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furzegulo , to technology in NVIDIA’s new AI chatbot runs locally on your PC

i have no need to talk to my gpu, i have a shrink for that

whodatdair ,

Idk I kinda like the idea of a madman living in my graphics card. I want to be able to spin them up and have them tell me lies that sound plausible and hallucinate things.

femboy_bird ,

Gpu is cheaper (somehow)

gaifux ,

Your shrink renders video frames?

SirSamuel , to technology in Disney+ has started cracking down on password sharing in the US

Oddly enough, the price hikes earlier last year were enough to move me to spend four times as much as an annual subscription for a NAS and 16TB of storage. I made digital backups of my media and set up my parents and sister’s family with Jellyfin accounts to access my media as needed. Now they can watch videos of our wedding and my niece’s dance recital from the comfort of their living rooms. All without worrying about arbitrary changes to TOS. And I’m learning about all kinds of horrible children’s shows. OTOH my niece and nephew are learning about cool things like Batman: The Animated Series and Tiny Toons.

I’ve only run into a couple small issues when it came to backing up my media, but I’ll get them sorted.

joyjoy ,

four times as much as an annual subscription

If you’re gonna waste money, you might as well waste money on something big.

SirSamuel ,

It’s not a waste, it’s an investment lol

CurbsTickle ,

Confirmed

I’ve got… A rather large storage pool.

My media server also handles family movies, including VHS from the 80s I’ve converted and cleaned up.

Server itself is a cheap off lease dell micro I bought several years back for $125, added a $50 nvme SSD, and the igpu has been chugging along transcoding beautifully since.

Same system also runs a separate book/comic/etc service, backup DNS, a generated kid safe “channel” that is available on the media server, all my dslr photos are on there, etc, etc.

Which then for what is crucial to me gets a local and a remote backup.

At this point I’ve saved money over paying for subscriptions, and I use it for a whole lot more (so even more savings on top).

Eggyhead ,
@Eggyhead@kbin.social avatar

I'd like to use Jelly Fin, but it has not been a great experience for me on a Mac with an Apple TV. HDR doesn't carry over, some videos are blocked due to music licensing or something, and the library syncing doesn't always work. I'm not sure if it's a Jellyfin problem, a lack of support for Mac hardware, or just my personal incompetence with this sort of thing (very likely). I managed to get Plex to work without issue, so I'm using that even if I don't really like the UX all that much.

SirSamuel ,

First off, I’m by no means even close to an expert. More of a spurt, in fact.

I tried Plex but wanted to give remote access at varying levels, which, to my understanding, requires paying for a subscription to Plex Premium or some such. Basically I wanted to be able to see my sexy home videos from anywhere, let my parents see my wedding videos and their granddaughter’s dance recital, and let my niece see her dance recital only (to painfully stretch a metaphor).

Jellyfin has it’s limits. It’s easier for my needs in part because my family has Roku, and there is a built-in app for Jellyfin on Roku devices. I have a Samsung TV and haven’t taught myself how to sideload Jellyfin into my TV. The app works great tho, so I can watch things on my phone or laptop with ease while on vacation. I probably spent a few hours teaching myself about port forwarding, VPNs, and such. I bought a Synology NAS, which simplified things quite a bit.

Anyway, I’m not at all familiar with Apple products. Nothing wrong with them, mind, I just never liked the walled garden ethos

lemmyvore ,

See if the TV supports DLNA by any chance, Jellyfin does, so all you’d need would be a DLNA controller app on your phone to make one cast to the other.

Alternatively, there’s a self-hosted app called BubbleUPnP Server that can DLNA-enable (some) things without native support. I know for a fact it can do it for Google devices, maybe it can do it for Samsung too.

1hitsong ,
@1hitsong@lemmy.ml avatar

It’s easier for my needs in part because my family has Roku, and there is a built-in app for Jellyfin on Roku devices.

🤘 Hope it’s working well for y’all.

SirSamuel ,

Yarr, it surely be

Dudewitbow ,

i dont even sub to streaming services and currently building my media server (5x 12tb drives in zfs z2) just for archival and setting up a service for some family inthe case they want to bail. aa prices fo up, people are just going to look for a diy way at some point.

SirSamuel ,

I understood some of those words lol

I was toying with the idea of a home made server using an existing case and a mini atx, but then i ran across a 16TB NAS HDD for like $240 at microcenter and just decided to go the simple route, picked up a two bay Synology case and the rest is history

Dudewitbow ,

zfs is just a disk file system format (e.g like fat32, exfat, ntfs), z2 for laymen is basically double parity drives (drives are setup that 2 drive worth is used as data integrity, so in the case of a dead disk drive, data isnt lost and can be repaired. z2 offers 2 disks can die before recovery is finished (meaning requires 3 drives to die to actually lose data))

cooopsspace ,

The great part is you own it at the end of it.

