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verity_kindle , to asklemmy in Dear Lemmy, **why** Star Trek??

Because Trek fans were the first to organize conventions. They started out small in the late 60s. Now every single weekend, somewhere on this planet, there’s a Trek convention being held. The conventions also raise massive money for charity. They are the nerds other nerds want to be, in terms of organization. I’m here for the memes.

actual_patience OP ,

I did not know that, thanks!

Dagwood222 ,
Dagwood222 ,

Sorry, but there were science fiction conventions before Star Trek.

en.wikipedia.org/…/1st_World_Science_Fiction_Conv….

You are right that Star Trek conventions were the first time a single show was the focus of a convention, and the Star Trek conventions lead to things like ComicCon.

TIN , to asklemmy in is there a limit to the point that i will find women attractive?

I feel like there is a window that moves with you as you age. At 47 I find women attractive up to their early 50s, and down into their 30s.

I mean dating attractive here. I’m not going to try and claim that a hot twenty something on the telly does nothing for me

livus ,
@livus@kbin.social avatar

@TIN this is what I think happens too.

antricfer ,

I’m 55 I find young women very attractive but I wouldn’t have sex with them. Sex changes as you get older. It slows down and it’s more psychological than physical.

ExLisper ,

Then again, I would not kick out 20 something yo out of my bed if she was already there…

SatansMaggotyCumFart ,

Good thing that won’t be an issue.

Kusimulkku ,

Lemmy user learns of hypotheticals

SatansMaggotyCumFart ,

Do you know what jokes and twenty year old pussy has in common?

You’ll never get them.

Kusimulkku ,

My wife is in her 20s. Should be enough of a setup for a real boomer ass joke there.

SatansMaggotyCumFart ,

It seems to me you’re just confirming you’re not getting 20 year old pussy.

Kusimulkku ,

Yeah that was the joke I was setting up

SatansMaggotyCumFart ,

What?

That your wife isn’t twenty?

Kusimulkku ,

No the “haha married people don’t have sex” thing. It’s a boomer classic.

SatansMaggotyCumFart ,

So you’re a boomer who’s married to a woman in her twenties?

Congratulations?

Kusimulkku ,

Thanks

CAVOK ,

I absolutely would, or my wife would be very annoyed with me.

Also I’d have a stern talk with said 20- something as (s)he’d have no business in my bed in the first place.

Asafum ,

I was starting to question myself here lol everyone acting like a hot 20 year old is no longer hot when you’re older meanwhile I see someone I consider attractive they’re always attractive, I just won’t approach them if they’re young.

The only way this doesn’t work is “upward” for me. 40s weren’t attractive when I was younger but they are now, but a hot 20 year old will always be hot to me (I think).

ada , to asklemmy in What's your favorite Christmas movie, and why?
@ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone avatar

It’s genuinely Die Hard. Calling it a Christmas movie used to be something I said for fun, but somewhere along the line, watching it at Christmas has become an actual tradition that I look forward to

whimsical_absence OP ,

It’s like how Star wars movies are Christmas movies.

ada ,
@ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone avatar

I don’t mean it like that. I’m not trying to meme or anything. Yeah, meming is why I first started watching it at Christmas, but it’s long stopped being about the meme and and debates about whether it’s a Christmas movie.

I watch it every Christmas now because it has become a genuine tradition for me

whimsical_absence OP ,

Yeah same for me with Star wars. I know I’m not the only one, but it’s just fun.

HobbitFoot ,

Not at all.

Die Hard at its heart it is a story of a man trying to bring his family together. His presence in the story is one of traditional family values thrown into a world where they aren’t valued.

Aurenkin ,

Just the fax, ma’am

tsonfeir ,
@tsonfeir@lemm.ee avatar

Have you seen the Star Wars Christmas special?

whimsical_absence OP ,

Unfortunately.

