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vzq ,

This post is massive chaser erasure.

We need more chaser erasure.

Zachariah ,
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“I don’t want to sleep with you.”
is often
“I don’t want you to exist.”

MentalEdge ,
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But not always. I’m absolutely behind the point you’re making about some people, but if someone wants you dead, it’s usually not subtle.

I’ve met people who use this logic to turn absolutely vicious towards people who have otherwise shown nothing but kindness.

Smoking is an instant nope for me, and for that I’ve had some girls react like I think smoking makes a person abhorrent and undeserving of love.

foggy ,

I’ve always contended that you shouldn’t care about what turns someone on unless you wanna fuck em.

lseif ,

excluding liking kids or animals. and relatives or nonconsenting people if relevant

lmaydev ,

What goes on between two or more non related consenting adults is no ones business but their own.

ekky ,

I’ve heard of people who have complained about trans people showing up in their dating feed, mixed in with the cis population, being labelled as “transphobes” and harassed, but good to know that we’ve overcome that.

lugal ,

Isn’t the idea of the dating feed that you can choose whom to date and whom to ignore?

saltesc ,

The point of a feed is to literally show what you want. If someone wants to fake their age, gender, or wealth for a chance of sliding into someone else’s DMs, just to get caught and retaliate by projecting it back on them as the bad person, then that person is a literal psychopath and I hope it doesn’t escalate.

lugal ,

The point of a feed is to literally show what you want.

So the algorithm behind the feed is to blame when you get bad suggestions. Btw: showing only perfect matches makes people spend less time on the app and therefore they mix in bad suggestions deliberately. Blame the profit motive.

If someone wants to fake their age, gender, or wealth for a chance of sliding into someone else’s DMs, just to get caught and retaliate by projecting it back on them as the bad person, then that person is a literal psychopath and I hope it doesn’t escalate.

While this is true, I don’t see the relevance.

saltesc ,

Because when someone has not selected a category for their feed, but that category appears in it, it means those mismatches are appearing because of intentional deception, hoping it works. That’s deviant behaviour. And when someone blows a whistle, they should not be the one punished for it.

How is that not relevant to the situation in that original comment? We just making exceptions now?

lugal ,

The original comment was about trans people in the feed, not about people lying about their age or gender or what ever.

bloubz ,

Those are being transphobic, yes

But eh, one act does not define a person

saltesc , (edited )

Whether someone’s life and identity is fully involved with society’s labels and categories or not; when participating in society, they gotta play by its rules for the sake of everyone that isn’t them. Though, of course, they’ll still be subject to condemnation by those that prey on the opportunity to deliver it.

In reality, those people are as “phobic” as anyone clicking the BBD category and getting hentai vids popping up instead. It’s not what they’re into and it’s not what they came there for. Breaking those categories and labels is intentional deception that will result in no reward and only harm. It is in no consideration of others and who they are, for sake of potential and unlikely self-gain. It is entirely self-centered to fake something and lie, in hopes of taking advantage of other people. This is exceptionally cruel in a psychosocial environment, especially a sexual one. And then to play a “phobia” card, it’s a predatory move.

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