Even then, I’ve had hard drives last 10 years. But YMMV.

aeronmelon , to technology in Inside the 'arms race' between YouTube and ad blockers / Against all odds, open source hackers keep outfoxing one of the wealthiest companies.

I remember the mini-war between AOL and third-party IM clients. There were days where AOL would send 15kB patches to AIM multiple times a day to break compatibility with the other apps. And they would then fix it within hours.

In the end, AOL gave up.

killeronthecorner ,
@killeronthecorner@lemmy.world avatar

Wow that’s full on antitrust surely? Or was this before the regulatory precedents were set for Internet providers?

aeronmelon ,

Well, not really.

So AIM was built on an existing chat protocol called OSCAR. The same protocol used in other services. So people eventually figured out how to make chat clients that could log into many different IM services on one app.

This was not sanctioned by AOL, but they allowed it at first. Then they decided you HAVE to use the official AIM client to talk to people on AIM. The third-party developers ignored AOL, so they entered into a tug-a-war match for a while.

Because AOL was using known software to make AIM work, there was only so much they could do to keep their client working while also blocking everyone else. Eventually it became too much of a hassle, so AOL relented and third-party clients kept working until the service was shutdown.

killeronthecorner ,
@killeronthecorner@lemmy.world avatar

Ah I see. I thought the implication here was that they were doing this to ICQ and the likes

antizero99 ,

I miss trillium. Those were the days.

Briguy ,

You just reminded me of DeadAim I used to use back in the day. More features. Could log into multiple accounts at the same time with tabs to view different buddy lists. Those were the days…

Drbreen , to technology in Apple will honor California's 'right to repair' rules nationwide

Apple saying they will honor like they’re in control and have a choice.

WallEx ,

Well, didn’t they play a huge role in the genesis of this law? I think they have some way to continue ignoring costumers.

UnspecificGravity ,

They had the choice of not doing business in California, which is what they had threatened to do with previous right-to-repair and other consumer protection laws. In this case, they found a way to make money off it if so they are supportive of this bill now since they have successfully delayed it long enough to have an advantage over their competitors.

Clbull , to technology in Unity temporarily closes offices amid death threats following contentious pricing changes

Somehow I get the feeling that this may not just be some unhinged internet troll throwing out online drivel from his mom’s basement. Unity’s pricing changes are posing an existential threat to smaller studios that meet the minimum income threshold and are placing the livelihoods of countless thousands of smaller game studio workers at stake. This is one of those changes that is going to impact whether you can continue to put food on the table.

John Riccitello has pissed off a lot of people with his disgusting levels of corporate greed, to the point where even the fourth circle of Hell may not be enough to punish his avarice once he pops his clogs. This move may even be worse than the crap Martin Shkreli pulled as a big pharma executive.

chiliedogg ,

It’s bad, but it’s not “denying medical treatment to millions of sick people because they can’t pay” bad.

todayisthegreatest ,

Martin gave the medication for free/reduced prices to people who couldn’t afford it. It was literally a smear campaign.

EnderofGames ,

Really? Everyone who couldn’t afford it had access through him? This is certainly a revelation, and not something made up from the internet.

todayisthegreatest ,

vanityfair.com/…/martin-shkreli-pharmaceuticals-c…

his real goal is to invent new drugs for rare diseases. Turing recently announced discounts of Dara­prim for hospitals, and Shkreli says that for people without insurance it will cost only $1 a pill. For everyone else, insurance, which he argues is paid for by corporate America’s profits, will cover the cost.

EnderofGames ,

I’m surprised, it does seem that this is true. I read a lot of articles where he announced that people could apply for medication, or medicaid would pay $0.01 per pill. I couldn’t find anything about where to apply or one people who have applied and been able to get this medication, but there is already a generic alternative, so this program might be dead in the water.

As for smear campaign, I’m not so sure. Everytime I read quotes from him, it seems he just really likes to play the “bad boy”. Maybe he just wants people to think pharmaceutical companies are scumbags, so when he ran one he purposefully made himself look bad. Shkreli definitely didn’t seem to care that people got a bad impression of him.

Wogi ,

Bruh it’s video games.

SCB ,

People here are having a fuckin real one man.

EnderofGames ,

Bruh it’s people’s livelihoods.

Wogi ,

Video game development is some of the worst paid tech sector jobs. Most developers will be able to move on to other work with relatively little interruption. It’s not ideal by any stretch but it’s not nearly on the same level as price gouging life saving pharmaceuticals

EnderofGames ,

I don’t think devs that work for corporations really care about this change, if their group used Unity for some reason, they will just move on to their next job (and they’re the ones who are worst paid). Every indie dev or otherwise small dev company that has used Unity ever in it’s last ten years are now open to serious bad actors. A single person running a script can cost a dev hundreds of thousands of dollars on their own, whether a troll, just same guy pissed off for some reason or another, or even a competing dev. Hell, the one idiot living in his mother’s basement who sent death threats to Unity could also do it.

