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shapis ,

I have ferociously defended the platform against iPhone

Why tho

shapis ,

Not gonna lie. This is the kind of tech illiteracy people are talking about.

In the specific case of setting up Jellyfin, it takes about 10 minutes, you do it once, never have to do it again, and it has no programming skill requirement to it.

These services google offer thrive on ignorance of alternatives, they’re not any easier to use than the alternatives.

shapis ,

Yup. Basically this. I’d love to not have to know anything about the system other than which programs I want to run.

shapis ,

Which desktop GPUs would these be equivalent to?

shapis ,

Bought a used pixel 7 and I’m very happy with it.

What did you do to survive the night of/after a breakup?

Boyfriend of 2 years (best friend of 6) just told me he’s started seeing someone else. No discussion. Just ghosted me for a week and hit me with this news. Thought he was my soulmate, lmao. I feel like someone just ripped out my insides. Just turned 31 this year, this shit is not any easier than when I was a teenager....

shapis ,

It’s just time. Might suck for a little time or a long time though.

If you want to make it suck for as little as possible just go no contact and don’t snoop. It really is as simple as that. Although I’m very aware it’s a hard thing to do.

Sorry this happened to ya. Hang on.

shapis ,

Bought the game after following it for a while and thinking to myself there’s no way it doesn’t release later this year.

That happened in 2014.

Lol.

shapis ,

Some people are just permanently about to lose it.

shapis ,

loved my time in Classic but in retrospect, my fondness was just for my guild.

The social aspect and the game being slower are intrinsically tied together. Having to run to the dungeon and then wait 15 min til a straggler shows up lets you know the people you are playing with in ways that modern MMOs and their gogogo playstyle just don’t allow.

Classic was full of systems that intentionally put the social aspect of the game front and center.

shapis ,

Got a 256 used pixel 7 for $400 six months ago. It probably goes near 300.

shapis OP ,

That’s a relief.

So just go on about my merry way and if someone corrects me respect their choices ?

shapis OP ,

What do you mean

shapis OP ,

Cool thanks. I just put mine up in my bio. Hopefully in the right spot.

shapis OP ,

Thank u that makes sense.

shapis OP ,

I’ll keep that in mind. Thank you.

shapis OP ,

he and him what you want in those positions?

I had never stopped to think about this. I guess the answer in my partícular case is I literally don’t care which ones they use. Hm. Not sure what that means.

Thank you for the detailed comment.

shapis OP ,

Thank you for the comment I added he/him to my bio. Not sure if it’s in the right place.

shapis OP ,

I’ll try to pick up that habit. Thank you. That’s a good suggestion.

shapis ,

Not failing any classes. So far it’s going quite mid.

shapis ,

Not sure if it quite counts as fantasy but…

Everything about Blade Runner was perfect.

The sequel somehow managed to not drop the ball as well.

shapis ,

I’ve only ever had one date in my life that went bad. I had a feeling I was about to get ghosted so I asked her to like. Lemme know why it went so bad from her pov. It was an interesting conversation.

If they bring it up just be honest with them.

shapis , (edited )

This was forever ago. But basically we both drove to a mall for I think sushi and a movie ?

The conversation during sushi went swell but during the movies I could tell she was sitting farther away from me than she had to.

On the way out I asked her if she wanted me to walk her out and she said nah. I was taken aback it was late at night. And was like. Are you sure ? She said yes so we parted ways.

I remember thinking man I’m not sure what I did wrong. That whole thing usually works. Lol.

Once I got home I messaged that I apologized if I made her feel uncomfortable in anyway and asked her on her end what went so wrong.

She told me during the movie / on the way out she thought I might attempt to kiss her. And she wasn’t feeling that way. I thanked her for being honest and that was that.

I wouldn’t have tried tho. I was fully aware that things weren’t going ideal. But yeah. Thats the story.

shapis ,

It’s not even a bad movie. But it’s only very tangentially related to the source material.

shapis ,

I feel most of these issues are just due to how small the userbase is.

shapis ,

The best alternative would be focusing on the product and letting word of mouth do it’s job.

Paid advertising is definitely quicker to get going though.

Help deciding PC upgrades

So…I’ve been increasingly struggling to run the latest games, as the age of my 6 years old desktop is starting to show, and Starfield denying my GPU just pissed me. I know it’s a bug and I can probably play it, but it’s outright the minimum for this game, and so I’d like a refresh of the worst, or should I consider a...

shapis ,

Your power supply is fine.

If you feel you can deal with your CPU for a few more years just upgrade the GPU and call it a day. A 3070 or a 6700xt would feel like a huge upgrade.

