andyburke , 1 month ago

I don't think the other commentter was disagreeeing with you or trying to compare. They said that they chose to have children for the same reasons you chose not to. (I am also a parent who chose kids for the fulfillment/happiness and not as some weird effort to build political power or something.)

You choosing not to have kids is perfectly normal and fine in my book. It is fucking strange to pressure other people into having children.

I think both the previous commenter and I are trying to back you up more than trying to argue you made a wrong choice.