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style99 , in Pastor alarmed after Trump-loving congregants deride Jesus' teachings as 'weak'
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"Multiple pastors tell me, essentially, the same story about quoting the Sermon on the Mount, parenthetically, in their preaching — 'turn the other cheek' — [and] to have someone come up after to say, 'Where did you get those liberal talking points?'" Moore revealed. "And what was alarming to me is that in most of these scenarios, when the pastor would say, 'I'm literally quoting Jesus Christ,' the response would not be, 'I apologize.' The response would be, 'Yes, but that doesn't work anymore. That's weak.'"

Looks like these "churches" are in desperate need of salvation. If only they knew someone who could provide that...

LetterboxPancake ,

If only they knew someone who could provide that…

Uh, is it Trump? It is, right?

Aesthesiaphilia , in Pastor alarmed after Trump-loving congregants deride Jesus' teachings as 'weak'

Almost as if they never gave a shit about Jesus's teachings in the first place and only cherry picked a couple of things that fit their existing desires.

Now they're just going mask off.

Aceticon ,

It doesn’t take much. For starters “Greed” is one of the 7 deadly sins…

MossyFeathers , in Pastor alarmed after Trump-loving congregants deride Jesus' teachings as 'weak'

I… hm. I don’t know what to say here, except I swear this is a case where the onion has literally written an article about this exact thing occurring. The onion has gone from being believable, to being prophetic. Amazing.

perviouslyiner , (edited )

The Onion’s journalists have garnered a sterling reputation for accurately forecasting future events. One such coup was The Onion’s scoop revealing that a former president kept nuclear secrets strewn around his beach home’s basement three years before it even happened. footnote 2

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FuglyDuck , in Pastor alarmed after Trump-loving congregants deride Jesus' teachings as 'weak'
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Then maybe they should have corrected them when they were just starting out on all the crazy, rather than endorsing the dude that’s literally the closest thing this world has seen to the anti-christ.

j4yt33 ,

Really, the closest?

FuglyDuck ,
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considering his cult worships as the 2nd coming… he himself described himself as “the chosen one”, parrots reiligious one-liners while leading those who do worship him- and yes, that is the appropriate term- away from the teachings of christ.

jmcs ,

He’s a bargain bin Mussolini. Unfortunately, nothing he did is particularly new.

DragonTypeWyvern ,

Fun fact, there are many antichrists, biblically speaking, not just one.

Gsus4 , (edited )
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Yea, it’s an archetype, but it’s funny how some predictions are oddly specific for such a broad recurrent archetype:

“… a despicable person will arise… a man of contempt… to whom the royal honor has not been rightfully conferred. He will slip in when least expected and will seize the kingdom through flattery and intrigue.” Daniel 11:21

“He will cause deceit to prosper, and he will consider himself superior… He will use every kind of evil deception to fool those on their way to destruction, because they refuse to love and accept the truth that would save them.” Daniel 8:25, 2 Thess 2:10

“But then the court will convene, and all his power will be taken away.” Daniel 7:26

From these, the Antichrist’s description is starting to sound like Hannah Arendt’s banality of evil and how that is scarier than fictional supernatural evil with horns and pitchforks.

hglman ,

Probably bc these are descriptions of prior people summarized. Like its all happened before.

j4yt33 ,

He’s just a fascist wannabe dictator and some people want that. It’s really nothing new or special

fiah ,
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yep there are many like him around the world, and I’d wager to say that most of them are actually potentially more dangerous than Trump because they’re smarter and actually have an agenda of their own. What really did the USA in was not the person Trump, but rather that the whole republican apparatus and especially the corporate media went all in with him after it became clear he’d win the primaries. With the 2 party system, that means that basically half of the country was set up to deify him in a way that they haven’t really tried with previous republican candidates

rebelsimile ,

Don’t forget holding a bible upside down in front of a church… like hello?

FuglyDuck ,
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Easy to do when you can’t read, yeahs lay off the guy… (/s, please, trump deserves far more. Continue!)

StarServal ,
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Trump is capable of reading. I mean he read Mein Kampf. He just loses interest in it if he doesn’t see his name mentioned every x number of words.

FuglyDuck ,
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Pretty sure that was just the picture book version made for the Hitler youth.

morrowind ,
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Man there was this (satirical, but not inaccurate) blog about how trump actually matches many features of the anti-christ, but I can’t find it now, only a bunch of blogspam copying it

ares35 ,
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GuyDudeman ,
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That’s the one!

morrowind ,
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Brilliant! Thank you

tetris11 ,

Change your window width to 760px to get the maximum horizontal readability on this terribly formatted website, or switch to reader mode

Aesthesiaphilia ,

Remember, the Antichrist is not just "really evil person". It's "really evil person who convinces a lot of people that he's a good person and a prophet".

