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Socsa ,

The bigger problem is everyone has kids already. But by 45 or so you can start looking for people with adult kids.

TubularTittyFrog ,

nobody has kids at that age in the urban coastal cities. i’m 40 i’ve never dated or met a single mother.

AA5B ,

I had my first kid at 40, which was on the later side but not at all unusual.

I came from a more rural area and occasionally here about people my age back there being grandparents already and just have to shake my head at those choices. It just doesn’t happen here

TubularTittyFrog ,

yeah i grew up rural and by mid twenties all my HS peers were married w/ kids or doing drugs/prison. I was in graduate school on the other side of the country at 25 and marriage kids was a decade away in my mind.

least to i haven’t been back there since i was 19 years old and never kept any HS friends.

lightnsfw ,

They must all be in the midwest…

BonesOfTheMoon ,

This is where I have massive respect for gay guys who just use Sniffies for outright hookups and sometimes don’t even bother to learn the other guy’s name. Listening to drag queen podcasts has taught me a lot, and that a sex life can be pretty straightforward for gay guys.

NikkiDimes ,

Meanwhile, gay women, 🦗🦗🦗

JackLSauce ,

Am I the only one having a stroke trying to understand:

“clears up again after the first wave of divorces (after 35?)”

TubularTittyFrog ,

yeah you are. it’s really easy to understand.

the pool was clear before people got married. it clears up again after the first wave of divorces. clear meaning ‘there are desirable people to date’

are you ESL?

Paradachshund ,

Not OP, but I think it’s fairly confusingly worded because clear implies empty, but the intent seems to be to imply lots of choices.

TubularTittyFrog ,

no. clear empties quality when it comes to water. clear as in transparent.

clear water is good, opaque water is dirty and unsafe.

you are thinking of clear in the sense of space, not water. clear space is empty.

Paradachshund ,

I understand what you’re saying and I still think it would be easy to be confused. It’s ok that you don’t think it is, this is just a second opinion.

smeenz ,

Clear, as in all the garbage has been cleared up, leaving the good stuff behind

Evil_Shrubbery , (edited )

I do not recognise the bodies in the water!!

No, wait, I do actually, that’s Steve, he died last week, I wonder how he got a movie part after that. Lucky.
Oh, and there is Shelly, looking sexy as ever.

… oh shit.

HexesofVexes ,

The real secret to dating after 35 - don’t.

Folks are not looking to “date”: they’re after long term commitment OR quick hook ups. The middle ground really vanishes when you get older!

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