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driving_crooner , to asklemmy in Men in their 40s, what’s one piece of advice for men in their 20s?
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Go to party every day. Use all the drugs. Fuck everyone you can (that consents).

SuiXi3D ,
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AND WEAR A FUCKING CONDOM.

SubArcticTundra ,
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I wish :-(

all-knight-party ,
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I'd say from an introverted perspective: you don't have to go to every party just because you were invited. You can just say no to a drug offer if you don't want it, people are usually just like "no prob dude, more for me"

h3mlocke , to asklemmy in What to do with an Android spare smartphone (no sim card)?

…earlie in the morn-in!

CanadaPlus , to asklemmy in What's the men's version of Victoria's Secret?

I’ve seen it. I can’t find what I was remembering now.

There was a Reddit thread where OP was trying to identify a one-leg male thong his gay roommate left on the floor, I think that counts.

itchick2014 , to asklemmy in What is a product you would never recommend?

Boox Palma. Got one for myself as a treat and upgrade to my aging Kobo and the screen broke within 24 hours. I have never broken a screen. Support immediately told me it was “pressure” and that it wasn’t covered. I was very careful with it so no…I really don’t believe them. If the screen is THAT fragile…no interest. Planning on selling the ewaste at a yard sale. No way am I giving them money to fix an already flawed product.

seaQueue ,
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They’ve had screen breakage problems since about 2-3y ago for some reason. My OG Nova Air has survived about half a dozen short drops without any issue but more recent devices are just spontaneously breaking in people’s bags or sitting on a counter.

I think they’re dealing with some kind of design failure where they haven’t accounted for display stresses in the newer thinner screens but they’ll never, ever, admit to it. That would open them up to replacement liability and drive them out of business.

If you do buy one of their newer devices I strongly encourage you to buy a 2-3y aftermarket warranty with it otherwise it seems like you have a decent chance of just being shafted at random.

itchick2014 ,

They are in China and I am in the US. It is not worth my time. My best recourse is to spread the word so others aren’t burned as well.

seaQueue ,
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Oh yeah, I’m not saying you did anything wrong I’m just telling people to protect themselves when they buy their products.

They make nice eink devices, they just have a tendency to implode fairly often so definitely have buyer protection for a couple of years if you’re going to spend on one.

There’s really nothing you can do to go after them either, I doubt they have enough of a presence in the US to make a small claim worthwhile.

I’d you bought yours with a credit card take a peek at your card agreement and see if you have any coverage for electronics purchases. You might have coverage for 1-2y for phones, tablets, computers, etc and could make a claim through your CC company.

itchick2014 ,

I got it through PayPal and ain’t nobody got time for that lol. I definitely learned. I ended up with a new Kobo and am very happy with it so I am actually happier long term.

barsquid ,

I appreciate it. I’m trying to find an ereader now and I can cross them off the list. I wish I had leapt on the Pine64 one while it was in stock but I desired the color screens too much.

itchick2014 ,

I have been happy with my Kobo Libra Colour I picked up after the terrible experience with Boox. I wish a phone sized option was available from Kobo but I have been enjoying the option to use a stylus more than I expected.

MidnightBanjo , to asklemmy in What are some good software suggestions for windows?

Seeing lots of excellent suggestions for general (7-zip, Notepad++, etc).

Foobar2000 is a good music player

I don’t know if it’s good, but I guess there is now a Lemmy Desktop app webcatalog.io/en/apps/lemmy/

I saw you said you use Plex. I assume you use Steam for gaming?

Is there any specific feature/use you want QoL improvements for?

yuuunikki OP ,

Hmm, i guess kinda stupid shit like taskbarX. QOL stuff the average person wouldn’t even think about improving

MidnightBanjo ,

Gotcha.

