Maybe you’re unaffected so you don’t give a shit. Or maybe you view gay people as scum undeserving of equal rights.
But donating money to try to reverse gay marriage is disgusting. As is donating money to a politician who said AIDS was a good thing and gay people should be cleansed of the earth by it.
It’s honestly tiring how many people in the tech/FOSS community just straight up don’t give a shit about certain demographics, and see their inclusion as “politics”.