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autism101 , to actuallyautistic
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Some autistic people find making phone calls extremely stressful and unpleasant and will avoid them at all costs.

Please don’t try and force your communication preferences on others.

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jnpn ,
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@autism101 @actuallyautistic what would be the reasoning behind the fear ? live talk doesn't allow people to think or express themselves as they need ? which is a deep need for autists ?

jnpn ,
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@vger @autism101 @actuallyautistic I see. I had periods like this, high anxiety, necessity to know more beforehand. With close people, I have these habits already set in. That said I'd be curious to know if people suffering this ever tried to approach the unknown with curiosity (depending on how deep the fear is set in the brain)

jnpn ,
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@vger @autism101 @actuallyautistic I see (and personally share a lot of this, i'm very very analytical about people's internal state and all external signs they emit)

I wanted to ask you a few more thing, feel free to say no if that bothers you.

  • have you ever felt this anxiety with written communications ? if so does writing allow you to find space to express your questions more than a real time voice conversation ?

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jnpn ,
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@vger @autism101 @actuallyautistic

2/2

  • do you think this sensitivity to the signs the emit (sighs, or other form of body language) is related to a need for true affectionate human interaction ?

thanks already for all your answers

jnpn ,
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jnpn ,
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@vger @autism101 @actuallyautistic it does, (I share that trait), my brain thrives a lot more alone, "loneliness" is a form of freedom since nobody can limit me.

but i also had traumatic brain changes that made me connected to people deep (affection~)

what still hurts is the inability to be honest and reach this affectionate stage in usual chat (hence my question)

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