It takes money to run, but it doesn't need money to "be".
Imagine a group of people rent a building to hang out in; of you're a regular you chip in some bucks. Lots of people, a few bucks each, roof over your head.
Get out of that "free" mindset. It was a trap all along. Some of us old pharts have known this, some of us (not me) have been coding stuff like Lemmy and other open software all along.
Right away i knew Lemmy.world was viable; I'm gladly paying 5 bucks/mo! No ads! No corporate extraction of personal data!
Hell, pay TWO bucks a month. Seriously wtf 2 bucks you could lose and not notice.