I think what terrifies people about mass shootings is that they’re random. They just target random people (or God forbid fucking children).
I mean violence is obviously bad but most of the time it’s contained in certain areas of town, and so long as you’re not mixed up with the wrong people it’s probably not a major concern for most people.
So when they see people get shot up at the mall or at a concert or at school they think “shit that could be me or my kids”
But yeah you’re 100% right and they are blown completely out of proportion.