There is no “relatively little interruption”, as not only have people lost a lot of work on something they already paid for, they also have to remove all previous work they’ve made or published with the engine. It’s all susceptible to attack.

I agree it’s not on the same level as pharma scum, but saying “it’s just a video games” is much too far off the other end of the spectrum. At least Shkreli never managed to bankrupt people who had purchased anything (from him) in the past, or made them ‘regurgitate’ any benefits they had seen. Though I’m sure he’d have loved to.

Draconic_NEO ,
@Draconic_NEO@lemmy.world avatar

You are correct but in the opposite way, it seems it was a single employee at their company instead which the boss took and decided to say we’re getting death threats we’re going to close for the day, basically so he could go home early and people would feel bad for him and maybe not give him the flak that he deserves for such an awful decision that’s going to ruin the lives of smaller legitimate game developers who use unity.

FoundTheVegan , to technology in Unity temporarily closes offices amid death threats following contentious pricing changes
@FoundTheVegan@kbin.social avatar

This is a reminder that there are crazy people on the internet.

But this is NOT a reason to have sympathy for Unity.

Coreidan , to technology in Unity will start charging developers each time their game is installed

Must have come from the Reddit play book

AFC1886VCC , to technology in An ID verification service that works with TikTok and X left its credentials wide open for a year

These generic “hooded hacker man” images are hilarious

QuantumSoul ,

Hacking on mac obviously

rbesfe ,

Typing on 2 computers at once to double the speed of the hacking

Telodzrum , to technology in Apple refuses to call Apple Intelligence 'AI'

Yeah, this is super on-brand for Apple. They still have the Jobsian slavish devotion to branding with all the Tim Apple complete lack of understanding as to its value or how to leverage that value.

theherk ,

Call Apple what you will, but suggesting the 9th highest revenue company in the world lacks understanding of how to leverage its brands doesn’t really make sense to me.

tal ,
@tal@lemmy.today avatar

Also, Forbes rates Apple as having the highest brand value of any company in the world.

www.forbes.com/powerful-brands/list/3/

Iheartcheese ,
@Iheartcheese@lemmy.world avatar

Yeah but some dude on a tiny little no name website could totally do better man. He TRULY understands business unlike Apple.

Iheartcheese ,
@Iheartcheese@lemmy.world avatar

Did…did you really try to say Apple doesn’t understand how to leverage its value?

How many billions did you make last year?

MudMan ,

Sorry to bring this argument to yet another thread, but the only reason why what is fundamentally the exact same feature was generally perceived as a disaster for Microsoft last week and what seems to be a net win for Apple this week is that man, they do seem to understand these things.

"Apple Intelligence" is a very stupid name, though.

Kraiden ,

I'd say it's because Apple's implementation isn't essentially spyware at it's core. The Microsoft implementation was straight up deranged and dangerous, frankly.

MudMan ,

Nah, it's exactly the same. Arguably in some aspects more suspect, in that it doesn't seem to have an opt-out at all and it IS sending some data over the Internet for remote processing.

Presumably better local security than the first version MS announced, but we'll have to see when compared to the shipping version. Definitely obscuring what they're actually doing a lot more. It's Apple magic, not just letting some AI look at your screen and stuff.

But hey, ultimately, that's my point. The fact that they went on that stage, sold the exact same thing and multiple people are out here, of all places going "no, but this time it's fine" shows just how much better at selling stuff Apple is. I'm not particularly excited or intend to use either of these, but come on, Apple's messaging was so far ahead of MS's on this one.

nave ,
@nave@lemmy.ca avatar

doesn’t seem to have an opt-out

It’s opt in

MudMan , (edited )

Oh, did I miss that? Did they explain how that works and what AI features are still functional if you don't turn it on?

EDIT: I'm not being passive aggressive here, BTW. I genuinely don't know if they've explained this either way. If somebody can source it, I'm genuinely interested.

Petter1 ,

Apple‘s solution does not require 200gb of screenshots where most personal info is visible in plain text… Apple wins here because they have a clear structure in their OS and all important data already in Apple‘s own Apps. And they analyze this stuff already very much as one can see with all the Siri suggestions everywhere since, I don’t know 5 years? microsoft‘s chaos approach in their Windows is now shooting them in their foot real hard.

I hope, that we can get a open source linuxAI to be run locally, that integrates like AppleAI. Should be better possible since, at least, all apps are installed mostly the same way(s) and are designed to be dependent on each other.

MudMan ,

I'm not saying anything particularly new and I'm mostly repeating what I've been saying since tghe announcement, but I'd argue that all of those caveats are entirely down to branding and PR and not engineering.

