that’s one way to look at it, but things like that happen often in reproduction. what matters is: now you’re here, so you might as well make the best of it, because if rebirth isn’t a thing you just get this one chance to do your thing.
the flower has no idea and no control over where the bee came from, but after the seed sprouts, it is no longer significant for the new flower. it just has to do it’s thing. what’s done is done. focus more on the future.