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  • Cybersteel ,
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    So Jewish ppl?

    stopthatgirl7 OP ,
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    At the time, it was more the Romans. It’s only after Rome became Christian that the narrative shifted to blame the Jews for everything.

    yata ,

    That is a whole lot of “probably” and “looks like” disclaimers for such an absolute claim.

    kabe ,
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    The term is open to interpretation, but it certainly doesn’t simply refer to non-christians.

    Some interpretations view the antichrist as a specific individual or figure who opposes Christ in some hypothetical, end of days type situation, while others see it as a broader symbolic representation of a certain figure or person that represents the complete opposite of Christ’s teachings or the spirit of Christianity.

    “Anti” can mean “opposite” just as much as it can mean “against”.

    Hogger85b , (edited )

    It may be there are worse people but they are more akin to satan (e.g Hitler was atheist (well not really he believed in the occult but didn't go down religion). Trump claims to be some sort of Jesus figure to religious so hits some.of the "pretends to be Christ" points of.the antichrist

    (Edit Hitler religious views are very complex but I still. Stand by point he less acted like "Christ" figure than trump)

    Riccosuave , (edited )
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    I’m going to take issue with your simplification and classification of Hitler, and the wider Nazi ideology here because I think this is very important given some of the patterns we see repeating from the early 20th century. There was a lot of nuance to the public and politically expedient viewpoints that Hitler professed regarding religion throughout his life versus his private viewpoints which colored the ideological mechanisms of Nazism.

    It is tacitly incorrect to state that Hitler was an occultist, or an atheist by modern convention.

    **Regarding Occultism:**He detested the mysticism, neo-paganism, and occult underpinnings that Himler brought to the party (specifically the SS). Hitler made it very clear that he considered these viewpoints to be sophistry and repugnant to his own view of the world, but he allowed them in so far as he supported Himler as a leader of the party.

    **Regarding atheism:**Hitler, likewise, considered atheism to be an ideological evolution of Jewish Bolshevism that he believed was essentially responsible for the rise of Soviet Communism. It is well documented from close confidants who surrounded Hitler, and wrote about his views contemporaneously that he believed atheism was an ignorant and dangerous return to the animalistic hedonism of humanity.

    Why am I bothering to quibble over these distinctions? Well, for one thing because truly dangerous political leaders generally possess the intelligence, as well as tactical forethought to manipulate and twist at the very heart of the tribal labelism that proliferates through the uneducated masses of society. They then warp these convenient in-group / out-group dynamics to fit the needs of their political ambitions. We see this today, although in a much lazier fashion, with the alliance of convenience between the neo-conservative and christian nationalist movements that have proven to be a foundational undergirding to the “Trump Cult” as it were.

    We should all understand the complicated historical relationship of religion and politics from the 20th century. Especially regarding the manipulation of those relationships which lead to the rise of authoritarianism on a scale never seen before or since. Lest we go down that same road again, except the next time will invariably be the last time because the power of the technological panopticon we are now capable of creating would enslave humanity or destroy our species.

    PS: If you’re interested in understanding the complexities of the religious and ideological positions espoused by Hitler throughout his life as well as the Nazi party as a whole this Wikipedia article on the subject is actually really good.

    …wikipedia.org/…/Religious_views_of_Adolf_Hitler

    TWeaK ,

    I agree, you don’t have to look far down the road to see even worse (DeSantis).

    elbarto777 ,

    Bro. There is a guy who literally started a war over nothing, killing and raping indiscriminately, and threatening with nukes.

    And there is a dude in a nation of more than a billion people, running concentration camps, possibly committing genocide as we speak.

    And to define the Antichrist, you’re focused on U.S. politics???

    MossyFeathers ,

    Someone mentioned this somewhere else in the thread, but the antichrist isn’t just a super-duper evil dude; he’s an evil dude with a religious following. He’s a guy where people voluntarily worship him. Not because they’re forced, not because they’re apathetic and just going with the flow, they willingly worship him. Additionally, trump has had pastors claim him to be sent from God, or that he is some kind of savior, which, iirc, is another characteristic of the antichrist. As evil as the others are, I’m pretty sure trump fits the bill better than they do.

    TWeaK ,

    There is a guy who literally started a war over nothing, killing and raping indiscriminately, and threatening with nukes.

    I wouldn’t be surprised if DeSantis did this, given the opportunity.

    a dude in a nation of more than a billion people, running concentration camps, possibly committing genocide as we speak.

    Now that definitely sounds like DeSantis.

    iMastari ,
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    Perfide ,

    I was hoping someone would link this.

    raltoid , (edited )

    If you’re thinking of the modern pop-culture version of the anti-christ, then no.

