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smeg , to random
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Is there any value in pursuing a potential autism diagnosis as an adult, if a person gets along well enough in life and isn't interested in finding community?

theautisticcoach , to actuallyautistic
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Have you heard about the project that @LizShayne and I are working on?

We are now accepting submissions for an upcoming book of essays that explores the dynamic intersection between neurodiversity, Torah, and Judaism.

Our project aims to amplify the diverse voices within the Neurodistinct Jewish community, inviting contributors to share their personal narratives, insights, and reflections on how their unique ND perspectives shape their interactions with Torah and Jewish practices.

Neurodistinct can mean a number of things. While thought about primarily as autism and ADHD, it also includes Bipolar, Downs Syndrome, Tourettes, Dyslexia, Dyscalculia, and many more.

Submissions are encouraged from individuals who identify as ND and Jewish, offering a platform for authentic, diverse expressions that will be compiled into a thought-provoking book that explores the multifaceted connections between neurodivergence and Judaism. Jewish people from ALL denominations are encouraged to submit. NO ONE has a monopoly on Torah!

If you know anyone that may want to contribute or be interested in the project, please spread the word!

https://docs.google.com/forms/u/0/d/e/1FAIpQLSf2QeLAuo9l7LgosJx2fwghu8hfsOuztRN42XUR6PEWgecucA/viewform?usp=sharing

@mazeldon @actuallyautistic

DivergentDumpsterPhoenix , to actuallyautistic
@DivergentDumpsterPhoenix@disabled.social avatar

When services fail to make themselves accessible or helpful to minority groups, they have failed completely.

I think about mental health services in particular, both CAMHS and adult services, that constantly fail to support neurodivergent people.

@actuallyautistic @autisticadvocacy @audhd @neurodiversity

trollupsx , to actuallyautistic
@trollupsx@kinky.business avatar

Straight up: I’m a slut, submissive, service slave. I like being reminded of my place as a faggot. Indeed I revel in it. I am Autistic and have ADHD. All that said, there is this nuance between degradation and still being respected.

So I’m having this increasingly excited conversation. With a man I’d really like to be abused by in the very best ways. And then I get “oh so you’re autistic and retarded?”

Full. Stop. Buzkill. 🛑😡

I instantly blocked him. Right or wrong it took me to a very bad place. I might tolerate it once there was an understanding and trust but not right at the start. Sigh.

@actuallyautistic

essie_is_okay , to actuallyautistic
@essie_is_okay@aus.social avatar

I made this stir fry the other day and it tastes good but something about the noodle texture is a little off (I probably overcooked them), and because I'm so burnt out, I can't eat it.

The wherewithal to soldier through overcooked noodle texture is gone unfortunately. Maybe my mum will eat it. I don't like to waste food.

I really am so tired. I should just stick to safe foods. All I want is the easiest food.

@actuallyautistic

KitMuse , to actuallyautistic
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I'm going to throw this out there and it may sound a bit controversial, but keep in mind I have nearly 20 years's experience as an entrepreneur. Is there ANYONE who works with business owners or business owners who don't just regurgitate the same allistic/neurotypical "marketing advice" that's sold all over the groups and "free offers"? Because I'm not seeing anyone doing anything different from the NTs. @actuallyautistic @actuallyautistics

dricibone ,
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@KitMuse @actuallyautistic @actuallyautistics Whoa. Hey! That's exactly what I have been thinking about. In your experience, where are the biggest problems/gaps for and business owners in what's out there?

johnnyprofane1 , to actuallyadhd
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Tentative title, "Disabled Warrior".

Tentative podcast title, "Actually Autistic? Whatever Doesn't Kill Your Neurodivergent Ass..."

But I need my wife;s input before I get too married to it....

The nice thing about digital art is it never has to be finished. On this one I got too deep into the image. There's a lot going on you can't see cuz the midtones are too dark...

The non-gendered warrior SHOULD be creating themself (to coin language) out of and battling dark chaos, a bright spark headed toward a dim light... they never know if there's a goal...

Plus they wear a blindfold like Lady Liberty.

In the chaos behind them are dim objects of adversity... chains, car wreck, wheel chair, a fallen dove... others I probably forget ...

Working on the post...

@actuallyautistic @actuallyadhd @actuallyautistics

"Friedrich Nietzsche Ist Untoter..." A fantasy 19th-centure book illustration of Friedrich Nietzsche, vandalized by a bright red grafitti x. Next to his name, Friedrich Neitzche in the book plate, black spray-painted grafitti reads "ist untoter..."

