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MushuChupacabra , to nostupidquestions in Should Lemmy have Karma?
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Upvotes and downvotes are nice in that they suggest that I’m not posting or commenting into the void.

I’m not overly interested in my grand total.

WFH , to askscience in How is the moon tidally locked?
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All the large moons in the solar system are tidally locked to their planet!

Pluto and Charon are tidally locked to each other!

The earth would eventually be tidally locked to the moon too, but because it’s happening so slowly, it wouldn’t happen before the sun turns into a red giant and engulf both!

Woozy ,

There is such a huge difference in the masses of the earth and moon that although the moon is slowing the rotation of the earth, the earth’s rotation is also speeding up the moon’s orbit. The faster orbit is causing the moon to move farther away from the earth.

Zak , to nostupidquestions in Should Lemmy have Karma?
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I don’t think it necessarily needs karma like Reddit, but I think a reputation system of some sort is going to be required for open federation to remain viable as federated systems grow. Just looking at account age and post history isn’t good enough if the bad actor owns a server and wants to put some effort into spamming or harassing people.

Vaggumon , to nostupidquestions in What are 2000 employees doing at Reddit?
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I’d wager a lot of them are looking for new jobs. Those who aren’t are probably making dumpster s’mores.

Action_Bastid , to nostupidquestions in [ANSWERED] How long does it take your body to process and excrete gummy worms, and how to make it faster? [URGENT AND SERIOUS RESPONSE REQUIRED]
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Depending on how many gummy worms and their manner of entrance, they will potentially expedite themselves.

mizu6079 OP ,
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Five worms. They entered the body through the mouth.

AttackBunny ,

If recently, stick your fingers down your throat.

mizu6079 OP ,
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You know, that doesn’t seem like a bad idea. THANKS A LOT!

Action_Bastid ,
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Make sure to brush your teeth afterward and don’t make a habit of it. Acid damage will fuck your teeth up real good if you’re turning to this regularly.

TheCookieButter ,
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I feel like you’d want to rinse first, then after a short while brush when the enamel isn’t weakened.

Action_Bastid ,
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That’s probably the optimal play, yeah.

TragicNotCute ,
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Action_Bastid ,
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Oh interesting, so it seems like the actual winning play is to swish with water and a bit of toothpaste probably, since it contains a small amount of base to help negate the acid.

Based on the article, it’s the mechanical brushing part that makes it bad.

imnapr , to warframe in Guess that's it?
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Nah. I’m not going back. Even IF they walk back ALL of their bullshit, Reddit has proven to be utterly incompetent. And that is a BIG if in the first place.

ThaijsClan , to nostupidquestions in [ANSWERED] How long does it take your body to process and excrete gummy worms, and how to make it faster? [URGENT AND SERIOUS RESPONSE REQUIRED]

What is up with you man? First the asklemmy now here. I hope all is well?

mizu6079 OP ,
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I had been eating very little and avoiding fibres for 24 hours but someone offered some gummies and i somehow forgot about the whole thing 😭

WheresYourShoe ,

🤣🤣 This is most entertained I've been online in a long time, lol. I don't know what you're doing, and I hope you're taking care of yourself, but thank you for all the laughs.

match ,
@match@pawb.social avatar

when you’re trying to hold your poop for 3 days but someone offers you gummy worms

TragicNotCute ,
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I’m half convinced this is performance art. I just wonder what is next…

solidgrue , to nostupidquestions in [ANSWERED] How long does it take your body to process and excrete gummy worms, and how to make it faster? [URGENT AND SERIOUS RESPONSE REQUIRED]
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Gummies are pretty much just gelatin and sugar. You’re not gonna poop anything.

alerternate ,

The urgency makes me wonder if these gummys may have additional medicinal ingredients...

slicedcheesegremlin ,
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I hate that my first thought was the haribo sugar free gummy bear reviews and not weed gummies

LuckSquirrel ,

The sugar free one will make them poop.

iRyu ,

But are they allowed to poop?

sneakyninjapants , to asklemmy in r/The_Donald has been banned on Reddit, what's to stop those users turning Lemmy into what became of Voat?

Assuming they’re generally on the same instance ::cough EH cough:: others can just defederate if they want. Those that are harassing and spreading hate speech on mixed servers can be blocked, banned from communities, or the instance in question if egregious enough.