    If you compare his behaviour to how the bible actually describes the anti-christ, then yes.


    According to the bible he is supposed to:

    • Be a divisive non-politician who comes into power against peoples expectations.
    • Be overly arrogant with great boastful speeches
    • Lead many people away from Jesus and cause them to blindly follow himself.
    • Lead a very powerful military nation
    • Publically threaten people as a common tactic
    • Be very focused on winning/conquering
    • Rise to power through collusion, lies and corruption.
    • His election into power will by some be seen as a miracle
    • Will use his power to enrich themselves and their allies
    • Spread lies and falsehoods as truth, general lies and deception.
    • It specifically says he will reward his allies with land/property
    • Become angry and threaten the “King of the south”(Mexico)
    • Be supported by some of the nations most powerful religious leaders(super churches and such support him)
    • See themselves as above everyone else
    • Disregard the needs of the most vulnerable in society
    • Some will rise up in protest and face violence in return

    Some things that are almost too on the nose:

    • Only see one term
    • Attempt to stay in power but defeated by the legal system
    • Use his armed forced to remove people from a church for their own nefarious needs
    • During their rule there will be large inflation in food cost, while oil remains cheap
    • There will be a pandemic and mass death during their rule
    • Supposed to worship the “god of fortresses” (in reference of walls and keeping people out)
    • Followers will wear a mark on their forehead (maga caps)
    j4yt33 ,

    That’s an interesting read, thank you! Although I would still say most points on this list still apply to many fascist dictators

    I’m not sure about the point regarding “one term”, surely the bible didn’t know about the system of presidential terms? How exactly does it say there? Same about oil, what is the biblical equivalent?

    Revan343 ,

    It’s all from the Benjamin Corey post I linked in a reply to the comment you’re replying to. The BIble is talking about different oil-- either food, or lamp oil. 'One term’s is a happy coincidence, the bible says ~3.5 years

    j4yt33 ,

    So not at all related to fossil oil then

    Revan343 ,

    No, just a coincidence. Except that both are used as fuel, I suppose, though fueling very different things

    DeadTestament ,

    The Bible made predictions about oil prices?

    iSeth ,

    People have been pressing olives for a long time.

    prole ,

    Yeah, that one caught me off guard too… Pretty sure it doesn’t.

    raltoid ,

    The bible has a bunch of different references to oil, as it was used a lamp fuel(and some rituals).

    This one refers to Revelation 6:6

    And I heard a voice in the midst of the four beasts say, A measure of wheat for a penny, and three measures of barley for a penny; and see thou hurt not the oil and the wine.

    From KJ or this one from the NIV

    Then I heard what sounded like a voice among the four living creatures, saying, “Two pounds of wheat for a day’s wages, and six pounds of barley for a day’s wages, and do not damage the oil and the wine!”

    Referring to how the price of food would go up, but oil and alcohol would not.

    prole ,

    Pretty disingenuous to suggest that has any relation to fossil fuels and using them in internal combustion engines.

    But, then again, that’s what Christians excel at: rationalizing their awful beliefs.

    Revan343 ,

    benjaminlcorey.com/could-american-evangelicals-sp…

    This is mostly tongue-in-cheek, but it’s still pretty damned accurate

    donuts ,
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    Just think about how many of the seven deadly sins (pride, greed, wrath, envy, lust, gluttony and sloth) Trump embodies. Like... fuckin' all of them?

    j4yt33 ,

    Again, how is that special?

    donuts ,
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    I'm not saying it's "special". Hypocritical, counterintuitive, ironic, sure...

    What I'm saying is that Trump represents the very antithesis of what Christianity preaches. He is a very high-profile and public embodiment of their "seven deadly sins". Which, to me at least, is very anti-christ-like. I'm not sure why you need that spelled out...

    j4yt33 ,

    I mean, if we’re being all passive-aggressive I’ll also happily point out that the seven deadly sins have nothing to do with the antichrist technically, they are not even mentioned in the bible afaik. So bit of a crappy argument really

    EnthusiasticWhale ,

    Yeah this is a very leopard ate my face kind of moment

    AmyCupcake ,

    Pretty sure the closest was Hitler.

    FuglyDuck ,
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    Pretty sure while the cult of Hitler was insane… and definitely… more… hitler never actually claimed any pretense to being any sort of Christian-god-sent whatever.

    Nazism was a sort of its own thing, and not particularly Christian, where the cult of Trump definitely is.

