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Cleverdawny , in Fresno becomes second U.S. city to ban caste discrimination

Good!

cyborganism , in A Phillies fan tried — and failed — to bring an emotional support alligator to a game

The gang adopt an alligator…

hperrin , in Black musician says he was falsely accused of trafficking his own children aboard American Airlines flight

Their new motto:

If you see something… be racist.

ChickenLadyLovesLife ,

American Airlines History X

fiat_lux , in Navy Will Start Testing SEALs for Illicit Drug Use

Random testing of 15% monthly? They clearly are done with juicers raging.

spider , in Migrants Booted from NYC Shelter Into Pummeling Rain

WTF? Who’s running that shelter, Abbott and DeSantis?

Puzzle_Sluts_4Ever , in Navy Will Start Testing SEALs for Illicit Drug Use

Heh. I was going to make a WWE joke about how all the seals have to do is ask their supervisors to piss first but…

The new testing regimen was spurred in part by the 2022 death of Seaman Kyle Mullen, a 24-year-old sailor and former Division 1 football player who went into cardiac arrest a few hours after completing the hardest portion of the SEAL selection course, known as Hell Week. After his death, the Navy found testosterone, human growth hormone and other drugs in a car that the sailor shared with other candidates.

An investigation determined that Seaman Mullen’s death was not caused by drug use, but rather by bacterial pneumonia, made worse by inadequate medical attention and poor training oversight. Even so, the incident raised alarms about wider problems in the SEALs.

This straight up is the same shit that happened with benoit. A violent abuser was protected by the organization and his cronies even while he actively beat his wife and children and continued to engage in activities that would further damage his brain and remove what few inhibitions he had. Then, when he commit murder, it was IMMEDIATELY all about the steroids and nothing else.

Same here. The navy makes a culture where the only way people can possibly make it through training is by abusing steroids and uppers. And, to promote “strong warriors”, there is a strong culture of not asking for help and not providing it when it is needed. And then someone dies so it must be all the drugs.

thepianistfroggollum ,

Yup. My wife’s uncle failed out of ranger school on like the last week because he got pneumonia and nearly died before they actually started treating him.

TheWoozy , in Extreme Misogyny in Incels Probably Not Caused by Sexual Frustration

If I hadn’t met my wife 30+ years ago, I can see how I might have become a sort of paleo-proto-incel…maybe just more of a bitter old maid of a man that no woman would want to be around. I do feel for the incels. They certainly aren’t happy. There’s something unhealthy about a society that produces so damn many of them.

blazeknave ,

Everyone close to me was this. We went outside though and weren’t bombarded by screens 24/7. Had space to think and learn and solve and grow. Instead of echo chambers of ppl comprised of the worst parts of ourselves.

Nataratata ,

Yeah, I don’t know. I feel much more sorry for the girls and women who get hit by that hatred. And they definitely do. Online and sometimes offline as well. I see it in school (in Germany) how some boys as young as 12 already bought into the incel narratives and treat the girls accordingly. This has to be stomped out.

FlyingSquid ,
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I pity the girls who get treated horribly and I pity the incels who do it because they’re deeply unhappy people. My pity doesn’t justify what they do about their unhappiness, but it is a sad state of affairs all around.

rikudou ,

That’s part of why they feel like they don’t belong and hate the world. No one is saying you should excuse their actions or that you should not prosecute them. I agree that this has to be stomped out, but treating symptoms instead of the causes only goes so far.

DLSchichtl ,

I pity the world, in all its turmoil.

clemdemort ,
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But if there are so many male incels that means there must be many female incels, where are they?

PM_ME_FEET_PICS ,

The incel forums and the term coined was originally created by a women.

Also, have you not heard of femcels? Have you not seen that toxic XY subreddit?

clemdemort ,
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Makes sense yeah, it’s just that I see way more male incels online than femcells, I don’t really know all the ins and outs of Reddit despite having used it for five years lol, is it the twoX chromosome sub?

Grumpy ,

Funny thing is… there isn’t. Its easy for a woman to get laid if she chooses to. She can go on any dating app, like bunch of dudes and an average girl could easily have a different guy every night.

The single female population, albeit sizable too ofc, hasn’t had much of a change as a percentage over the years. Single male population is however skyrocketing.

Two thirds of male under 30 are single. But only one third of female under 30 are single over a past year of time. You could theorize women are simply dating older now, which may be true, but wouldn’t account for such drastic disparity. Also this gap exists in 30 to 40 bracket too, though much smaller.

Most simple answer is that they’re sharing men, whether they realize it or not.

We know from dating apps that vast majority of women only select on very few percent of men. So the most attractive men are essentially having multiple women at the same time or at round robin (it’s not cheating). Polygamy is pretty much coming back. In some other countries like china, polygamy has become an open secret for the rich.

dragonflyteaparty ,

Its easy for a woman to get laid if she chooses to. She can go on any dating app, like bunch of dudes and an average girl could easily have a different guy every night.

That’s ridiculous nonsense. It’s completely untrue. The face that you think any average woman can have sex with any man she meets every single night of the week just shows how shallow you think people really are. No, any average woman can have sex with any man she meets every single night of the week. This is just “women have it easy and have their pick of any man ever”.

But even if you ignore that, what guarantee do those women have of being safe? What’s their guarantee of not being choked their first time with someone new? That’s a real, common thing happening with people these days, all the way down to the teen years. My sister has had this happen to her multiple times and there are countless accounts online to the point there are articles and studies written about the subject. What’s their guarantee of even an orgasm (given the actual, proven orgasm gap) or even getting raped if they say no?

