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Alfiegerner , in Mmmmmm

Well there goes this community from my front page.

Titan , in Abe-sama gives advice

Anything except bringing in immigrants

CIWS-30 ,

That only works for 1 or 2 generations, when the immigrants' descendants find out what the pre-existing citizenry already has found out: that it's too expensive and difficult to have children, particularly when you're overworked all the time.

Plus, immigrants are usually only brought in for jobs that are shittier, harder, lower-paying, and with fewer benefits than the current population of native born citizens already have.

I'm a children of immigrants in the USA who is childless (hell, most of my cousins are too) and I live around immigrants of every nationality, and most either want to wait until 30 to have kids (and generally only like 1 kid at that) or want to have no kids.

It's like that in a lot of western nations with birthrate problems. It doesn't take long for new people to start acting like the old people if the conditions are bad enough, and they are.

worfamerryman ,

My wife and I are just kinda sorta getting to a place where we could consider having a kid. But we are getting a little old to have a kid.

Also, a kid at this point would tank out ability to save and slow down our career progress.

So by the time people get to a financial place to have a kid, they are too old to do it. Or they have to sacrifice too much.

Titan ,

Same. We’re just gonna adopt once things slow down a bit and we feel ready

worfamerryman ,

My sister-in-law want her first child to be adopted and if she decides for a second one she will possibly have her own.

I think my wife and I decided to stay kid free, but we will be a big part of our niece and nephews life.

Kaped OP ,

You’ll be old when you’re dead. Go have a kids and teach them everything you know

worfamerryman ,

I mean like we are biologically getting too old to have kids.

thisisnotgoingwell ,

I don’t know if this will change your mind, but I think people exaggerate how difficult it is to have a kid. It’s pretty hard for the first year, but it gets easier. I had my son when I was 19. I haven’t thought about having another until recently, my son is 9 now, so it’s been 10 years or so. It’s a pretty big sacrifice at first but it does get easier with time… Then they got school and after school activities. I spend a lot of time with my son and enjoy spending time with him, so it’s not like it’s a drain. I also managed to get a solid career without a college degree by wit and effort. People who weren’t going to accomplish anything with their lives love to blame their children for their own shortcomings. I’m not saying it wasn’t without sacrifice, but don’t listen to naysayers. A child is not the end of the world.

Titan ,

That’s why you take a steady stream. Also, the culture changes, hopefully for the good, as immigrants bring in new perspectives

thisisnotgoingwell ,

I don’t think that people having children in their 30s is a bad thing. In fact, there’s a lot of misconceptions about when a woman should have a child, and it’s safe to have children even into your 40s. I think young women don’t want to start birthing kids in early adulthood when there isn’t a strong family support system in their life. Also, to be honest, most people are still trying to figure out so much about who they are and what they want in their 20s, I’d rather see more people waiting to have kids than people having kids without a thought of how they’re going to provide

NoneOfUrBusiness ,

I mean that's definitely the best move in the short term, but they still need to cultivate an environment that encourages having children.

Titan ,

True. People have barely any time to build a family

csolisr ,

Abe’s push for native births over integration of foreigners always struck me as deeply racist. Especially knowing the background reasons why birth rates are so low.

Titan ,

Yeah he is right wing afterall.

What are the background reasons for low birthrate?

csolisr ,

Low salaries and culturally long working hours, plus the cultural tradition for women to abandon their jobs to take care of their children (which they can’t afford to do in this economy, so most just postpone child rearing)

rostby , in Gasps

Ed sharron

rostby , in a classic

Ahhhhhhh, wireeeee

isVeryLoud , in So happy this is something we left behind (mostly)

I also choose this guy’s dead wife

Cyberwitch_7493 ,
@Cyberwitch_7493@lemmy.dbzer0.com avatar

Based

Rai ,

This

queermunist , in Build up to the greatest hits
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Just do what I do and take spiro! You’ll never cum too fast ever again 👍

Sylver , in a classic

Those bastards lied to me!

Venus , in I love democracy
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I’ve always thought this would be a great idea. Play everything 100% straight but the actors are completely miscast. Give me Terry Crews as Snow White and I’ll actually go see a movie for the first time in like 10 years

luthis ,

I’d totally see it if it was 100% serious, except it’s Terry as Snow White.

Serpardum , in I love democracy

You mean Snowey McSbowface?

ripened_avacado , in Their tears are my fuel

Jokes on you. My nephew beats me every time in Mario kart.

TiphaineRupa ,

Yeah same here. He’s 11 now and beats me in Mario kart and most recently in smash as well (the latter is especially depressing QQ)

stu , in Dream
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Who is Dream and, more particularly, what’s the connection to those sneakers?

X3N0T1CT OP ,
@X3N0T1CT@thelemmy.club avatar

wow lemmy really is a remote island ecosystem with no natural predators

SharkEatingBreakfast ,
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Must be nice, tbh.

Maybe we should leave them blissful and free? Not spread disease in the colony?

southsamurai ,
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A fucking youtube idiot that went skanky. Well, a twitch streamer first, I think, I was never into that shit. But got popular for a YouTube Minecraft series.

Ostensibly, the twit did gaming stuff. There were accusations of cheating speedruns and such along the way.

He also had some drama with a girlfriend, and has a reputation for creeping on people far younger than should be crept on. I’ve actually seen screenshots of the creeper shit, from people irl that have no reason to fake screenshots.

Hence the predator connection to the shoes. He’s a predator born in 99.

stu ,
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I really appreciate this response, I have basically no interest in spending time watching other people play games when I don’t even have time to play them myself very often. As a result, I have no idea who the celebs are in this realm of culture, so thank you for getting me up to speed!

finickydesert , in OMG
@finickydesert@lemmy.ml avatar

Seen it happen a few times

Alexxxolotl , in So happy this is something we left behind (mostly)
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God this comment section is giving me a headache. Well done, folks.

altima_neo ,
@altima_neo@lemmy.zip avatar

This

Lucidlethargy , in "I have 3 kids and no money... Why can't I have no kids and 3 money?"

Sir, Bio Dome is a national treasure.

user224 , in Ope

Is that based on true events?

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