    While Jews were far and away the largest group that suffered in camps and the holocaust…they were

    JackGreenEarth , in Pastor alarmed after Trump-loving congregants deride Jesus' teachings as 'weak'

    Lol

    Player2 , in Disney says it will crack down on password sharing, following Netflix’s lead

    🏴‍☠️

    Polar ,

    I pay for everything but movies and TV shows. Last time I bought TV shows, the service went under and I lost it all. Seasons and seasons and seasons gone. It’s not 1982, I shouldn’t have to deal with freaking discs.

    So the only reliable thing is my Emby server. One tap from playing it on any device in the house.

    And I don’t have a blu ray drive in my PC, my case doesn’t even support one (again, is it 1982???) so buying and ripping my own discs is out of the picture.

    Buying movies and TV shows gives you the worst experience and punishes you. Not to mention almost every damn show these days are cancelled, and I don’t think I’ve seen a movie with a satisfactory ending in like a decade.

    Damage ,

    I haven’t pirated a game in over a decade. I have Netflix and Prime subscriptions… I have 4tb of shows and movies on my NAS because fuck subscribing to every damn streaming service.

    some_guy ,
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    4tb was my first big milestone.

    Currently at 68ish out of 78tb and there’s another 16tb drive waiting to get hooked up once I’m getting full.

    It got ridiculous pretty quickly but I don’t know if I’ll ever go back.

    Naia ,

    I have an external bluray drive I basically only use to rip disc’s.

    Redditiscancer789 ,

    I mean what’s wrong with having drives still attached? I feel personally attacked cause I have a blu ray AND multiple dvd drives for retro games on disks. Yeah I could ISO them but meh.

    mrvictory1 , in Disney raises streaming prices as CEO Bob Iger warns of password sharing crackdown

    They are losing subs already and they decided to raise prices. I don’t know how this makes any sense.

    RajaGila ,

    I guess it’s about profit maximization not subscriber numbers.

    prole ,

    Pretty safe to assume, at least in the US, it’s always about profit maximization.

    Asafum ,

    They looked at the success Netflix had with their crackdown and decided they could profit off of it too. Most people won’t go elsewhere, they’ll just pay for it and justify the price increase unfortunately. :/

    rippersnapper ,

    But unless you’ve kids you’re more likely to drop Disney+. Even the recent Marvel series are meh 😕. I just cancelled mine

    themajesticdodo ,

    The second I read the news that Netflix made it work I knew Disney would. That’s free money as far as they would see it.

    dangblingus ,

    They’ll look at it as shedding weight before expanding into new territories.

    Synnr , in Ecuador presidential candidate Villavicencio assassinated

    Can someone knowledgeable about this provide some valuable insight?

    (e: I see it only happened about 4 hours ago, but the who, what, when, where, why?) Was it likely to keep the current president in power or force the election process towards another person?

    nan ,
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    El Pais is usually a pretty good source for things in Latin America, it answers most of those but others will have to wait until they have someone in custody I imagine. He campaigned against corruption and organized crime so that is not an unlikely source.

    …elpais.com/…/presidential-candidate-fernando-vil…

    Unlikely to change the outcome, he was not the top candidate.

    Synnr ,

    Thanks, that mostly answers my questions.

    baruchin ,
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    Here’s some context about Ecuador rising violence. youtu.be/GwT9IcE6E0o

    Veraticus , in North Korea's Kim dismisses top general, calls for war preparations
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    Seems like pretty standard North Korean sabre-rattling.

    Maybe instead of more arms, you should free your people? Or consent to at least feeding them, hmm?

    CriticalMiss ,

    Very interesting point, however, rocket goes frewww 🚀

    Veraticus ,
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    checkmate!

    Hazdaz ,

    …but, but, but if you read many of the random comments on Lemmy, communism is good. If that’s the case, then why would they need to be freed?!

    FlyingSquid ,
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    I’m not a communist, but communism (or any other ideology) can potentially be a good thing and still implemented in terrible ways. If you want to argue against communism, fine, but “look how they implemented it in this country” is not a good argument.

    Hazdaz ,

    is not a good argument.

    That is the BEST argument. That shows it can’t be implemented in a real world environment. You have a locked down country where they can do ANYTHING they want and even in that closed environment where they control essentially all variables it fails and fails spectacularly.

    FlyingSquid ,
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    No, it shows it hasn’t yet been successfully implemented. There’s no reason to claim it can’t be.

    yiliu ,

    And we know that Jesus hasn’t returned yet, but that doesn’t rule out the possibility he’s not gonna get back this weekend.

    If you’re committing yourself faith in an extremely unlikely utopian visions, why not just stick with the classic?

    FlyingSquid ,
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    I’m not committing myself to anything but rational arguments. You have not made one.