Sure, you could say any average woman could have sex. And she’d be risking her safety and potentially life for the high possibility of bad sex. But sure, go on about how easy it is for women to get laid.

Grumpy ,

I didn’t say any average woman can have sex with any man she meets. I said an average woman can have sex with a man every night. That’s extremely different. They can send a message to 100 different guys every day on dating app and straight up ask for sex. Guaranteed at least 1 guy will say yes. People have tested this. This is absolutely true.

There are real women who’s imo pretty below average looking do this on regular basis. With hundreds of past sex-partners.

But even if you ignore that, what guarantee do those women have of being safe?

There isn’t. That’s irrelevant though. What guarantee do I have that I would save a safe time getting anywhere by car? There isn’t. Why do you seek for a guarantee in anything anyway? That’s pointless and irrational. What guarantee does a guy have that when he meets up, there’s actually just bunch of muggers? There isn’t. That happens too btw.

You meet somewhere public & safe, take your time to vet, and then act on the perceived risk and reward. That’s how life works. There’s never a guarantee of anything in life.

But that’s still vastly easier than getting 0 matches and never having a chance to begin with. Fact is, women do match on dating apps, and they do go on dates, and they do have sex. Stats prove this. Men do not get anywhere near as much in any of the stats.

Make no mistake, I’m not saying people are having easy time getting genuine relationships. Dating apps ruin it for everyone. But if you don’t think women have it easier, you are completely ignorant to the stats that’s we’re seeing.

dragonflyteaparty ,

How in the world is safety irrelevant? Or are you just assuming that men will readily jump an average looking woman who wants sex because he’s just that shallow? It seems to me you’re speaking very poorly of men while trying to paint women as “having it easy”. Somehow, I don’t think sex that threatens my life is “easy” and I don’t think of that threat at irrelevant.

Grumpy ,

You seriously have a reading comprehension problem.

  • I never said safety is irrelevant. I said guarantee is irrelevant.
  • I never assumed men will readily jump on an average looking woman. I said it’s been tested.
  • People seeking casual sex has nothing to do with shallowness. You brought that out of nowhere.
  • I never spoke poorly of men.
  • I never said women have it easy. In fact, I distinctively said they do not. I said they have it easier.

Nothing you argued about since the beginning is based on what I said. Learn to read. Or fuck off.

Maajmaaj , in Navy Will Start Testing SEALs for Illicit Drug Use
@Maajmaaj@lemmy.ca avatar

Idk, sounds like the navy is shooting themselves in the foot on this one.

mosiacmango ,

Nah, just good long term thinking. You get the clean, actually strong candidates, then when they get in the shit, you can dope them much further that dudes that need a fucking pharmacy to even pass the entry tests.

Melody ,

At least if they’re forced to stay clean and away from “Illegal” P.E.Ds; the DoD and Navy can learn from doctors what these and other top soldiers might medically actually NEED to stay on their feet.

I guarantee you a complex of the right vitamins do wonders; and so does understanding the limits of men and women so that you can ensure that you enlist enough clean, high performing men and women to the SEALs to get all of their operational jobs done.

An additional benefit is; if all the SEALs are taking the same “dope” and other nutritional supplements to aid in keeping their performance optimal once they’re commissioned; then doctors and dieticians and many other folks can weigh in and provide a solid plan for safe dosages administered for every compound involved to each soldier.

Imagine… No more SEALs dying randomly of drug overdoses. Really; that’s an outcome that Navy Command should honestly be highly prioritizing.

hrimfaxi_work , in A Phillies fan tried — and failed — to bring an emotional support alligator to a game
@hrimfaxi_work@midwest.social avatar

Land of the free my ass.

bradorsomething , in Navy Will Start Testing SEALs for Illicit Drug Use

I used to work in a very busy ambulance district, and it drove me ragged trying to keep up with some of them. Then I found out they drug tested the supervisors and they all peed hot for meth.

spider , in Black musician says he was falsely accused of trafficking his own children aboard American Airlines flight
phoenixz ,

lately

You’re kidding, right?

ristoril_zip , in McCarthy’s last-ditch plan to keep the government open collapses, making a shutdown almost certain

It was a last ditch plan to use only Republican votes to keep the government open.

I bet he can still bring the Senate CR (or whatever they pass) up for a vote. He’ll lose his job as Speaker, though.

“Safe” districts allow people to pull this shit. If any of these wackadoo Republicans had to explain themselves to their constituents it would be a totally different story. But most of them only have to win their primary.

BeautifulMind , in Sen. Dianne Feinstein, an 'icon for women in politics,' dies at 90, source confirms
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I kind of wish it was at least normative to groom your successor and bow out if you’re a ground-breaking leader as you advance in age

I especially wish that was the sort of thing had been the case with (for example) RBG because let’s face it, it really hurt us for her seat to go to ACB

jz68 , in Navy Will Start Testing SEALs for Illicit Drug Use

I made it through hell week by being high on cocaine for 7 days straight.

foggy ,

lol wouldn’t it be kinda hilarious if we found out David Goggins smoked crack?

GreenMario , in WSJ News Exclusive | China Blocks Executive at U.S. Firm Kroll From Leaving the Mainland

Keep him.

We got enough execs to spare.

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