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Etterra ,

Whatever you do, don’t buy expensive electronics, especially on credit. They will be outdated before you know it.

overload ,

Realize that the cutting edge electronics that you buy today won’t be worth jack shit in three years time.

CanadaPlus ,

Conversely, old electronics still work relatively fine but are nearly free.

intensely_human ,

Ergo, purchase electronics and then sell them at an earlier time.

CanadaPlus ,

Best Buy doesn’t want you to learn this one weird trick discovered by a local Lemming.

freebee ,

but they might be worth a lot in 30 years if you take good care of them!

nnullzz ,

Don’t be afraid to try odd jobs or go for opportunities that you normally wouldn’t. New opportunities and interests can open up from getting out of your comfort zone.

seathru ,
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“Only break one law at a time.” None of us are perfect; That will help keep you out of life-changing trouble.

NauticalNoodle ,

This is the most pragmatic advice I’ve read that I think might actually be heeded by a young adult.

Catoblepas ,

Get therapy if you feel there’s even a remote possibility you could benefit from it, especially if you can check anything off the adverse child experience list. The way trauma impacts you and your relationships with everyone else is hard to understand when it’s normal to you.

schmorpel ,

How did you address your trauma? What methods did you find worked?

Catoblepas ,

Therapy and medication has put me in the best state I’ve been in for basically my entire life. I’m not “cured” or anything, but between the meds and processing a lot of shit in therapy I’m at least better able to cope and interrupt my own negative spirals much more easily.

I’d been doing all the self soothing, meditation, etc techniques that people recommend for decades, and it was really only after dealing with underlying issues in therapy and getting on meds that those things actually started working for me.

I was kind of mad when I realized that because for so many years I thought I just needed to git gud, but it turns out most people can’t hype themselves out of the lingering effects of childhood trauma! Who could have foreseen this 🥴

Jakdracula ,
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Start exercising regularly and eating correctly now.

Mothra ,
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Worry more about your job than your grades. Create a stable source of income, your degree can wait especially if it’s not a traditionally stable profession (medicine, accountant, lawyer, etc).

Exercise and maintain your strength and flexibility. This is super important, more so than the job. Staying healthy early on will save you a lot of money in doctors appointments by the time you hit your late 20s.

tamagotchicowboy ,
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Seconding this, and even if its a supposed stable profession don’t depend on it, I’ve seen too many tradesmen working retail and doctors that fail to start residency.

I’d add on learn as many skills as you can, especially basic cooking and repair (car, home, gadgets, etc), it will save you time and money. Home cooked is cheaper than eating out and if you can make meals in advance and freeze them it will save time.

demesisx ,
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Don’t go to college. Run away to a country that doesn’t have a US military base and live a simple, happy, peaceful life.

viking ,
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Because those countries are happily accepting uneducated immigrants, right?

demesisx ,
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Usually…

viking ,
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Any examples? I’ve lived in 10 countries so far and am about to move to the 11th end of this month. Neither of them had a US military presence (Liberia did have a massive UN presence though), and all of them required an academic record to grant a residence permit.

I believe Georgia (the country) was the only one that didn’t, but that’s because of a special agreement they have with the EU.

schmorpel ,

How did you like Georgia? I keep beong obsessed by it (because music).

viking ,
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I loved it there, and meant to move back at some point. Amazing people, food, and landscape.

Unfortunately from a few friends I still have there (both locals and foreigners) I heard that after Russia invaded Ukraine, they are swamped with refugees from both countries(escaping the war or the draft), pushing hospitality to its limits, prices have more than quadrupled, and there are a lot of tensions thanks to some pro-Russian political powers (no doubt backed by Putin).

So for now I’ll stay put in Asia, but still didn’t give up on it entirely…

lemmylommy ,

Why?

TheBigBrother , (edited )

University isn’t to get A grades, it is to make connections(contacts), A grades doesn’t assure anything, contacts can save your life.

Mothra ,
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This is too true and I wish my parents raised me under this motto :(

cdf12345 ,

If you can’t make contacts, try eyeglasses.

cdf12345 ,

If you can’t make contacts, try eyeglasses.

dandroid ,

I graduated college with a 3.55. I got my first job through contacts (my sister cut the hair of all the executives’ wives, I including the CEO’s wife). They never once so much as looked at my transcript.

SamuraiBeandog ,
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Find a skill based hobby that you love and practice it every week. Stuff like a sport, musical instrument, art, etc. The hobby itself will be rewarding but there is no substitute for having decades of experience under your belt for these kind of activities.

Also, don’t have children.

wesker ,
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Other people will never complete you, but they’re nice to have around. So focus and work on yourself, but stay empathetic.

intensely_human ,

And don’t try to complete somebody else, no matter how meaningful it feels in the moment to do so.

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