    LoveSausage ,
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    Give me one example of a good implementation of capitalism. Capitalism is proven bad. Better than feudalism sure , but let’s raise the bar a bit?

    Hazdaz ,

    worldpopulationreview.com/…/capitalist-countries

    Go ahead. Take your pick. I’ll go get some popcorn as I wait to hear all the “awful” things you will try to come up with describing those nations.

    LoveSausage ,
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    Climate crisis, fascism, imperialism, wars to uphold the system, healthcare, trafficking. More food produced to last 1,5 earth’s need still people going hungry, opiate crisis and on and on and on. Enjoy your popcorn you useless piece of shitlib

    Hazdaz ,

    LOL Literally every one of those things have little-or-nothing to do with capitalism, but you just decided to throw everything out there thinking you actually accomplished something.

    Probably the most hilarious one is you having the gall to mention that people are going hungry, and yet communist’s posterchild, North Korea, had some massive famines because the yield from communist farms was shit. It was so bad, that the eViL CaPiTaLiSts in the US actually gave them food aid to save their people.

    Alwaysfallingupyup , in Biden to reinstate labor rule shelved by Reagan, giving construction workers a pay boost

    For the love of everything. You guys cant see hes doing this for votes he thinks will go Trumps way? aka buying votes

    Coskii ,
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    I don’t think how much his strike busting on the railroad workers cost him in terms of votes. If he had some that and then worked towards correcting it in any form, you know, like mandating at least a few of their demands into law it could have been forgiven. Instead, the essential cogs that keep the economy rolling have been told (again) to shut the hell up and get back to work.

    This election like many others in recent history is going to suck. I wouldn’t be surprised if Biden loses due to low voter turnout.

    burntbutterbiscuits ,

    Looks to me like he is busting unions and then giving crumbs to a few workers, saying look here I support labor. And then busting more unions while he says it.

    Alwaysfallingupyup ,

    Or just because he sucks.

    yata ,

    Oh no, implementing useful policies for votes, how dare they do that in a democracy?

    ZombieTheZombieCat , in Disney raises streaming prices as CEO Bob Iger warns of password sharing crackdown

    I’m buying a dvd player, fuck these greedy pieces of shit

    Damage ,

    Buy a NAS and let’s sail to Tortuga Bay

    SamsonSeinfelder ,

    “how about a trip to the outer rings Zegema Beach, huh?”

    Twofacetony ,

    “Want to know more?”

    sarcasticsunrise ,

    Physical media: this is the way

    pavlov ,
    dire_rhea ,

    I’m buying a DVD burner

    dmmeyournudes , in Disney raises streaming prices as CEO Bob Iger warns of password sharing crackdown

    Did y’all know a VPN can cost less than $3 a month? Skip the Starbucks and hoist the colors.

    JoumanaKayrouz ,
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    what vpn is $3 a month?

    1ittle1auren ,

    Yeah cheapest I’ve seen lately is $5/mo

    nnjethro ,

    Private Internet Access is about $2 a month, but you have to purchase a 3 year block to get that price.

    Rambler ,

    About reasonable - Proton is ~£45/year - always on (10 users) - hopefully protected.

    dmmeyournudes ,

    Torguard and PIA.

    Eggyhead , in Disney raises streaming prices as CEO Bob Iger warns of password sharing crackdown
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    The price of things just keep getting higher and higher little by little, but my income isn’t anywhere near what it was before Covid.

    NuPNuA ,

    That’s the issue, Covid boasted all these guys profits above and beyond normal as we were all stuck at home for two years with nothing else to spend on. No they want to maintain those profits but people still only have the same amount of money to go around.

    jasondj ,

    Did it boost their profits? They may have gotten more subs and with it more revenue, but aren’t they paying royalties on every stream? Seems more streams per sub would cause profit-per-sub to go down.

    Probably more total profit over all, but a reduced margin.

    NuPNuA ,

    Do they pay royalties on each stream? Isn’t that what the strikes at the moment are about?

    EssentialCoffee ,

    They may have gotten more subs and with it more revenue, but aren’t they paying royalties on every stream?

    No, that’s why writers and actors are striking.

    Prox ,

    People have less money now because there are no govt wage supplements and student loan payments are being turned back on.

    NuPNuA ,

    I wasn’t aware they stopped student loan payments during Covid, but those on furlough were only getting 80% of their wage unless the company topped it up.

    dethb0y , in AP: Utah man suspected of threatening President Joe Biden shot and killed as FBI served warrant

    There had to be a way to resolve this without someone dying, not that the FBI gives a damn, of course.

