You never know what strengths you will gain from childhood adversity and I hope she gains some through the hardships she’s experienced. And I think it is the same with her, it’s more about how many people are in a room relative to its size, which is a big problem with my wife’s family gatherings because she has a huge family, but she also has a lot of trouble with noise levels and with unfamiliar people, so she has a lot of issues when it comes to social anxiety.