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pelespirit , to asklemmy in Why do I get a strange, yet comforting feeling when I stop in quiet places
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Generally, inner peace is defined as a low-arousal positive emotional state coupled with a sense of balance or stability (Cherif et al., 2022).

Low-arousal positive states are those calm and relaxed happy feelings that aren’t extreme or exciting. They include feelings of calmness, serenity, tranquility, and contentment, in contrast to feelings like exuberance, ecstasy, or euphoria. Low-arousal positive feelings come from within and may be more authentic, stable, and durable than high-arousal positive feelings (Dambrun et al., 2012).

I think you might be one of those truly mentally healthy people I’ve heard so little about.

DreitonLullaby OP ,

Serenity! Yeah, I think that’s the word I’ve been looking for… maybe.

I think you might be one of those truly mentally healthy people I’ve heard so little about.

😂 I sure hope so!

pelespirit ,
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I was thinking more “inner peace”, but “serenity” really works too. Congrats, it’s awesome to see someone not knowing why they feel great or having the words to describe it. We need to spread the serenity.

kubica , to asklemmy in Why do I get a strange, yet comforting feeling when I stop in quiet places

The word that comes to my mind is "contemplation", it might be used more broadly but I think it still fits.

DreitonLullaby OP ,

Doesn’t contemplation usually involve thinking carefully about something though? I don’t need to think about anything to get this feeling, I just get it by “taking in” my environment.

kubica ,

I haven't found a definition that quite explains it in the way I mean it. As I see it those thought sessions (making up words) start with some quietness and then you start thinking about the deeper stuff. But without getting into the more thoughtful part I still think of it as contemplation.

davel , to asklemmy in How to get rid of the Indian curse?
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Anonymous_TorPerson OP ,
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Hey! Thank you! that’s gonna come in handy!

davel ,
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There are also some India-specific comms where you may find people who’d commiserate.

Anonymous_TorPerson OP ,
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You are a gift that keeps on giving, thank you! I will check em out!

tla , to linux in Buying a new computer to run Linux on - suggestions?

Check out laptopwithlinux.com - new or used.

D61 , to asklemmy in Why do I get a strange, yet comforting feeling when I stop in quiet places

Its very odd how there’s always noise but you never notice it until its actually quiet.

No bugs, no fans, no vehicles in the distance, no dripping water, no birds chirping, no breeze… nothing.

It almost feels like a physical presence, this lack of sound.

Like walking from a hot room into a cold room, or suddenly feeling a huge gust of wind when the air was still moments before.

DreitonLullaby OP ,

Yeah, it’s like when I’m by myself out in the wild away from people, houses, or roads. I suddenly realise how constant noise is everywhere else in my life; especially because my house is right next to a highway which has cars and trucks passing constantly, and a train track right next to it too. And because I live in a country area of Australia, the night-time traffic suddenly becomes so small, that the difference in noise between day time and night time noise is massive. Even so, there’s always noise coming from somewhere: right now it’s from my keyboard and my computer fan, and it’s night, so I can’t hear any vehicles passing.

mortalic , to patientgamers in Monthly Recommendations Thread: What are you playing?

Rimworld, Dave the diver, football manager, xcom2 wotc

cabhan ,

I finished Dave the Diver a few weeks ago, and I really enjoyed it. For me, it hit this sweet spot of “Remember where everything is and grind the same thing over and over” without getting boring.

snekerpimp , to nostupidquestions in Who started this trend in pop music?

It’s a remix. They used to be called b-side songs. 19-2000 by gorillas is a good example. I guess with the loss of physical media and everyone streaming, it’s just easier and probably nets more streams by just releasing b-sides a few weeks after the initial release?

AbouBenAdhem ,

I guess with the loss of physical media and everyone streaming, it’s just easier

Yeah, this was the norm for musicians for most of human history, before the introduction of mass-reproduced recordings in the early 20th century (and music copyrights in the 18th). Musicians were continually re-working all their compositions, meeting new collaborators and mixing up their repertoires, etc.

samus12345 , to lemmyshitpost in 🦍 😁 ❔
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Retractable teeth in action:

https://i.imgur.com/2Jlrw4l.gif

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mvirts , to science_memes in Pandas

600MB? What is this, 2004?

houndeyes , (edited ) to asklemmy in Why do I get a strange, yet comforting feeling when I stop in quiet places

Is there name for this? If so, what is this called? There has to be some kind of psychology behind all of this.

Liminality? The same liminal as in liminal space.

One definition is:
of, relating to, or being an intermediate state, phase, or condition: in-between, transitional

I think pop culture references to liminal spaces have caused the term to be conflated with creepy in recent parlance. But liminal is not synonymous with creepy. It describes a transitional period between two states. Like standing in the threshold between rooms.

Your descriptions seem consistent with this: E.g., when you talk about the car ride with your mother—that moment where the car was parked in the driveway, the radio silent, and maybe just the stirrings of the engine cooling down and errant drips from the compressor was the liminal space between your journey home, and whatever your routine was once you were home, whether it was homework or a snack or something else.

