Telling someone their problems aren’t real and it’s just mental health is a textbook example of patronizing them
Sure, but no one said that the problems weren’t real, and no one’s being as reductionist as you seem to think.
My criticism was there to highlight how patronizing you are being while simultaneously illustrating that no one else here was. To be more specific, you’re assuming a lot about everyone else’s positions and giving the most surface-level explanations you possibly could.