathize with your situation. Mine was nearly identical in my early 20s. I’m very introverted, spending time with people is draining.

    In my late 20s, I started forcing myself to say yes more to nearly anything and everything. I made some great new life long friends, had experiences that I’d never had considered in the past, and overall became a better person due to more varied experiences. Additionally, I’ve had many career opportunities open up because of these relationships.

    Trust me, I know the comfort zone is easy to stay in and enjoy all the time. I do it still! But I also try to force myself out of my comfort zone. It makes me a better person with more perspectives to draw upon.

    Finally, drinking doesn’t have to be the activity, that was a quick example. Going to the beach, go for a hike, go to an arcade or barcade, play board games, and on and on.

    And if you don’t want to, that’s perfectly fine. But I’d highly suggest just trying it for a period of time. You may dislike it at first, but it will affect you as a person in many ways, some of those may be positive.

    FlyingSquid ,
    @FlyingSquid@lemmy.world avatar

    Don’t have kids until your 30s.

    roboticide ,

    And don’t feel the need to have kids in your 30s either.

    meyotch ,

    Then enjoy your fourties while the parents get ground down by the unreasonable burdens of raising kids.

    iopq ,

    That’s not what this link says

    zeppo ,
    @zeppo@lemmy.world avatar

    Yeah, i drink wine all day and can’t actually read.

    FlyingSquid ,
    @FlyingSquid@lemmy.world avatar

    Probably not the best thing to do if you have gastric issues.

    zeppo ,
    @zeppo@lemmy.world avatar

    Yeah, I don’t think it’s recommended in general.

    n3m37h , in Musk’s X revokes paid blue check from United Auto Workers after strike called

    Ah our hero the Free Speech Absolutist, unless it is something he disagrees with. Fucking man child

    FlyingSquid , in Frontier Airlines CEO says the pandemic made workers 'lazy' and less productive: 'People are still allowing people to work from home, all this silliness, right?'
    @FlyingSquid@lemmy.world avatar

    “I’m perfectly happy in my large, quiet office, sitting in my $2000 executive chair in front of my mahogany desk and using my private executive bathroom. I don’t know what these people on the fourth floor are complaining about. We give them cubicles and a ping-pong table (do not use during work hours), don’t we?”

    TOModera ,

    Cubicles? In this economy?

    Semi-Hemi-Demigod ,
    @Semi-Hemi-Demigod@kbin.social avatar

    Cubicles break things up. To maximize synergy we need an open floor plan so everyone can hear and see everyone else.

    TOModera ,

    I’ve never been so angry reading something I had to go through at 3 different jobs.

    aesthelete ,

    To maximize efficiency we cannot have the cubicle walls potentially blocking the path of the farts and sneezes they must all breathe in. Every fart and sneeze must be fully breathed in by staff to cut down on cleaning costs!

    FlyingSquid ,
    @FlyingSquid@lemmy.world avatar

    Sometimes you have to give them a little extra to make them more productive. It’s okay, we found a loophole in accounting so it’s a write-off.

    penguin ,

    Now they’re all about open floor plans for collaboration (read: for squeezing more people in the same space).

    TOModera ,

    Worked at 3 of them that did that. Worst working environmentsever. Current one is experimenting with it, but I’m WFH all the time so I just made it known I never want that.

    Fapper_McFapper ,

    And we had our yearly cook out last month!

    MossBear ,

    Having done cleaning in offices such as these for at least one of the top companies in the world, I fail to see why even this sort of office is all that compelling. Look, a miniature golf statue…

    FlyingSquid ,
    @FlyingSquid@lemmy.world avatar

    They’re not compelling to you and I. They’re a way to show fellow executives how powerful you are. A huge office with expensive furniture means you’re important.

    aesthelete ,

    Gotta gather in a room to compare business cards like they do in American Psycho or it just isn’t businessing!

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