I’m 22, and I’ve been getting this throughout my entire life

Lucky you! I’ve only experienced it a handful of times: most memorable at a rooftop shrine in a busy city, but in a quieter part of the city. And also at a large garden in the same city that happened to be quiet, i.e., not busy, at the time.

I don’t think quiet is a prerequisite though. I felt a similar sensation in airports when I was younger, even with the noise of all the people moving about. What made airports liminal for me was the realization that, in mere hours, all of us in the airport would all take different flights and be scattered across the world, and how fleeting it could all be.

If you’re only 22, then if you’re attending college, graduation might be another big one where you’ll get to experience the same sensation. Well, that moment after the ceremonies and dinner with the parents. You’ll have maybe a week or two where you move away from campus, and you’ll just be in this liminal state waiting to start a new job or grad school or whatever the next chapter of your life is.

DreitonLullaby OP ,

Maybe. But I’m not really sure if the definition fully matches up with the feeling. Assuming we are both talking about the same feeling (and I think we are), you seem to have experienced it from a couple of different things I’ve never experienced it from before. Namely, the one at the airport, where you got the feeling from knowing how far apart everyone will be from each other in only a matter of hours. I’ve never gotten it from anything like that before. I don’t really get the feeling from thinking about something or realising something specific like that, I just get it when I begin to “take in” my environment. Almost like I’m absorbing the atmosphere itself. And while I didn’t mention it, I myself am also capable of getting the feeling within a loud environment, like you. It’s just far less common for me.

Kausta , to science_memes in Pandas

You havent seen anything until you need to put a 4.2gb gzipped csv into a pandas dataframe, which works without any issues I should note.

thisfro ,

I raise you thousands of gzipped files (total > 20GB) combined into one dataframe. Frankly, my work laptop did not like it all that much. But most basic operations still worked fine tho

QuizzaciousOtter ,

I really don’t think that’s a lot either. Nowadays we routinely process terabytes of data.

Kausta ,

Yeah, it was just a simple example. Although using just pandas (without something like dask) for loading terabytes of data at once into a single dataframe may not be the best idea, even with enough memory.

whotookkarl ,
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It’s good to see the occult is still alive and well

Brkdncr , to nostupidquestions in Who started this trend in pop music?

I’ve seen these called “edits” and more rarely a “rework”

You’re right it’s not a remix.

zelifcam ,
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The act of what is being done is a remix.

It’s like comparing Copying vs Plagiarism. There may be a term that adds more context on the how or why the copying is happening. But the act is still copying.

Copying vs. Plagiarism

  • What’s being done: Reproducing someone else’s work (copying).
  • Why it’s different: Plagiarism involves passing off someone else’s work as one’s own, typically without permission or acknowledgment.
  • Term: Plagiarism

We may have a new term for the why it’s being done, but what was done is still a remix.

ColeSloth , to science_memes in Pandas

“Constipated”

sensiblepuffin , to asklemmy in Have you been stolen from?
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My first ebike was stolen, about a week after I’d put it together. I was looking forward to zipping around my city with it. What really sucked is that I had bought it before getting laid off, and was looking forward to zipping around the city for fun while I looked for a new job. Luckily, I did find something new after 6 months and could eventually buy a new one.

cashmaggot OP ,

That super sucks, especially the timing. I'm sorry. I hope you're in a better place now?

sensiblepuffin ,
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I am, thank you! It’s pretty common in my city, the police took one look at the surveillance footage and shrugged it off. I hope the thief got a decent amount for it.

The new ebike was my first big purchase after getting the new job, and it’s a ton of fun. :)

cashmaggot OP ,

It's those small victories right? Hahaha! Thanks for putting a smile on my face =)!

p.s. - Cameras are so worthless more times than not. I was going to say most, but I do think a camera helped catch that messed up guy who killed those kids in Michigan (was it Michigan? The dorm kids). Either way, most times in my own experience cameras are worthless.

moreeni , to patientgamers in What have you been playing this week?

The first one is Space Warlord Organ Trading Similator. It’s a simple game of trading, well, organs, but it has good soundtrack, nice visuals and different storylines that you reveal through doing quests and accepting/declining incoming transmissions. The game sessions could be really short, so the game is very fitting when you don’t know where to spend 10 minutes of your time.

The other one I’ve been playing is Fallout 2. Super good. It has its bad sides and certainly has a feel of an old game, but if you’re an RPG genre fan, definitely give it a try. Although, it requires some level of effort to play it, you can’t just load and start mindlessly doing radiant or other simple quests like in Fallout 4, which is a downer for me when I’m tired after work and want to zone out for an hour or two.

BlueSquid0741 ,

I played Fallout 2 again last year whilst I was on a few weeks break from work. I was hoping to capture the magic of the summer of 98/99 when I spent my entire school holiday playing it.

We’ll that doesn’t really work when a toddler and pregnant partner need you all the time… but still super fun and it was to nice revisit and bring back those memories.

moreeni ,

We’ll that doesn’t really work when a toddler and pregnant partner need you all the time…

Oh god. I can imagine that was quite an experience worthy of the best RPG games 😅

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