ThirdWorldOrder ,

Absolutely in the same boat as you. Used to be home alone (1&2) but the past 5 years or so the first Christmas movie I put on is Die Hard and I can’t imagine that changing anytime in the future.

whimsical_absence OP ,

Home alone is a great choice too. Love those ones. Such great comedy, so many good memories of watching it with my family.

setsneedtofeed , (edited )
@setsneedtofeed@lemmy.world avatar

If you’re the kind of person who counts Die Hard as a Christmas movie, I seriously suggest you watch The Long Kiss Goodnight as a contender. Geena Davis and Samuel L. Jackson co-starring in a Christmas flavored spy adventure roadtrip.

Here’s a minute and a half to make my point.

ada ,
@ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone avatar

I love that movie! :)

Sabre363 , to showerthoughts in We always imagine that if humans had tails they'd be furry tails but they'd actually probably be hairless like our bodies

Human bodies are anything butt hairless. It would just be wispy, crinkly pubic hair that only grows in the most inconvenient of places.

GONADS125 , (edited )

Humans are considered hairless apes. I believe that is what OP meant.

And OP is definitely correct. Just look at these vestigial tails. (or don’t…)

JohnWorks ,

And now I’m wishing I didn’t

Lord_ToRA ,
@Lord_ToRA@lemmy.world avatar

I choose to believe you spelled ‘but’ that way intentionally

ASeriesOfPoorChoices , to asklemmy in What are the worst names you could give a baby boy?

Spez.

257m ,

Now that would just be cruel.

vext01 , to asklemmy in Who cares about red flags in people. What are your green flags
@vext01@lemmy.sdf.org avatar

Uses vim?

Mr_Blott ,

I, too, appreciate a clean bathroom

AnnaFrankfurter ,

Now I’m not dating someone unless they can prove their vim skills. Probably I’m gonna die alone.

AFallingAnvil ,
@AFallingAnvil@lemmy.ca avatar

:wq is the equivalent of sexting you

pseudonym ,

Maybe :q! (Bang)

AFallingAnvil ,
@AFallingAnvil@lemmy.ca avatar

I like to stay safe with my sexting

Radicaldog ,

I only date someone if they have successfully entered, and exited, the gates of vim.

ArmoredThirteen ,

What if they did it once like 10 years ago then immediately changed to something else to preserve their sanity?

ElliotAlderson ,
@ElliotAlderson@lemmy.ml avatar

And she is lesbian

idefix , to linux in Flatpak standing the test of time: modern Flatpak apps running on Ubuntu 16.04 ESM, a 7-year-old distro

Having a rock-solid Debian stable as a desktop with up-to-date softwares when it matters. It sounded impossible a few years ago but that might be achievable now with Flatpak. That’s awesome.

turkalino ,
@turkalino@lemmy.yachts avatar

I basically do this with Debian + Docker right now and yes, it is awesome

possiblylinux127 ,

Try podman and distrobox. Podman runs as the local user and distrobox simplifies it so you can run GUI apps and have full file access

wim ,

I nees to try this. I’m currently running Debian stable + Flatpak, but not being able to access all local files from things like Firefox is really forcing me to jump through hoops.

Zion ,

Have you tried flatseal?

possiblylinux127 ,

Really? It should be a XDG portal. What environment are you running?

wim ,

Sway with xdg-desktop-portal-wlr. I can open a single file, but not directories of static content. So CSS, images, links all fail to load. Opening a single image or PDFs work fine.

possiblylinux127 ,

That’s very odd. Maybe you are missing a dependency or the features you are looking for simply are not in older software

TCB13 ,
@TCB13@lemmy.world avatar

Exactly what I usual say, the best of the two worlds. There are still a few annoyance though, the theme integration part that is easy to fix and not being able to get Ungoogled working with a KeePassXC when both are Flatpaks

wiki_me ,

I also like nix because it is lighter on resources.

Pea666 , (edited ) to asklemmy in What's your houses equivalent of a poop knife.

We have a fork specifically for cat food. It’s different from all our other forks (we bought it separately) and it’s used exclusively for ‘mashing’ and dividing wet cat food.