    MonkRome , in 6 year old who shot teacher bragged about it

    It’s amazing to me how focused these comments are on the child being “evil” and not the environment that created this situation. A child isn’t born believing that shooting their teacher is a viable solution to their problems. At 6 years old you’re barely functional. For this to happen they had to exist in a profoundly fucked up environment with no moral compass and access to a lot of information, presented without good context, far above their age. Everyone responsible for raising this kid should be held responsible.

    This kid needs years of therapy and support and a loving caregiver. Before the age of 10 children are incredibly impressionable and still undergoing very basic core development, until the age of 25 people are still in development to some level. There are many years ahead where this child can be saved from themselves. There is no reason to call a 6 year old irredeemable.

    Elderos ,

    I assure you, even though it is likely that the environment failed them, some kids are just plain evil and will require lifelong support. Parents arent always to blame.

    FlyingSquid ,
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    Yeah, but parents who leave loaded guns around where their six-year-olds can have access to them are probably to blame.

    IrrationalAndroid ,

    Why do you think that some kids are just plain evil? I’m reading several comments stating this thing and it just baffles me, to say the least.

    Uranhjort ,

    Because the world is so much easier to comprehend when you convince yourself some people are just naturally bad and thus undeserving of compassion. To some this is preferable to thinking that an impressionable child may be pushed to violence by their environment.

    Never mind that the child was likely mimicking his father (who had attempted to murder his mother on several occasions) and was raised in the kind of environment where a loaded weapon was just left around for him to grab.

    Elderos ,

    I mean, no offence, but you can use that line of reasoning to explain away literally anything.

    “Because the world is so much easier to comprehend when you convince yourself all people are just naturally good, and thus can always be saved.”

    I was born and raised with a psycho, I really wished for the longest time that my sibling was normal and just acting out. I guess having first-hand experience with a sick person will erase someone’s doubts real quick.

    Uranhjort ,

    I’m not explaining away anything, nor denying that dangerously violent or even psychotic children exist. I was specifically railing against the idea of condemning a real, life human child because you have decided that they were “born bad”, in face of the plentiful evidence that they were raised in a violent environment.

    For what it’s worth I’m sorry you had to go through that, but you’re not the only one who grew up with someone unstable and violent. I would not presume to speak to your experience, but in my case I was all too privy to the neglect and abuse they were put through and it’s left me convinced that barring any actual inborn neurological damage the only way a child turns violent is if something is pushing them to act that way.

    Elderos ,

    I was not making a statement on the specific child in the article, I also mentioned that the environment is often the most important factor. I am just raising the fact that in some cases it can be a mental disorder, and it is not about deciding who is born bad, but assessing correctly every situation so you can do the greatest good, and protect yourself. I think we agree mostly, maybe my original comment could sound reductionist to some ears, but I tried my best to convey that I was pointing out a rare scenario, specifically to counter the arguments that you can’t have this sort of mental disorder at the time of birth. It is important to point out, otherwise innocent parents will get harmed (not those in the article, obviously)

    Bluescluestoothpaste ,

    Nobody is trying to invalidate your experience, but we also can’t take your story and assume it applies to a random child in the news that has nothing to do with your story.

    Elderos ,

    Because my sibling was a psycho, and I doubt there is anything more my parents could have done. You have to get to know one (child or not) to understand that this exists not just in movies.

    novibe ,

    People say things like this, then years later find out their siblings/demon kids in their lives were abused (sexually or no) by parents friends/distant relatives etc.

    I don’t think people become psychopaths or develop extreme BPD out of nowhere. Like never.

    Elderos ,

    You don’t believe in genetic mental illness? That one can be born with a sickness in the brain?

    You don’t have to believe everyone on the internet, I can only offer you my slice of experience. Nothing wrong happened to my sibling. It was a child who actively tried to hurt people and kill stuff barely after learning to walk. It scared everyone for a while but medication and therapy helped turn they into a stable and functional adult. My sibling is also pretty open about it, at least with me.

    novibe ,

    I do believe a lot of our issues are genetic. But we also know different people with identical genetical “problems” will and won’t develop mental illnesses based on their environments and traumatic events in their lives. Epigenetics and all. Like schizophrenia. It was first purely genetic, now we’re pretty sure it’s also environment and experience led.

    IrrationalAndroid ,

    Sorry about your experience, I can imagine how terrifying this must be. I guess that there are many reasons why I (like others) am very skeptical about it being just nature, especially considering science doesn’t have a definitive answer to this (as far as I know). I know that genetics play a role in predicting future diagnoses. It’s just that having full blown personality disorders from childhood (especially when personality is something that you develop during childhood) sounds weird, and many people are labeled “bad” when it’s really a dark childhood that is running the scene.

    Elderos ,

    Absolutely, I never met anyone else like that in my life. I assumed most people with bad behaviours had bad childhood, but I can’t deny knowing at least one person with a troubling disorder.