DivergentDumpsterPhoenix , to audhd
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It's a good thing when more people get their diagnosis. It validates their struggle and increases the chance of them finding Autistic spaces.

While we should work towards a world where diagnosis is not required, we need to recognise that people without a diagnosis struggle a lot.

https://emergentdivergence.com/2023/11/23/is-there-an-autism-epidemic/

https://emergentdivergence.com/2023/11/12/the-shocking-state-of-autism-diagnosis-in-the-uk/

@actuallyautistic @autisticadvocacy @audhd

theautisticcoach , to actuallyautistic
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Do you use the word "Neurodivergent"?

Why or why not?

Do you think it's ableist?

If you don't use it, what word do you use?

@actuallyautistic

timo21 ,
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@theautisticcoach @actuallyautistic I use because of the people that claim 'everyone' is on the spectrum have diluted and ruined the term. They did what NTs always do: diminish any attempt to show that some people are not weirdos, their brains just work differently.

NeurodivergentBC , to actuallyautistic
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Hello @actuallyautistic community! If you are on , you should join our Global Community ! We have a few text channels here and also want to do some in the future, so come join us! https://discord.gg/MuUUWUaNQu

DivergentDumpsterPhoenix , to audhd
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Here are the top ten articles of 2023 collated and made into an anthology eBook. With contributions from Tanya Adkin ND Social Care & Family Services and Katie Munday Autistic and living the dream! The best part is it's free! Let Everyone know!

On another note, if anyone knows how I can distribute an EPUB version for free, please let me know!
https://emergentdivergence.com/product/2023-year-in-review-pdf-david-gray-hammond-tanya-adkin-and-katie-munday/

@actuallyautistic @autisticadvocacy @audhd

KitMuse , to actuallyautistic
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Autistic special interests/stimming as seen "in the wild" (of our SUV 😂 )

Spouse: 130
Me: Ooh, what a pretty gray. Of course a young amish man has a flashy horse.
Spouse: What? I was counting train cars.
Me: And I was looking at the horse on that Amish cart. It's a gray, so that's flashy for the Amish.

(Ironically we were on the drive home from the first of two testing days to see if I can get my official DX)

@actuallyautistic

theautisticcoach , to actuallyadhd
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We (@LizShayne, Simcha Weinstein, and myself) are thrilled to announce that we are now accepting submissions for an upcoming book of essay collections that explores the dynamic intersection between neurodivergence, Torah, and Judaism.

This groundbreaking project aims to amplify the diverse voices within the Jewish community, inviting contributors to share their personal narratives, insights, and reflections on how their unique neurodivergent perspectives shape their interactions with Torah and Jewish practices.

Submissions are encouraged from individuals who identify as neurodivergent and Jewish, offering a platform for authentic, diverse expressions that will be compiled into a thought-provoking book that explores the multifaceted connections between neurodivergence and Judaism.

(Soft) Deadline for Submissions, December 15.
Tell us about it in a proposal no more than 800 words.

https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSf2QeLAuo9l7LgosJx2fwghu8hfsOuztRN42XUR6PEWgecucA/viewform?usp=sharing

@actuallyautistic

@actuallyadhd

@mazeldon

@actuallyaudhd

DivergentDumpsterPhoenix , to actuallyautistic
@DivergentDumpsterPhoenix@disabled.social avatar

Autistic burnout is one of the greatest crises that an Autistic person can face.

People often think of it as similar to depression, but it can take many diverse forms.

what does burnout look like for you?

@actuallyautistic @autisticadvocacy @audhd

theautisticcoach , to disabilityjustice
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The French State under Emmanuel Macron unveiled its new “plan” regarding and other humans yesterday.

More of the same. That is to say, NOTHING.

A huge 5 year plan about US, without any consultation, whatsoever, with US.

Anyone who knows the French State knows the HUNDREDS, if not THOUSANDS of hours that went into useless meetings to create this plan. The involvement of THOUSANDS of bureaucrats and “consultants”.

Yet, the result is more ableism. More silencing of autistic voices. More oppression.

Where did the 500M+ euros go for the LAST 5 year plan? Nowhere. Into the hands of private companies who seek to profit via the oppression of autistic bodies.

Where will the 600M+ go now?

Shameful.

The Republic has actual autistic advocates and experts living just steps from the Élysée Palace. Organizations that fight for our rights like
@CLE_Autistes
. None of us were consulted.

