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alaxitoo , in Hopsital

This happened with my mum but with breast cancer, ended up dying because of it, very infuriating

big_slap ,

my condolences friend.

can ,

I’m so sorry

gravitas_deficiency ,

If a doctor pulled this sort of bullshit with me and was just like “lol oops sorry I guess you’re gonna die”, there is a part of me that would want to take that motherfucker out with me, and I’m honestly not sure whether or not vengeance brain or regular brain would win.

If it was brain cancer, I guess I could just off the shitty doc and say it was personality alteration brought on by the tumor.

explodicle ,

Why lie if you’re going to die anyways?

The whole point of malpractice is to reimburse families when this happens, because human incompetence is inevitable yet we need humans to do these jobs.

Ilovethebomb , in It's Evolving, Just Backwards

Right is smoking hot though.

uphillbothways ,
@uphillbothways@kbin.social avatar

memories, like old clothes, seldom fit and are often full of holes

Ilovethebomb ,

OK?

njinx ,

What?

Boldizzle ,
@Boldizzle@lemmy.world avatar

Agreed, I’m not sure what this example is meant to convey but I don’t think it’s working haha

HexagonSun , (edited ) in Miiiiiiiiiiiiiist

I was way more prepared to waste time being confused by a game back in the day. You occasionally would try stuff for hours. Now if I get stuck 10 mins I start thinking they didn’t play test or design the game well enough haha.

Blackmist ,

And that’s why Boy never shuts the fuck up in GoW Ragnarok.

Player stuck for 30 seconds? Better tell them the answer to keep our completion metrics up…

HexagonSun , (edited )

Yep. And coloured ledges you can grab, sparkling items to collect… I remember in old Monkey Island games there being no way to visually discern what you could or couldn’t interact with, you’d spend so long just trying things to see what worked.

tormeh ,

This particular thing kinda sucks, though. I also hate when there’s a puzzle that goes “you know that interaction that normally doesn’t work? We’ve enabled it here and it’s how you’re supposed to solve this puzzle! Surprise!”

irmoz ,

Moon logic. Puzzles that are hard because they make no damn sense.

“Oh yes, of course I need to combine a fish with a phone book to create a sailboat.”

JTode ,

ALL THE UPVOTES, GET THEM IN HERE NOW

Madison420 ,

FF8 was infuriating about that shit, iirc shit did somewhat glimmer but they had a habit of jamming junk under overhangs you can’t see under and can’t really tell exist unless you try to walk there. You end up spending a significant part of the game walking around all the walls like a psychopath.

HexagonSun , (edited )

Yeah, having stuff being obvious is actually incredibly freeing. Without that I waste so much time checking every part of every room, trying to work out which corridor leads to the objective vs which one might have collectibles.

Knowing I can just play a game, find most stuff, get on with it, and not regret not using a guide is a real gift.

Texas_Hangover ,

That’s what’s wrong with your generation. You want all of the reward, and none of the work.

In MY day, we had to LOOK for shit goddamit.

CoderKat ,

Your comment has a vibe of complaining about that, but I like it for the exact reason you’re replying to. It’s a little overtuned (I’d like a couple of minutes before being given a hint), but I don’t have the patience for getting stuck for long periods of time, especially if it’s because of game limitations (ie, I can think of alternatives, but the game doesn’t let me use the alternatives because that’s not how video games work).

I also really like when games make it clear that I can’t do something right now. Horizon has been great about that, with Aloy remarking that she probably needs some tool or should come back later. I always hated spending 10 minutes trying to get to some obvious treasure, googling it, and being spoiled because the Google result will tell me (in too much detail) that it’s a late game thing.

Blackmist ,

Yeah, that’s sometimes really immersion breaking, but it does save time.

One of the recent Tomb Raider games (“Shadow of the” probably, which was otherwise unremarkable) had separate settings for puzzles, combat and exploration, so you could turn puzzle hints off completely. I still kept the exploration setting though, because it’s a nightmare to find the puzzle parts among all the clutter that modern games throw in. Like a wall full of cogwheels, but only two of them are part of the puzzle and the rest is just scenery.

