I know a guy that got accused by some family member of rape 20 years ago, lost his job and spend years awaiting trial only to be found not guilty but with broken career and a debt. Now go tell this guy and many other guys thinking that “me too” movement went to far that “their problems” were only implanted into their heads. You and me we understand the power dynamics here and can still support “me too” despite it’s flaws but many guys simply see the privileges they lost because of it. I’m assuming you would agree with me that they shouldn’t have had those privileges in the first place but the fact that they are loosing them is real. That’s why they are worried and are pushing back.