App design, yes. Microsoft made their Timeline 2 so that it actually shows you in the UI all the screenshots that it took from you doing stuff and that's creepy. Apple doesn't tell you what they're pulling and they are almost certainly processing it further to get deeper insights... but they do it in the background so you don't have to think about it as much.

So again, better understanding of the user, messaging and branding. Same fundamental functionality. Way different reactions.

Petter1 , (edited )

Yes, but apple doesn’t need to screenshot shit, thats the point, they trained their customers to only use apple apps, where they have full control and force developers to use their AI API to stay relevant.

Microsoft failed to convince user to use microsoft everywhere except with teams and the office suite

Google has the relevant data of most microsoft user, and screenshoting this (like scraping) would have allowed microsoft to get to that data without paying google for it

But that is kinda shady and thus not widely accepted.

MudMan ,

But they do, though.

The use cases they have presented are literally asking for a picture you received last week that contained a particular piece of text, selecting the text and copying it over.

I know Apple made it seem like AI is magic, but here in the real world that uses real world computers you need to know what's on the image to do that.

But hey, no, that's my point. You understand what taking a screenshot of your desktop looks like. You can grok that to the extent that you can feel weird about the idea of somebody doing that to you every five seconds. You can't wrap your head around the steps of breaking down all your information to the extent Apple is describing. Yeah, they know exactly what you did and when, and what you looked at and what it said and how it relates to everybody you know and to your activity. But since you can't intuitively understand what that requires you don't know enough to feel weird about it.

That right there is good UX, even if the ultimate level of intrusion is the same or higher.

Petter1 ,

This is not screenshoting, the picture is already a picture which the AppleAI has access to

Apple solves it by having the AI deamon running with relatively low rights and analyse stuff directly through a API where apps expose data for it

This is way less bad than just screenshoting everything and as added bonus, apps can give the AppleAI data not even shown on screen, which is impossible with the Screenshot idea.

MudMan ,

Hold on, how is this "low rights" if it's looking at and reading every single file you have in your device AND every single thing you access online or have remotely stored? Surely from a purely technical standpoint looking at the screen is less access by every reasonable metric. You don't look at it, the AI doesn't know about it. Right? Do we have a sense of shared reality here?

Don't get me wrong, that's still very effective spyware and I certainly don't want a screenlogger running on my device, Apple or Microsoft. But if you present to me a system that constantly reads every file you access on any capacity and remembers it, displayed onscreen or not, versus one that looks at your screen... well, the one that looks at your screen knows less about you by any measure. OBS can record your screen, but it doesn't know what the emails you haven't read while you're recording say.

The info is easier to extract, easier to be made human readable, definitely creepier in concept, probably easier to exploit. But less intrusive. Can we at least agree on that?

Petter1 ,

You have other deamons on your device that have more rights. It doesn’t need rights if it gets packages delivered from apps by the API. Of course a big flaw in apple’s system is, that you don’t exactly know which system app gives what data to your personal appleAI LLM. So long story short, microsoft should have let your personal LMM be trained by the screenshots and don’t let those screenshots be saved to disk, but only temporarily saved in RAM. I bet, that the chips from snapdragon aren’t fast enough to achieve that good enough and this is typical microsoft bruthforce problem solving. Of course, if someone would be able to steal your trained appleAI (like Apple for example) they still can ask anything about you. I don’t know how apple plans to keep your trained LLM save, but that we will see soon I guess. Maybe it is stored in iCloud in order to sync with all devices, which of course could be a problem for many people. I use Arch, btw

MudMan ,

I don't know that this is a matter of performance, considering MS is pushing a specific TOPS spec to support these features. From the spec we have, several of the supported devices Apple is flagging for this feature are below the 40 TOPS spec required for Copilot+. I think that's more than they're putting in M4, isn't it?

Granted, Apple IS in fact sending some of this data to server to get processed, so on that front they are almost certainly deploying more computing power than MS at the cost of not keeping the processing on-device. Of course I get the feeling that we disagree about which of those is the "brute force" solution.

I also think you're misunderstanding what Apple and MS are doing here. They're not "training" a model based on your data. That'd take a lot of additional effort. They presumably have some combination of pre-existing models, some proprietary some third party and they are feeding your data into the models in response to your query to serve as context.

That's fundamentally different. It's a different step on the process, it's a different piece of work. And it's very similar to the MS solution because in both cases when you ask something the model is pulling your data up and sharing it with the user. The difference is that in MS's original implementation the data also resided in your drive and was easily accessible even without querying the model as long as you were logged into the user's local account.

