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Aggravationstation ,

Ooh, I’m a cash cow apparently.

But seriously, are there really women who talk about men in those terms?

QuazarOmega ,

If I can’t be a milk cow, then at least let me be a cash cow

riskable ,
@riskable@programming.dev avatar

Cash Cow

NegativeLookBehind ,
@NegativeLookBehind@lemmy.world avatar

How did you find a picture of me?

Barbarian ,
@Barbarian@sh.itjust.works avatar

But seriously, are there really women who talk about men in those terms?

Yes. Personally, I see it as the mirror image of the “tradwife” thing where toxic men see their partner as a subservient maid. Seeing men as primarily an income source comes from a similar place imho.

Tyfud ,

These two groups deserve each other.

SteveFromMySpace ,

Matches for men who talk about women in those terms

andrew_bidlaw ,
@andrew_bidlaw@sh.itjust.works avatar

Yeah, and we shouldn’t suppose women can’t degrade as much as men, that’s unfair. r/femaledatingstrategy had an overblown fame for being a femcel den before it got banned, you can read on them in the media. But you can discover more than that on chan-boards, as they are probably the origin of a lingvo natural to this discourse. Just like with in incels, there’s a typology of women and men adapted to biological and social context a typical ciswoman is in.

As for IRL, I’ve heard such terms only as a joke, but that means there’s some penetration into higher net.

psmgx ,

Every gold digger ever. Books about it, subreddits. You been living under a rock? Literally, good how to marry a rich man, and there will be digital or printed guidebooks

fmstrat ,

You have never opened the box of “Female Dating Strategy”. Welcome to the world of “low value males”

Aggravationstation ,

Aww yea. Sounds like some rough femcel horse shit right there.

Got_Bent ,

Just looked through some of that stuff. Holy hell, it would be easier to be seen as without sin through the eyes of an angry old testament God than it would be to be seen as worthy of dating from that crowd. And that’s fine, because I would want less than zero to do with it.

(Assuming it’s real. Who knows? Could be a bunch of neckbeards cosplaying, but if I’ve learned anything in life, it’s that there are shitty shitty men in this world, and that there are equally shitty shitty women in this world)

01011 ,

You have been sleep walking through life…

LustyArgonianMana , (edited )
@LustyArgonianMana@lemmy.world avatar

Lol this whole thread is so funny to me, as someone who regularly dates millionaires.

Ya’ll are not a cash cow. Don’t worry, real gold diggers go after gold. You’re safe from gold diggers. That of course does not make you immune from financial abuse but that’s different than gold digging.

Second, these dating forums are all roleplay. There’s a pretty big chance those are men role-playing as the greedy women of their stupid nightmares. No woman ever gets in proximity to a man only based on money. The idea is laughable to women. Even full service sex workers decline men and have actual correspondences with each other blacklisting men in the area to keep everyone safe. No woman ONLY cares about the money. They can’t afford to. However, men engaging with other men think like that because they don’t have to worry about the risk of violence as much. That’s why I think this is probably roleplay.

Third, I hear men talking about their potential future wives like this all the time, including financially, if they’d date a fat girl, if they’d date a girl who doesn’t do oral, etc etc etc. Even if women are doing this, men do it too (and i bet you never called it out). Marriage is a contract that ties finances together so it matters. Personally, I’m never getting married but for those who do, it can really affect their ability to get housing or other stuff. It’s a sad feature of capitalism.

And yes, capitalists gain a lot from this structure. They fish for sex workers in every industry, including modeling. This causes women to br traded like commodities and so the most valuable women per their standards they can eugenics into their line, will be the one they marry. A lot of men’s attraction for women is just based on how valuable she is as a human commodity. This is why “objectification” gets brought up so much.

youtu.be/3n-yU_BpA4M?si=-CwuVC_45nn5vKUD

Last, the above is the attitude of real gold diggers, which is open and frankly discussed with their actual source of gold. It is not financial abuse and to be clear financial abuse is wrong - it is instead a negotiation so that she can live at the same comfort level as him and enjoy her life. No rich man is confused about this. Most would be kinda embarrassed to not take care of her, like going to a fancy restaurant and she orders a small appetizer+water in her budget while he gets a wine tasting and a steak just makes him look bad. That’s how I know none of you are actually near this lifestyle, because you don’t innately understand this.

Again, I am not getting married, I’m never having kids, and I’m poly; I demand these aspects specifically to bypass the interpersonal dynamic of me being treated as a commodity, and instead this forces my partners and myself to love in the moment, to actively choose each other, and to give resources freely and not coerced through a contract.

veganpizza69 ,
@veganpizza69@lemmy.world avatar

The “trad wives” (traditionalist / paleoconservative middle class women who believe that their religion is good for women) are looking for a husband in the traditional sense, a type of business owner / patriarch who owns them and provides for them; see: husbandry. That’s so that they can produce a lot of offspring while pretending that raising kids in near or full homeschooling is a good thing and she’s very successful (culturally).

They’re the homologues of incels and traditionalist bros who want to be rich so that they maintain some informal harem. And they deserve each other.

AllNewTypeFace ,
@AllNewTypeFace@leminal.space avatar

If “he” uses Linux, there’s probably something xe/xey isn’t telling you.

TwoBeeSan ,

Check their Amazon history for socks

user224 ,
@user224@lemmy.sdf.org avatar

Oh, come on, that’s just mandatory equipment for ThinkPad usage*

^*(if^ ^running^ ^GNU+Linux)^

BuboScandiacus ,
@BuboScandiacus@mander.xyz avatar

Xe/xey ?