I know Mental Outlaw had a video about powershell scripts to help reboot Windows 10

Link

That might help speed it up and stop Windows from doing unnecessary background stuff and using resources

yuuunikki OP ,

Oooo

Rai ,

Foobar is the best ever forever. I still love you Winamp but FOOOOB

pete_the_cat , to techsupport in [Solved!] EndeavourOS freezing during boot process. Any idea on how to proceed?

Increase the boot verbosity or boot it up in single user mode and inspect the boot log to see if you can spot the issue.

CorrodedCranium OP ,
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Thanks that got me to the solution

LEVI , (edited ) to asklemmy in What is a product you would never recommend?

Huawei, Xiaomi and Samsung phones

  • main reason: anti user freedom, and locking you in to their system, it’s extremely hard to wipe out your phone in order to sell it if you have a Samsung account linked to your phone, and they make it hard to flash a custom ROM, imagine buying a phone with your own money and you still need the manufacturer consent to do what you want with it…
  • confusing and slow UI
  • Ads everywhere on the UI
  • bloated with games and useless apps
  • they don’t take security seriously at all ( slow updates )
  • short update period
  • they lie in their marketing by giving big numbers ( battery capacity and camera quality for example )

And last but not least, they kill your apps

seaQueue ,
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I’m still waiting for a viable competitor to the Galaxy Tab S line. Literally no one makes a flagship tablet that can compete with Samsung’s build quality on those, they’re pretty much the only ~11in OLED game in town too.

Persen ,

Mi pad-s exist, which are near flagship, but of course mi unlock and no oled.

thegreenguy ,
@thegreenguy@sopuli.xyz avatar

I can’t wait for LineageOS to be available for my Samsung phone.

LEVI ,

Yes, I find that is the only way to use these phones, AOSP makes them usable again, but like I said they’re constantly implementing and improving their digital locks to keep you from running away to a different OS… It’s so anti user freedom

callyral ,
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Idk if it’ll ever be for mine (Samsung Galaxy A51). Hopefully one day, if such a phone exists, i’ll have a phone that is more open and also supported by something like LineageOS.

Persen ,

Well, I have lineageos on my XM phones (rmx4x and mi11lite5g) and they’re great except for the reliability of the 11 lite. And before you ask about it, yes the mi unlock is terrible, but after you sell your soul to Xiaomi, you can unlock it and have a good enough phone.

pkill , (edited )

also Huawei laptops. Jfc what a trashy counterfeit of a MacBook and if you get an AMD one, better also get a good cooling stand. The keyboard is terrible and costs a fuckton to replace and generally the repairability is like with macs, the USB ports are built in a way that just begs for either them or your peripherals to be broken, they might overheat while charging, they ship bloatware and the speakers are ridiculously quiet. My friend’s mom bought her one contrary to my advice to get a second-hand thinkpad or just any other business-line laptop and it she had to return the first shipment because the screen got bent during shipment.

MIUI… don’t even get me fucking started on this garbage. It literally removes numerous features from vanilla android, presumably to relocate some performance budget to the bloat they add.

Admetus ,

Yep I’ve seen Huawei and Xiaomi MacBook copies and you only need to take one look at the keyboard to know they’re trashy.

I got a second hand ThinkPad and it’s fast and robust. Designed to last like a proper MacBook.

pumpkinseedoil ,

S24:

UI not confusing at all imo, just your typical Samsung Android. And obviously not slow since it’s a flagship phone

No ads

Not really bloated (comes with Samsung’s own apps + Google’s apps but you can uninstall most of them)

Decently fast updates

7 years software support (not only security updates but also 7 years of new Android updates)

Wouldn’t say 4000 mAh 50 MP sounds that fancy, but it works very well (lots of optimisation for the battery and good software for the camera)

Downside: expensive (~600€ new currently)

Someonelol , to games in Good game soundtracks?
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Lost Odyssey, Fantasian, Halo 1, Desperados 3, Arcanum, Pillars of Eternity, and Bastion are pretty good to listen to when trying to focus.

Petter1 , to linux in What is something you want to use, yet are NOT using?