But the misconception is another interesting reflection of how these things are branded. I suppose Apple spent a ton of time talking about the AI "learning" about you, implying a gradual training process, rather than "we're just gonna input every single text message you've ever sent into this thing whenever you ask a question". MS was all "we're watching you and our AI will remember watching you for like a month in case you forget", which certainly paints a different mental picture, regardless of the underlying similarities.

Petter1 ,

I understood it like Apple provides a pre trained LLM and it is then trained on device with user data directly resulting in new weights and configuration for each person‘s personal AppleLLM. For me that seems more reasonable that way because the data is way less random but strictly orchestrated by the limitations defined by apple through the API that needs to be used in order to integrate your app with the user’s personal AppleLLM

And I still agree, the weights and configuration of the AppleLLM is as critical as 100gb screenshots of your windows, but definitely harder to understand if extracted.

MudMan ,

I just don't think that's plausible at all. I mean, they can "train" further by doing stuff like storing certain things somewhere and I imagine there's a fair amount of "dumb" algorithm and programming work going on under the whole thing...

...but I don't think there's any model training on device. That's orders of magnitude more processing power than running this stuff. Your phone would be constantly draining for months, it's just not how these things work.

Petter1 ,

Ahh, lol, sorry for taking so long to understand 😅 guess many misunderstood apple, like I did, or not, at least I think I get it now.

So, the only difference between copilot and apple is that appleAI has access to the API where app developers decide what is seeable for the AI vs Access to everything one has seen on the screen except DRM stuff

At apple, as attacker, you would need to get access to that API and you can get all data and at copilot you need access to the Photos

So the difference why anybody prefer Apples solution, is because their LLM gets butter clean data which is perfectly structured by devs vs at windows, where the LLM has to work with pretty much chaos data

Where exactly is Apples solution spyware? It is only a process that runs while interacting and processing data. Or is it enough to be proprietary and have access to this data, well then, spotlight is spyware.

MudMan ,

It's spyware in that both applications are a centralized searchable repository that knows exactly what you did, when and how. And no, the supposed ability to limit specific applications is not a difference, MS also said you can block specific apps and devs can block specific screens within an app. They're both the same on that front, presumably.

What I'm saying is the reason people are reacting differently is down to branding and UX.

thesmokingman ,

I agree with you. I think the responses to your comment are missing a few key points

  • Calling an Apple product something weird with “i” or “Apple” is Jobsian slavish devotion to branding
  • Under Tim Cook, innovation has arguably stagnated (see comparisons to Ballmer
  • Cook has not leveraged the value of Apple’s innovation successfully eg Apple Silicon being limited to Apple devices vs PowerPC days, the Vision Pro being horrible, the recent hilarious iPad creativity crusher ad.
  • A company with Apple’s market cap can do dumb shit and still appear valuable just because they have Apple’s market cap.

I read OP as “names are dumb and this is just Apple trying to be different in the same way everyone else is.” I think all of that is true and I think it’s valid criticism of the product. My last point about Apple’s value is probably the most important. They can do a lot of dumb shit before it matters.

Kongar , to technology in Spotify is raising the cost of Premium subscriptions, again

More money More crap nobody wants like audio books Still haven’t seen cd quality streaming yet

I used to happy with Spotify before the enshitificatuon happened…

FonsNihilo ,

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  • radicalautonomy ,
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    I got Tidal for a month to try it out because I had gotten some XM4s and wanted to check out the 360 Reality Audio tracks, and I was disappointed to find just how few of them there actually are. 😕

    Edit: I see not that they did away with that ultra premium tier and folded those 360 Reality Audio tracks into the regular plans…they really did make it cheaper. Looks like I’m switching back to Tidal.

    Schal330 ,

    What annoys me is you still have to pay for audio books.

    https://lemmy.world/pictrs/image/db6a0016-8eda-4b20-ab25-9d6113965524.png

    Manalith ,

    I have used Spotify’s 15 free hours a month for shorter light novels, but beyond that, buying the rights to listen to a book, or buying more listening hours is very much not worth it through them.

    MapleEngineer , (edited ) to news in X now treats the term cisgender as a slur
    @MapleEngineer@lemmy.world avatar

    I call myself cis male. What delicate fucking snowflakes.

    EDIT: I want to provide some more information. I am a straight cis male. Straight is my sexual preference, cis gendered in my gender identity, and male is my biological sex as assigned at birth. I was first called cis male by a lesbian friend in a relationship with a trans-masculine lesbian (I think…s/he was a life long butch lesbian who began to transition socially after we met.) My friend described to me what cis meant and I said, “Ya, that describes me.” I have a pair of trans women friends (one post-op and one who will never get the surgery.) I have a pair of gay friends, one who had always known that he was gay and one who was closeted his whole life, married, kids, and came out in his 50s. I had known him for 25 years and never thought about whether he was straight or gay. In my social circle, intellectual and liberal, it is handy to be able to let people know a bit about me in a few words. I’ve embraced “cis” because I don’t think that I am superior because I am what I am. The people who are offended by being called “cis” are the ones who have sneered labels at others. I haven’t done that. I also find it handy in social situations to be able to say I’m interested in straight or bi cis women.

