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ChonkyOwlbear ,

Why not just have two relationships?

DigitalNirvana ,

Because that might require honest, open communication. And result in more satisfying relationships, wherein the parties to the relationships can actually get what they desire. Who wants that? /s. Hmm, is there a polyamory magazine on the Fediverse? I hadn’t looked… dang, I searched, yielded nada. Am I obligated to make one, now? We’re building a whole new social media. Each contributing as they will.

QuantumSparkles ,

While it’s not my bag I very much believe people should love the way that makes them and all fully consenting members happy, but there’s not a lot of people that want to be part of something like that tbh. The polyamory itself I mean, not the sub. You should totally make a sub if there isn’t one

Atelopus-zeteki ,
@Atelopus-zeteki@kbin.run avatar

Gotcha covered, it's a thing, now let's see where we want to take it. https://kbin.run/m/Polyamory

CluckN ,

Because that might require huge, boatloads of cash. And result in more satisfying prostitutes, wherein the parties to the relationships can actually get paid.

eatthecake ,

Some people are monogamous and they are allowed to be in relationships that are satisfying and make them happy.

HowManyNimons ,

Because the government pays you to be married

Schal330 ,

You guys are getting paid meme

notjustlurking ,

Tax breaks like dependency deductions.

dylanmorgan ,

Sometimes ending the relationship will harm third parties, but the core relationship is harmful to one or both of the people in it. In a case like that cheating may be the least bad option.

Roflmasterbigpimp ,
@Roflmasterbigpimp@lemmy.world avatar

No.

SandmanXC ,

Cause I’m single and trying to pass this math test

Stovetop ,

Because even though they feel the need to seek physical intimacy from someone else, they still want the stability and safety a relationship brings.

tiramichu ,

Is the answer. Cheating is a mechanism to both have their cake, and eat it.

zea_64 ,

I don’t understand why society demonizes that (the multiple people thing, not the lack of communication). If that’s what’s best for my partner, who am I to stop them? What does exclusivity even get me besides limiting my jealousy?

tiramichu ,

Polyamoury is cool. Cheating is not cool.

That’s all it comes down to - consent

If someone needs multiple partners in their life to feel fulfilled, then wonderful, but they just have to make sure that everyone involved is fine with that before they get into the situation.

aoidenpa ,

That makes sense but I think real reason is they get off doing something so terrible and evil and immoral. I get it.

boatsnhos931 ,

I’m a bad they them who needs a spanking

tfw_no_toiletpaper ,

wat

boatsnhos931 ,

Ifykyk biotch

todd_bonzalez ,

Because people desire both romantic companionship and sexual exploration, but society pressures us to choose one or the other, and shames us for even trying to communicate our needs and wants to our partners as a form of selfishness, so we end up doing whatever makes us happy, at the detriment of others’ happiness, when it never had to be that way.

sunzu ,

Cheating is for young people and mentally ill adults who haven't fixed their impulse control

Adulting requires making partner and family the priority if you signed for it.

xlash123 ,
@xlash123@sh.itjust.works avatar

Its not the most sensitive info here, but you shouldn’t censor things using non-opaque markings. It’s pretty trivial to throw the image in an editor, crank up the brightness, and see what’s behind the censor in this case. Just wanna let you know in case you happen to do this to some sensitive info

Wxnzxn ,
@Wxnzxn@lemmy.ml avatar

Yeah, I never understood it either. Either have an open relationship with consent, or communicate whatever needs you have that you want to fulfill by cheating properly, and accept that it may not work out if there is truly no way to meet them. I guess I can at least abstractly understand when it happens spur-of-the moment and under the influence of drugs/alcohol, but I still can’t properly put myself in those shoes.

cmder ,

Because you need to be brave. Cheaters are cowards.

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