Edit: Am I resurrecting a 3 year old post rn?

https://sh.itjust.works/pictrs/image/2c02a7bd-56b6-4bd1-8db1-597d29ad0c9b.png

epyon22 ,

Just happened on sh.itjust.works and we booted them sh.itjust.works/post/381489

dizzy OP ,
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You are indeed resurrecting a 3 year old post haha!

Glad to see so many of you here now though!

MrShelbySan , to nostupidquestions in "Cis" and "trans" are different types of a person's.... what?
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Please note I’m typing this as a trans man. Being “cis” or “trans” stems from someone’s gender.

Basically, do you identify as your birth gender (not sex, gender and sex are different)? If the answer is yes, you are “cis”. If the answer is no, like I my case, I was born female, I identify as a male, then you are are trans.

I hope this answers your question.

GaryPonderosa ,

Shouldn’t it be that you identify with your birth sex? If gender is a social construct you don’t have a gender at birth. When the doctor says “It’s a boy” they’re referring to the genitalia you have, not assigning you a social position.

RustledTeapot ,
@RustledTeapot@kbin.social avatar

You might not believe in the social construct at birth, but the social construct believes in you. Children are treated differently based on assigned gender from birth.

GaryPonderosa ,

Now that I think about it, you’re right. If you’re a male, you get swaddled and handed to your mother, but if you’re female, you get swaddled and handed to your mother.

RustledTeapot ,
@RustledTeapot@kbin.social avatar

And either way, your mother starts treating you differently based on apparent sex.

https://psycnet.apa.org/buy/2005-02259-007

GaryPonderosa ,

When does your mother start treating you differently based on sex?

Awerenj ,
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Depending on the country, really really early. e.g. - in India its illegal to disclose the sex of the fetus to the parents/family because of high female infanticide.

In-laws, the father, and many times even the mother will want a son to carry on the family name instead of a daughter who will be married off to some other family (with the cost of marriage and dowry). And it was quiet common for the fetus to be aborted if it was female. The situation has improved a bit today, but gerl children are still treated very poorly is many parts of the country.

Of course, girls here are treated a million times better than trans folk here. 90% of them (hijra community) are beggars on the streets/trains.

StarManta ,

I’m sorry what? That is not a thing

GaryPonderosa ,

You’re right. No one has ever swaddled a baby, certainly not often enough that we have a specific word for it. It stands to reason no one has ever handed a baby to their mother either.

StarManta ,

I’m like 80% certain that you’re trolling and no one could be this thick, but just in case: I’m talking about the sex of the baby determining which parent the baby is handed to. That is what is not a thing.

Awerenj ,
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GaryPonderosa ,

…wikipedia.org/…/Literal_and_figurative_language

Since we’re just linking wikipedia articles that have nothing to do with the topic at hand.

Awerenj ,
@Awerenj@lemmy.world avatar

Explain to me how being killed at birth depending on sex is not a valid response to your completely incorrect and ignorant statement that babies are treated the same irrespective of sex.

GaryPonderosa ,

Explain to me how you saw a link covering literal and figurative language and still decided to ask such an ignorant question.

Awerenj ,
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So now you are just being a coward and claiming that you were just speaking figuratively while desperately trying to derail a conversation you were too ignorant to participate in?

Ok, I accept your concession.

WalrusDragonOnABike ,

Sex is also a social construct btw.

GaryPonderosa ,

No it’s not. Unless you’re suggesting you collectively thought my dick into existence.

WalrusDragonOnABike ,

Genitals aren't sex though. They are part of what society uses to create the category of sex. But sex is no more real than gender or race.

GaryPonderosa ,

Society does not create sex. Society creates gender. Gender is a social construct. Sex is an expression of your sex chromosomes. The genitalia you have at birth weren’t decided upon arbitrarily by everyone in the room, they’re a direct consequence of whether you have or lack a y chromosome.

WalrusDragonOnABike ,

Money is a social construct. That doesn't mean coins and dollar bills don't exist. Sex is made up by society. Genitals are a physical thing. But they're not the same thing. Just like coins and money are not the same thing.

GaryPonderosa ,

You’re confusing sex and gender. Sex is a function of biology. It is binary. There are two sexes, and which sex you are is wholly determined by presence or absence of a y chromosome.

Gender is a social construct.

This is the entire reason that the term transgender is used now instead of transsexual.

Also, your whole analogy is shit. The concept of money didn’t spring into existence because people already had coins. The coins spring forth from the concept of money. By your logic, we only have genitals because society got together and decided that we should all have a sex.

That is the stupidest idea I have ever heard in my life, and Ive read several tweets from Donald Trump.