    I could not care less who you love, who you want to have sex with, how you present yourself, how you want to be addressed, etc. I have my preference but that’s just me.

    casual_turtle_stew_enjoyer ,

    I only ever call myself things like cisgender for the sake of argument, as it is the identity I was born into and lived with for many years before realizing I was agender.

    I personally consider cisgender and cishet to be slurs solely because I’ve so largely seen it used in a derogatory context, the same way “white male” is used by certain bad actors to signal outrage

    In all reality gender, sexual preference, race, ethnicity are all our of place in most civil discussion-- the majority of the time it is brought up is in discussion of identity politics. And if what we want as a society is equality, then identity should take a back seat to humanism.

    Unfortunately, as I’m sure my comment score will no doubt soon reflect, a lot of people take issue with this notion of equality and, as I’m sure replies to my comments may end up reflecting, are ready to disagree and offer their own definitions of equality. It is therefore the duty of the reader to decide what equality means to them, unfortunately.

    abbotsbury ,
    @abbotsbury@lemmy.world avatar

    Cisgender is straight up just not a slur though, it literally just means the opposite of transgender, which is also not a slur, despite the fact that it can be used with derogatory language or sentiments.

    UnpluggedFridge ,

    It is so strange to say that identity should take a back seat to humanism when every historical example of discrimination and dehumanization is based on identity. Identity in those instances is not imposed on oneself, but is used to define the outgroup that is being dehumanized. Identity politics is simply an honest accounting of groups that being descriminated against. When the discrimination ends, we see the group identity evaporate. We need only look at the early 20th century definitions of Caucasian, and the identity politics of Irish and Italian Americans subsequently evaporating when that definition evolved to include all Americans of European decent, to see that identity politics is a reaction to injustice and not the other way around.

    Jimmyeatsausage ,

    I think you’re currently in a place where I was in myself many years ago. This is all assuming everything you said was in good faith. You see all of the pain and damage the -isms have caused (racism, sexism, etc) and it seems at first blush that if society simply disregarded the traits those -isms are based around, the problem would go away. There’s enough truth in the idea to make it feel like a solution and, even if it’s subconscious, it kinda takes the onus of action off of you and puts it on the people that that are actually racist or exist. I don’t want to assume your political leanings, but I was farther right on the political spectrum than than I am now, and it fit well with my ideas about personal responsibility and limited government at the time…and I feel like it was regarded as common sense with everyone in that political sphere at the time. At the time, I was a 20-something cishet white guy (I’m still all of those things, except 20), and I felt like everything I had I’d earned, and I legit thought people could pull themselves out of the mire if they wanted it enough. I didn’t like being grouped in with the -ists, but I also wasn’t likely to call out a buddy for making an offensive joke.

    That whole chain of thinking is deeply flawed, but it’s an easy place to land, especially in middle-America. I feel like a good analogy that would have hit home with me at that point in my life would have been stories about places where Christianity was outlawed. I remember I had one of those old Christian comic books that were popular in the 90s about it. If you wanted to wear a cross, you’d have to hide it, you couldn’t talk about being Christian or meet with other Christians (like a church service or prayer group) without having to worry about the law coming down on you. (Really makes me wonder where that infamous sense of persecution the right has comes from). At the time, I’d hear those stories and think, “Man, government sucks…it would be terrible to have to hide who you were like that.” I think about those stories now and I think instead about not wearing the clothes you’re comfortable in, not being able to get healthcare for legit medical diagnoses, not being able to have a club or group of similar people you couls safely meet with to build community around shared life experiences. The story about persucted Christians in some unnamed dystopia was also telling the true story of LGBTQ people in my own country. And women in my own country. And racial groups In. My. Own. Country. I never would have accepted the idea that those persecuted Christians would be OK if there just wasn’t religion. Just like I know marginalized groups today won’t be OK if whatever society deems “wrong” with them just went away. Societies have inertia, and without someone exerting some kind of force on them, they’ll maintain their current trajectory. I came to see I didn’t like my societies trajectory, so I started trying to change it, probably went a little too extreme in the other direction for a while, but eventually learned to just listen first. It’s OK if I belong to a group (or several) that have been bad actors. It means I’m in a position to leverage my privileges to help change society’s momentum. I grew up very poor, but I’ve got pretty much every other privilege society has to offer. I honestly don’t know that I’d have been as fortunate as I am today if even one of those privileges was missing. Even with the deck stacked pretty well in my favor, it was a fucking fight to get here…and even now, doing so much better than most, it feels like barely hanging on some days. I agree that humanism is what we should be striving for, but I also understand that I’m part of a group that’s done a lot of bad to a lot of other groups. I don’t think it makes sense for me to be “proud” of any immutable part of my identity, but that also means I shouldn’t feel personally attacked when people talk about that identity. Things like the whole bear thing would have probably bothered me in the past, but now it’s more nuanced. I’m sad people feel that way, but I don’t blame them, and I’ve listened enough that I believe them. Now the question I ask isn’t “How is this fair to me?” but instead. “How can I use my membership in the group to help change its momentum to something better.” Sometimes it’s voting, sometimes it’s canvassing or protesting, sometimes it’s reaching out to someone I see a part of my past self in.