CoderKat ,

Yeah, that setting was great. I wish more games would have granular difficulty settings.

bentsea ,

I don’t think I’d dislike it if they gave me like 5 to 10 minutes depending on the size of the puzzle and what I’ve done. I definitely hate how fast it is. It’s like, Jesus, give me a minute or being told what do do after it’s already blatantly obvious and you’re trying to figure it out.

AnUnusualRelic ,
@AnUnusualRelic@lemmy.world avatar

Sometimes it’s like they expect us to take notes while playing the game.

Like I’ve got paper just lying there. What am I, a high schooler?

Heavybell ,
@Heavybell@lemmy.world avatar

I feel like Outer Wilds is a good modern-day Myst, sort of anyway.

WhatASave , in Bone Apple Tea

Running a fever and coughing… Wow that one took me a few minutes! I wouldn’t have gotten that if it wasn’t on this community lol.

unagi ,

Thanks for saving me those few minutes!

JohnDClay , in 🦍 😁 ❔
StrongHorseWeakNeigh , in Get her a publisher

I don’t know if I’d be able to stop laughing for long enough to be mad lmao

buzz86us , in The Air BnB Market is very competitive

Y’all be making fun of this, not realizing that you don’t hear about a housing crisis in Eastern Europe

Louisoix ,

Lucky you if you haven’t heard of it.

Track_Shovel OP ,

It’s over here in North America too. Houses are unaffordable almost everywhere you go.

Woo the capitalistic hellscape we always wanted

redisdead ,

The crisis is having to live in these rabbit hutches for humans.

Factory farming human misery and suffering is what these are.

trashgirlfriend ,

Eh, they’re okay

Much better than being on the street and you’re kinda exaggerating how shitty they are.

redisdead ,

I lived in one long enough.

You’re underestimating how shitty living in one of those feels.

trashgirlfriend ,

The bush in the local park was right there brother

redisdead ,

Full of used needles and dog shit. Feel free to touch it.

trashgirlfriend ,

But I thought it was better than a block

redisdead ,

There’s a reason anyone with a little bit of wealth on their hands get the fuck out of these asap. Nobody lives in these on their own will.

trashgirlfriend ,

It’s almost like they were made to house a lot of people fast and cheaply

redisdead ,

I mean for a relatively loose definition of ‘housing people’, sure.

People need to stop romanticizing these as a solution to anything. Living in one of those is a mental health crisis.

buzz86us ,

Much like living in a tent on a city street?

redisdead ,

A tent might have better insulation than these shitholed soviet blocks

witx , (edited )

That’s a pretty bad argument if you’re making a case for these buildings. “It’s better than the streets”. What’s next? “Water and bread are better than being hungry”? I think we should cross a line somewhere.

Of course living in the streets is worse than any house, but it should never be the baseline. I’m not making a case against those buildings, just your arguments is shit.

buzz86us ,

And how exactly is that different than one of the same 5 apartment buildings that are being built in every single city in the US?

redisdead ,

They’re both shit mate.

TimeNaan , (edited )

And yet there definitely is one. These are still capitalist economies after all.

Pringles ,

Maybe once they run out of apartment buildings, but that’s not gonna happen any time soon.

TimeNaan ,

They already have. Here in poland the commie-block apartments are bought and sold on the free market and a lot of them are kept empty as an investment while people have nowhere to live.

These problems exist everywhere where there is capitalism, no matter what infrastructure was already built there before.

senkora ,

I don’t know the details of the situation in Poland, but Poland does have an 87% home ownership rate.

…wikipedia.org/…/List_of_countries_by_home_owners…

uis ,

Maybe once they run out of apartment buildings

Only communism can run out of apartments, under capitalism apartments are only “in high demand”. In other words they are hoarded.

captain_oni , in Woke liberals are trying to cancel Jesus because the wood he was crucified on was not vegan wood.