    ParsnipWitch ,

    Because people aren’t born as a blank slate, although people seem to like that idea. Genetics play a huge role in personality and character. Some people are born without remorse. They need help and therapy like every other type of disability. But people are just too hung up on the idea of free will and virtuous character values to accept that our brains are organs that can have broken parts.

    When you happen to cross paths with someone like that you will know. A kid I know is like this. He would hurt his younger brother to get attention and use other manipulation tactics (at 8 years old!). He will lie straight to your face and it’s just obvious he is very different from other children.

    His mother had to stop working and basically 24/7 supervise this kid and the overall situation is nightmarish.

    MonkRome ,

    Maybe not always, but nearly always. Which begs the question why people are so keen to blame a 6 year old kid here and not the parents? It feels to me like it’s just easier for people to simplify matters by blaming the person involved because the alternative is messy and complicated.

    PunnyName ,

    It’s possible he really has no remorse

    en.wikipedia.org/…/Antisocial_personality_disorde…

    IrrationalAndroid ,

    I’d like someone more knowledgeable to confirm this, but I remember that kids cannot be diagnosed certain PDs, so I’m not sure that this can really apply to a child. Also, PDs more often than not derive from childhood problems.

    Cubes ,

    Correct. ASPD isn’t diagnosed until the child is 18. They usually will diagnose them with “conduct disorder” as a minor instead.

    SwagaliciousSR ,

    This is somewhat true. I’m fairly knowledgeable about this topic (US) im pretty sure Children still cannot be officially diagnosed with a severe personality disorder until usually 14-18 depending on the state and the personality disorder. Usually it’s higher age brackets for more “severe” disorders like aspd. Yet weirdly low for add, adhd and odd. Depends mainly on state.

    Many problematic children will be diagnosed with both odd and adhd /add at a young age and the moment they “age out” of youth services they’ll be immediately diagnosed with aspd or a whole bouquet of other DSM’s. This is one of my bigger pet peeves as parents are often left out of the loop pourpousefully simply as there is no “solution” to a child with such issues other than buttloads of money and time.

    To add, as someone who has worked with children and children with behavioral issues. In multiple countries and cultures:

    We usually know with like 80% certainty by the time the child is I’d say six or seven, roughly what is wrong with any given child, and can give pretty spot on diagnosis between ourselves. We are ofc not allowed to speak with parents regarding most of these issues, that’s a 5 minute talk between a child’s psychologist and its parents every six months. And Timmy just can’t sitt still for more than 20 minutes! It’s a disaster! But other than thst he’s a little angel!

    Also, imagine telling a Karen her precious angel tried stabbed another kid with scissors?

    Yeah I fucking stabbed her, I fucking stabbed the lil bitch in the face cause I fucking hate her fucking bitch"

    And then two weeks later you almost loose your job, cause surprise. Timmy just stabbed the lil bitch in the FACE with Scissors. I know from the grapevine Timmy is now in a locked mental health juvie. Like. How do I explain. We all knew? All of us who ever worked with him told each other he was going to spend the rest of his life getting bailed out of jail by mommy and daddy, or dead, or 15-life. We knew he was dangerous. Deranged even. Why dosent anyone listen? Parents didn’t care, administration didn’t care. Hell the only people who seemed to actually care were us and the girls parents. (big and biggest Bitch)

    It’s this shit + the metal detectors (+admin) that makes people like me charge 100$/h tutoring autistic kids now instead of working 50% and volunteering 50% at local school districts.

    I am not a teacher. Just a giant guy who has always been good with kids. (I never stopped being one)

    I dont think im intelligent enough to get into the nature vs nurture argument. It’s a doozy. My opinion is “why not both” I’ve seen both sides proven imo, a good nurture just gives you alot more tools to use.

    IrrationalAndroid ,

    Also, imagine telling a Karen her precious angel tried stabbed another kid with scissors?

    Yeah I fucking stabbed her, I fucking stabbed the lil bitch in the face cause I fucking hate her fucking bitch"

    Holy shit, that’s actually disastrous and not something that I could think of, so thank you so much for your insider input. Mustn’t be very nice knowing that something terrible has a good chance of happening and not being able to do anything about it.

    I dont think im intelligent enough to get into the nature vs nurture argument. It’s a doozy. My opinion is “why not both” I’ve seen both sides proven imo, a good nurture just gives you alot more tools to use.

    and I agree with that, dismissing genetics completely also doesn’t feel convincing to me. The biggest takeaway that I wanted my comments to have is to keep an eye on the parents, as very often bad parenting bakes tragedies.