    Chetzemoka ,

    I just wanna say that I appreciate the hell out of you.

    Jimmyeatsausage ,

    Thanks, stranger. I’m in stormy seas now, and that means more to me than it otherwise might.

    Socsa ,

    Cisgender is a descriptive term. If you have seen it in a derogatory context, then you should take issue with the context.

    casual_turtle_stew_enjoyer ,

    And trans is also a descriptive term, right?

    hikaru755 ,

    …yeah, it is. What are you implying?

    casual_turtle_stew_enjoyer ,

    Cis and trans are both the same type of descriptor. If trans can be used as a slur, so can cis.

    Not saying either are slurs by default. But they most certainly can be turned into ones.

    hikaru755 ,

    Maybe we should clarify what a slur is? Because to my knowledge, a slur is a term that has such negative connotations that it is considered offensive and discriminatory against a certain group of people in itself, without any additional context. You simply do not use it unless you want to insult or offend someone from that group. If a term is only offensive based on how it’s used, it’s just a regular insult, not a slur.

    So, “can be used as a slur” is not a thing. A word is either a slur, or it isn’t. Neither trans nor cis are slurs at the moment. I’ve never seen trans be used as an insult before. And even cis is almost never meant as a direct insult, merely as a reminder that someone is talking about things they have no lived experience with and should probably check their privilege. Yes, that can be in a demeaning way, but the goal there is not to hurt you, but to make you piss off. It’s an act of self protection. Nobody is seeking cis people out and starting to call them names unless they insert themselves into trans spaces and start talking shit about trans issues. If you’re doing that, and getting told off insults you or hurts your feelings, then, frankly, that’s a you problem.

    TubularTittyFrog ,

    agender

    guess this is what i will tell people to call me now. because i don’t give a shit that i have a penis.

    100% agree with you. but sadly humanism doesn’t incite people to team-based violence, so it’s very going to be very popular. human beings very much prefer tribal thinking to global thinking.

    thebrownhaze ,

    So people should just accept what others call them?

    MapleEngineer ,
    @MapleEngineer@lemmy.world avatar

    The definition of cis is, “a person whose gender identity corresponds to their sex assigned at birth.” Does you gender identity correspond to the sex you were assigned at birth? Mine does.

    thebrownhaze ,

    What are the origins of the word “cis”?

    hikaru755 ,

    The prefix cis- is Latin and means on this side of.

    en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cisgender

    Just as “trans-” means on the other side of. It’s literally just the opposite of trans.

    MapleEngineer ,
    @MapleEngineer@lemmy.world avatar

    The term cisgender has its origin in the Latin-derived prefix cis-, meaning ‘on this side of’, which is the opposite of trans-, meaning ‘across from’ or ‘on the other side of’. This usage can be seen in the cis–trans distinction in chemistry, the cis and trans sides of the Golgi apparatus in cellular biology, the ancient Roman term Cisalpine Gaul (i.e. ‘Gaul on this side of the Alps’), and Cisjordan (as distinguished from Transjordan). In cisgender, cis- describes the alignment of gender identity with assigned sex.

    TubularTittyFrog ,

    what if i feel like my gender identity is irrelevant?

    other people care a lot more about my gender and sex than i do. i can tell you that.

    MapleEngineer ,
    @MapleEngineer@lemmy.world avatar

    Then it’s irrelevant. It may be relevant to someone else but that’s their problem.

    thebrownhaze ,

    Also, I don’t accept I was “assigned a gender at birth”. That’s like a person of faith saying when I got a sole. Believe what you want, but don’t expect me to join in.

    MapleEngineer ,
    @MapleEngineer@lemmy.world avatar

    You are free to believe whatever you want to believe.

    ZILtoid1991 ,

    People made the same arguments about “heterosexual” and “straight”, at least with the latter I could see why someone would see that as a slur (it’s a term originates from animal farming), while “heterosexual” just describes someone is attracted to the opposite gender (go on, and use it as an “a ha!” moment against me by claiming it as a proof that even I know there’s only two genders, like fundamentalists do with atheists saying “oh my god!”). “Cis” is just the opposite of “trans”, even if Musk had the techbro-level idea of treating “cis” the same way most sensible people treat that “cool and funny” gamer word, he wants to say out loud in the public, like he used to do it in apartheid Africa.

    thebrownhaze ,

    So, even if I don’t like it, I have to accept being called that? My preferences don’t matter?

