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What makes you stand out?

Hi everyone, i would like to know what makes you stand out from your immediate environment. It could be something physical or a feature that qualifies you.

I’ll go first, i have quite large feet from years of moving around barefooted and while growing up, i had to have shoes custom made as most of the good ones were made in general sizes only, i still have trouble getting shoes.

Resol ,
@Resol@lemmy.world avatar

Existing.

nik9000 ,

I’m a pretty good engineer. Not the best I’ve ever met by a long shot, but I’m good. But I’m very outgoing for an engineer.

Ironically, that’d describe both my parents too.

HEXN3T ,
@HEXN3T@lemmy.blahaj.zone avatar

I’m constantly making yipping noises and grinning because I’m an autistic fox 🦊🦊🦊🦊🦊🦊🦊🦊

butsbutts ,

i just let out a giant fart

onlooker ,
@onlooker@lemmy.ml avatar

Nice try, NSA.

Flyberius ,
@Flyberius@hexbear.net avatar

I’ve got an outie

BonesOfTheMoon ,

I have red curly hair and I tend to wear big hats and sunglasses in the summer, and I find that makes people (read: men) stare at me. Idk.

I’m also fanatically polite and nice in person, and people respond a lot. Bad manners is my pet peeve.

stealth_cookies ,

Right now? I’m a 6’2" pasty white guy in Asia (or Casper per my favourite overheard discussion).

rhacer , (edited )

I’m 247.5 Oreo Cookies tall, that is many more Oreos than most, but not as many as some.

Alsjemenou ,

Tall. Beard. Green eyes.

tiefling ,

I have a forked tongue

shasta ,

I bet it’s fun for two people with forked tongues to kiss. There’s a lot more you can do.

BonesOfTheMoon ,

Like a split tongue?

tiefling ,

Yup

BonesOfTheMoon ,

I once watched a guy with four lip rings and a split tongue smoke a cigarette. That was interesting to say the least.

Vaggumon ,
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I’m a 6’ 4" albino with a foot long beard.

PresidentCamacho ,

Do you have a quest for me?

FookReddit69 ,

Nothing. I avoid going outside as much as possible and I’m wearing earbuds all the time. So people leave me alone.

BugleFingers ,

I dislike being observed. If someone comments on me in any capacity (clothes, looks, humor, etc.) Whether positive or negative I get uncomfortable.

That being said, currently a bright orange top.

Otherwise I’m a very average looking person who wears mostly black, dark blues, and some greys.

Ookami38 ,

Reminds me of Jung’s theory around The Gaze, and how by ourselves we are our own subjects, capable of authoring our own paths, but as soon as another being is introduced and we’re subject to their gaze, their own aspect of being a subject necessarily forces some objectification upon us (and us on them). It’s interesting theory, and a good examination of why some people feel so incredibly uncomfortable with others around.

BugleFingers ,

I may have to look into that to some. I’ve never been good around people, but specifically when they say something it’s much worse.

Sort of in a similar vein, I don’t like mirrors because it makes me see myself which presents an image that does not match the way I feel I present myself or my internal image of myself. it’s less a matter of attraction or confidence so much as a disillusionment.

Timecircleline ,

I just learned about this, and think I have it too, to an extent. I’ve grown more comfortable as I move age and transform closer to the hag witch I was born to be.

It’s called a fear of being perceived, or scopophobia. Apparently it’s common with neurodivergence (though I personally wouldn’t consider myself neurodivergent- at least not enough to seek a diagnosis).

BugleFingers ,

I have never heard of that, I’ll definitely look into it! I was given an ND prognosis many years ago though I did not stay with the practioner long enough after to get a full diagnosis. So it’s possible that plays into it.

I’ve gotten more accustomed as I age, definitely, comfortable maybe not so much. I am unsure if changing my appearance to closer match would change my affinity towards it, but I suppose that may be answered by looking more into the condition itself. But thank you for a name to start with

Timecircleline ,

I used to feel the same way with mirrors and actually wanted to write into my will that all photos of me must be destroyed upon my death. The idea of being permanently recorded terrified me.

I think therapy really helped, since if anything my appearance has strayed further from my mental image. That’s not to say it’s the same for you. It’s a relief to me that I’m not the only one who has felt this way, and I hope that you find some relief from the feeling itself too.

BugleFingers ,

I mostly just avoid mirrors and pictures as a whole and dress really tame so its not super bad. I could definitely use therapy for a multitude of reasons but I struggle to communicate things without prompt and am quite uncomfortable with the idea of sharing very personal stuff with, well, anyone. I do go through phases of erasing myself (as much as one can) from the internet, and from my own devices though.

I am glad to hear I’m not the only one, though it’s unfortunate others do suffer the same way. I do hope you continue to make progress and have it become a non-issue for you in the future

Timecircleline ,

Same to you, friend.

captainlezbian ,

I’m attractive, moderately charismatic, large, weird, generally kind, and unable to shut my damn mouth.

I’m able to blend into my surroundings, but I have to choose to. The rest of the time yeah, everyone figures out who I am

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