Most people know exactly what they have to do to obtain a skill, start a business, make a friend, experience and adventure but simply don’t out of fear of the unknown.
The Internet is helpful but you got to put stock in your own lived experience.
If she has a tattoo, she might have some baggage (mental/emotional).
If she flinches when you reach for her cell phone, you might as well break up.
Start going to the gym. If you already are, dedicate some years into powerlifting, if you started off with powerlifting, dedicate some years into bodybuilding training.
Don’t depend on pharmaceutical drugs.
If your woman gets pregnant and has the child, get DNA tested to confirm that is your child.
Make sure to have a lawyer write up a prenuptial agreement before marriage.
If she doesn’t have a father in her life, that’s a potential red flag.
Be a man, meet with her father and get his approval before dating her. If she doesn’t care for her father’s approval, she has daddy issues. That’s a red flag.
Do not focus on spending money to make you happy. Focus on saving and investing, play the long game.
Pay attention to the food you eat. Do some research about the brands of the foods, the ingredients used etc…
I ain’t trying to scare you, but if you live a statistically average life you’re about to hit a downward trend in your mood which will last a couple of decades. By the time you’re thirty you’ll likely have a boss, a spouse and kids, all of whose needs will have to come before yours. Things start to improve again at age 47 when the kids have moved out and you’re at the top of your career.
Maintain your friendships. It’s so easy to make them a low priority, but having good friends and being a good friend to them is the way to make it through.