WalrusDragonOnABike ,

Do you think sex didn't exist before 1912? It seems like you are confusing sex with the rough approximation of the shape of a chromosome and oversimplifying how those chromosomes relates to phenotype.

Trans people change their sex, not their gender. Trans men are men before they start taking T and trans women are women before they start taking E. What changes is their sex. Personally, I hope we see transgender replaced with something soon. Transsexual is fine as a subcategory of transgender people (or a category with lots of overlap with transgender people).

Social constructs don't all originate in the same way. If you want an example more like sex, you can look at the social construct of race. Race is not skin color, but the social construct is related to things like skin color. Just because race is a social construct doesn't mean skin color came after race.

GaryPonderosa ,

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  • clueless_stoner ,
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    Hello there! Please do not use this type of language, as it is not allowed and it will -normally- cause a ban. You can use the reporting function to help us moderate and do the work, and that way no one has to get upset fighthing.

    GaryPonderosa ,

    What language did I use? I can’t see my comment since it was removed.

    LadyAutumn ,
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    No, gender is a social construct and the doctor is assigning a gender to you when you are born based on what he sees as your genital configuration. This is then used to determine nearly everything about you through the social framework of gender.

    What colors you’re allowed to like, what games you can play, what names you can have, what words are acceptable to refer to you with, who you’re allowed to be friends with, what foods your supposed to like, what clothes you’re allowed to wear, how people should speak to you, how people should praise you, how people should scold you, whether or not misogyny should be applied to you, and so on and so forth.

    Those things are determined based on the gender you are assigned at birth. Those things are enforced across all society at all social levels and in all settings. Parents are the first people to enforce gender onto their children, intentionally or not. Then every single other adult and child they meet or interact with throughout their childhood will continue to enforce gender upon them until they themselves become adults and repeat the cycle with their own kids. Media perpetuates gender, government laws enforce gender, education systems are filled with people who systematically enforce gender upon children.

    Thats what we mean when we say gender is a social construct. And you’re assigned one at birth.

    GaryPonderosa ,

    No, sex is a biological characteristic and the doctor is describing your phenotypic sex based on observable characteristics. This really isn’t that complicated. There are two* combinations of chromosomes that determine sex, so there are two sexes. This is basic biology and has absolutely fuckall to do with gender as a social construct.

    • Really there are around a half dozen sex chromosome combinations because they occasionally get duplicated. Functionally there are two because all of the combinations except 1 have a y chromosome and are male
    LadyAutumn ,
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    Nope. They don’t even check your chromosomes when you’re born. There are also many possible genital configurations at birth. Odd that we don’t treat every one of those possibilities uniquely and instead force them to get surgery so the doctor can assign a gender to them. You’d think if it was all basic biology we would just have a unique gender for every one wouldn’t you?

    There are also many, many more possible configurations of your chromosomes than half a dozen lol. You can also have XY and be assigned female at birth. And vice versa.

    Your doctor is assigning you a gender. Thats what he’s doing. He calls you either a boy or a girl based on your genital configuration and then as I said in my previous comment that assigned gender goes on to affect every single aspect of your life for the rest of your life.

    You don’t seem to know what we’re even talking about. Sex is not binary and is not enshrined in biology. If we wanted to talk about biology, if the point was biology, if the doctor assigning genders to babies primary concern was biology, then he would assign a unique gender to every single possible genital configuration at birth. All of them would be unique. Instead he’s assigning you a gender so that society can treat you a certain way. It’s that simple.

    GaryPonderosa ,

    Is this some type of competition to see who can know the least about biology? Because you’re definitely acting like it’s a competition to know the least about biology. I think the walrus is still edging you out slightly. Maybe up your game a bit.

    We do have a unique gender for everyone, we just don’t have words for each specific position on the spectrum because it’s so variable. That’s why we have umbrella terms like nonbinary or gender fluid.

    Sex is binary. It is “enshrined in biology”. There are exactly two sexes. Female (x only) and male (x and y). The doctor classifies your phenotypic sex (what genitalia you have) at birth because it’s the same as your genotypic sex (whether you have a y chromosome) 99.99% (before you waste your time claiming it’s AkShEwAlLy 99.98%, Google hyperbole) of the time. You can be a genotype male and present as a phenotype female. Your sex in this case is male, but your doctor would have filled out your birth certificate as female.

    You just do not have any idea what you are talking about about but seem unwilling to let that stop you. It’s that simple.

    Imotali ,
    @Imotali@lemmy.world avatar

    Tell me you don’t understand biology and genetics without telling me you don’t understand biology and genetics. You’ve succeeded.