To be honest: my PC 🫢I just do not have enough free energy time

intensely_human , to asklemmy in Men in their 40s, what’s one piece of advice for men in their 20s?

Learn to trust your gut.

You’ve seen this advice many times and it’s sounded silly every time and so you’ve ignore it.

The advice is, stop ignoring this advice. If you don’t know what it means, ask questions.

EuroNutellaMan ,
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Well it’s not that I’m ignoring the advice, it’s that sometimes gut tells me it’s a fart but then it’s way more than what my pants bargained for.

all-knight-party ,
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I dunno man, my gut says everybody secretly hates me, I'm an imposter at my job, the world isn't worth saving and having kids is a fallacy because they'll just grow up in the resource wars, among other very negative things, I've learned to trust my gut maybe half the time

CanadaPlus , to asklemmy in What's an immediate turn off in a person?

In the romantic sense, someone that seems dumb or childish. I just can’t go there without some sense of being a peer.

ArcaneSlime ,

The opposite for me tbh, someone who can’t let loose and have some stupid fun every so often isn’t my bag.

CanadaPlus , (edited )

A stick up the ass isn’t the exact same thing as low intelligence or whatever this turnoff is, but then again I’m not good at let-loose stupid fun, so maybe I’m biased.

Either way, more left for me, as they say, as long as everyone’s having a good consensual time.

ArcaneSlime ,

Hear hear, different strokes.

0ops ,

There’s a difference between goofy and dumb. Goofy is fun, I’m all over that. Actually dumb is exhausting and awkward, it’s just not fun

ArcaneSlime ,

Sure, but “dumb and childish” to me conveys “dumb as in goofy” rather than “dumb as in a bag of rocks,” and that is why I responded with disagreement related to such. The operative word here is really “childish,” tbh. They go on to say that they are not good at letting loose, but also clarify that they meant “low intelligence.” It is unclear if they perceive goofy fun as a sign of low intelligence in and of itself.

In any case, arguing the semantics of the phrase “dumb and childish” doesn’t meet my definition of fun lol. Like I said “different strokes,” people can like different things and I think that is wonderful tbh.

0ops ,

That makes sense and that’s fair

CanadaPlus ,

OP here again. I don’t. I just don’t get at least some forms of it. I have been known to do some good pranks, but most other things people classify as “letting loose” aren’t my jam. I’m more of a books and tea person.

Originally I was thinking of people I’ve known that literally made me feel like I was talking to a child. I don’t know what that is, exactly, but low intelligence is a decent guess. Oh well, I’ll try different wording if it ever comes up again.

CanadaPlus ,

Yeah, not my best wording.

richieadler ,

I would agree unless the looseness and stupidity is caused by alcohol. In that case is a huge red flag.

ArcaneSlime ,

I’m still in the middle there, sometimes is fine but if it’s the only way or all the time it’s a problem.

Persen ,

Ok, I get that you don’t like stupid people, but you shouldn’t judge people solely on how they act. You can act like a child and be a intelligent and a competent person.

CanadaPlus ,

I have a sister who I’m close with, who has all kinds of dinosaur-themed stuff and loves it. That’s not the issue. It was a poor choice of wording I guess to describe it that way. I had an exchange recently where I literally felt like I was talking to a kid after a while, though, and all thoughts of romance were immediately dead, so that was my first thought.

richieadler ,

you shouldn’t judge people solely on how they act

I’d say it’s impossible to do it I any other way. We’re not telepaths and intent is not magic.

howrar ,

The way people act is the interface with which you interact with them. It makes little difference if what lurks behind is an intelligent person or a child if they both behave the same.

sanguinepar , to asklemmy in Men in their 40s, what’s one piece of advice for men in their 20s?
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Spend quality time with your parents (assuming you’re on good terms of course).

I lost my dad when I was 30, after a short and unexpected illness, and I regret not spending much more time with him when I could have.

russjr08 ,

This hit me like a truck. I lost my father at the beginning of the month due to some tragedy that occurred.