Some people don’t understand the difference between a shitpost and a shit post.

Isa , in Casual reminder
@Isa@feddit.org avatar

The price good men pay for indifference to public affairs is to be ruled by evil men. — Plato

DragonTypeWyvern ,

Just ask my slaves. Gods, I love slavery. - Plato

Zozano , (edited ) in gotdamn
@Zozano@lemy.lol avatar

Twitter formatting sucks ass.

Reading order:

4th (first post)

2nd (second post down)

1st (third post down)

3rd (last post)

Tier1BuildABear ,
@Tier1BuildABear@lemmy.world avatar

Or is it 3 2 4 1

at_an_angle ,

The formatting on Twitter is what kept me from using it.

Hadriscus ,

What ? No, it’s 3 2 4 1

If you’re talking chronological that is

LPodyssey07 ,

I don’t understand

spujb , (edited )

@Hadriscus

  • if you assign a number 1-4 from top to bottom, reading order is then the indices 3, 2, 4, 1
  • alternatively, if you assign 4, 2, 1, 3 to each element top to bottom, reading order is then 1, 2, 3, 4

different algorithms, same result. i had chatgpt help me out with some fancy ass notation for those interested:

https://files.catbox.moe/7ybav7.jpeg

ikidd ,
@ikidd@lemmy.world avatar

Instructions unclear, dick caught in semi-colon.

Zozano , (edited )
@Zozano@lemy.lol avatar
blind3rdeye ,

This diagram helps to show that you and Hadriscus agree on the order of the posts, but not on how to describe it. That’s pretty interesting to me.

  • 4, 2, 1, 3 – labeling the posts from top to bottom with which order they should then be read. So the first post is read forth, the second post is read second, etc.)
  • 3, 2, 4, 1 – listing the order that the posts should be read if they were understood to be labelled in 1-4 top-down. So we should read the third post first, the second post second, forth post third, …
Zozano ,
@Zozano@lemy.lol avatar

The fact that we have gotten this confused is all the evidence I need to change how this works.

Simplest solution is to change the layout from:

  1. Profile
  2. Attachments /screenshots / replies
  3. Text

To

  1. Attachments /screenshots / replies
  2. Text
  3. Profile
bitwaba ,

The fact that neither can agree on how to describe it yet agreeing on what is so wrong in the first place is just an additional data point on how stupid Twitter numbering is. I find that fascinating.

Hadriscus ,

hhhhhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaannnnnnnnnnnnnnn

You’re right

Fades ,

Exactly haha, they are both arguing the same point because they used different numbering scheme!

Xirup , in She thirsty, not hungry
@Xirup@yiffit.net avatar

This belongs to my instance. 😭

nifty OP ,
@nifty@lemmy.world avatar

Which one, inquiring minds would like to know 👀

TheWizardOfOdd ,

The one in their username?

subignition ,
@subignition@fedia.io avatar

😂

nifty OP ,
@nifty@lemmy.world avatar

You expect me to read!?! Fuck

Klear ,

No, Mr. nifty. I expect you to die.

nifty OP ,
@nifty@lemmy.world avatar

I am already dead inside so 🤷‍♀️

VeganCheesecake ,
@VeganCheesecake@lemmy.blahaj.zone avatar

Your instance is the address behind the @. So yours is lemmy.world, theirs is, fittingly, yiffit.net.

nifty OP ,
@nifty@lemmy.world avatar

I feel so worldly

Iron_Lynx ,

Crossposting across instances is a thing, so go ahead and do just that 👍

protist , in CBT

People be gaslighting themselves into being not ok all day every day

Sabata11792 ,

You just need to miss a day of good gaslighting and take a sip of reality to be miserable.

protist ,

From years of experience working in mental health, people pretty much have an “average” mood set (mostly) independently from their life situation. There are lots of people who are really ok when bad things happen in their lives, and lots of people who are dour or sad about things even when they’re fine. Ultimately, lots of people don’t need any “sips of reality to be miserable,” they’ve just decided to be miserable regardless. Obviously all of this is serious generalization and is not universally applicable.

