handofdumb

handofdumb OP , 1 month ago to gaming in Mariokart 8 Sucks.

For what it’s worth, I’ve played a lot of this game. My wife and I are even playing it now!

I just wish it felt like someone cared about this game, from a developer perspective.

handofdumb , 9 months ago to showerthoughts in WE'RE ALL GOING TO DIE

The days are long but the years are short, it’s been said.

handofdumb , 9 months ago to news in Sign for “whites-only” moms and tots group in Metro Vancouver sparks outrage

Not everyone operates in typical ways. Isn’t it also possible that someone started the telegram in hopes like-minded folks would join?

If a fire alarm is pulled, assume there’s a fire.

handofdumb , 9 months ago to news in Sign for “whites-only” moms and tots group in Metro Vancouver sparks outrage

If a fire alarm is pulled, assume there’s a fire.

handofdumb , 9 months ago to showerthoughts in Grocery stores should have food banks

I’m with you as far as “humans deserve food that won’t make ‘em sick, regardless of circumstances” but expired food can often still be fine - you just are outside of the manufacturer’s guarantee that it should still be good.

When I gotta choose between “expired food” and “nothing”, I choose to give expired food the visual + sniff + small taste test before consuming.

handofdumb , 9 months ago to asklemmy in Atheists, is there anything religious that sticks with you to this day?

Sup, Ganesh! I’m HandOfDumb :) This is a neat question you’ve asked and I’m stoked to see more answers.

I was raised in Catholicism, though my family has, largely, stopped following that specific religion so closely (though many are still religious). I don’t follow any specific religion and am unsure what I consider myself - atheist fits well enough!

Somethings that stick for me are many of the kindnesses that live within bible stories. There’s a lot of good stuff in there, of course! And most of (what I consider to be) the good stuff is along the lines of being a good person. But some of it is kinda off-beat.

Like, there’s a bit in there about a proclamation that people should forgive debts after some seemingly arbitrary amount of time (seven years?) and that really jibed with me. Not the time part, but just forgiving pals/family you might have loaned money to. If I spot a friend $5 for something, I’m not going to hold it against them and ask them to repay. If they do repay? Great! But I will never expect it and I will not be offended if they do not.

Similarly with larger sums. If I’m okay to loan it to someone, I’m okay to lose it.

Anyhoo, I think it’s awesome that you like cows :) they remind me of big ol’ dogs and I like them very much. They can teach us more than they can fill our bellies, I think!

handofdumb , 9 months ago to asklemmy in Remote or hybrid workers, would you rather work a 4 day week on site, or WFH completely for 5 days a week, for the same pay?

Wfh for sure

handofdumb , 9 months ago to asklemmy in What is the best way to make more friends as an adult?

There’s tons of good comments here. Mine will echo some! I just wanted to share my experience.

I have three hobbies that I’ve explored since moving to a new city in my 30s - axe throwing, pinball, and making music.

I found a local axe league and joined for a season. One season has become four :) The people I throw axes with are wonderful and varied. While we may not have crossed paths otherwise, they’re fine folks and I consider many my friends.

I went to a local pinball bar for a casual tournament and have been going every other week since. It a supportive community and I’ve had a great time learning about the games and learning about the folks on my various teams.

I answered a Craigslist ad for a band looking for another member. We’ve clicked quite well and have practices together, go out together, record together, and even play shows!

Exploring your own hobbies in some sort of structured way might be a good step in your own quest :) Good luck!

handofdumb , 10 months ago to asklemmy in Correct use of pot handle?

We’ve all been there.

handofdumb , 10 months ago to asklemmy in What singer just blows your mind when they sing?

Mimi Parker was an absolutely amazing singer. If anyone reading gets a chance, “Holy Ghost” by Low will show you what I mean.

handofdumb , 10 months ago to asklemmy in Is it just me or is it lemmy shit?

How so?

handofdumb , 11 months ago to retrogaming in The NES at 40: Seven ways it changed the gaming world forever

They look the same!

handofdumb , 11 months ago to retrogaming in Did anyone play Darkstone back on the PSX?

I think of it often - the chorus of the town bard’s Darkstone theme song really lodged itself in my memories and in not sure why.

The Darkstone will shine.