Having that said your computer is still entirely serviceable. I’d just hold on a few more years and upgrade the whole thing.

Why is everyone so giddy about the flooding thay happened at burning man?

Social media seems to be laughing its ass off about this tragedy, is it because the folks at burning man are perceived as frivolous hippies or something? Everyone I’ve ever met who was a regular burning man attendee has been a solid human being with strong morals, personally and financially responsible, a career. Upstanding...

shapis , (edited )

The way I always thought about it is if you have to do work for a living you are not rich.

Not counting games that were unfun because of bugs, what’s the most unfun video game that you’ve played and what made it unfun?

Most of the video games I’ve played were pretty good. The only one I can think of that I didn’t like was MySims Kingdom for the Nintendo DS. Dropped that pretty quickly. It was a long while ago, but I’ll guess it was because there were too many fetch quests and annoying controls.

shapis ,

SimCity 2013 or whatever the full online one was.

It was bugs and lies all the way to the bottom of it.

shapis , (edited )

Oh I totally misread the question. My bad.

Answering the actual question. Any game that spams me with dark patterns bullshit is immediately unfun.

Oh here’s your daily login reward! Ready for your dailies? Oh just fuck right off.

Gaming laptop with good Linux support?

A similar question was raised some day’s ago from a other person, but with different background. In this case, I would like to buy a nice gaming laptop. Of course I would use it for office and coding to, but primary I’m searching recommendations for gaming. I would like to play Wine/Proton game’s and also native Linux...

shapis ,

Indeed. The laptop is great exception for QA issues. I have some of those issues but not some others.

An extremely annoying thing that happens to me you didn’t mention is when I’m using the integrated GPU sometimes the screen flickers.

And if it matters my unit at least doesn’t overheat at all. It’s actually quite impressive.

shapis , (edited )

If it’s not obvious those rules are in place to punish women. Not to protect. They will never ever be applied in a protective way. That’s not what they were made for.

What if the quantum uncertainty suddenly became significantly larger on macroscopic scales?

Let’s say the quantum uncertainty which is currently quite small and doesn’t affect our life on macroscopic scale suddenly increased. Magically we are still living in this weird rule of physics. How would we see daily stuff? like how would I see a ball rolling in my sight?

shapis ,

A good way of exposing this idea to people is showing them the step by step of how to get the particle in the box energy equation and then generalizing it for 3d.

It becomes really obvious the issues that happen when you have degenerate states.

shapis ,

For the king is truly amazing with friends. I’d highly recommend it to anyone.

I might try state of decay 2. I loved the first one. I hear the second one is co op. Which might be nice.

shapis ,

It’s been easy.

Every time I think about going there I just remind myself that the people that run that site actively hate their users.

shapis ,

Quake 3 was my first but Ultima Online is the one that made me fall in love.

shapis ,

Same, first kernel in a while that I’m not getting freezes.

shapis ,

Awesome thanks.

shapis ,

Worst part of reading this is that I do not remember the year. Or the patch number. But Im fairly positive I know exactly about what you are talking about.

shapis ,

Being a minority in any social setting brings difficulties that others just don’t otherwise face.

Having a women’s category for chess is a way of creating a safe environment for everyone to thrive.

shapis ,

Only counter argument I can give you is have a bit of empathy.

Imagine that you were a young girl and saw this game. Chess. And you wanted to learn how to play.

The first person you asked was your mother and she told you oh that’s a boys game. But you still wanted to learn.

So you decide to just read up on the rules. You don’t really know anyone that plays. So you just kinda play vs yourself and redo. Old GM matches you found in old magazines. None of them are like you btw. They all seem like old men that live on the opposite side of the world.

You really like the game tho. And eventually you realize oh. There are actual clubs/tourneys near here I can go and play with actual people!

You go. And there’s not a single girl there. Because of all the hurdles you had to jump. Most others that would have been interested just quit.

So you get there. You are obviously underprepared because you didn’t have the support system that made learning it easy. Because of that you just get wrecked.

In addition to that you probably will have to hear some dumb jokes. That if you didn’t have such a rough patch to get there in the first place they might have been funny to you. But they aren’t. They just felt like you were being punched down.

Having exclusive tournaments and leagues is a very minor way of rectifying awful historical disparities. It’s not perfect and it’s not a solution by itself. But it’s absolutely needed.

shapis ,

Entirely agree with everything you said. I never implied otherwise.

My entire comment was replying to this:

but there shouldn’t be divisions based on sex or gender.

There absolutely should. Reasoning: in my previous comment above.

shapis ,

They do pay me for it actually, in in-game currency,

That’s somehow even worse.

What’s the conversion rate between the dollars you are making them and the schrute bucks you are being paid ?

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