Apytele ,

I found dialectal behavior therapy in particular had a strong focus towards preparing me to face injustice by teaching me how to control, conserve, and target my energy most effectively towards such goals.

protist ,

DBT 4 lyfe. I’m a strong believer that literally everyone would benefit from learning DBT skills. Interpersonal communication, distress tolerance, emotional regulation, and mindfulness are all skills people can practice and develop

thegreatgarbo ,

I’ve found both CBT and DBT helpful.

roguetrick ,

That’s pretty much the theory in how CBT works.

ivanafterall ,
@ivanafterall@lemmy.world avatar

I’m not a therapist. Is the idea that you forget about all of your problems because your balls are being tortured?

blind3rdeye ,

Yes - tortured using a burning hot gas-light, from what I understand.

whostosay ,

Wait, is this the comment thread where we make our small cums into medium sized cums?

answersplease77 , in Lemmy is the best social media

Even without any karma system, interacting with the users here is a breath of fresh air. Lemmy has the least shills and bots compared to the poison in most other platforms. It’s currently Lemmy’s best asset and where it stands out from all existing social media imo, and I hope it remains this way.

tacosanonymous ,

They’re certainly easier to avoid.

TankovayaDiviziya ,

Lemmy has the least shills and bots

Because it’s not popular yet. Wait until it becomes so and the inevitable enshittification happens.

Cowbee ,
@Cowbee@lemmy.ml avatar

Enshittification isn’t what happens when something becomes popular, it’s what happens to disruptive tech and commodities that get increasingly fine-tuned for profit after competition inevitably floods in. It’s a product of monetization.

Lemmy is FOSS so that won’t happen, plus you can splinter off into your own walled garden instance like Beehaw if you want.

PeriodicallyPedantic ,

You make it sound like monetization can’t happen on a FOSS platform. Bots are a form of monetization, it’s just not by the people who created and control the platform.

As it gets popular, bots will come for the purpose of creating an audience and monetizing them.

Shyfer ,

That’s true, but it’s just not enshittification because it’s not done by the platform itself. It’s a different word.

PeriodicallyPedantic ,

Hmmm interesting. I was under the impression that enshitification was “making something shittier in the pursuit of (eg) greed”, I didn’t realize that it only applies to when the creator (controller? owner?) of the thing does it.

Has it always been used for this specific case? If so, what is the word for the more general case I described?

Shyfer ,

The original use is specifically a service platform that’s made worse by the owners to get more money after first being good to everyone to collect a large user base, then by squeezing the general end users, then by squeezing the business customers to collect value for themselves.

It sounds like a really specific definition, but you’d be surprised by how often it applies. He originally thought of it to apply to Tik Tok after noticing it following a similar pattern as Facebook, Amazon, and I think Google. Then the internet realized it could keep applying his term to so many more companies, like Spotify, Uber, Lyft, Airbnb, Reddit, Microsoft, Apple, all streaming companies, and even physical product companies like car companies or John Deere, etc and it’s shot up in popularity and use since then.

Not sure of the general use case you describe, but the person who invented the term in that article I linked sounds like he doesn’t mind if it’s used in a more general case for things getting worse from greed, so feel free to go ahead and keep using it I guess lol. Although maybe we should come up with a different, more general term for that if there isn’t already one? I’ve got nothing, but if anyone has suggestions lol.

awwwyissss ,

Enshittification also happens because of government propaganda, like the authoritarian propaganda Lemmy.ml spreads for the CCP.

ZILtoid1991 ,

That’s a single instance, they can be blocked and avoided. The FOSS community is way more resiliant to enshittification.

areyouevenreal ,

Not really, their users make alts everywhere else too. It’s also quite easy just to keep setting up new instances too.