    ZILtoid1991 ,

    What do you want to be called instead? Normal?

    Silentiea ,
    @Silentiea@lemmy.blahaj.zone avatar

    Look, some people just aren’t trans like normal people.

    FlyingSquid ,
    @FlyingSquid@lemmy.world avatar

    I know this may be a difficult concept for you, but here’s what you do:

    Someone calls you cisgendered.

    You say, “I don’t like being called cisgendered, call me _____.”

    That person agrees and calls you ______.

    -and that is all most trans people are asking of you too.

    TubularTittyFrog ,

    speak for yourself. not my experience of many trans folk at all. many of them are actively hostile. and some of them are just straight up fucking mean people. and i’ve also seen trans folks who were chill… become radicalized and whom i used to hang out with and liked… and then all the sudden i’m the ‘enemy’.

    it’s almost like trans folks are people and subject to the same errors in thinking and hateful nonsense as anyone else.

    FlyingSquid ,
    @FlyingSquid@lemmy.world avatar

    I can’t imagine why trans people might be actively hostile. Can you think of any possible reasons? Do you think it might have to do with things like Twitter treating ‘cisgender’ as a slur?

    That and the genocide?

    en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Transgender_genocide#United…

    TeddyKila , to piracy in The Motion Picture Association will work with Congress to start blocking piracy sites in the US

    land of the fee home of the grave

    jordanlund , to technology in PlayStation is laying off 900 staff across Naughty Dog, Insomniac and other studios
    @jordanlund@lemmy.world avatar

    Following the news that they have no major releases planned until April, 2025:

    ign.com/…/sony-will-not-release-any-new-major-exi…

    simplejack OP ,
    @simplejack@lemmy.world avatar

    Looking at Microsoft’s line up, I feel like 2024 is shaping up to be a “meh” year for the platform exclusives overall. Most of what I’m curious about are the 3rd party titles.

    jacksilver ,

    To be honest it’s been kinda meh for the past few years. There have been a couple of exceptions, but even Nintendo has been under delivering (I personally thought Mario wonder and TOTK were just okay).

    altima_neo ,
    @altima_neo@lemmy.zip avatar

    Its quite the meh generation. Which is sad, considering the consoles this gen actually had some grunt.

    KingThrillgore ,
    @KingThrillgore@lemmy.ml avatar

    We had great games in 2022 and 2023 because we finally caught up to the COVID delays. It’s gonna be slim pickins now as companies adjust.

    Psythik ,

    We did? Please name some that aren’t Baulder’s Gate cause I feel like I had nothing worth playing the last two years beyond the Spider-Man games on PC.

    GBU_28 ,

    There are lots of great games. There’s no need for more games! Shut it all down everyone go look at a leaf

    odigo2020 ,

    To paraphrase Devon Banks: I’m gonna shut it down. Think how much people will need lightbulbs then!

    (Also; I sold the E to Samsung. They’re Samesung now.)

    TwilightVulpine , to technology in Google Search is losing its 'cached' web page feature

    Ironically just yesterday I needed Google Cache because a page I needed to read was down and I couldn’t find the option anymore.

    Are we going to need to go back to personal web crawlers to back-up information we need? I hate today’s internet.

    lemmyvore ,

    github.com/dessant/web-archives

    It’s a browser extension that links to a dozen online caching services.

    TwilightVulpine ,

    Thanks, sounds very handy

    DAMunzy ,

    Hmm, tried it on Firefox Android but not sure it is working.

    lemmyvore ,

    It’s called “Web Archives”, you can install it from the Firefox official extensions.

    To use it you open the menu while on a page, go to Addons > Web Archives and select a search engine.

    swan_pr ,
    @swan_pr@lemmy.ca avatar

    Ran across the same problem recently. Ended up using Bing, of all things lol

    Ibaudia , to workreform in Uber, DoorDash and Grubhub sue New York City over $18 minimum-wage law
    @Ibaudia@lemmy.world avatar

    “How are we supposed to pay slave wages if you force us to treat our employees independent contractors with a minimum level of decency? Think of the venture capital that could be lost if we don’t become profitable!”

    Glad to see these companies are flailing. If you can’t afford to pay a minimum wage that keeps up with inflation then your company shouldn’t exist.

    jeffw ,
    @jeffw@lemmy.world avatar

    They’ll just do what they did in Cali and change the NY constitution to redefine “employee”

    MercuryUprising ,

    So many tech companies use the independent contractor thing to get around having to pay taxes and provide benefits. It’s pretty fucking gross

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