Thank you for taking the time to ask such a poignant question.
FWIW you mold your life with a “goal” in mind, and along the way improvise when shit comes at you.
I never thought i would ever, ever make it this far…but somehow i just did. Keep your head about you, dont worry about the others and find the person that completes you if you need to.
And spite. Never let go of the spite that makes you outlive the assholes.