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Outsourcing emotion: The horror of Google’s “Dear Sydney” AI ad | The company suggests using AI to write a child’s fan letter and the ad is so bad that Google turned off comments for it on YouTube

If you’ve watched any Olympics coverage this week, you’ve likely been confronted with an ad for Google’s Gemini AI called “Dear Sydney.” In it, a proud father seeks help writing a letter on behalf of his daughter, who is an aspiring runner and superfan of world-record-holding hurdler Sydney McLaughlin-Levrone.

“I’m pretty good with words, but this has to be just right,” the father intones before asking Gemini to “Help my daughter write a letter telling Sydney how inspiring she is…” Gemini dutifully responds with a draft letter in which the LLM tells the runner, on behalf of the daughter, that she wants to be “just like you.”

I think the most offensive thing about the ad is what it implies about the kinds of human tasks Google sees AI replacing. Rather than using LLMs to automate tedious busywork or difficult research questions, “Dear Sydney” presents a world where Gemini can help us offload a heartwarming shared moment of connection with our children.

Inserting Gemini into a child’s heartfelt request for parental help makes it seem like the parent in question is offloading their responsibilities to a computer in the coldest, most sterile way possible. More than that, it comes across as an attempt to avoid an opportunity to bond with a child over a shared interest in a creative way.

KomfortablesKissen ,

Okay, but what if I can’t put my feelings into words? If even LLMs have a better grip on human emotion than me?

Edit: Well, then I wouldn’t have a daughter in the first place; and I don’t. Yay?

lowleveldata ,

this has to be just right

And then he couldn’t even bother to choose the words himself

ealoe ,

I saw a similar ad in theaters this week, it started by asking Gemini to write a breakup letter and I thought my friend next to me was going to cry because she’s going through a breakup but then right at the end it goes “…to my old phone, because the Pixel 9 is just so cool!”

Gemini is awesome, I use it all the time for applied algebra and coding but using it to replace human emotions is not awesome. Google can do better

BigPotato ,

I said all these things to my partner when I saw the ad as well.

I’ve spent more time helping my kid write Steam reviews of the games they’re playing than this Dad did on writing a letter to his daughter’s hero.

Simple as. Don’t be surprised when the kid puts you in a crappy home to afford more Gemini credit or whatever.

Leate_Wonceslace ,
@Leate_Wonceslace@lemmy.dbzer0.com avatar

Okay. I’m a transhumanist. I like AI, automation, and the abolishment of involuntary labor as well as obligatory adversity. Even I thought this ad was super fucking creepy. How the fuck do you justify sending your daughter an auto-generated letter? Now, not only do you not care enough to do it yourself, you’re lying to her about it.

festus ,

Other way around - the AI is writing a letter “from” the daughter to be sent to the athlete. Still BS though, and I’m sure famous people just love getting spam fan mail where the person couldn’t be bothered to draft it themself.

Leate_Wonceslace ,
@Leate_Wonceslace@lemmy.dbzer0.com avatar

I was remembering an ad that I saw yesterday(?), so either I mis-remembered, mis-understood, or mistook the ad mentioned in the article for the one I saw.

Regardless, ty for letting me know.

CrowAirbrush ,

If i look around me, the people have stopped caring and been lying about it for years.

Either Google knows it’s audience, or the ad was sent to the wrong crowd.

Imgonnatrythis ,

That’s not fan mail. That’s spam.

CarbonatedPastaSauce ,

Once you realize that everyone that works in marketing is a soulless demon, the world starts to make a lot more sense.

pineapplelover ,

It’s like the South Park episode about using chatgpt to message their SO

blanketswithsmallpox ,

Was kinda suprised I forgot about this one lol. Such a great episode.

Evotech ,
DScratch ,
p5yk0t1km1r4ge , (edited )
@p5yk0t1km1r4ge@lemmy.world avatar

I think AI is great, but not for this. It’s much better suited for, say, stuff like AI dungeon, or other entertainment (DougDoug on twitch/YouTube is the perfect example).

mctoasterson ,

Glad to see others have also keyed in on just how lame this ad was.

My immediate thought was, if you (the guy doing the voiceover as the father) are so mentally deficient that you can’t even put together a four sentence paragraph of your own original thoughts for fanmail, then what hope do you have of doing anything else as a functioning adult?

Worse yet, what does this teach the kid?

barsquid ,

It should be like a core memory for the kid to do this with her dad. It’s like having an LLM to play catch or do tea parties with her.

KairuByte ,
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You… you joke, but I know a few parents who would absolutely fail at something like this. Hell, they fail at basic math, and are barely literate.

I’m not saying this is a great idea for everyone, or that the ad is good. But the idea that “no one needs this” is extremely short sighted. Hell, the literacy rate in America alone isn’t even 95%, and over 50% of Americans aren’t proficient in English.

Again. This ad sucks for lots of reasons. But don’t pretend idiots can’t make it through adulthood, never mind become parents. The idiots are usually the ones with the most kids.

Angry_Autist ,

It teaches the kid to rely more and more on AI for everything, just like Google wants.

They’re already ‘thanking’ siri and alexa, this will be a very dangerous development.

habitualcynic ,
Angry_Autist ,

Roko’s basilisk is kind of bullshit but the meme is funny.

webghost0101 ,

Thanking a personified character doesn’t strike me as a bad thing.

Surely theres a more positive perspective where people are just naturally polite in their words and would struggle to communicate differently to a language bot.

gentooer ,

I’ve been watching quite a lot of Olympics coverage on TV, but never seen any ads. Is there an official Olympics TV channel with these ads?

bionicjoey ,

“This message really needs to be passionate and demonstrate my emotional investment, I’d better have a text generation algorithm do it for me”

ArchRecord , (edited )

The people making these ads can’t fathom anything past pure efficiency. It’s what their entire job revolves around, efficiently using corporate resources to maximize the amount of people using or paying for a product.

Sure, I would like to be more efficient when writing, but that doesn’t mean writing the whole letter for me, it means giving me pointers on how to start it, things to emphasize, or how to reword something that doesn’t sound quite right, so I don’t spend 10 minutes staring at an email wondering if the way I worded it will be taken the wrong way.

AI is a tool, it is not a replacement for humans. Trying to replace true human interaction with an LLM is like trying to replace an experienced person’s job with a freshly hired intern with no experience. Sure, they can technically do the job, but they won’t do it well. It’s only a benefit when the intern works with the existing knowledgeable individuals in the field to do better work.

If we try to use AI to replace the entire process, we just end up with this:

https://lemm.ee/pictrs/image/7c59ec57-2ff0-4dea-853a-f5031dfb8e86.jpeg

barsquid ,

That flowchart example is idiotic but I love it. The formal cover letter in between is more idiotic. It would be cool if we could collectively agree to just send “I’d like this job” instead of all the bullshit.

BigPotato ,

But, you and everyone else would just say “I want this job” but they want the best person for the job. Putting up with bullshit is invariably going to be part of the job.

barsquid ,

They can compare my resume with the other applicants’. I don’t mind.

ArchRecord ,

A lot of what we do as a society is redundant, but I do think fully written emails or cover letters have merit (even if it’s the same template replicated for multiple applications,)

It helps the reviewer understand if you’re articulate with your speech, gives them additional context to your resume, and lets them better match applicants with their current work environment.

That said, a lot of the process is still redundant anyways, and considering many hiring processes are now entirely automated, a more concise, standardized method of providing the same information would likely be more manageable and efficient for most people.

rimjob_rainer ,

This ad is on purpose, to make us believe that using AI like this is the most normal thing. It’s kind of brainwashing. So they can sell it to us.

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