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former Wobbly, always an IWW member in spirit.

enby, 45, demisexual

has a viscious hatred of ableists, tankies, fascists, bootlickers for capitalism, politicians, cops, bosses, landlords, and bankers.

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18+ CynAq , to actuallyautistic
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No, I’m not gonna get some allistic poop stuffed into my backside in hopes that my “repetitive behaviors” and “social deficits” might disappear, thank you.


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18+ crashglasshouses ,
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@CynAq @AnAnarchist @actuallyautistic they are very much related.

pathfinder , to actuallyautistic
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@actuallyautistic

To anyone who may need to hear this.

If you've come to dread your birthday. If it's become the day that just reminds you of all those you've lost. But, especially if it's become simply a reminder that it was always the day when who you weren't and perhaps who others wanted you to be, was always celebrated and never who you were. Then it's alright to simply ignore it from now on.

You don't have to celebrate it. Or at least care that it is being celebrated. Just pick another date to celebrate, a date that means far more to you now and the journey that you are on. The day your egg cracked, or you finally began to transition, as a . The day you were finally diagnosed, or a time when your self-realisation became overwhelming and concrete. It doesn't really matter. Just pick a day that makes sense and make that your special day. For that day really will be about who you are and always were and you can finally have the celebration you deserve.

-Birthday


crashglasshouses ,
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@pathfinder @actuallyautistic

i still want friend around me on my birthday, exactly because one death happened near my birthday (James died ten days after my birthday), and one death began exactly on my birthday. that was my mom's first trip to hospital because of liver failure. it's so painful to think about, it's not fair that either of them are no longer alive.

olena , to actuallyautistic
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The same colleague once angrily told me “I won’t complain to you about anything anymore: you actually start trying to solve the issue!” - and this is some neurotypical thing I am not capable to understand



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crashglasshouses ,
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@homelessjun @olena @Murdoc @actuallyautistic

the best way to find out is to ask, instead of trying to "mind read" or guess.

crashglasshouses ,
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@homelessjun @actuallyautistic @Murdoc @olena

but then you have an answer, and if they're being difficult, you can disengage.

crashglasshouses ,
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@homelessjun @actuallyautistic @Murdoc @olena

you can't read minds, so no, it isn't. you do not know what other people want or need if you don't ask them. if they give you an answer that doesn't line up with their actions, that's not an opportunity to violate their personal agency.

crashglasshouses ,
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@olena @actuallyautistic @homelessjun @Murdoc

maybe you are being too much, if the problem is that you insist on fixing problems they didn't ask you to fix.

i'm not seeing a lot of examination of the effect of your actions in this situation, except for how you don't like the reaction. start with that.

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