    GaryPonderosa ,

    Use a stupid meme to cover up your lack of point or even basic understanding without using a stupid meme to cover up your lack of point or even basic understanding.

    Spzi ,

    You’d think if it was all basic biology we would just have a unique gender for every one wouldn’t you?

    Nothing in biology is exactly identical between individuums. A common eye color is brown, although there are as many shades of brown as there are people.

    It is just practical and how language, or even perception works, that we tend to categorize similarities, and strongly favor common occurrances over outliers.

    the doctor is describing your phenotypic sex based on observable characteristics.

    Your doctor is assigning you a gender.

    Maybe you two aren’t even disagreeing?

    I’d say the doctor tries to assign the new born into male or female according to biological sex, and gender is inferred from that.

    He calls you either a boy or a girl based on your genital configuration

    Yes, that’s what I mean. A two-step process. First, biological expression is assessed. Next, based on #1, social gender is inferred.

    LadyAutumn ,
    @LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone avatar

    Youre right, we do just use language to describe things in a convenient manner that is not actually universally true. Do you think language just springs out of the ground or something? Humans make it. We make it socially. One might say we socially construct these concepts.

    Biological sex is not a thing. There are people with dicks and people with vaginas and people with neither and people with both and people with stuff that isn’t even classifiable in terms of the terms dick and vagina. Why is there not a sex for each possible genital configuration? Why not one for each possible chromosomal configuration? Because sex is a concept we as humans created that does not map 1 to 1 with biological reality. Biological sex is not a thing, there is biology and then there is the human made concept of sex. They are 2 different things.

    Your doctor assigns you a gender at birth. In most countries he is legally required to mark down one at the time of your birth. That gender is used for all the reasons I listed in a previous comment. Your mother then picks you up and affirms that gender assessment. From then on your gender is assigned until you yourself revoke it.

    Imotali ,
    @Imotali@lemmy.world avatar

    Sexing in humans isn’t phenotypic though. It is chromosomal.

    GaryPonderosa ,

    It’s both. Phenotyping sex is the common method of determining it because it’s really easy and it’s accurate enough in 99% of cases.

    Sexing through genotyping is 100% accurate, but it’s time consuming, comparatively expensive, and only relevant in a tiny handful of cases.

    Imotali ,
    @Imotali@lemmy.world avatar

    Phenotype doesn’t determine sex. It’s a function of it. You literally agreed with me on this.

    GaryPonderosa ,

    I’m terribly sorry that I’ve had to dumb down my point so far for people to understand it that you now think it’s yours.

    Good day.

    Imotali ,
    @Imotali@lemmy.world avatar

    If your point is that phenotype at all defines sex, you are objectively wrong. It is a function of sex. If your point is that phenotype is a reliable indicator of sexing in humans, you are also objectively wrong.

    GaryPonderosa ,

    I rest my case. I guess I can add wrong and objectively to the list of words you don’t know.

    Imotali ,
    @Imotali@lemmy.world avatar

    See now you’re both wrong and a prick.

    michikade , to nostupidquestions in "Cis" and "trans" are different types of a person's.... what?
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    Cisgender means the person has a gender identity that matches the sex they were assigned at birth.

    If you are a man and you were assigned male at birth, you are cis.

    If you are a man and you were assigned female at birth, you are trans.

    Non-binary can mean anything from not having a strong specifically male or female identity to closer to switching identities (bi-gender falls closer into this) to just having a lot of serious fluidity, but typically speaking at least part of the time the identity doesn’t match the assigned sex at birth.

    fubo , to nostupidquestions in "Cis" and "trans" are different types of a person's.... what?

    To a first approximation, they describe the match or mismatch between a person’s gender identity and their assigned gender at birth (AGAB).

    “Cis” = “my gender identity matches my assigned gender at birth”
    “Trans” = “my gender identity does not match my assigned gender at birth”

    The question being asked is, “Given that when you were born they thought of you as a (boy/girl); are you now expressing or experiencing a (male/female) gender, or a (female/male) one?”

    Logically speaking, this is an xor operation; it asks if two things are the same or different. If boolean variable a represents your AGAB and boolean variable b represents your gender identity, then “are you trans?” is a xor b — is your AGAB different from your gender identity?

    Again, this is to a first approximation. There are people who don’t fit binary labels, and so an xor operation on binary labels doesn’t fit them either.

    mcherm ,
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    I like the way you express this. “Cis / Trans” isn’t about your gender, it’s about whether your gender has CHANGED. (Although it may not be your GENDER that changed, but what people THOUGHT your gender was.)