    BigDawg ,

    It can be both sadly. Some kids are born not right. But will usually be ok with good and professional follow up and loving parents. But there are some kids born without the ability to emphasize with others and that never will get the help they need. And they become terrifying in their teens.

    IrrationalAndroid ,

    Empathy is something that is taught. If some kid does not have the ability to have empathy for others, it’s likely because they were neglected/abused during childhood, and were not taught such a thing as empathy.

    Pyr_Pressure ,

    I wouldn’t rule out lack of empathy also being potentially biological / genetic. Empathy is based on feeling which is based on chemicals and hormones in your body. It wouldn’t be impossible to be born with the inability to produce/recognize those chemicals/hormones.

    IrrationalAndroid ,

    Yes, I agree with this very much.

    ParsnipWitch ,

    No, there really are people who are born without the capacity of compassion and empathy. They can learn to mimic it and live by the laws but it needs therapy and people who catch that there is a problem early enough.

    It’s actually problematic that people immediately jump to the conclusion that the parents did a poor job, because it leads to people not getting adequate help. It also leads to parents not seeking help because they think they just need to be better at parenting when that’s often not going to change all that much.

    some_guy ,

    Everything said above can be true in parts or at the same time. Obviously, this kid had access to a gun and shouldn’t have. Likely, the kid has other problems at home. Possibly, the kid has a neurological divergence that hadn’t been fully investigated.

    Fuck the parent for not securing the gun. Fuck the school for not showing more caution. Fuck the teacher for getting shot… wait… (/s on the last one, of course)

    But also, how can a kindergartener choke an adult to the point they can’t breathe? I’d think anyone who isn’t elderly could throw a child that age. I probably don’t have all the facts about that.

    poppy ,

    But also, how can a kindergartener choke an adult to the point they can’t breathe? I’d think anyone who isn’t elderly could throw a child that age.

    I wondered this too, and my only (weak) hypothesis is the teacher was too afraid to hurt the child in return before they realized how serious it was going to get. But I’m also not sure how little 5 year old hands would have the strength, unless they used a rope or other tool.

    Edit: the article does say the choked teacher is now retired, so they also could have been fairly old.

    ParsnipWitch ,

    But also, how can a kindergartener choke an adult to the point they can’t breathe?

    Because when you do not feel for other people you can go all in. Most people are not brutal and even unintentionally hold back against others. It is also really hard to defend against a child if you don’t want to hurt the child.

    My neighbours kid broke one of his mother’s fingers at an age before he went to school (so he must have been 7 years old max). If you do not want to seriously hurt a child, how do you defend yourself when they won’t let go?

    MonkRome ,

    Having actually worked around troubled youth and seen literally 100’s of children move through the system, I don’t think you could be more wrong than you are. Prior to working with troubled youth I assumed it was more like 50/50 environment/genetics. I’m completely convinced it’s almost entirely environmental. In nearly 100% of the cases I’ve seen troubled children, they had parents that were doing something profoundly wrong. Whether it be neglect, violence, sexual abuse, etc, there was always something extremely concerning. I think it is actually incredibly rare for a child to end up severely messed up without extreme “help” from the parents getting there.

    ParsnipWitch ,

    The problem with your anecdotal evidence is that what you experience can simply be the consequence of children only ending up in the system when they have a troublesome environment.

    havokdj ,

    And their adulthood

    BrianTheeBiscuiteer ,

    After the kindergarten incident the child should’ve been given a psychiatric evaluation. It is possible he’s got a “screw loose” but in the vast majority of cases like this you’ll find there’s violence in the home. The foster system sucks ass, but in this case rolling the dice probably would’ve led to a better outcome than leaving him in that home.

    Twink ,

    You’re incorrect. We are born immoral. Morality is learned. Children will torture small animals and each other unless they’re taught otherwise. It’s still a neglect to fail to teach them that.

    MonkRome ,

    Not sure I fully agree, humans are social animals and learn what behaviors are beneficial for both themselves and the group. You can point to specific things that run counter to this, but that doesn’t change what humans are. But it is a distinction without a difference. Either way it’s the environment the child is in that is eventuating a negative outcome.

    Bluescluestoothpaste ,

    None of that conflicts with the comment you replied to. You’re both correct.

    Midnight1938 ,

    Are you outing yourself?

    HerrLewakaas ,

    There are exceptions to every rule. Some kids are born evil, although you’re probably right that the parents suck too

    Bluescluestoothpaste ,

    True, but we have no idea if this child is a born psychopath or not. We do know they did something extremely depraved and were raised very poorly.

    iegod ,

    The earliest years are where the individual gains their fundamental personality. This kid is toast, no matter what kind of treatment or assistance they receive. They weren’t born this way, but they’re now done for.

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