skullgiver , 1 month ago

Sounds like you’re looking for something like nostr. Still has servers (relays) but they don’t really do much moderation there. Last time I checked that turned the entire place into a mess of racists and spam, but that was more than a year ago I think, maybe more normal people joined.

Or you could set up your own Lemmy server where you’re the moderator, though other servers can still ban your account from there.