We love our cats and we love to give them the food they like but wet cat food is disgusting and we’d rather not risk ‘cross contamination’.

EDIT: I know contamination isn’t t actually a thing but keeping a separate cat fork is a victimless crime ok?

YexingTudou ,

We have a cat fork too! It even has a special place it lives next to the sink

Pea666 ,

Cat fork people unite!

SnokenKeekaGuard OP ,
@SnokenKeekaGuard@lemmy.dbzer0.com avatar

We got an egg folk, bowl and sponge. Mum hated things that touched eggs to touch anything else.

I’m learning that my household had a shit tonne of weird things

Nihilore ,
@Nihilore@lemmy.world avatar

Oh damn, that just unlocked a memory, we had the same thing when I was a kid

Amoeba_of_death ,

We have a similar spoon for dog food. My wife wasn’t paying attention and it got ripped up in the garbage disposal several years ago. It is easily identified by its jagged edges.

CmdrShepard ,

Try not buying paté and use chunks or slivers instead. Also pet food is made with the meat from stores like Walmart that was getting too close to the expiration date. It should be totally safe for humans to consume and doesn’t have a risk of contaminating you and making you sick.

sibloure ,

You are lucky. My mom used the same dishes we used ourselves for the cat food and would rinse them off in the sink with a sponge. And she used a different dish every time so no bowl or plate in the house was safe. Made me feel icky eating dinner out of a cat food bowl but she thought I was strange for caring.

Hadriscus ,

Enamel is non-porous afaik so you’re completely safe. That’s one of those natural human responses that’s actually unwarranted if you consider modern materials (and the fact that cat food is really just meat)

dQw4w9WgXcQ ,

I use a regular fork when mashing dog food, and the fork goes directly into the dishwasher afterwards. I can’t fathom what kind of cross contamination that would lead to.

altima_neo ,
@altima_neo@lemmy.zip avatar

The dishwasher gets pretty hot and does a good job sanitizing

altima_neo ,
@altima_neo@lemmy.zip avatar

I’ve got a spoon and some measuring cups just for the cat food too!

Dekkia ,
@Dekkia@this.doesnotcut.it avatar

We’ve got something similar. The fork we have came in a pack of two. The one we don’t use for cat food is in the drawer with all the other forks and nobody ever uses it.

EnderMB ,

I’ve always called any fork that doesn’t match the set the “dog fork”, since when I grew up this was basically why we had the smaller, weird fork for our dogs and cats.

I’ve not had a dog since I was a kid, but any time my wife has accidentally brought cutlery from her work place that ends up in our drawer, I call it the dog fork.

Leviathan ,

This is how religions get started.

Aux ,

If your cat food is disgusting, you’re buying bad cat food. For the love of cats, start feeding them decent stuff, please.

Pea666 ,

The food is fine and they go bananas for it so who am I to judge? The disgust is wholly my own.

hedgehogging_the_bed , to asklemmy in price discrimination

Travel companies have been doing this shit for years. The most egregious is that Apple users tend to get shown higher prices overall but it’s been around in many forms for a long time. They call it “Dynamic Pricing”

morgan_423 ,
@morgan_423@lemmy.world avatar

I remember Amazon being called out for doing this a few years back (like the early to mid 2010s if I’m recalling correctly). Theirs was particularly ridiculous because you could be on their site logged in, and in an incognito tab logged out, and be seeing different prices reported on the same product pages.

Pratai , to asklemmy in Replicating reddit content from AITA

AITA is one of the worst karmafarming subs to exist on Reddit. 4chan is more reliably truthful than that place.

cam_i_am , (edited ) to nostupidquestions in What's up with "whinging"?

It’s a different word. To have a whinge. Whinging. The G is pronounced like a J.