ZILtoid1991 ,

Deal with them just like regular trolls. You shouldn’t be like the Muskrat cultists who think content moderation is useless and thus should be given up on. I understand, I suffered from activism burnout on the regular (one was right in the middle of an election campaign), but one should not give up easily.

areyouevenreal ,

That’s not at all what I am saying. I am saying it’s easier to do moderation on more centralised platforms like Reddit, because moderators simply have more power and more tools there. The flip side of that being that it makes it easier for moderators and admins to abuse and ban people without recourse. I am not saying moderation is pointless at all, just that it’s easier with one platform than the other. There are pros and cons to both models.

I would argue being open source and decentralised are major advantages of Lemmy and are more than sufficient to justify its existence. Just that it also isn’t perfect either. There are always trade-offs to be made when designing a platform, and that’s something you should always bear in mind.

ZILtoid1991 ,

Centralized platforms are also prone to the same kind of attacks. Kiwifarms and especially its users’ offshoot Discord and Matrix chatrooms are good example for this. Hell, even 4chan was infamous for organizing troll campaigns, first just “4 teh lulz”, then people turned the site into their personal army.

areyouevenreal ,

Yes, but it’s still way easier to pull off having multiple accounts and evading bans on lemmy

Comparing lemmy to 4chan is completely disingenuous. It has virtually no moderation by design. That’s what its whole reputation is staked on.

Discord is also a different kind of platform. You can’t read into servers you aren’t a part of, or participate in them. The dynamics there are very different, and most servers are invite only.

To me one of reddits main problems is their moderators and how overzealous they can be. I am relieved to see lemmy doesn’t give mods or site admins as much power over others, even if that causes problems from time to time. Someone else might see it differently though.

awwwyissss ,

Reddit also has a ton of money they can dedicate to countering disinformation compared to no budget for it in the Fediverse.

awwwyissss ,

I blocked Hexbear and they made accounts on lemmy.ml. if I block lemmy.ml they’ll just make accounts somewhere else. We need to collectively become aware of the problem and deal with it together.

Cowbee , (edited )
@Cowbee@lemmy.ml avatar

Aee you suggesting people on Lemmy.ml are paid by the Chinese government to spread propaganda?

awwwyissss ,

Some of them yes, absolutely.

Cowbee ,
@Cowbee@lemmy.ml avatar

Do you have any source for that? I would be curious to see.

fuckingkangaroos ,

Let me ask friend in the CCP to send some of their files over for you to look at, it’s all very open and well documented.

irreticent ,
@irreticent@lemmy.world avatar

You seem to be joking but it actually is well documented.

  • The , is the colloquial term for Internet commentators, who are hired by Chinese authorities in an attempt to manipulate public opinion to the benefit of the Chinese Communist Party. It was created during the early phases of the Internet’s rollout to the wider public in China.

The name is derived from the fact that such commentators are reportedly paid RMB¥0.50 for every post.

awwwyissss ,

Thanks, I hadn’t heard of them. Thought this was interesting:

Authors of a paper published in 2017 in the American Political Science Review estimate that the Chinese government fabricates 488 million social media posts per year.

Now with increased focus on social media and LLMs I’d be surprised if it isn’t well into the billions.

sukhmel ,

I think, they are only paid indirectly in that the money are spent on propaganda to make them act like this

sukhmel ,

Ey used the wrong word, but this in fact is correct. Once lemmy gets popular, bot farms will definitely will siege it, and the amount of “bots and shills” will rise

Distant_Foreground ,

Maybe “dickheadification” instead?

PineRune , in Did you know

There are some things we don’t have to imagine, because everybody has experienced licking it. One such example is OP’s mom.

unreachable ,
@unreachable@lemmy.world avatar
MrNesser OP ,

Fuck it have an up vote

ogler , in App development

running a picture of myself through the app fifty times instead of getting an MRI

Emerald ,

I wonder if eventually it’ll rip your skin off, revealing the bones you are hiding under all that fake skin

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