Dad’s a bigot that doesn’t understand why he can’t use “those kind of words” these days so he rants about it in private.
HOWEVER…he would never say it to their face, he’s at least THAT self-aware. And for the most part, he wouldn’t hassle them (or anyone).
While his personal beliefs are most certainly bigoted. He’s anti-LGBTQ+, anti-indigenous (we’re in Canada), anti-immigrant (he himself IS a fucking immigrant…smh)
But his biggest trait is simply live and let live. He doesn’t agree with them, but he has no interest in forcing that disagreement upon them.
He basically believes in everyone minding their own damn business regardless of what they may personally believe.