I'd say stay on here and follow #actuallyautistic and perhaps @actuallyautistic
Whether you participate or just lurk, you can see if what people are saying resonates.
Ditto. I'm a couple of months into my journey of self-discovery and, by and large, the most helpful resource has been following and interacting with people here on #ActuallyAutistic.
Books are great. Self-assessment tests are great. But joining communities and connecting and relating with other autistics is really what helped me understand myself better.