Google says it’s more common in British English. I’m Aussie and we use it too. Mostly to hang shit on the English lol. I.e. whinging poms.

bernieecclestoned ,

Stop whinging you dozy lummox

GentlemanLoser ,

Love it

glimse ,

It started getting used in the US a lot more after it was said by The Hound in an episode of Game of Thrones

“So what are you whinging about?”

“I’m not whinging!”

“Your lips are moving and you’re complaining about something. That’s whinging.”

GentlemanLoser ,

Are you a language statistician or something? How could you possibly make that claim lol

Smirk ,

Seems like a fair assessment, even if it’s unprovable. Not a bad heuristic to assume things get adopted from the biggest show to have ever aired.

You got a counter claim?

GentlemanLoser ,

Yes.

Baader-Meinhoff phenomenon. They heard it on the show and started hearing it everywhere. It wasn’t mass adopted after the fact.

BolexForSoup ,
@BolexForSoup@kbin.social avatar

Sandor Clegane is #4 most related topic when searching “Whinge” on google trends even though that episode aired several years ago. It’s a reasonable assumption. Go look for yourself.

Can we not do that Reddit thing where people just accuse people of bad faith or attribute literally everything they don’t agree with to a fallacy or some such? If you or the other person had literally taken 30 seconds to look at Google trends, you might have even come to the same conclusion yourselves.

Perrin42 ,

This is probably closer to the truth, as I first heard it in Firefly in 2002 before I started hearing it everywhere.

Smirk ,

Not bad, both easily plausible. Next time you disagree, offer a civil counterclaim and it’s more likely to go down well.

How hard was that?

GentlemanLoser ,

But then you wouldn’t get all worked up about it

BolexForSoup ,
@BolexForSoup@kbin.social avatar

This is the kind of act we really don’t need around here. We have enough trolls on other forums. At least try and act with a hint of mutual respect here dude.

Smirk ,

“But then you wouldn’t get all worked up about it”

READ: “You’re right”

Take care mate, it’s only a post. Peace

BolexForSoup ,
@BolexForSoup@kbin.social avatar

Linguist.

But no I remember this as well. It was quoted a ton after and gained a lot of traction. If you look at google trends since you want a “language statistician,” you can see “Sandor Clegane” is still the 4th most associated topic when “whinging” was searched this past week even though that episode aired 5+ years ago.

It’s easy to be snarky on the Internet. Maybe next time you should just do a cursory Google search or ask for clarification with a little more humility/good intent instead of being needlessly rude and challenging.

glimse ,

Not so sure about the first part of your name

I just saw it getting used by non-british people after the show when I didn’t before. It’s an anecdote. I don’t have statistics and if you care enough to prove me wrong I’ll accept it’s confirmation bias

OhmsLawn ,

This is actually a great insight.

glimse ,

I’m American but I like a lot of British TV so I was already familiar with it but I definitely noticed the uptick. It’s not the most famous scene but people like it enough to have it clipped on YouTube

OhmsLawn ,

Same here with British TV. I hadn’t noticed any uptick, but I’d be happy if the term was adopted.

chumbalumber ,

“whinging poms”

unpleasant ashes memories dragged kicking and screaming to the surface

SharkEatingBreakfast , to nostupidquestions in Why, as a male, when emotionally do I only feel accepted by women but not by men?
@SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz avatar

Men are often socialized to believe that showing emotion is reserved for children, women, and the weak. They are often taught that emotions are in direct opposition to “strength” and “manliness”.

Unfortunately, if men show emotion, they are often criticized and made fun of (often by other men), calling their masculinity into question. As if having emotions make you weak or less of a man.

Emotions are not a “weak” trait. Emotions are a human trait.

Men need to work hard to be supportive and accepting of other men showing emotion. De- stigmatize emotional men. Stop showing sensitive men or men who struggle or cry as “weak” or worthy of mockery. This is such an antiquated view and needs to be abolished.

Support your bros. Become comfortable with emotional expression. This will help struggling men everywhere, I guarantee it.

