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Outsourcing emotion: The horror of Google’s “Dear Sydney” AI ad | The company suggests using AI to write a child’s fan letter and the ad is so bad that Google turned off comments for it on YouTube

If you’ve watched any Olympics coverage this week, you’ve likely been confronted with an ad for Google’s Gemini AI called “Dear Sydney.” In it, a proud father seeks help writing a letter on behalf of his daughter, who is an aspiring runner and superfan of world-record-holding hurdler Sydney McLaughlin-Levrone.

“I’m pretty good with words, but this has to be just right,” the father intones before asking Gemini to “Help my daughter write a letter telling Sydney how inspiring she is…” Gemini dutifully responds with a draft letter in which the LLM tells the runner, on behalf of the daughter, that she wants to be “just like you.”

I think the most offensive thing about the ad is what it implies about the kinds of human tasks Google sees AI replacing. Rather than using LLMs to automate tedious busywork or difficult research questions, “Dear Sydney” presents a world where Gemini can help us offload a heartwarming shared moment of connection with our children.

Inserting Gemini into a child’s heartfelt request for parental help makes it seem like the parent in question is offloading their responsibilities to a computer in the coldest, most sterile way possible. More than that, it comes across as an attempt to avoid an opportunity to bond with a child over a shared interest in a creative way.

theneverfox ,
@theneverfox@pawb.social avatar

Idk, I mean I think this is more honest and practical LLM advertising than what we’ve seen before

I like to say AI is good at what I’m bad at. I’m bad at writing emails, putting my emotions out there (unless I’m sleep deprived up to the point I’m past self consciousness), and advocating for my work. LLMs do what takes me hours in a few seconds, even running locally on my modest hardware.

AI will not replace workers without significant qualitative advancements… It can sure as hell smooth the edges in my own life

bitwaba ,

“Dear Sydney” presents a world where Gemini can help us offload a heartwarming shared moment of connection with our children.

This is the problem I’ve had with the LLM announcements when they first came out. One of their favorite examples is writing a Thank You note.

The whole point of a Thank You note is that you didn’t have to write it, but you took time out of your day anyways to find your own words to thank someone.

captain_aggravated ,
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0laura ,
@0laura@lemmy.world avatar

reminds me of that bear from inside job

RogueBanana ,

New movie just dropped Violet evergarden: Gemini’s dream

KomfortablesKissen ,

Okay, but what if I can’t put my feelings into words? If even LLMs have a better grip on human emotion than me?

Edit: Well, then I wouldn’t have a daughter in the first place; and I don’t. Yay?

lowleveldata ,

this has to be just right

And then he couldn’t even bother to choose the words himself

Mnemnosyne ,

It’s not implying he can’t be bothered, but that the machine can do a better job.

…which may be true, depending on just how bad he is at writing. Like, I was just watching this classic the other day. If this guy writes like some of those people, the machine may infact be better.

That said, for most people it’s stupid, and the tech isn’t able to do a better job at expressing such things.

Yet.

ealoe ,

I saw a similar ad in theaters this week, it started by asking Gemini to write a breakup letter and I thought my friend next to me was going to cry because she’s going through a breakup but then right at the end it goes “…to my old phone, because the Pixel 9 is just so cool!”

Gemini is awesome, I use it all the time for applied algebra and coding but using it to replace human emotions is not awesome. Google can do better

BigPotato ,

I said all these things to my partner when I saw the ad as well.

I’ve spent more time helping my kid write Steam reviews of the games they’re playing than this Dad did on writing a letter to his daughter’s hero.

Simple as. Don’t be surprised when the kid puts you in a crappy home to afford more Gemini credit or whatever.

Leate_Wonceslace ,
@Leate_Wonceslace@lemmy.dbzer0.com avatar

Okay. I’m a transhumanist. I like AI, automation, and the abolishment of involuntary labor as well as obligatory adversity. Even I thought this ad was super fucking creepy. How the fuck do you justify sending your daughter an auto-generated letter? Now, not only do you not care enough to do it yourself, you’re lying to her about it.

festus ,

Other way around - the AI is writing a letter “from” the daughter to be sent to the athlete. Still BS though, and I’m sure famous people just love getting spam fan mail where the person couldn’t be bothered to draft it themself.

Leate_Wonceslace ,
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I was remembering an ad that I saw yesterday(?), so either I mis-remembered, mis-understood, or mistook the ad mentioned in the article for the one I saw.

Regardless, ty for letting me know.

CrowAirbrush ,

If i look around me, the people have stopped caring and been lying about it for years.

Either Google knows it’s audience, or the ad was sent to the wrong crowd.

Imgonnatrythis ,

That’s not fan mail. That’s spam.

CarbonatedPastaSauce ,

Once you realize that everyone that works in marketing is a soulless demon, the world starts to make a lot more sense.

pineapplelover ,

It’s like the South Park episode about using chatgpt to message their SO

blanketswithsmallpox ,

Was kinda suprised I forgot about this one lol. Such a great episode.

Evotech ,
DScratch ,
p5yk0t1km1r4ge , (edited )
@p5yk0t1km1r4ge@lemmy.world avatar

I think AI is great, but not for this. It’s much better suited for, say, stuff like AI dungeon, or other entertainment (DougDoug on twitch/YouTube is the perfect example).

mctoasterson ,

Glad to see others have also keyed in on just how lame this ad was.

My immediate thought was, if you (the guy doing the voiceover as the father) are so mentally deficient that you can’t even put together a four sentence paragraph of your own original thoughts for fanmail, then what hope do you have of doing anything else as a functioning adult?

Worse yet, what does this teach the kid?

barsquid ,

It should be like a core memory for the kid to do this with her dad. It’s like having an LLM to play catch or do tea parties with her.

KairuByte ,
@KairuByte@lemmy.dbzer0.com avatar

You… you joke, but I know a few parents who would absolutely fail at something like this. Hell, they fail at basic math, and are barely literate.

I’m not saying this is a great idea for everyone, or that the ad is good. But the idea that “no one needs this” is extremely short sighted. Hell, the literacy rate in America alone isn’t even 95%, and over 50% of Americans aren’t proficient in English.

Again. This ad sucks for lots of reasons. But don’t pretend idiots can’t make it through adulthood, never mind become parents. The idiots are usually the ones with the most kids.

Angry_Autist ,

It teaches the kid to rely more and more on AI for everything, just like Google wants.

They’re already ‘thanking’ siri and alexa, this will be a very dangerous development.

habitualcynic ,
Angry_Autist ,

Roko’s basilisk is kind of bullshit but the meme is funny.

0laura ,
@0laura@lemmy.world avatar

rokos basilisk is the most stupidest thing and I hate it so much. it’s so obviously just plain wrong. it’s just wrong. it’s not even an interpretation thing. most stupidest and insane and useless idea ever.

edit: I’m still mad at that one YouTuber that did a video about rokos basilisk pretending it made even a little bit of sense.

webghost0101 ,

Thanking a personified character doesn’t strike me as a bad thing.

Surely theres a more positive perspective where people are just naturally polite in their words and would struggle to communicate differently to a language bot.

Angry_Autist ,

It’s pretty frustrating how the venn diagram of ‘people who treat people like things’, and ‘people who treat things like people’ is a near circle.

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