Who was consulted? Parents groups. Autism groups led and run by non-autistic people. Companies which exist to earn money from the State and autistic people on our backs and commodifying our bodies.

According to the “new and groundbreaking” plan, autistic adults will receive free support groups (weren’t we already meant to be getting support groups under the last plan?). Said groups are led by non-autistic people who actively promote the pathology paradigm of autism, which is rejected by the vast majority of autistic adults. Not an improvement.

It will allow certain autistic adults currently institutionalized to live outside and go work. Cute. As if that is a progressive idea!

What about support for those of us who want a career? A meaningful one? What about support for those of us who cannot work but also do not want to be institutionalized and removed from society, our friends, and families?

What about support for those of us who do work with need help with day to day things? What about support during autistic burnout?

Nothing.

Oh, and the Marianne eugenics project continues on!

France continues to show itself to be unserious and performative when it comes to the civil and human rights of autistic people. Our humanity today, as yesterday, has been denied by those who purport to support us.

Shameful and disgraceful.

@actuallyautistic @disabilityjustice

https://informations.handicap.fr/a-strategie-tnd-2023-2027-enfin-devoilee-tous-mesures-35859.php

haui , to actuallyautistic

@actuallyautistic @neurodivergent

I uploaded a new video to my . I‘m and touring the minecraft server that I made specifically for people in 2020.

Please check it out and leave me a comment if you like. https://peertube.giftedmc.com/w/nxjY5cBb2uBke7xowzbRqD

If you want to know more, read the video description. :)

servelan , to actuallyautistic
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DivergentDumpsterPhoenix , to actuallyautistic
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The 99p offer for "The New Normal" has now finished, but if you missed out, don't worry!

"Unusual Medcine" is now available for the same price on the UK Kindle store!

Unusual Medicine: Essays on Autistic identity and drug addiction https://amzn.eu/d/6Qvlji1

@actuallyautistic @autisticadvocacy @audhd @bookstodon

sebwhatever , (edited ) to actuallyautistic
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Hi, I'm Seb. I'm in my mid-forties and self-realized as this past Summer. Probably also , but I'm not there yet.

I'd love to connect with other individuals and chat it up.

@actuallyautistic

theautisticcoach , to actuallyautistic
@theautisticcoach@neurodifferent.me avatar

CALLING ALL NEURODIVERGENT TORAH NERDS

I am the co-editor of a forthcoming essay collection about how neurodivergent Jews interact with Torah and Judaism and we are currently accepting submissions. The essays will be published in a book and authors will be compensated.

Divrei Torah, personal experiences, visions for a brighter future, and everything in between are welcome!

At this stage we are taking proposals for articles to be included. Have a great idea that you’re passionate about writing about? Tell us about it in a proposals no more than 800 words.

Message me privately or send me a message via my website for more information.

@mazeldon @actuallyautistic

theautisticcoach , to actuallyautistic
@theautisticcoach@neurodifferent.me avatar

CALLING ALL JEWISH TORAH NERDS

I am the co-editor of a forthcoming essay collection entitled NEURODIVERGENT TORAH and we are currently accepting submissions of up to 7,000 words.

What is Neurodivergent Torah? You tell us. Divrei Torah, personal experiences, visions for a brighter future, and everything in between are welcome!

Message me privately or send me a message via my website for more information.

@mazeldon @actuallyautistic

DivergentDumpsterPhoenix , to actuallyautistic
@DivergentDumpsterPhoenix@disabled.social avatar

Stability in recovery requires more than abstinence. It requires support in all domains of life.

Autistic people, in particular, are more likely to struggle with social deprivation, and for us to achieve recovery and/or sobriety, we need support that takes account of the unique challenges that we face.

@actuallyautistic @autisticadvocacy @audhd

johnnyprofane1 , to actuallyadhd
@johnnyprofane1@neurodifferent.me avatar

readers!

"Night this Autistic Adult Broke Free: An Halloween Tale"

Proud to be published in Artfully Autistic.

I was home. And these were my peeps…

@actuallyautistic @actuallyadhd

🎃 https://link.medium.com/xPuRuUSLoEb

DivergentDumpsterPhoenix , to actuallyautistic
@DivergentDumpsterPhoenix@disabled.social avatar

During the holidays, we often end up spending a lot of time with family.

It'd okay to say no to family.

It's okay to stay away from family.

It's okay to engage with family on your own terms.

No one should expect you to fit into their worldview of what family should be.

@actuallyautistic @autisticadvocacy @audhd

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