Saraphim ,

Men show emotions all the time. The problem is that the only “acceptable” emotion is anger or resentment. People of any gender validate other peoples feelings based on their own experiences. Because women’s emotions are invalidated as weak or useless, women tend to be more sympathetic to others who experience that same invalidation.

SharkEatingBreakfast ,
@SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz avatar

That’s my point: anger is an “acceptable” emotion for men, because it often coincides with the masculine concept of strength.

The “weak” emotions, though, are not acceptable.

Which is why OP feels they are more openly able to show these emotions to women but not men.

eestileib ,

“Did Jesus ever cry? No! And neither will I!”

u202307011927 OP ,
@u202307011927@feddit.de avatar

John 11:35 Jesus wept.

eestileib ,

ThatsTheJoke.jpg

u202307011927 OP ,
@u202307011927@feddit.de avatar

Oh, I didn’t get that 🙈

lars ,

“But Daaaaad, I thought you were gonna save Me,” He cried. B&S 4:20:69

lustrum , (edited ) to technology in Any good tech sites without the fluff?

Here’s some that I follow:

  • Anandtech^1: Great general tech website, has some deep dives. It did used to be a lot better
  • Chips and Cheese^2: Insane deep dives into architectures and chips.
  • More than Moore^3: Ex Anandtech editor in chief, does great breakdowns of new AI tech and silicon.
  • igor’s Lab^4: Does some great deep dives into various GPU and CPU issues.
  • KGOnTech^5: Only just followed this blog, seems to do a good teardown on the apple headset.
  • Krebs on Security^6: Blog by one of the best security researchers and breaks down vulnerabilities
  • EE Times^7: Good well written site with overviews on many areas in tech
  • Techspot Featured Articles^8: Mainly gaming and GPU/CPU, but does some good articles exploring games, tech etc
expatriado ,

i am a EE major and i didn’t know about EETimes :O

gruf ,
@gruf@lemmy.ml avatar

I’d loved Anandtech in the past, for how they used to be. hadn’t heard of those other numbers 2,3,4 before, thanks for posting them!

nixchick OP ,
@nixchick@lemmy.ml avatar

Thanks, there are a few I haven’t heard of.

lustrum ,

Here’s another good idea if you don’t follow RSS feeds, I use these at work to aggregate some sites together:

vrighter , to asklemmy in The government is offering advanced degrees; what do you study?

I’m european. That’s already how these things work.

detectivemittens ,

That’s wonderful. I’m glad education is accessible.

I’m going to go cry in the back corner now, because haha… America #1… in student loan debt.

Fleppensteijn ,
@Fleppensteijn@feddit.nl avatar

Not everywhere in Europe

Viking_Hippie ,

True, only in the GOOD parts 😛

Viking_Hippie ,

Same. * high fives *

PetDinosaurs , (edited )

In the US, PhDs, in STEM at least, are fully funded. Either by research or teaching assistanship. This is the same as in Europe and students are frequently exchanged.

You’ll only be paying for yourself if you’re in art history or something stupid like that (even then you could get a TA) or you haven’t demonstrated that you’re smart enough to get a PhD.

Edit: it’s so weird how this completely factual statement has been so controversial. I actually went through this process.

eruchitanda , to linux in Trying Fedora. Never rebooted so often in my life
@eruchitanda@lemmy.world avatar

Like the other comment mentioned, you don’t need to reboot, unless you’ve updated the kernel.

If you somehow downloaded by mistake an immutable system, like Fedora Silverblue or Fedora Kinoite, know it’s not the classic way to manage Linux systems.

nils ,

But even with an immutable distro you don’t have to reboot. The updated image just gets downloaded in the background and booted into when you restart. There is no harm in still being booted from the old image id you don’t specifically need anything only included in the new one. Nothing forces you to reboot.

ebits21 ,
@ebits21@lemmy.ca avatar

Silverblue is my daily driver. Everything is in flatpaks, which update automatically, or in distrobox which I have a bash script that updates automatically.

System updates download in the background and just boot automatically the next time you boot up. I just ignore them.

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