Him: https://mander.xyz/pictrs/image/36234c02-7973-4cca-a3e6-7e8a93ed5869.png ?

grue ,

If the pronoun choice is “xe/xey” instead of “per/pers” do they even GNU?

Vilian ,

Maybe they use Alpine

sic_semper_tyrannis ,

😂

JohnOliver , (edited )

Dear linux users. Is it a red flag if she is active in a Catholic Dating group?

Edit:. and that she is still on reddit?

dogsnest ,
@dogsnest@lemmy.world avatar

The ‘she’ part works for me!

noride ,

Why would they need to date anyway? That’s just questioning God’s Plan for them.

saltesc ,

It’s God’s way of training them for their true partner. Free will and all that. Now kisth.

JohnOliver ,

God works in mysterious ways. Maybe their one and only, doesnt even use an iphone!

SteveFromMySpace ,

Definitely Reddit.

freeman ,

Blazing red flag.

30p87 ,

Yes. We only accept our true gods and leaders here: Linus, Richard, Tux and Xenia.

mryessir ,

You mean Xena, right?

AlligatorBlizzard ,

Probably not.

mryessir ,

Oh. TIL. This fox is cute as well :)

veganpizza69 ,
@veganpizza69@lemmy.world avatar

Run

jeena ,
@jeena@piefed.jeena.net avatar

Wait, this is why she chose me?

0x4E4F OP ,
@0x4E4F@sh.itjust.works avatar

I actually know this for a fact.

Too bad for her I don’t make a lot of money 🤷.

aberrate_junior_beatnik ,

Marrying Linux nerds never goes wrong

dogsnest ,
@dogsnest@lemmy.world avatar

Should have defragged first.

Routhinator ,
@Routhinator@startrek.website avatar

Oh that’s what happened to RieserFS

grue ,

An object lesson in bus factor.

14th_cylon ,

In a confession Aug. 21, however, Reiser said he used “the most unsophisticated chokehold that any judo instructor would completely despise you for ever using,” according to a 30-page transcript obtained by The Chronicle

I probably shouldn’t laugh, but… :D

snooggums ,
@snooggums@midwest.social avatar

At least he critiqued his own work instead of assuming it was the best thing ever.

deegeese ,

It’s a narcissistic attempt to diminish his culpability by saying it was a weak attack without special training.

Compare with “I barely even touched her!”

Geometrinen_Gepardi ,

https://sopuli.xyz/pictrs/image/56b1fda3-1227-4f2e-8239-e30e1e375790.webp

dogsnest ,
@dogsnest@lemmy.world avatar

True Catholics use Slackware.

AllNewTypeFace ,
@AllNewTypeFace@leminal.space avatar

You’re thinking of a different denomination

dogsnest ,
@dogsnest@lemmy.world avatar

Bob Dobbs approves.

mathemachristian ,

NotAnIncel LARPing

SteveFromMySpace ,

“Nerds don’t cheat” lmfao

cheddar ,
@cheddar@programming.dev avatar

That person should’ve seen how much gold I farmed in WoW using my Honorbuddy bot!

psmgx ,

The messiest polycule breakup / explosion was a bunch of autistic IT workers around the DC area. Sub Dom drama plus one dude fucked his pesudo-girlfriends sister.

I’d just got back from working overseas and was renting a room in their house. Just kinda watching the whole thing burn. While getting back to normal.

LustyArgonianMana ,
@LustyArgonianMana@lemmy.world avatar

Being poly doesn’t make relationships less real, how ignorant. She wasn’t a pseudogirlfriend. He was also a real piece of shit.

0x4E4F OP ,
@0x4E4F@sh.itjust.works avatar

Lol 🤣, wtf 🤣🤣🤣.

Rolando ,

Waifus don’t count to normies.

LustyArgonianMana ,
@LustyArgonianMana@lemmy.world avatar

SpongeBob and Ariana Grande are exhibit A

the_toast_is_gone ,

I’m 99% sure that they’re joking.

0x4E4F OP ,
@0x4E4F@sh.itjust.works avatar

You’d be surprised how people think.

Doom ,

Anyone involved in any of these sort of groups will either cheat, leave you financially ruined or are an actual emotional vampire

robinj1995 ,

Apparently, Catholic dating is all about money

Usually what they actually mean by “strong family values”

0x4E4F OP ,
@0x4E4F@sh.itjust.works avatar

Found out the hard way to be honest…

boredsquirrel ,
@boredsquirrel@slrpnk.net avatar

Nerds are like dogs it seems

snooggums ,
@snooggums@midwest.social avatar

My dog doesn’t make squat for income.

0x4E4F OP ,
@0x4E4F@sh.itjust.works avatar

Your dog doesn’t use Linux either.

boredsquirrel ,
@boredsquirrel@slrpnk.net avatar

Windows is Christianity

Apple is some strange cult

Linux is Nihilism

cetvrti_magi ,
@cetvrti_magi@lemmy.world avatar

Why is Linux Nihilism?

veganpizza69 ,
@veganpizza69@lemmy.world avatar

Why not?

0x4E4F OP ,
@0x4E4F@sh.itjust.works avatar

Because if you’re evolved enough to use Linux, you realize how shitty the human race is.

DavidGarcia ,

A good catholic man would use TempleOS

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