We weren’t on speaking terms (a decision I made), but I’d always planned to one day see if I could turn things around, which will never happen now. Never in a million years would I ever have expected it to come down to this.

sanguinepar ,
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Aw mate… I’m so so sorry 😔

That’s a really hard situation, and I hope you’re doing ok. Take care.

Wahots , to asklemmy in What isn't illegal but should be?
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Insane rent hikes. Landlords and corps shouldn’t be able to raise rent from $1,700 mo to $8,000 mo in a single period, let alone a handful of years.

TheFriar ,

To piggyback off that: the concept of rent.

thegreenguy ,
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It’s fine as a concept, it allows you to live somewhere without making a commitment long-term.

But there needs to be more regulations in place, like maybe making it illegal for corporations to buy residential property and requiring by law that any new residential building must have the option to buy as well as rent, with regulations to ensure it’s a fair price.

HelixDab2 ,

making it illegal for corporations to buy residential property

It’s not quite that simple though. What do you mean by “residential property”? Single-family homes? A duplex? Okay, that sounds fine, but what about an apartment high rise? That’s a residential property, and there’s not a great way to have it all be rental property without being owned by a corporation of some kind. Even when you talk about renting far few units–such as an owner-occupied apartment building with 4 units in total (these are fairly common in Chicago, which is the rental market I’m most familiar with)–a “corporation” may be something like an LLC in order to shield the owner from personal financial liability in case of catastrophic loss. (And yes, I’m aware that incorporating as a small business can and does get abused. In theory there are checks against that, in practice they don’t help in many cases since there’s too much going on for any municipality to go after every single case of business fraud.)

Of course, you don’t want individuals owning vast tracts of residential properties either; that takes all the problems of corporations owning property, and concentrates them into the hands of one person.

I think that there might be a way to regulate and incentivize behaviour through tax policy, but I’m not sure what it would be. Perhaps a system that put a hard cap on profits, and required certain percentages of rent to always go into maintenance and improvements? You’d probably also want to exempt corporations that owned or had control over 6 or fewer units.

This would be a fun (read: complex and challenging) area of public policy to get involved in, because you want to make housing affordable, but you also don’t want to disincentivize development.

Ninja edit: I’m saying all of this not because I’m pro-corp, or pro-gov’t, but because any time you try and fix a problem, you’re going to have bad actors that are going to try and break your system in order to get as much personal profit out of it as they can. Trying to find the weak points and then reinforcing them makes it harder for good ideas to be abused to a negative end.

thegreenguy ,
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Okay, that sounds fine, but what about an apartment high rise? That’s a residential property, and there’s not a great way to have it all be rental property without being owned by a corporation of some kind.

Then not all of them have to be for rent. In my country at least you can buy individual apartments.

Also you could allow them to own the property they build, but once sold off, they or another corporation (or individual with too many properties, maybe the limit can be 3 or 4) cannot buy them again.

Obviously I’m not a lawyer and this was just a quick suggestion. I expect people more familiar with the law can word this better.

TheFriar ,

Housing shouldn’t be gatekept. Rent as we know it is broken. Someone owns a property, while you pay the mortgage. But you’re not paying down to own, you’re paying it down for someone else to own. Sure, renting is fine for people who move a lot, but that money shouldn’t be flushed down the drain every month—from the position of the renter. Rental credits, to where that money you’re putting down acts as a credit toward getting the opportunity to own. His would take a massive restructuring of the way we behave as a society, but it’s desperately needed.

bjoern_tantau , to lemmyshitpost in Get her a publisher
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llii ,

WTF? I think I need to play baldurs gate 3.

cordlesslamp ,

yes, everyone should be.

ArmokGoB ,

I still have the corpse in my inventory in act 3.

intensely_human , to asklemmy in What's an immediate turn off in a person?

A hidden switch on their hip.

davidagain ,

Can you elaborate on that?

vfreire85 ,

they dated vicki from small wonder.

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