    In a similar way, I (a cis male) usually call myself “straight”, but that’s not really accurate. I don’t feel like I’m attracted to whatever gender is different from mine (which happens to be women); I feel like I am attracted to women (which happens to be the gender that’s different from mine).

    Putting it differently, if some magical spell were to transform me into a woman, I don’t imagine that I would then be attracted to men, I imagine that I would be attracted to women. So instead of calling myself “straight”, I should probably be saying that I am “gynosexual” (attracted to women).

    Holyginz ,

    I really really love the way you phrased that. Just thought I would let you know. Bookmarking your comment as a discussion point for the future as well.

    mcherm ,
    @mcherm@lemmy.world avatar

    Thank you. It’s a thought that has been rolling around in my head for some time and this was my attempt to put it in words.

    FinnFooted , to nostupidquestions in "Cis" and "trans" are different types of a person's.... what?

    Cis and trans are terms that came before their application to gender identity. I learned themin organic chemistry in reference to chemical isomers.

    Wikipedia: The prefixes “cis” and “trans” are from Latin: “this side of” and “the other side of”, respectively.

    As applied to gender, “this side of” you are the gender of the sex you were born as. “The other side of” means you have switched your gender to the other side of the sex from which you were born.

    Edit: to answer your question more directly, your gender is cis or trans of the sex you were born as. The question you ask for is: “is your gender cis or trans of your sex?”

    BurntPunk ,

    This is the correct answer to the question that was asked by OP.

    Well said.

    iluminae , to selfhosted in Welcome to [email protected] - What do you selfhost?

    Ceph (rbd,s3) on 4 poweredges.

    Nomad, Consul servers running in a 3 node raft on some ARM SBCs.

    Nomad clients on 2 poweredges and 3 arm SBCs running:

    • s3 CSI (media and large file storage is all on s3)
    • rbd CSI (all the stateful jobs have rbd block devices)
    • NATS cluster with Jetstream to enable MQTT support
    • mosquito mqtt (had to run mosquito for mqtt v5)
    • mosquito<->nats bridge (via benthos)
    • nodered (just for easy Google home integration)
    • zwavejs2mqtt
    • zigbee2mqtt
    • frigate (can only talk mqtt v5 so had to run mosquito just for this)
    • grafana
    • gotify
    • gitea
    • drone CI
    • postgresql
    • BitTorrent client
    • ceph rgw s3 gateways
    • NATS based home automation lambdas - I wrote these in go
    • Adguard home
    • traefik as main ingress
    • Prometheus
    • prom node exporter
    • jellyfin
    • jackett
    • a program I wrote that manages torznab->acquisiton->s3 lifecycle
    • a website
    • wireguard servers

    And that is just in the server room - I also have more like the 3d printer and CNC machine controllers etc.

    TitanLaGrange , to nostupidquestions in "Cis" and "trans" are different types of a person's.... what?

    You can think of ‘cis’ and ‘trans’ as meaning roughly ‘this side’ and ‘other side’.

    In a gender context the ‘sides’ are male and female and the items are physical gender and mental gender. If both genders are on the same side, both on ‘this side’, that’s ‘cis’. If they are different, one ‘this side’, one ‘other side’, that’s ‘trans’.

    So, if the answer is “I am cis/trans” the question is “Is your mental gender the same as your physical gender?” “I am cis” then means “My mental gender is the same as my physical gender” and “I am trans” means “My mental gender is not the same as (or maybe ‘is opposite’) my physical gender”.

    Note that ‘physical gender’ is not always clear. Some people are born with ambiguous genitalia and may be surgically altered to make their genitalia more closely resemble the commonly recognized pattern for ‘male’ or ‘female’, and some may be left as-is. In some cases this can be a reason for a trans gender identity.

    Ertebolle ,

    You can think of 'cis' and 'trans' as meaning roughly 'this side' and 'other side'.

    Before “cisgender” became a widely publicized term, about the only time I ever heard the term “cis” was discussing Cisalpine versus Transalpine Gaul in ancient Rome. (Cisalpine Gaul being northern Italy and Transalpine Gaul southern France, more or less - the parts of Gaul that were on the same side or the opposite side of the Alps from Rome).

    IHeartBadCode ,
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    Chemistry. Cis-2-n-ene vs Trans-2-n-ene. First one is all carbons on the same side and the latter is carbons on opposite sides.

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